{"id":141354,"date":"2022-01-06T13:30:15","date_gmt":"2022-01-06T13:30:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=141354"},"modified":"2022-03-02T22:47:08","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T22:47:08","slug":"si-tu-ex-te-bloquea-ganaste-significado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-tu-ex-te-bloquea-ganaste-significado\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tu ex te bloquea, has ganado: significado y 10 razones por las que lo hizo"},"content":{"rendered":"

You noticed that your ex blocked you, and now you’re freaking out.<\/em><\/p>\n

You’re wondering if you did something wrong or said a mean thing without realizing it. You’re even wondering if he ever loved you at all.<\/p>\n

Un minuto, te culpas a ti mismo, y al siguiente, le culpas a \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Did all the memories mean nothing? Have you become ‘just some woman’ that he can get rid of that easily?<\/em><\/p>\n

Now, I know it’s frustrating, but let’s not jump to conclusions. If you stay with me, I will guide you through all the possible reasons why he might have blocked you.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, te mostrar\u00e9 c\u00f3mo si tu ex te bloquea, ganas queriendo decir que realmente no tienes nada por lo que estar triste. Sigue leyendo, y todo se volver\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s claro.<\/p>\n

Si tu ex te bloquea, has ganado: Significado<\/h2>\n

\"chicas<\/p>\n

You have heard this so many times by now, yet you still don’t understand what it means.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes salir ganando si alguien a quien amabas te bloquea? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes olvidarlo?<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que te sientes mal porque probablemente pienses que te odia a muerte. Piensas que nunca le importaste tanto en primer lugar si fue capaz de hacer esto.<\/p>\n

But, that’s not quite true.<\/p>\n

What he did doesn’t erase his past actions<\/h3>\n

That’s right. Just because he decided to block you doesn’t mean his feelings were never real. It just means they somehow changed.<\/em><\/p>\n

Appreciate the way he loved you before, but don’t blame him for his current actions because honestly, you\u2019re nothing to each other anymore.<\/p>\n

You can’t be mad at him for moving on (because that’s probably what he’s trying to do).<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s better than holding on to something that will never again be alive.<\/p>\n

Probablemente s\u00f3lo quiere un relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>, but can’t do it with past memories still hovering over him.<\/p>\n

Pero, independientemente de sus razones, en realidad no hay nada por lo que debas sentirte mal.<\/p>\n

Usted es el ganador<\/h3>\n

How someone treats you tells you how much they deserve to be in your life. If your ex blocks you, you won meaning that you don’t need someone who doesn’t fight for you.<\/p>\n

And, since you’re wondering about his reasons, I’m sure that is exactly what you expect him to do.<\/p>\n

Pero, como decidi\u00f3 bloquearte, eso te dice lo poco dispuesto que est\u00e1 a hacer lo que es correcto para ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad vas a perder el tiempo pensando en la persona que te hizo eso? Yo creo que no.<\/em><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, al\u00e9grate de que ahora por fin sabes a qu\u00e9 atenerte, y vete a perseguir a alguien que te vea como alguien por quien merece la pena luchar.<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 significa que tu ex te bloquee<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te bloquea porque te quiere de vuelta<\/a> o porque he\u2019s over you<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

La \u00fanica forma de saberlo con seguridad es pregunt\u00e1rselo. Env\u00edale un mensaje de texto y alivia tu alma.<\/p>\n

If you’re not ready to do that, then wait it out and things will be much clearer soon.<\/p>\n

La verdad siempre sale a la superficie.<\/strong> S\u00f3lo hay que tener paciencia, porque todav\u00eda hay muchas razones que entran en las dos categor\u00edas mencionadas.<\/p>\n

10 posibles razones por las que tu ex te bloque\u00f3<\/h2>\n

If you’re wondering why your ex would block you in the first place, consider the following reasons:<\/p>\n

1. He can’t look at your life without him.<\/h3>\n

\u00bfEres de las que publican hasta el \u00faltimo detalle de su vida? Compartes fotos todos los d\u00edas y presumes de tu nuevo novio y de lo feliz que eres con \u00e9l.<\/em><\/p>\n

If so, then you can’t blame him for blocking you. Whether he has feelings for you or not, things can still affect him because it\u2019s hard to levantarse despu\u00e9s de una ruptura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Or, perhaps he doesn’t even have you on social media anymore, but a mutual friend told him about your new relationship.<\/p>\n

Probablemente le doli\u00f3 mucho, y empez\u00f3 a recordar su vida contigo y lo buena que era.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now that he sees you\u2019re feliz sin \u00e9l<\/a>, it hurts, even more so if he doesn’t have anything interesting going on in his own life.<\/p>\n

2. He’s angry about something you did.<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

La ira indica que todav\u00eda siente algo por ti<\/a>. But, obviously, blocking isn’t the healthiest way to deal with your emotions.<\/p>\n

Aun as\u00ed, lo hace porque te guarda rencor.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you ignored him when he said hello the last time you saw him, or he’s still angry that you managed to fall for someone else while being in a relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/a> con \u00e9l.<\/em><\/p>\n

He is annoyed at whatever is separating you. It\u2019s an etapa inevitable de una ruptura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Whatever it is, it is so big in his eyes that he decided to block you. But, in reality, every problem is too big for him because he loves you, yet can’t have you anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Either way, if your ex blocks you, you won meaning that you don’t deserve someone so immature that they focus only on the bad times.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: Etapas de la ruptura - Dentro de la mente de quien inicia una ruptura<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Ha encontrado un nuevo amor.<\/h3>\n

This can mean many things. Maybe he still has feelings for you, but another girl got his attention, and he doesn’t want his past to come and ruin his nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s also possible that he has completely moved on, but just doesn’t want to have an ex-girlfriend on social media.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tengo una mejor amiga que borr\u00f3 a todos sus ex novios porque pens\u00f3 que era una error de ruptura<\/a> tenerlos en las redes sociales mientras se est\u00e1 comprometido con otra persona.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 tu chico piense lo mismo y quiera tratar a su pareja con respeto.<\/p>\n

4. Su nueva chica se lo pidi\u00f3.<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Yes, this is possible, too. Some women want to make sure their boyfriend can’t contact his ex-girlfriend, so they tell him to block her to ensure it.<\/p>\n

Maybe he would never do that by his own will, but he wants to respect her wishes because he can’t lose her, even if he hurts you in the process.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can’t really blame him if sigui\u00f3 adelante con otra persona<\/a>\u00bfpuedes? Despu\u00e9s de todo, tu relaci\u00f3n termin\u00f3.<\/p>\n

5. Todav\u00eda te quiere.<\/h3>\n

This one’s obvious. Him blocking you often means that he’s not all that indifferent when it comes to you…<\/p>\n

He can’t stand looking at his inbox and seeing that the last message to you was sent so long ago. He can’t stand looking at your pic knowing that he’ll never again touch your face.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, he chooses to block you. That’s the only way he can seguir adelante<\/a> \u2013 si no vuelve a ver nada relacionado contigo.<\/em><\/p>\n

6. Sabe que le deseas.<\/h3>\n

S\u00ed, s\u00e9 que suena confuso, pero esc\u00fachame.<\/p>\n

Even if it’s hard to accept it, you have to consider the possibility that he no longer cares about you romantically.<\/p>\n

But, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care about your feelings.<\/em><\/p>\n

Maybe he has found a new girlfriend and wants to show her off to the world, but he’s too empathetic and knows you’re going to see it all.<\/p>\n

Se siente mal por iniciar la ruptura<\/a>y todav\u00eda te ve como un buen amigo.<\/p>\n

Knowing how you feel about him, he decides he doesn’t want to hurt you, so he blocks you because he knows it’s the best way he can protect you \u2013 by staying away.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And, no, don’t confuse this with him still wanting you back. Sometimes, men can truly care about you without wanting to be romantically involved.<\/p>\n

Y, \u00bfqui\u00e9n sabe? Tal vez you actually don\u2019t want him back<\/a> either. Maybe you\u2019re just used to being with him.<\/p>\n

7. He’s putting his past behind him.<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He either moved on or is trying to move on. But, one thing is for certain \u2013 he doesn’t want to have anything with you ever again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Creating a whole new life is at the top of his priority list now, and you’re not included.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPero puedes enfadarte con \u00e9l por hacer esto?<\/em> I know it looks like an immature move, but nothing is immature until you look at someone’s reasons.<\/p>\n

If he’s doing it for his own well-being, then it’s actually the most mature move he could have made.<\/p>\n

8. It’s all a game to get you back.<\/h3>\n

Puede que siga enamorado de ti, pero alejarse no es su plan.<\/em><\/p>\n

He doesn’t block you because it’s hard for him to deal with his feelings, but rather because he knows how it will affect you.<\/p>\n

Puede que no sea un cl\u00e1sico guy\u2019s behavior after a breakup<\/a>pero sigue ocurriendo.<\/p>\n

Mi ex novio tambi\u00e9n lo hizo por esta raz\u00f3n. Me bloque\u00f3 solo en Instagram y Snapchat.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l quer\u00eda causar una reacci\u00f3n tan intensa que yo eventualmente env\u00edale un mensaje<\/a> para preguntarle por qu\u00e9 lo hizo. Quer\u00eda que me lo pensara mejor antes de romper con \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por eso es probable que tu chico tambi\u00e9n se asegure de que tienes una forma de llegar a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Maybe he won’t change his phone number, so that you can send him a text message or send a message via WhatsApp or Viber.<\/p>\n

9. He’s just trying to hurt you.<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If he blocks you because he’s trying to hurt you, then he still loves you, and doesn’t know how else to deal with it.<\/p>\n

His level of immaturity is over the roof, so he doesn’t know how to communicate with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead, he opts for blocking because that’s the only way he can show his love.<\/p>\n

In the end, he’ll probably unblock you and try to talk it out, but his immature nature will ruin it again.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, su comportamiento en fr\u00edo y en caliente<\/a> is childish. Let’s be honest \u2013 you don’t need this kind of man in your life.<\/p>\n

10. He’s fighting his insecurities.<\/h3>\n

Whether he’s still in love with you or not, the way you ended your relationship might have left him with a lot of insecurities.<\/p>\n

If you were the one to break up with him, then maybe he’s struggling with problemas de autoestima<\/a>y cree que nadie podr\u00eda amarle jam\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Para combatir esos problemas, decide ir a la fuente<\/strong> \u2013 you. So, he blocks you.<\/p>\n

I know it’s got to hurt, but this is his way of aumentar el amor propio<\/a>, so you can’t really be angry with him for trying to take care of himself.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 bloquea y desbloquea?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s either because he’s confused about his feelings… or he knows exactly what he’s doing.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 quiero decir con esto?<\/p>\n

Bueno, si al final te desbloquea<\/a>, that means he’s still thinking about you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He blocked you because he was struggling with his feelings. He wanted to distance himself from you, but couldn’t do it for long, so he decided to undo his actions.<\/p>\n

This isn’t confusion. He knows exactly what he wants, and that is YOU.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But, he still doesn’t know what to do about it, so one day, he blocks you, and the next day, he comes back to where he started. And, if it’s not his first time doing it, then his struggle is even bigger.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, he’s blocking and then unblocking you as a deliberate act of getting you back. No, it’s not very mature, but he believes it to be effective.<\/p>\n

I mean, you are here wondering why he did it, aren’t you? It seems to be working.<\/em><\/p>\n

But, don’t let him get away with it. Tell him you want to meet up and then confront him. Explain how there are healthier ways to deal with your emotions.<\/p>\n

Or, better yet \u2013 renunciar a \u00e9l<\/a> del todo.<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 hacer si tu ex te bloquea<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know you’re overwhelmed right now, thinking, ”What do you do if your ex blocked you? How do you deal with it?”<\/p>\n

Well, don’t worry because I’ve got you covered. This is what you should do:<\/p>\n

1. Realize he isn’t a part of your life anymore.<\/h3>\n

S\u00ed, puede que te haya bloqueado, pero \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 deber\u00eda preocuparte eso? It’s okay to wonder for a minute, but to devote any more time than that is unnecessary.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He has been gone for a couple of months or years now, and you were still able to continue living your life. Him blocking you doesn’t change much.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l ya no es nada para ti, as\u00ed que el hecho de que lo tengas o no en las redes sociales carece de importancia. Por qu\u00e9 no d\u00e9jalo para siempre<\/a>?<\/p>\n

2. Don’t stalk him anymore.<\/h3>\n

I know. You’re too curious about why he blocked you, so you’re probably tempted to find other ways to stalk him. But, don’t you know?<\/p>\n

\u00a1La curiosidad mat\u00f3 al gato!<\/p>\n

By prying further into his business, you’ll only do yourself harm. All the memories will come rushing back, and you’ll end up where you were before \u2013 pining over him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you really want someone who blocked you to have power over you? Don\u2019t you want to desp\u00eddete de tu amor t\u00f3xico<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n

3. Encuentra el lado positivo.<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If your ex blocks you, you won meaning he’s now completely erased from your life.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s easier for both of you not only to respect the norma de no contacto<\/a>pero tambi\u00e9n para no tener ni siquiera la oportunidad de enviarse mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n

That’s why he didn’t just unfriend you. Si no hay forma de llegar, no hay nada que esperar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Also, not being able to see each other’s photos will help keep the memories away.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to cry anymore over how handsome he is, but you can seek other opportunities and look at guys who are actually available for you to date.<\/p>\n

4. Persigue a los chicos que te persiguen.<\/h3>\n

Maybe a part of you still wants your ex back, and that’s why you’re so overwhelmed by his decision to block you. In that case, I only have one thing to say:<\/p>\n

\u00c9l te dej\u00f3 ir, y t\u00fa deber\u00edas hacer lo mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ac\u00e9rcate a ese camarero tan mono al que estabas mirando anoche o manda un mensaje al chico al que claramente le gustas, pero tiene miedo de dar el primer paso.<\/p>\n

If your ex blocks you, you won meaning he doesn’t deserve your attention.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead of still thinking about him, focus your attention on guys who actually want you. You’ll be happier for it.<\/p>\n

5. Conc\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo.<\/h3>\n

That’s right. You and your well-being come FIRST.<\/p>\n

You don’t always have to follow your heart. Following your head from time to time might save you a lot of trouble.<\/p>\n

There’s no point in holding on to someone from your past when they’ve clearly let you go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

En su lugar, c\u00e9ntrate en crear un una vida m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil y feliz<\/a> para ti. Cuida tu salud mental y haz tu rutina de cuidado de la piel todos los d\u00edas. Date todo el amor que esperabas que \u00e9l te diera.<\/p>\n

Cuando aprendas a qui\u00e9rete m\u00e1s<\/a>, you won’t be bothered by someone else denying you that love.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs normal bloquear a tu ex?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The answer is yes… if you’re doing it for the right reasons.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’re genuinely concerned about your mental health and can’t stop loving your ex<\/a>entonces bloquearlos es un acto de autocuidado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anything you do that serves as an act of self-care is understandable and excusable. Besides, since your relationship ended, you don’t owe your ex anything.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, si los bloqueaste porque quieres recuperarlos<\/a>, and this is your twisted way of showing them how much you care, then no, I’m afraid it’s not normal.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas reconsiderar tu forma de actuar e intentar aprender a comunicarte correctamente, porque si sigues llevando las cosas de esta manera, nunca acabar\u00e1 bien. Puedes apostar por ello.<\/em><\/p>\n

Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Do you get the bigger picture now? You may be hurt by the fact that he blocked you, but in the end, it’s you who comes out victorious.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, si tu ex te bloquea, has ganado, lo que significa que el tipo indigno se ha quitado de tu vida.<\/em><\/p>\n

Puede que sea un ex compa\u00f1ero, pero claramente todav\u00eda siento algo por \u00e9l<\/a>. Lo que hizo deber\u00eda hacer desaparecer esos sentimientos.<\/p>\n

As any relationship coach would advise their coaching client \u2013 someone who doesn’t come to your door saying ”Hey, I still want you!” but chooses to block you instead shouldn’t have a place in your life.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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