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<\/p>\nCada <\/i>pareja casada<\/i> has their trials and tribulations. That’s a normal part of marriage. But, when you come to the point when you feel lonely all the time, that becomes a problem.<\/i><\/p>\n
You probably feel like you can’t fix it, like you’re going to be stuck in this phase forever. And, you will… unless you do something about it.<\/b><\/p>\n
And, what’s better than writing a lonely wife’s letter to husband?<\/p>\n
I know it sounds like hard work, especially since it involves being completely vulnerable, but if you read on, you’ll see how it’s done.<\/p>\n
Despu\u00e9s de esto, sin duda se sentir\u00e1 inspirado para crear su propia carta perfecta.<\/p>\n
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Querido esposo,<\/p>\n
Llevamos muchos a\u00f1os casados y nos conocemos muy bien. Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 todav\u00eda te sientes como un extra\u00f1o para m\u00ed?<\/p>\n
I look at your face and don\u2019t see <\/i>el hombre que amo<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n Te toco y parece m\u00e1s una obligaci\u00f3n marital que un disfrute.<\/i><\/p>\n Besides, ithas been a while since we’ve last been together. You don’t seem to want me anymore… not my body or my soul. I am ya no es una prioridad para usted<\/a>.<\/p>\n What has changed? Is it because I’m no longer a <\/b>mujer joven<\/b> ...que te pueda atraer? \u00bfEs eso? \u00bfO es algo mucho m\u00e1s profundo?<\/b><\/p>\n I feel like it is because we don’t even talk…<\/p>\n \u00bfRecuerdas cuando nos pas\u00e1bamos horas manteniendo debates intelectuales? Compart\u00edamos qu\u00edmica incre\u00edble<\/a>.<\/p>\n You would always tell me I’m so much smarter than you. You always were the type of person who couldn’t see their own worth.<\/p>\n You couldn’t see the glow in your eyes when you saw the happiness in someone else. You couldn’t see how you looked when you talked passionately about the things you loved.<\/b><\/p>\n Dijiste que yo era m\u00e1s listo, pero t\u00fa eras el que sab\u00eda amar.<\/p>\n I was never quite capable… of expresar mis sentimientos<\/a> correctamente. \u00bfEso te alej\u00f3?<\/p>\n Siento si alguna vez te hice sentir <\/i>sin amor<\/i>. That was the last thing in the world I wanted to do. I am just not sure how to tell you… I guess I am trying that now.<\/i><\/p>\n I do love you, you know? Please stop pushing me away… Don’t run away from me anymore. Heal my coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a>.<\/p>\n Me dijiste que \u00e9ramos <\/b>almas gemelas<\/b>, remember? Well, aren’t <\/b>almas gemelas<\/b> \u00bfse supon\u00eda que iban a estar juntos para siempre?<\/b><\/p>\n I may be married to you, but I still feel so lonely… I feel like I me he perdido por amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n The partnership we created long ago has disappeared… vanished into thin air. Come and be my darling again! Be my best friend!<\/p>\n I don’t want us to be strangers…<\/p>\n Do you know what it’s like to come home after a long day and hear you say nothing more than ”Hey, what’s up?” You don’t even look up. You keep staring at your <\/i>redes sociales<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n It hurts… more than you will ever know. It hurts wanting to tell you all about my day, but something in me stops me… The distance between us is too great.<\/p>\n But, you aren’t doing anything about it! You make me think like I\u2019m <\/b>dif\u00edcil de amar<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n It’s not just that we don’t communicate\u2026 but you don’t even smile at me. You never tell me jokes like you used to. We don’t even fight, for God’s sake!<\/p>\n \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo saber qu\u00e9 he hecho mal si nos quedamos estancados en un lugar incapaces de ser quienes realmente somos?<\/p>\n Please, tell me… Are you still the same person I married? Because I am… I just keep her hidden because I’m afraid you don’t want her anymore\u2026 I\u2019ve been defraudado demasiadas veces<\/a>.<\/p>\n Son <\/b>matrimonios<\/b> usually like this? Is this inevitable? Why hasn’t anyone told me it was going to be this way?<\/b><\/p>\n Then again, they probably did\u2026 I just didn’t listen.<\/p>\n I loved you too much… To be honest, I still do. That’s why I’m writing you all this\u2026 because I want to fix this. What better way is there than a lonely wife’s letter to husband?<\/p>\n S\u00ed, me siento muy sola. No tengo palabras para describir c\u00f3mo me siento cada vez que sales con tus amigos en vez de pasar tiempo conmigo. T\u00fa me abandonaste cuando m\u00e1s te necesitaba<\/a>.<\/p>\n But, the worst of all is when you’re there with me, but I don’t feel your presence. In your mind, you’re always elsewhere… far, far away from me.<\/b><\/p>\n Oh, won’t you come back?! Won’t you love me again like the first time?!<\/p>\n Mi querido maridito, no tienes ni idea de cu\u00e1nto necesito tu amor. No tienes idea de cu\u00e1nto Te echo de menos<\/a>.<\/p>\n The truth is… I’ve been missing you for years, I just wasn’t aware. That’s silly, huh? How is that even possible? Well, I don’t know…<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo s\u00e9 que un d\u00eda, el a\u00f1o pasado, me despert\u00e9 y \u00a1me cay\u00f3 un rayo encima! \u00a1ESTOY SOLO! \u00a1NO TENGO A NADIE!<\/p>\n The children are grown up, leading their own lives… I can’t expect them to devote more time to me. They’re young. They ought to have fun and experience things.. But you…<\/p>\n You swore an oath to me. You promised me forever, and now I’m crying because I have to remind you of it.<\/b><\/p>\n Why couldn’t you remember it yourself? How could you forget me while being right there beside me?<\/p>\n POR FAVOR, POR FAVOR, \u00a1RECUERDEN!<\/b><\/p>\n I don’t have superpowers. I am a human being capable of bearing only a certain amount of pain. I\u2019m cansado de ser fuerte todo el tiempo<\/a>.<\/p>\n In fact, most of the time, my strength is a facade. You probably have no clue as to how I feel. But, I\u2019m en mi punto de ruptura<\/a>! I’m burning! I’m aching! I can’t bear the loneliness anymore!<\/p>\n Ya no puedo ser el <\/i>esposa solitaria<\/i> seeking her husband’s long lost warmth.<\/i><\/p>\n I think there is more love between partners in a long distance relationship. That’s because distance doesn’t mean anything.<\/p>\n Si dos personas se aman, nada puede separarlas.<\/p>\n But, if they don’t… they could die by each other’s side and still be as distant as ever! Please, don’t let that be us. I will write you cartas de amor emotivas<\/a> \u00a1todos los d\u00edas si pudiera evitar que eso ocurriera!<\/p>\n Eres el amor de mi vida, cari\u00f1o. Y lo ser\u00e1s mientras pueda respirar.<\/p>\n Quiero pasar el <\/b>el resto de mi vida<\/b> with you, but don’t let it be without love! Don’t let us just be <\/b>compa\u00f1eros de piso<\/b> que no saben nada el uno del otro.<\/b><\/p>\n Please… talk to me. Tell me what’s wrong. I feel so <\/b>sin amor<\/b>. Do you feel the same way? Where did we go wrong? I don’t understand\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n S\u00f3lo s\u00e9 que har\u00e9 lo que sea necesario para arreglar las cosas.<\/p>\n Dedicar\u00e9 mucho tiempo a amarte como te mereces. Pero espero lo mismo. Quiero que las cosas sean como al principio.<\/p>\n \u00bfRecuerdas cuando hablamos de los lenguajes del amor?<\/p>\n Aunque nunca te gustaron los mimos, en cuanto descubriste que el tacto es mi <\/i>lenguaje del amor<\/i><\/a>me cogiste en brazos y me cuidaste como si fuera un beb\u00e9.<\/i><\/p>\n From that moment on, you never complained about it because making me happy made you happy. Oh, please tell me that you remember! I don’t want to be the only one who does!<\/p>\n I miss the way you used to hug me. I miss our cuddling during cold winter nights. I miss the way you’d touch my face when you woke up before me. I would always pretend to be asleep because I knew it would make you uncomfortable.<\/b><\/p>\n Siento no haber podido adoptar nunca <\/i>su lenguaje amoroso<\/i>… I am sorry I could never <\/i>decirte con palabras lo mucho que significas para m\u00ed<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n I have a feeling that’s the very thing that ruined us. But, I suppose we are both to blame. Nobody was doing anything to stop it, right?<\/p>\n That’s why I’m writing you this open letter<\/a>… because I want things to be different.<\/p>\n I don’t want to wake up one day only to hear you say that you want a divorce. That’s my biggest fear, actually… being totally separate from you.<\/p>\n I know that things are hard now, but it’ll be okay as soon as we acknowledge the hardships!<\/b><\/p>\n El principal problema es siempre el silencio. As\u00ed nunca se puede resolver nada.<\/p>\n Pero, hace alg\u00fan tiempo, el silencio era incluso agradable. Habl\u00e1bamos durante horas y luego nos sent\u00e1bamos el uno junto al otro sin decir una palabra.<\/p>\n Me mirabas y tu mirada me atravesaba el alma. Me conoc\u00edas tan bien. T\u00fa eras el <\/i>hombre que me SALVO<\/i><\/a>!<\/i><\/p>\n \u00bfC\u00f3mo podr\u00edas <\/i>no preocuparte por la mujer que una vez amaste tanto<\/i><\/a>? \u00a1Oh, si pudiera volver el tiempo atr\u00e1s, para que pudieras amarme de nuevo!<\/i><\/p>\n Could a lonely wife’s letter to husband really make that happen again?<\/p>\n After all, I have always lacked words, but I\u2019ve been demasiado fuerte durante demasiado tiempo<\/a>. Ahora, estoy derramando mi alma para que la consumas entera.<\/p>\n I’m not afraid to be <\/b>emocionalmente vulnerable<\/b><\/a> anymore because being afraid now means losing you. And, I just couldn’t bear that.<\/b><\/p>\n I can’t tell you to your face how I feel. It’s just too hard. This was the only way. But, as long as they are my words, it doesn’t matter, does it?<\/p>\n I am choosing to be honest. I am choosing to fight for you. You might think that it’s over, but I’m not willing to accept that.<\/i><\/p>\n I mean… I don’t even know how you feel. It’s strange, isn’t it? I am here just assuming things. I guess I thought I could read the mind of the man whom I have loved for so long. But, I can’t, and Me siento decepcionado<\/a>\u2026<\/p>\n Nobody can read anyone’s mind. That’s what words are for. But, oh the irony! This time, it’s me who’s expressing my emotions, and not you! Won’t you be surprised?<\/b><\/p>\n \u00bfQuiz\u00e1s lo suficientemente sorprendido como para tenerme de vuelta?<\/b><\/p>\n S\u00e9 que sueno como alguna ama de casa<\/a>, but I’m far from that. These aren’t the cries of a desperate woman.<\/p>\n These are the cries of a woman who is ready to be loved the way she deserves… of a woman who is ready to demostrarte que te quiero<\/a> the way you always should’ve been loved!<\/p>\n I don’t want you just because you’re my husband. I don’t want you out of loneliness. I want you because you’re the <\/i>amor de mi vida<\/i> and I don’t know what to do without you!<\/i><\/p>\n S\u00ed, soy un mujer fuerte e independiente<\/a>Pero tambi\u00e9n soy un ser humano, y todos los seres humanos anhelan el amor. \u00bfQu\u00e9 clase de mundo ser\u00eda \u00e9ste si no hubiera amor en \u00e9l?<\/p>\n I know your feelings haven’t disappeared. I refuse to believe otherwise. Your love for me is far too great to die out. As is mine.<\/p>\n My darling, I want us to be proper partners to each other. And, by that, I don’t mean sharing the same bed or household chores.<\/p>\n Waking up in the same bed with you isn’t enough because it feels like waking up with a stranger.<\/b><\/p>\n Cada uno de nosotros se levanta y se prepara para el d\u00eda sin decir una palabra. \u00a1Si supieras cu\u00e1nto echo de menos tus palabras! \u00a1Tu dulce sonrisa!<\/p>\n My friends keep telling me that it’s so obvious things are over. But, they don’t know…<\/p>\n They haven’t lived our life. They don’t know what a loving husband you have been or that I am the mujer que ama incondicionalmente<\/a>.<\/p>\n Nothing was able to tear us apart, not even a cruel mother-in-law (if you’ll forgive me for saying it this way), not even sickness, not even a year-long lockdown!<\/p>\n The only thing that ever stood in our way was our inability to just… say the words.<\/p>\n Te quiero<\/b><\/a>! <\/b>Te quiero<\/b>! <\/b>Te quiero<\/b>! 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