{"id":14222,"date":"2018-02-09T13:16:08","date_gmt":"2018-02-09T13:16:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14222"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:03:09","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:03:09","slug":"11-errores-en-las-citas-que-ahuyentan-a-los-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-errores-en-las-citas-que-ahuyentan-a-los-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"11 errores en las citas que ahuyentan a los hombres (y c\u00f3mo evitarlos)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando nos enamoramos, tendemos a cometer errores que normalmente no cometer\u00edamos, porque, admit\u00e1moslo, el amor nos vuelve un poco est\u00fapidos.<\/p>\n<p>From blowing up his phone, to making him feel like he\u2019s a suspect being interrogated, just because it feels good to have someone by our side and we want to see more of him.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que hemos reunido algunas de las m\u00e1s comunes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-mistakes-women-usually-make-relationships\/\">errores que cometemos<\/a> para evitarlas y as\u00ed no ahuyentar a los hombres.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Volar su tel\u00e9fono<\/h2>\n<p>Admit it ladies, we\u2019ve all done this. Texting with him all the time feels amazing, because you have so much to talk about and it just feels good to have that silly grin on your face when your phone buzzes.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s best to avoid blowing up his phone, because it could get annoying really quick and he will run away.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser pegajoso demasiado pronto<\/h2>\n<p>Esto va de la mano con el bombardeo telef\u00f3nico. Dale la oportunidad de respirar y de echarte de menos.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-traits-define-clingy-girlfriend-get-rid\/\"> If you\u2019re clingy<\/a> e intentar pasar cada momento que puedas con \u00e9l, s\u00f3lo te har\u00e1 parecer necesitada.<\/p>\n<p>Men need to feel the excitement of the chase, and if he\u2019s not chasing you, there\u2019s a good possibility that he will lose interest soon.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Necesit\u00e1ndolo<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s one thing wanting to be with someone and wanting to spend some time with that person, but needing them is a whole different aspect of a relationship.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-necesita-arreglo\/\">Necesitas a alguien que te arregle<\/a> o para hacerte sentir bien contigo misma no es justo, ni hacia ti ni hacia \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure that you don\u2019t depend on him, because no one will stick around for long if they feel like they\u2019re being used.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hablar de tus ex todo el tiempo<\/h2>\n<p>If he asks, keep your answer short and not in an accusatory tone. No one loves to listen to someone they\u2019re considering dating<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/close-encounters\/201609\/whats-going-when-you-stay-in-touch-your-ex\" rel=\"noopener\"> siguen hablando de sus ex<\/a> o incluso hablar mal de ellos.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to respect the fact that at some point you had love for those other men and that no matter how badly things ended, you can take the high road now.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Analizar demasiado la situaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p>Tendemos a hacer esto todo el tiempo, no s\u00f3lo con los hombres con los que salimos. La mayor\u00eda de las veces, las cosas no son lo que parecen en nuestra cabeza, as\u00ed que si tienes dudas, preg\u00fantale.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019ll be so much easier for both of you and you\u2019ll create a habit of discussing issues, not ignoring them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hablar demasiado de uno mismo<\/h2>\n<p>When we\u2019re nervous, we talk too much and mostly nonsense. Take a deep breath and ask him to talk about himself.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to get too involved with yourself when you have someone who shows<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-mantener-su-interes\/\"> inter\u00e9s<\/a> in you, but it\u2019s important that he feels like you\u2019re actually there with him, that you want to know about him too, not just keep up a monologue about yourself all the time.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">No respetar los l\u00edmites<\/h2>\n<p>Whether they\u2019re your or his boundaries, respect them. If you said no, stick to it. If he said he needs space or time, respect it.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t push too far with your love, because you\u2019ll corner him too soon and he will definitely start looking for the escape route.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Esperar que te lea la mente<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re upset and he doesn\u2019t seem like he knows why that is, tell him.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect him to know what you\u2019ve been through or to know what he did wrong if you just met\u2014you need to be open and tell him what the problem is.<\/p>\n<p>Si sigue haciendo las cosas mal, d\u00e9jalo. Pero la mayor\u00eda de los hombres intentar\u00e1n evitar situaciones en las que t\u00fa <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/brittney-lindstrom\/2017\/12\/shes-not-crazy-shes-hurt\/\" rel=\"noopener\">acaban heridos<\/a>, because they\u2019re not all total assholes.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Criticar a otras mujeres<\/h2>\n<p>There\u2019s a good reason why they say, \u201cThe way you talk about others, says more about you than it does about them.\u201d If you have the need to put someone down or shame them, just to make you look good, stop and think about it for a second.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that you\u2019re already amazing and have his attention, because there\u2019s a reason he\u2019s with you. So, let everyone live their lives in peace, because that\u2019s what you would want them to do for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Compartir en exceso<\/h2>\n<p>Avoid sharing your deepest and darkest memories at the beginning. It\u2019s okay to let him know about your past, but being fully intimate right at the start is not good to do.<\/p>\n<p>Su alarma de novia pegajosa saltar\u00e1, porque compartir demasiado al principio a menudo parece precipitarse.<\/p>\n<p>If it comes naturally, because you clicked, do it. But still keep in mind that you don\u2019t know this man so well and it will seem weird that you decided to open up right away.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Interrog\u00e1ndole<\/h2>\n<p>You want to know everything about him, because it\u2019s important for you to see if he\u2019s just another time-waster, but don\u2019t bomb him with questions so he feels like he\u2019s being interrogated.<\/p>\n<p>Sigue el hilo de la conversaci\u00f3n y dale tambi\u00e9n la oportunidad de conocerte.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we fall in love, we tend to make mistakes that we never usually would, because let\u2019s face it\u2014love make us a little bit stupid. From blowing up his phone, to making him feel like he\u2019s a suspect being interrogated, just because it feels good to have someone by our side and we want to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":14227,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/darkness-490553.jpg",800,549,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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