{"id":14235,"date":"2018-02-09T13:44:32","date_gmt":"2018-02-09T13:44:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14235"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:42:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:42:52","slug":"el-microengano-puede-ser-peligroso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-microengano-puede-ser-peligroso\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 es el microtrampeo (y por qu\u00e9 puede ser peligroso)"},"content":{"rendered":"

The thing with micro-cheating is that it\u2019s very hard to detect. It is a form of enga\u00f1o emocional<\/a> and it\u2019s getting more and more common among people who like to leave their options open, even if they are already in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s first get to the real meaning of this trendy expression. According to psychologist Melanie Schilling, \u201cMicro-cheating is a series of seemingly small actions that indicate a person is emotionally or physically focused on someone outside their relationship.”<\/p>\n

Some people look at it as a form of betrayal and some as innocent flirting that is blown out of proportion. Why, flirting can be a part of nature for some people, it\u2019s something fun they do without giving it any higher meaning.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqui\u00e9n querr\u00eda estar en una relaci\u00f3n con una persona que:<\/p>\n

1. Dedica gran parte de su tiempo a escanear e investigar las cuentas de redes sociales de una persona en particular.
\n2. Env\u00eda a otra persona mensajes conmovedores llenos de emojis de amor
\n3. Niega tener novia\/novio
\n4. Tiene esa persona en particular bajo un nombre en clave en su tel\u00e9fono
\n5. Se mantiene en contacto con su ex o lo ve a tus espaldas
\n6. Confides in someone outside of your relationship about the things that should stay private or reserved for your partner\u2019s ears only<\/p>\n

While some people will discard the things listed above and try to justify their behavior, like justify that they haven\u2019t kissed them, they haven\u2019t had sex with them or anything like that, it still doesn\u2019t feel right. Guardar secretos<\/a> like that from your partner can\u2019t be a good thing and it will most probably backfire. Nothing positive can happen when a person who is in a relationship has an obsession with somebody else. It can be really hurtful.
\nInnocent flirting, if it can be considered innocent, would consist of smiling here and there, making interesting conversation or liking each other\u2019s posts. That is considered normal.<\/p>\n

But anything beyond that can be a serious threat to your relationship. A person who engages in micro-cheating can form a strong emotional bond with somebody and that can be as hurtful to their partner as actual physical cheating. Being faithful to your partner means being entirely devoted, both body and mind. It doesn\u2019t mean catching feelings for somebody else.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why if you are overdoing anything, if you are hiding things from your partner, or feeling guilty about not sharing some things with him, you should completely stop what you are doing, for the sake of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Piensa en qu\u00e9 te impuls\u00f3 a hacerlo y si hay algo que te est\u00e1 haciendo infeliz en su relaci\u00f3n<\/a>. Are they any issues you need to discuss with your partner? Because the solution to your problems is never somebody outside of your relationship. It\u2019s always about just two people. You can\u2019t escape your problems, especially in this way, and you wouldn\u2019t want to hurt your partner\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

Si sospechas que tu pareja puede estar implicada en algo as\u00ed, algo habr\u00e1 ocurrido que haya plantado esa semilla de la duda en tu mente. Puede que su comportamiento haya cambiado, que hayas visto alg\u00fan mensaje o alg\u00fan nombre desconocido en su tel\u00e9fono que te haya hecho preguntarte si hab\u00eda algo m\u00e1s all\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Lo importante aqu\u00ed es no reaccionar exageradamente. T\u00f3mese las cosas con calma. Porque, para empezar, puede que tu pareja s\u00f3lo est\u00e9 haciendo esto a un nivel subconsciente. Puede que no est\u00e9 haciendo absolutamente nada, pero a veces los celos se apoderan de ti.
\nHabla con \u00e9l cuando est\u00e9s tranquila y serena y preg\u00fantale por qu\u00e9 lo hace. Preg\u00fantale qu\u00e9 pensar\u00eda si las cosas fueran al rev\u00e9s y se enterara de que te est\u00e1s acercando o enganchando a alguien que no es \u00e9l. Dile que su comportamiento te est\u00e1 haciendo da\u00f1o y que le agradecer\u00edas mucho que dejara de hacer lo que est\u00e1 haciendo. No hay nada tan poderoso como una conversaci\u00f3n abierta y sincera. Incluso podr\u00eda arreglar toda la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Micro-cheating can be really devastating to your relationship if things go any further. Keeping secrets from your partner is never a good thing. Relationships are built on trust and respect and if they are non-existent, your relationship won\u2019t be able to survive. So honesty really is the best policy.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The thing with micro-cheating is that it\u2019s very hard to detect. It is a form of emotional cheating and it\u2019s getting more and more common among people who like to leave their options open, even if they are already in a relationship. Let\u2019s first get to the real meaning of this trendy expression. According to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":14239,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14235","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/darkness-490553-2.jpg",800,549,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14235","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14235"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14235\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}