{"id":14279,"date":"2020-06-12T10:41:35","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T10:41:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14279"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:52:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:52:12","slug":"6-cosas-que-debes-saber-para-elegir-al-hombre-adecuado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-que-debes-saber-para-elegir-al-hombre-adecuado\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cosas que debes saber antes de elegir al chico adecuado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hoy en d\u00eda es dif\u00edcil mantener una relaci\u00f3n de calidad. Cada d\u00eda se ven matrimonios y relaciones que se desmoronan.<\/p>\n

Casi no se puede navegar por Internet sin ver a alguna pareja de famosos poniendo punto final a su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

And I bet it has happened to you a number of times. You thought you\u2019d finally met a guy who will make love easy, who is going to be there for you for the rest of your lives, but your bubble burst soon and you broke up.<\/p>\n

Entonces perdiste la esperanza, decided you\u2019re going to stay single<\/a>...pero entonces lleg\u00f3 otro a tu vida y volvi\u00f3 a pasar lo mismo.<\/p>\n

Ibas en c\u00edrculos y lo \u00fanico que conseguiste es que te dejaran.<\/p>\n

So, that makes you wonder. Wouldn\u2019t be great if there was some kind of manual to a long-lasting and a happy relationship, directions that would exactly show you is he worth the bother or not?<\/p>\n

Yeah\u2026but you know that there is no such thing.<\/p>\n

Instead, give it all you\u2019ve got, have faith that every next guy might be the one because in the end, you actually never know.<\/p>\n

But I know this is easier said than done and that\u2019s why I bring you a few things you definitely need to know in order to choose the right guy.<\/p>\n

Tienes que saber que tiene un pasado<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You have to understand that he has baggage from the past. You aren\u2019t the first girl he met and you can\u2019t exactly know what emotional state he is in.<\/p>\n

Maybe he has been hurt, maybe he doesn\u2019t trust women that much or maybe he is just emocionalmente inseguro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Creo que la mejor manera de ver su comportamiento futuro es echar un vistazo a su pasado. La gente puede cambiar, pero no tanto.<\/p>\n

Su interior y sus sentimientos, percepciones y principios m\u00e1s profundos seguir\u00e1n siendo pr\u00e1cticamente los mismos.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t like what you see, if you don\u2019t like his past behavior, it\u2019s better to move on. Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking that you can change him.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t want to do that himself, you can\u2019t either.<\/p>\n

Chemistry isn\u2019t the key<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que cuando conoces a alguien y la qu\u00edmica es de otro mundo, te sientes atra\u00eddo por esa persona al instante.<\/p>\n

What you have to have in mind is that chemistry isn\u2019t the key to a successful relationship. Chemistry can only help at the beginning.<\/p>\n

Puede acercar a dos personas, pero a medida que pasa el tiempo, la qu\u00edmica se desvanece.<\/p>\n

If you are left with nothing at that stage of the relationship, it will probably fall apart and you\u2019ll have to start from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Nunca pongas excusas a las cosas malas que ocurren en tu relaci\u00f3n s\u00f3lo porque la qu\u00edmica es magn\u00e9tica.<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser capaz de ser t\u00fa misma a su alrededor.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I know this sounds cheesy, but it\u2019s also very true. You don\u2019t want to spend the rest of your life pretending you are something that you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Al final te consumir\u00e1 lentamente y te destruir\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Cuando conozcas al chico que crees que puede ser el elegido, s\u00e9 t\u00fa misma desde el principio y si le gusta, estupendo.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t, screw him\u2014you don\u2019t need that kind of man in your life.<\/p>\n

Being yourself around the person you love and not being judged for it is the best feeling in the world. You\u2019ll be so happy because you will be both in love and true to yourself.<\/p>\n

Tienes que estar seguro de que tiene las cualidades que necesitas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farese de que coincide con usted en las cosas que son importantes para usted, como la religi\u00f3n, la familia, la econom\u00eda, etc.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t focus just on the first thing you see\u2014like for example the fact he has a sense of humor and he makes you laugh. Don\u2019t let that blind you.<\/p>\n

Sure, you\u2019re fine with him at the beginning because he has that characteristic you love so much, but what if that certain thing is making you miss other things, big things, which he lacks?<\/p>\n

If this happens to you, you are going to have huge problems later in a relationship when he doesn\u2019t have the qualities you want.<\/p>\n

Tienes que ponerte a ti primero<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is not selfish. It\u2019s perfectly logical\u2014especially if you have been hurt before.<\/p>\n

Tienes que pensar en tus objetivos y aspiraciones y, una vez que sepas cu\u00e1les son, tienes que averiguar si tiene agallas para apoyar tus sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTiene lo que hay que tener para ayudarte cuando necesites su ayuda?<\/p>\n

Nunca te sometas a una sola persona porque puedes encontrarte llegando al final de tu vida sin lograr nada porque fuiste su apoyo emocional por completo.<\/p>\n

Find a balance, but don\u2019t ignore things you want to do. If he really is the right one for you, he will support you in whatever you do and he\u2019s going to make you a better person than you already are\u2014and you are going to do the same for him.<\/p>\n

Tiene que haber confianza y respeto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The most important thing of them all. All of these things don\u2019t make any sense if there is no mutual respect and trust.<\/p>\n

Te puede gustar todo lo que quieras, pero si le ocultas cosas o \u00e9l te las oculta a ti, algo va mal. Tienes que respetar su espacio personal como \u00e9l tiene que respetar el tuyo.<\/p>\n

Men value respect above everything else. For them, respect is the equivalent of how love, trust and appreciation are in women\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

A man needs to feel needed and respected for what he does. If he is not, he will probably think that you don\u2019t care enough about him and he slowly desenamorarse<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo te ocurre a ti cuando se trata de confianza y aprecio. Tienes que tenerlo, de lo contrario, te sentir\u00e1s indeseado e ignorado.<\/p>\n

Echa un buen vistazo a las cosas que necesitas saber antes de elegir al chico adecuado y ah\u00f3rrate el dolor de elegir al equivocado.<\/p>\n

El coraz\u00f3n es el que elige, pero intenta implicar tambi\u00e9n tu parte racional en la toma de decisiones.<\/p>\n

Try to find the balance between the two and you\u2019re going to be just fine.<\/p>\n

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