{"id":14283,"date":"2020-03-12T09:23:27","date_gmt":"2020-03-12T09:23:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14283"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:41:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:41:47","slug":"no-es-de-alto-mantenimiento-solo-eres-de-bajo-esfuerzo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-es-de-alto-mantenimiento-solo-eres-de-bajo-esfuerzo\/","title":{"rendered":"Ella no es de alto mantenimiento, t\u00fa eres de bajo esfuerzo"},"content":{"rendered":"

La \u00faltima vez que lo comprob\u00e9, tener normas no convierte a una mujer en una persona exigente, sino en una persona que sabe lo que quiere.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t make her a mission impossible, it just requires a bit more effort than it normally would.<\/p>\n

And putting in extra effort can be a problem to some, which is why it\u2019s always easier to come up with excuses than it is to step up your game.<\/p>\n

She is the kind of woman who doesn\u2019t depend on anyone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s because she knows to lean on someone in life means to be left without anything once that someone decides to walk away from her.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she takes care of herself and she makes life good for herself. She doesn\u2019t need you to do that for her.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s perfectly capable of doing it on her own. Ella sabe lo que vale<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She feels good about herself and she isn\u2019t afraid to show it. But she only feels this way because she\u2019s worked hard on herself.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s aware of how much she brings to the table and she always keeps in mind that she\u2019s more than good enough.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Y no hay nada m\u00e1s valioso en este mundo que una mujer que sabe lo que vale.<\/p>\n

Sabe d\u00f3nde quiere estar en la vida.<\/strong> And she knows how to get there too. She\u2019s a person who constantly pushes her limits and who\u2019s constantly trying.<\/p>\n

Sigue trabajando en s\u00ed misma. Cuida su aspecto y tambi\u00e9n su cerebro.<\/p>\n

Sabe lo que se merece. <\/strong>Y she isn\u2019t settling for anything less<\/a>. That\u2019s why she might appear as high-maintenance to some. But she is just asking for as much as she\u2019s ready to give and that\u2019s all.<\/p>\n

In case you\u2019re failing to reach her standards or win her over, perhaps it\u2019s not the problem that she has set her standards high, but that you have your efforts set really low?<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get to disrespect her. <\/strong>She doesn\u2019t let people treat her badly and she never allows other people to project their insecurities on her.<\/p>\n

Es una mujer de alto valor<\/a> and she holds her head high. That\u2019s why she\u2019ll never put up with someone who tries to bring her down to feel good about himself or with someone who disrespects her.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get to tr\u00e1tala bien s\u00f3lo a veces<\/a>. <\/strong>She wants constant effort and she deserves someone who\u2019ll treat her right on all occasions.<\/p>\n

She deserves someone who\u2019ll treat her right even when she makes a mistake.<\/p>\n

She deserves someone who\u2019ll try constantly to prove his love, his admiration and his commitment to her.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get to be mediocre. <\/strong>With her, it\u2019s all or nothing. Why do anything half-heartedly? You either do it right or don\u2019t bother doing it at all.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t bother trying to get in her life if you\u2019re going to do things half-heartedly. Don\u2019t bother trying to make her notice you if you have this custom of settling. She never settles.<\/p>\n

She aims high and she is restless until she gets there. That\u2019s what she wants from her partner too.<\/p>\n

With a woman who\u2019s aiming high in life and isn\u2019t settling for less than she deserves, you can’t really think you get to have her while being just average.<\/p>\n

If she stands out, you\u2019ll have to do something so you\u2019d stand out too, in order for her to be able to notice you.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re going to give up because \u2018it\u2019s just too much work\u2019, don\u2019t accuse her of being high-maintenance. You\u2019re low effort and that\u2019s where the problem lies.<\/p>\n

If you want a great woman in your life, you don\u2019t get to be with her by making her lower her standards but by stepping up your game and making sure you\u2019re at the same level. No excuses, just hard work. That\u2019s how things are done with her.<\/p>\n

\"Ella<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Last time I checked, having standards doesn\u2019t make a woman high-maintenance, it just makes her a person who knows what she wants. It doesn\u2019t make her a mission impossible, it just requires a bit more effort than it normally would. And putting in extra effort can be a problem to some, which is why it\u2019s…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":90584,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14283","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/She-Isn\u2019t-High-Maintenance-You\u2019re-Just-Low-Effort.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14283","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14283"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14283\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90584"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14283"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14283"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14283"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}