{"id":14317,"date":"2020-09-08T12:56:11","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T12:56:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14317"},"modified":"2022-02-26T21:53:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T21:53:11","slug":"6-razones-para-elegir-siempre-al-hombre-equivocado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-para-elegir-siempre-al-hombre-equivocado\/","title":{"rendered":"6 razones por las que siempre eliges al hombre equivocado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre nos obsesionamos con c\u00f3mo actuar en nuestra primera cita, qu\u00e9 hacer y qu\u00e9 no hacer o c\u00f3mo gustarle a un chico, s\u00f3lo para tener una relaci\u00f3n bonita y sana.<\/p>\n

Todos queremos esquivar una bala, pero s\u00f3lo cuando estamos en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 tal si tomas algunas precauciones antes de pensar en volver a salir con alguien?<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is where the real problem is. You make a mistake when it\u2019s too late to fix it and you end up getting hurt. Eliges mal a tu amante<\/a> because you don\u2019t think about it until you\u2019re already in a relationship.<\/p>\n

So to prevent this from happening, try to eliminate guys who you think won\u2019t make you happy before you start dating them. And don\u2019t beat yourself up just because you stumble upon wrong guys all the time.<\/p>\n

Ahora, hay una soluci\u00f3n a tu problema. Mira estas razones por las que siempre eliges al que no es para ti, as\u00ed no volver\u00e1s a cometer el mismo error.<\/p>\n

Crees que puedes cambiarle<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

This is the biggest mistake you can make. If you see certain behavior that is bothering you, don\u2019t think you can change that.<\/p>\n

You can warn him about it and he could try to keep it under control, but that is not a permanent solution. Every time he gets annoyed or angry, his true self will float to the surface; he won\u2019t be able to hide it.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, teniendo esto en cuenta, \u00bfrealmente quieres pasar el resto de tu vida con alguien que no est\u00e1 siendo su yo genuino porque cambiarle est\u00e1 fuera de discusi\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

He cannot change his core values and you shouldn\u2019t think that you can change them instead of him.<\/p>\n

Te est\u00e1s saboteando a ti mismo sin saberlo<\/h2>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

Tal vez seas t\u00fa la que tiene miedo al compromiso. \u00bfSe te ha pasado alguna vez por la cabeza que eliges a hombres que no est\u00e1n disponibles aunque tengas delante a los que te convendr\u00edan perfectamente?<\/p>\n

You are probably unaware that you\u2019re doing this on purpose because you are le aterroriza el compromiso<\/a>. But this doesn\u2019t have to be such a great problem because it is pretty much solvable.<\/p>\n

Si te das cuenta de que tienes problemas de compromiso, s\u00f3lo tienes que obligarte a dar una oportunidad a algunos hombres y dar a cada uno de ellos algo de tiempo para que te demuestren su val\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Tienes miedo de estar solo<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Much research has shown that women are willing to endure being in an unhappy relationship rather than being all alone and that\u2019s why they fall for the wrong kind of men.<\/p>\n

They think it\u2019s better to date a wrong man than be alone. Well, that is far from the truth.<\/p>\n

En realidad, eso es lo peor que puedes hacer porque te est\u00e1s haciendo inasequible a otros hombres si decides quedarte con el equivocado.<\/p>\n

You have to learn that being on your own is not too bad at all. If it isn\u2019t your time to be with someone, then embrace yourself and learn to love yourself because that is the only way someone else will be able to love you.<\/p>\n

Te enamoras de una cosa<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Probablemente tenga un factor positivo que te haya entusiasmado, pero m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de eso, no ves absolutamente nada.<\/p>\n

In other words, you are blinded by his one positive characteristic and you don\u2019t see other things, including negative things.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, al cabo de un tiempo, cuando empiezas a ver estas otras cosas, todo el panorama cambia de repente.<\/p>\n

Te das cuenta de que estabas loco de amor y ciego, y te das cuenta de que era un enamoramiento y no amor.<\/p>\n

Te sientes extremadamente atra\u00edda por \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, tienes que sentir alg\u00fan tipo de atracci\u00f3n<\/a> hacia el chico con el que quieres salir. Hay algo que os acerca el uno al otro, una tensi\u00f3n sexual.<\/p>\n

El resultado de una atracci\u00f3n sexual explosiva es que tomas decisiones imprudentes, y las investigaciones han demostrado que las personas que toman decisiones impulsivas tienen m\u00e1s probabilidades de arrepentirse despu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

So, every time you feel like this toward someone, don\u2019t react right away. Stop for a second and let it all sink in and then make a decision.<\/p>\n

Tiene baja autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You think that you don\u2019t deserve better than what is offered, so you take it. Guys you date are a reflection of how you feel and think about yourself.<\/p>\n

You probably think that you aren\u2019t good enough and guys like that are the only ones who can be interested in you. You have to trabaja tu autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Tienes que darte cuenta de que eres perfecto tal y como eres. Puede que no lo seas para todo el mundo, pero lo ser\u00e1s para esa persona especial.<\/p>\n

Aguanta un poco m\u00e1s y te encontrar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We always obsess about how to act on our first date, what to do and what not to do or how to make a guy like us, just to have a nice and healthy relationship. We all want to dodge a bullet but only once we are in a relationship. So what about taking some…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":116939,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14317","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Always-Choose-The-Wrong-Guy-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14317","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14317"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14317\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116939"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}