It’s perfectly normal if you two disagree about something. However, there is no need for ser mezquino<\/a>. Don’t try to put her down \u2013 it won’t lift you up!<\/p>\n I don’t care how angry you get: you simply mustn’t say any of these things unless you want to destruir su matrimonio<\/a>!<\/p>\n Translation: I hate you and I’m saying this to hurt your feelings. \u00bfQui\u00e9n quiere estar en un <\/b>matrimonio sin amor<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n \u00a1Ay! Esta duele,<\/b> and it’s probably the worst thing a husband can say to his wife.<\/p>\n Don’t compare your partner to anyone<\/b>\u00a1y mucho menos con la persona con la que estuviste casada antes!<\/p>\n You know this is her weak spot, so don’t use it even if you’re fighting. You should protect her from your loved ones who clearly don’t like her.<\/p>\n Again, with the exes. Don’t mention them EVER!<\/p>\n Women need to hear these three magical words, even though you’re probably showing your love with action. You need to tell her you’re <\/b>todav\u00eda enamorado<\/b> \u00a1con ella! <\/b>Sobre todo si su lenguaje del amor<\/a> son palabras de afecto.<\/p>\n No importa lo enfadado que est\u00e9s, don’t bring your mother to the table<\/b>. Cr\u00e9eme, tarde o temprano te saldr\u00e1 el tiro por la culata.<\/p>\n Once again, you’re telling her desear\u00edas no haberte casado nunca<\/b> ella, y probablemente la odio<\/a>.<\/p>\n It’s your job to aumentar su autoestima<\/a>para no arruinarlo a\u00fan m\u00e1s. Dale <\/b>validaci\u00f3n<\/b> \u00a1si ella lo pide!<\/p>\n Los matrimonios caen en la rutina. Sin embargo trabajar para animar las cosas<\/b> en lugar de culpar a tu mujer por ello.<\/p>\n She is doing her best. Besides, she didn’t become your personal chef when she said “I do”. If you don’t like her cooking, make your own meals.<\/b><\/p>\n P\u00eddele que te acompa\u00f1e al gimnasio o algo as\u00ed de sutil en lugar de insultarla de esta manera.<\/p>\n Well, maybe she’d be better at it if she had some help from you.<\/p>\n This is a common line people say to each other when they’re fighting, but trust me, it’s the worst thing a husband can say to his wife.<\/p>\n Pase lo que pase, don’t kick her so low and insult her physical appearance<\/b>. And, don’t mira a otras mujeres<\/a> \u00a1en su presencia!<\/p>\n \u00bfRecuerdas que te dije que no compararas a tu mujer con tus ex parejas? Pues bien, don’t you dare compare her with other “better” wives either!<\/b><\/p>\n Deber\u00edas siempre encuentra tiempo para ella.<\/b> Even though her problems might seem foolish to you, they’re obviously bothering her \u2013 otherwise, she wouldn’t bring them up.<\/p>\n Esto es probablemente lo peor que un marido puede decirle a su mujer. Cr\u00e9eme: est\u00e1 haciendo mucho m\u00e1s de lo que se ve<\/b>. Don’t underestimate the effort she is giving to your family.<\/p>\n Noticia de \u00faltima hora: things going downhill is never one partner’s fault<\/b>. You’re both to blame for the state of your marriage so don’t darle la vuelta a todo<\/a>! It’s impossible that you’re el que no hace nada malo<\/a>.<\/p>\n This translates to: “Ojal\u00e1 estuviera soltera para poder acostarme con todo el que quiera.<\/b>”<\/p>\n You chose your wife, and it’s disrespectful to say that some other woman is prettier than her \u2013 even if we’re talking about a supermodel.<\/p>\n Well, you haven’t.<\/b><\/p>\n Again with the belittling! Trust me \u2013 lo estaba haciendo bien sin ti<\/b>.<\/p>\n You’ll just ruin her self-esteem with this one.<\/p>\n Por supuesto, debes tener tus amigos varones. Pero, ella quiere pensar en s\u00ed misma como tu mejor amiga.<\/p>\n Si le doli\u00f3<\/a>es un gran problema y deber\u00edas tratarlo como tal.<\/p>\n No, she’s not \u2013 she’s just expressing her feelings.<\/p>\n Todas las mujeres quieren creer en cuentos de hadas. En vez de esto, dile que te ha dejado con la boca abierta<\/b>.<\/p>\n If you’re looking for the worst thing a husband can say to his wife, you’ve probably found it.<\/p>\n No, you’re not; su <\/b>el matrimonio est\u00e1 roto<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> Otherwise, she wouldn’t propose marriage counseling in the first place.<\/p>\n Guess what: you’re both responsible for intimidad f\u00edsica en su matrimonio<\/a>. If you’re not satisfied with it, trae algo de chispa<\/b> a tu dormitorio<\/b>.<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo porque te casaste con ella doesn’t mean that you should stop <\/b>seduci\u00e9ndola<\/b> y <\/b>ser rom\u00e1ntico<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n What makes you think you’re better than her? Trust me: you’re not. In fact, maybe she settled for less when she married you… she just never told you.<\/b><\/p>\n Esta duele como el infierno. Significa que toda su vida contigo es una mentira.<\/p>\n Ah, y t\u00fa eras tan ingenuo. What makes you think it wasn’t the other way around?<\/b><\/p>\n Don’t tackle her painful past. And, if you do, don’t forget one thing: She replaced him… she might as well replace you!<\/b><\/p>\n En infeliz con su matrimonio<\/a> is one thing. Telling your significant other you’re not planning on doing anything to guardarlo<\/a> just means you’re a jerk.<\/p>\n You don’t have to share every little thing with your wife, especially if it doesn’t concern your marriage. However, this is not the way to say it!<\/p>\n Traducci\u00f3n: Quiero que mi <\/b>redes sociales<\/b> seguidores que piensen que soy soltero, as\u00ed puedo ser infiel sin muchos problemas.<\/b><\/p>\n Well, if you hadn’t brought it up then, what’s the point of mentioning it now?<\/p>\n Adivina: she’s your choice.<\/b><\/p>\n Traducci\u00f3n: I hate the fact that we’re a <\/b>pareja casada<\/b>. Quiero volver a ser soltera.<\/b><\/p>\n You two are a team, and it’s about time you start acting that way.<\/p>\n I don’t care how long you two have been together: tu mujer siempre espera algo para una cita importante.<\/b> It doesn’t have to be an expensive gift; it’s the thought that counts.<\/p>\n I’m not talking about tu aniversario<\/a> here only. It’s the same about her birthday, Christmas, or Valentine’s day.<\/p>\n That’s exactly why she needs extra time for self-care; so she doesn’t go insane.<\/p>\n What’s the point of having a significant other? In that case, you should have just stayed single.<\/p>\n Traducci\u00f3n: I’m a <\/b>marido ego\u00edsta<\/b><\/a>y s\u00f3lo me importa mi propio bienestar.<\/b><\/p>\n If it still bothers her, it means you haven’t resolved it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n You’re just bringing her insecurities to the surface. As angry as you are right now, please don’t ever tell her this.<\/p>\n You don’t have to do anything about it \u2013 asuntos emocionales<\/b><\/a> duelen lo mismo que las f\u00edsicas.<\/b> If you tell her you’re enamorado de otra persona<\/a>, you’ll break her heart.<\/p>\n As if being unfaithful weren’t enough, you have the audacity to act like it’s not a <\/b>gran cosa<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n Socavar su valor won’t make you feel better about yourself,<\/b> and it won’t turn you into a marido dominante<\/a>.<\/p>\n Don’t ever play this card. The kids probably “love” you more because pretendes ser el poli bueno<\/b> alrededor de la casa.<\/p>\n You’re implying that you did her a favor when you married her. What woman wouldn’t be crushed after hearing this?<\/b><\/p>\n It doesn’t matter what you did; since it was directed to you, she’ll take it personally.<\/p>\n Traducci\u00f3n: I’m giving you a compliment so I could avoid my responsibilities as a father.<\/b><\/p>\n Te dir\u00e9 por qu\u00e9: Porque probablemente se pasa el d\u00eda cocinando, limpiando y cuidando de los ni\u00f1os.<\/b><\/p>\n Besides, you see her when she wakes up, when she is sick, or when she is dead tired. You can’t expect her to look the same as the woman you were seeing a few times a week on date nights can you?<\/p>\n It’s not like she enjoys it. But, I guess she has no other choice because you’re clearly not making any changes in your behavior.<\/b><\/p>\n Traducci\u00f3n: Est\u00e1s horrible.<\/b><\/p>\n Traducci\u00f3n: I wasn’t paying attention, and I deliberately wasn’t listening because I was scrolling through <\/b>redes sociales<\/b> o viendo la televisi\u00f3n. <\/b>B\u00e1sicamente, todo es m\u00e1s interesante que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n Vamos, it’s probably the only thing you do around the house<\/b>. Don’t expect her to take over that chore as well.<\/p>\n Todos sabemos you won’t<\/b>. You’re just saying it to get her off your neck or in hopes she’ll do it instead. Well, guess what: she knows you’re lying, and that’s why this sentence upsets her so much.<\/p>\n Esto es sin competencia el <\/b>lo peor<\/b> que un marido puede decirle a su mujer en el dormitorio.<\/b> First of all, you’re pressuring her to finish. Secondly, if you ponerla de humor<\/a>, she’d probably get there sooner.<\/p>\n Traducci\u00f3n: Lo olvid\u00e9. O, I didn’t think keeping my promise to you was important enough.<\/b><\/p>\n Esta es universal, pero tambi\u00e9n se aplica a tu mujer. Recuerda: lo peor que puede decirle un marido a su mujer en pleno ataque de nervios es que se calme. Lo har\u00eda si pudiera.<\/b><\/p>\n Si quiere hablar de ello, significa que le importa. Esc\u00fachala, aunque s\u00f3lo sea eso.<\/p>\n Hombres emocionalmente maduros<\/b><\/a> diga <\/b>they’re sorry<\/b> cuando meten la pata.<\/b> It’s about time you join the club.<\/p>\n \u00a1Incorrecto! Usted deber\u00eda lamentarlo<\/a> por hacer algo mal<\/b> \u00a1en primer lugar!<\/p>\n D\u00e9jame darte una respuesta en lugar de ella: \u00bfEs agradable no tener que pagar un chef personal, una se\u00f1ora de la limpieza, una secretaria y una ni\u00f1era?<\/b><\/p>\n Bien, you wouldn’t be hearing them if you paid attention for the <\/b>primera vez<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n I bet she adores her mother, but don’t compare the two. Unless you want to start a huge fight, that is.<\/p>\n S\u00ed, lo har\u00e1.<\/b> Y, no hay absolutamente ning\u00fan prop\u00f3sito de se\u00f1alarlo aparte de ofenderla.<\/p>\n Oh, now it’s her son or daughter just because they did something you don’t approve of. But, when they make you proud, they’re daddy’s children, aren’t they?<\/p>\n If you don’t like what you see, start cleaning and tidying it up; <\/b>it’s as simple as that.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, b\u00e1sicamente desea que la licencia <\/b>ser infiel<\/b>?<\/b> Look, it’s one thing if you two had an relaci\u00f3n abierta<\/a> desde el principio.<\/p>\n In that case, it’s clear that you’re both up to it. But, coming with this kind of suggestion out of the blue is a big, fat no.<\/p>\n You’re just being rude and no la mujer quiere un marido irrespetuoso<\/a>. Agree to disagree, but don’t ever say something like this.<\/p>\n First of all, you shouldn’t compare these types of love. Secondly, this implies that she is not your family. Thirdly, nunca podr\u00e1s <\/b>elige a tu familia antes que a ella<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n \u00bfHa o\u00eddo hablar alguna vez de la coparentalidad? Era tu responsabilidad cuidar de tu hijo nonato, pero nadie te obligaba a casarte con su madre.<\/b> It was your choice, and it’s unnecessary to bring it up now.<\/p>\n Esto es probablemente lo peor que un marido puede decirle a su mujer. Cr\u00e9eme: hay muchas otras formas m\u00e1s educadas de expresar tu descontento en el dormitorio.<\/p>\n Repite conmigo: Sin \u00fatero <\/b>\u2013<\/b> sin opini\u00f3n<\/b><\/p>\n Traducci\u00f3n: you’re too stupid to understand it. I’m smarter than you just because I am a man.<\/b><\/p>\n You can’t expect her to be the same careless young girl she was when you met her. Now, she has tons of problems bothering her, which hacerla muy negativa<\/a>. Just make sure you’re not one of them!<\/p>\n Nobody wants to hear this. But, if you’re wondering si debes divorciarte<\/a>tienes que decirlo en voz alta.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, please don’t say it just to hurt her feelings<\/b>. These words have a lot of meaning, and don’t pronounce this sentence if you’re not completely sure tu matrimonio ha terminado<\/a>.<\/p>\n Ser abusivo, ego\u00edsta, irrespetuoso e infiel<\/b> son probablemente las peores cosas que puedes hacerle a tu mujer. Sin embargo, no quererla lo suficiente<\/b> \u00a1le romper\u00e1 el coraz\u00f3n m\u00e1s que cualquier otra cosa!<\/p>\n Now that you’ve learned what the worst thing a husband can say to his wife is, please avoid each one of these sentences.<\/p>\n Here’s some consejos matrimoniales<\/a>: recuerda siempre tener cuidado con tus palabras. <\/b>Once they are said, they can’t be erased or forgotten.<\/p>\n Tambi\u00e9n te puede interesar: <\/p>\n 10 maneras de lidiar con un marido infiel<\/a><\/p>\n 10 preguntas que debe hacer a su c\u00f3nyuge antes de acudir a terapia matrimonial<\/a><\/p>\n 5 maneras eficaces de devolver la chispa a su matrimonio<\/a><\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 debe hacer cuando su c\u00f3nyuge le dice cosas hirientes?<\/a><\/p>\n Si su marido hace estas 10 cosas, es el mejor marido del mundo<\/a><\/p>\n 50 dolorosas se\u00f1ales de que tu marido ya no est\u00e1 enamorado de ti<\/a><\/p>\nLo peor que un marido puede decirle a su mujer: la lista definitiva<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n1. I’ve never loved you<\/h3>\n
2. Me arrepiento del d\u00eda en que me cas\u00e9 contigo<\/h3>\n
3. Quer\u00eda a mi ex-mujer m\u00e1s que a ti<\/h3>\n
4. Todos mis buenos amigos y familiares ten\u00edan raz\u00f3n cuando me dijeron que no me casara contigo.<\/h3>\n
5. Ojal\u00e1 me hubiera casado con mi novia del instituto<\/h3>\n
6. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tengo que decirte que te quiero todo el rato, si ya te lo dije una vez?<\/h3>\n
7. It’s no surprise your mother-in-law doesn’t love you<\/h3>\n
8. Desear\u00eda poder borrar todos nuestros a\u00f1os de matrimonio<\/h3>\n
9. You’re completely worthless<\/h3>\n
10. Me resulta m\u00e1s interesante desplazarme por las redes sociales que pasar tiempo contigo<\/h3>\n
11. You’re a terrible cook<\/h3>\n
12. Ser\u00e1 mejor que adelgaces<\/h3>\n
13. You’re a bad mother and I wish I never had children with you<\/h3>\n
14. I don’t know what got into my head when I married you<\/h3>\n
15. It’s no wonder you have self-esteem issues. I mean, just look at yourself<\/h3>\n
16. Look at my good friend. Don’t you see how his wife treats him? Why can’t you be the same?<\/h3>\n
17. I’m loaded with the stress of work. I can’t deal with your problems right now<\/h3>\n
18. You don’t work. All you do is take care of the house and the kids. That’s not a real job<\/h3>\n
19. Todo lo malo en nuestro matrimonio es culpa tuya<\/h3>\n
20. Echo de menos mi vida de soltero<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n21. That woman is more beautiful than you. Why can’t you look like her?<\/h3>\n
22. Ojal\u00e1 me hubiera casado con mi ex novia<\/h3>\n
23. No eras nadie hasta que me conociste<\/h3>\n
24. I can’t sleep with you anymore<\/h3>\n
25. You’re not my best friend<\/h3>\n
26. It’s not such a big deal. Don’t you see that you’re overreacting?<\/h3>\n
27. Aren’t you being too emotional?<\/h3>\n
28. When I saw you for the first time, I didn’t like you<\/h3>\n
29. Termin\u00e9 cas\u00e1ndome contigo s\u00f3lo porque eras conveniente...<\/h3>\n
30. I don’t want to visit the marriage counselor. I think we’re doing just fine<\/h3>\n
31. Our sex life is awful and it’s your fault<\/h3>\n
32. I don’t want to take you out on a date night. We’re married; what’s the point of date nights anyhow?<\/h3>\n
33. Me conform\u00e9 con menos cuando me cas\u00e9 contigo<\/h3>\n
34. Yo era nunca estuve enamorado de ti<\/a>. S\u00f3lo te ped\u00ed que te casaras conmigo porque mi reloj biol\u00f3gico estaba corriendo<\/h3>\n
35. Me enga\u00f1aste para que me casara contigo<\/h3>\n
36. It’s no wonder your ex-husband left you<\/h3>\n
37. I don’t think we have a happy marriage and I’m not willing to do anything about improving it<\/h3>\n
38. It’s not something you need to know. Let me have my own secrets!<\/h3>\n
39. Quiero ocultar nuestro matrimonio en las redes sociales. Por qu\u00e9 deber\u00eda publicar fotos contigo?<\/h3>\n
40. I wanted a divorce last year, but I stayed because I didn’t know where else to go<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n41. You’re the worst part of my life. If it weren’t for you, I’d be much happier<\/h3>\n
42. I don’t want to hang out with other married couples. I want to go clubbing on my own all the time<\/h3>\n
43. That’s your problem. Learn to deal with it instead of asking me for help all the time<\/h3>\n
44. I didn’t get you anything for our anniversary. Don’t be mad… who keeps track of those dates anymore?<\/h3>\n
45. You don’t need time for self-care. You’re always with the kids. It’s not like you have a real job.<\/h3>\n
46. I don’t see the need to consult with you. I’ll do what I want anyhow<\/h3>\n
47. I don’t care about your feelings<\/h3>\n
48. Sup\u00e9ralo; \u00a1ya ocurri\u00f3 el a\u00f1o pasado!<\/h3>\n
49. I can’t stand looking at you.<\/h3>\n
50. I’m in love with someone else<\/h3>\n
51. I slept with another woman, but it didn’t mean anything so you shouldn’t make a fuss about it<\/h3>\n
52. I’m better than you in everything<\/h3>\n
53. It’s no wonder the kids love me more than they love you<\/h3>\n
54. If I hadn’t married you, you’d die alone. I mean, who else would have wanted you?<\/h3>\n
55. Don’t take it so personally<\/h3>\n
56. You’re better with the kids than I am<\/h3>\n
57. I remember how you were when we first met. Why can’t you look like that again?<\/h3>\n
58. \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo dejar\u00e1s de rega\u00f1arme?<\/h3>\n
59. \u00bfDe verdad vas a salir con esa ropa?<\/h3>\n
60. \u00bfQu\u00e9 has dicho?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n61. I can’t take out the trash right now<\/h3>\n
62. I’ll do it in a minute<\/h3>\n
63. \u00bfHas terminado?<\/h3>\n
64. I know I promised, but I just didn’t find the time<\/h3>\n
65. Can’t you just calm down?<\/h3>\n
66. I don’t think we have to talk about it<\/h3>\n
67. I won’t apologize<\/h3>\n
68. I’m sorry you felt that way<\/h3>\n
69. \u00bfEs agradable no tener que preocuparse por las finanzas?<\/h3>\n
70. I’m sick and tired of hearing the same things over and over again<\/h3>\n
71. You’re slowly becoming just like your mother<\/h3>\n
72. \u00bfDe verdad te vas a comer todo eso?<\/h3>\n
73. Su hijo\/a hizo algo<\/h3>\n
74. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 la casa tiene este aspecto? 75. \u00bfQu\u00e9 has estado haciendo todo el d\u00eda?<\/h3>\n
75. Quiero un matrimonio abierto<\/h3>\n
76. When I need your opinion, I’ll ask for it<\/h3>\n
77. Quiero a todos los miembros de mi familia m\u00e1s que a ti<\/h3>\n
78. S\u00f3lo me cas\u00e9 contigo porque estabas embarazada<\/h3>\n
79. Can’t you be better in bed?<\/h3>\n
80. You’re not the first woman to go through childbirth. Toughen up a little<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n81. You wouldn’t get it<\/h3>\n
82. Estar cerca de ti sol\u00eda ser divertido<\/h3>\n
83. Quiero divorciarme<\/h3>\n
What’s the worst thing you can do to your wife?<\/h2>\n
Para terminar:<\/h2>\n