{"id":143827,"date":"2022-02-02T21:28:27","date_gmt":"2022-02-02T21:28:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=143827"},"modified":"2022-09-21T12:38:50","modified_gmt":"2022-09-21T12:38:50","slug":"senales-de-que-finge-amarte-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-finge-amarte-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfTe quiere (o no)? 21 se\u00f1ales claras de que PRETENDE amarte"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know you feel confused. One part of you wants to know the truth, and the other would be happy living a lie as long as you&#8217;re still with him.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero, por mucho que te duela, mereces saber lo que siente de verdad por ti.<\/b> Being with a guy who doesn&#8217;t care about you is nothing but a waste of your precious time.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been where you are.<b> Tard\u00e9 a\u00f1os en <\/b><b>romper<\/b><b> con \u00e9l.<\/b> I learned my lesson the hard way&#8230; but I still learned it.<\/p>\n<p><b>Aunque la cuesti\u00f3n aqu\u00ed es:<\/b> \u00bfRealmente tienes que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-romper-con-un-ser-querido\/\">d\u00e9jalo<\/a>? \u00bfY si tu corazonada est\u00e1 equivocada? \u00bfCu\u00e1les son las se\u00f1ales de que finge amarte?<\/p>\n<p>Stay with me, and let&#8217;s find out together!<\/p>\n<h2>21 se\u00f1ales claras de que finge amarte<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-ama-22-maneras-de-saber-que-solo-tiene-ojos-para-ti\/\">\u00bfEs real su amor<\/a>? Estos 21 signos te dar\u00e1n la respuesta:<\/p>\n<h3>1. You just don&#8217;t feel the love at all<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143829 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer imaginaria con el pelo encrespado sentada a una mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re probably confused right now. You&#8217;re wondering if your insecurities are lying to you or if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/34-signos-ya-no-ama\/\">he really doesn&#8217;t have feelings for you<\/a>. Which is it? Well, I&#8217;m here to help!<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s do it this way.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quiero que te tomes un momento para pensar en cada persona que te quiere.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>\u00bfEn cu\u00e1ntas personas has pensado? \u00bfC\u00f3mo te hacen sentir? \u00bfC\u00f3mo te tratan? \u00bfQu\u00e9 te hace estar tan seguro de su amor?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If you&#8217;re capable of sensing their love but not that of your boyfriend, then the problem is definitely him.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>SIEMPRE <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/confiar-en-tus-instintos\/\">conf\u00eda en tus instintos<\/a>!<\/p>\n<h3>2. Parece que nunca puedes salir de la situaci\u00f3n.<\/h3>\n<p>A man who loves you is eager to show you off to the world. He wants to scream your name and tell everyone that you&#8217;re his woman.<\/p>\n<p><b>If he&#8217;s not yet ready to do that, it might be one of the signs he pretends to <\/b><b>te quiero<\/b><b>. He enjoys the benefits of your relationship but doesn&#8217;t care enough to make it official.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-el-juega-a-estos-7-juegos-de-relaciones-inmaduras-te-esta-haciendo-perder-el-tiempo\/\">He&#8217;s just wasting your time<\/a> because he doesn&#8217;t have anyone else to turn to. Please, don&#8217;t let him treat you like that anymore.<\/p>\n<p>You should be with someone who&#8217;s proud to call you his own. Don&#8217;t ever settle for less.<\/p>\n<h3>3. He doesn&#8217;t share much with you<\/h3>\n<p><i>Does everyone know what&#8217;s going on in his life but you? Do you find out important stuff from a random person on the street?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If so, that&#8217;s a MAJOR <\/b><b>bandera roja<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-el-hombre-ama-con-locura\/\"><b>Si un hombre est\u00e1 enamorado de ti<\/b><\/a><b>, you&#8217;ll be his go-to person for EVERYTHING. <\/b>He&#8217;ll do it not because he has to but because he genuinely wants to. His love for you urges him to share every little thing that happens during the day.<\/p>\n<p><b>If your man lacks these traits, that&#8217;s one of the <\/b><b>signos inequ\u00edvocos<\/b><b> pretende <\/b><b>te quiero<\/b><b>.<\/b> Don&#8217;t put up with it any longer!<\/p>\n<h3>4. You&#8217;re the only one making an effort<\/h3>\n<p>He never initiates conversation. You&#8217;re probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-poner-excusas-hombre-trata-como-una-mierda\/\">excus\u00e1ndole<\/a>, but deep down, you know he just doesn&#8217;t care enough.<\/p>\n<p><b>Siempre encuentras la manera de sorprenderle y hacerle feliz, y \u00e9l ni te lo agradece ni te corresponde.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When you go out, you feel like a circus clown that&#8217;s meant to make him laugh. <b>He puts so much pressure on you and blames you when you don&#8217;t live up to his expectations, even though he doesn&#8217;t lift a finger.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Why not try to put in as much effort as he does? I bet he won&#8217;t like being treated the way he treats you!<\/p>\n<h3>5. Su comportamiento cambia delante de otras personas<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143830 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"los amigos se sientan en el muelle y hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ah, the &#8221;nice guys.&#8221; They will charm you and make you feel special only to get your attention, but they don&#8217;t mean any of it. What they feel for you isn&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amor-verdadero-besos-dulces-palabras\/\">amor verdadero<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not even <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/diferencias-entre-amor-y-enamoramiento\/\">encaprichamiento<\/a>. They probably just like their ability to have you wrapped around their little finger by whispering sweet words into your ear&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>Of course, this is not your fault. It&#8217;s not easy to see through someone&#8217;s lies. But, you can start by noticing how he treats you in <\/b><b>delante de los dem\u00e1s<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>One day, he&#8217;s all cute and loving, and the next day, he&#8217;s cold as ice. He suddenly turns into a misogynist full of sexist jokes about women, and he dismisses your every word because he&#8217;s got to be &#8216;the man.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><b>Por favor, tenga en cuenta esta importante pieza de <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/consejos-de-pareja-para-mujeres-12-cosas-que-debes-saber-para-empoderarte\/\"><b>consejos sobre relaciones para mujeres<\/b><\/a><b>:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If he &#8221;loves&#8221; you only behind closed doors but not in front of others, that&#8217;s one of the obvious signs he pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Nadie conoce vuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>A little privacy can definitely be exciting, but this guy isn&#8217;t just keeping your relationship private \u2013 He is HIDING the fact that he&#8217;s in a relationship with you from EVERYONE!<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 demonios?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Who knows! Maybe his family members don&#8217;t approve of you, or his friends don&#8217;t like you. Or maybe he wants other women to think he&#8217;s single so he can still flirt with them.<\/p>\n<p><b>It&#8217;s especially awful if he doesn&#8217;t even tell you why he&#8217;s doing it. He doesn&#8217;t think you deserve to hear the truth. But, oh, you so do!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Preg\u00fantale abiertamente cu\u00e1l es su trato. Si se niega a dec\u00edrtelo, al\u00e9jate. Si te dice la verdad, pero ves que sigue sin tener planes de futuro, al\u00e9jate igualmente.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1Un hombre que te ama de verdad nunca te har\u00eda pasar por algo as\u00ed!<\/p>\n<h3>7. No hay chistes tontos<\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s so evident when two people enjoy each other&#8217;s company. You can just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/poderosos-signos-de-quimica\/\">sentir la qu\u00edmica en el aire<\/a>. A veces basta una palabra para que estallen en carcajadas.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tienen un lenguaje propio que nadie a su alrededor entiende.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So, if you&#8217;re looking for signs he pretends to love you, think about how you both feel in each other&#8217;s presence.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00bfEs divertido, o siempre tienes que montar un espect\u00e1culo para volver a casa agotado?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If you feel happier and more peaceful in his absence, that&#8217;s a <\/b><b>signo revelador<\/b><b> que algo va MUY mal.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>8. Nunca te llama<\/h3>\n<p>Si este tipo nunca se molesta en coger el tel\u00e9fono y llamarte, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-no-quiere-una-relacion-contigo\/\">he just doesn&#8217;t care about you<\/a> en absoluto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Puede encontrar tantas excusas como quiera, pero la verdad sigue en pie: Si alguien quiere dedicarle tiempo, lo har\u00e1.<\/b> Nadie est\u00e1 tan ocupado.<\/p>\n<p>Esto es especialmente cierto si esa persona mantiene una relaci\u00f3n de compromiso contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, \u00e9l tiene su propia vida de la que ocuparse, pero un novio como Dios manda siempre pondr\u00eda a su mujer en lo m\u00e1s alto de su lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n<p><b>But, if he NEVER makes time for you, that&#8217;s not a sign of a loving and <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/principales-normas-de-relacion\/\"><b>relaci\u00f3n sana<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t believe his lies anymore. Look at his actions instead. If he is busy literally all the time, that&#8217;s just one of the signs he pretends to love you&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3>9. You don&#8217;t feel all that happy<\/h3>\n<p><i>\u00bfTe sientes desgraciada cada vez que te habla? \u00bfHas perdido la conexi\u00f3n que ten\u00edas inicialmente con \u00e9l?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-ser-honesto-con-uno-mismo\/\"><b>Sea sincero consigo mismo<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> You actually already have the answer to your question; you&#8217;re just afraid to face the facts.<\/p>\n<p>But, sadly, it\u2019s necessary&#8230; unless you want to be stuck in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-un-matrimonio-sin-amor\/\">relaci\u00f3n sin amor <\/a>para siempre.<\/p>\n<p><b>You need to trust your feelings. When you&#8217;re unhappy, you just know it. You don&#8217;t need to listen to anyone&#8217;s advice or his lies.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ahora quiero que respires hondo y pienses en estas preguntas:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">\u00bfCrees que mereces ser tan infeliz?<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Aren&#8217;t you sad that you&#8217;re missing out on happiness with someone else?<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Are you really going to waste your life being with a guy who doesn&#8217;t appreciate you?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>10. He doesn&#8217;t take your feelings into consideration<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143831 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer se sientan en el sof\u00e1 y discuten\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your man has a 24\/7 job of insulting you and making you feel unworthy, his love for you isn&#8217;t as real as you might&#8217;ve thought.<\/p>\n<p><b>He probably justifies himself by saying that he&#8217;s just &#8216;brutally honest,&#8217; but that&#8217;s nothing more than an excuse to be cruel to you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t even apologize if he takes it too far because your feelings aren&#8217;t his concern.<\/p>\n<p><b>En cambio, si hieres SUS sentimientos, la cosa cambia.<\/b> He&#8217;ll pin you with awful labels and be more than happy to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-senales-de-que-esta-jugando-a-destruir-a-la-victima\/\">hacerse la v\u00edctima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, you&#8217;re just copying his own behavior, but he clearly doesn&#8217;t see you as equals.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfDe verdad quieres a un tipo as\u00ed en tu vida?<\/p>\n<h3>11. You&#8217;re there to fulfill HIS wishes<\/h3>\n<p>What YOU want doesn&#8217;t matter. There is no YOU at all. To him, you&#8217;re simply someone who exists to please him.<\/p>\n<p><b>He doesn&#8217;t see relationships as a bond between two people who are equal to each other. <\/b>No. Even if he claims that he&#8217;ll be there for you, his actions prove otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>When he&#8217;s bored, he&#8217;ll ask you out. If you reject him, you&#8217;ll be the bad guy. But when he rejects you, that&#8217;s totally fine, and you&#8217;re the crazy one for overreacting.<\/p>\n<p><b>Lo \u00fanico que le importa es que aumentes su ego y se sienta digno.<\/b> Deja de darle esa satisfacci\u00f3n. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/queridas-mujeres-mereceis-ser-elegidas\/\">Mereces que te quieran<\/a> por lo que realmente eres.<\/p>\n<h3>12. Le pillas flirteando con otras mujeres<\/h3>\n<p>\u00a1La audacia! Este tipo de hombre seduce descarada y abiertamente a otras mujeres y luego te acusa de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-hacen-los-hombres-para-poner-celosas-a-las-mujeres\/\">estar celoso<\/a>\u00a1! Quiero decir, \u00bfqu\u00e9 siquiera?<\/p>\n<p>He thinks it&#8217;s okay to disrespect you like that. <b>He feels like his need to talk to someone else needs to be satisfied because, after all, you don&#8217;t have the right to restrict his freedom.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But, that&#8217;s the thing. Your jealousy isn&#8217;t a way of taking away his freedom but rather of demanding <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-respetar-a-una-mujer-en-una-relacion\/\">el respeto que toda mujer merece en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Remember \u2013 if he doesn&#8217;t see how wrong this is, it is one of the signs he pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<h3>13. S\u00f3lo hablas de cosas superficiales<\/h3>\n<p><i>\u00bfS\u00f3lo le interesa <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tipos-de-intimidad\/\"><i>intimidad f\u00edsica<\/i><\/a><i>? \u00bfAlguna vez <\/i><i>abrir<\/i><i> \u00bfa ti?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>When a man isn&#8217;t serious about you, he will stick to lighter topics. He will laugh with you but won&#8217;t ever dig deeper because he doesn&#8217;t care about connecting with you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Si le cuentas algo importante sobre ti, cambiar\u00e1 de tema encantado. Si le pides que te cuente su historia, lo convertir\u00e1 todo en una broma.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When he touches you, he only does it to satisfy his lust. There is no emotional element to ANYTHING he does. It&#8217;s very easy to sense this if you pay attention.<\/p>\n<p>P.S. It&#8217;s also possible that he has <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-tantos-hombres-sufren-problemas-de-compromiso\/\">cuestiones de compromiso<\/a>. In that case, give him some time&#8230; but not too much time. After all, you want a boyfriend, not a project!<\/p>\n<h3>14. He doesn&#8217;t give you his full attention<\/h3>\n<p>Todas las pistas est\u00e1n escondidas en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/su-lenguaje-corporal-dice-de-el\/\">su lenguaje corporal<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00bfMira a otras mujeres mientras <\/i><i>pasar el tiempo<\/i><i> with you? Does he stare at his phone a lot while you&#8217;re talking to him?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Estos son todos <\/b><b>signos sutiles<\/b><b> pretende <\/b><b>te quiero<\/b><b>. He can&#8217;t fully focus on you because he just doesn&#8217;t care about what you have to say.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Un hombre que est\u00e1 locamente enamorado de ti no te quitar\u00e1 los ojos de encima.<\/p>\n<p>Toda su atenci\u00f3n se dirigir\u00e1 hacia ti porque le importas y quiere que lo sepas.<\/p>\n<h3>15. He&#8217;s a master manipulator<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143832 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer asombrada habla mirando a un hombre mientras conversan en la mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s not always easy to notice signs of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/gaslighting-8-ejemplos-de-abuso-mental-brutal\/\">luz de gas<\/a>, but you just know that something isn&#8217;t quite right&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>He always plays the victim while you&#8217;re the one to blame. And then you start feeling guilty even though you&#8217;re aware you did nothing wrong.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If that feeling sounds familiar, then he is most likely gaslighting you. It&#8217;s not your fault.<\/p>\n<p><b>Hombres con bajo <\/b><b>autoestima<\/b><b> seek power by hurting someone else because that&#8217;s the only way they can feel good about themselves.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t believe a word he says. Talk to someone you trust who will help you see what&#8217;s what.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando un chico realmente se preocupa por ti, lo har\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asuma-la-responsabilidad-de-sus-actos\/\">asumir la responsabilidad de sus actos<\/a>. Nunca te echar\u00e1 la culpa a ti. As\u00ed que, por favor, recuerda que te mereces mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<h3>16. He&#8217;s never there in your time of need<\/h3>\n<p>If you find yourself going through hard times alone while he&#8217;s out there having fun, that&#8217;s also one of the signs he pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<p><b>If he truly cared about you, he wouldn&#8217;t leave your side until he was sure you were okay. He would do his best to make your pain more bearable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t settle for a guy who puts everything else before you. Do you really want someone you can&#8217;t rely on, someone who can watch you cry without even flinching?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time to accept that he&#8217;s just not worth it because only then can you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-quitarte-a-alguien-de-la-cabeza\/\">seguir adelante<\/a> a algo mejor.<\/p>\n<h3>17. Los buenos tiempos son historia<\/h3>\n<p>Do you know that feeling when you just leave your guy after a date, and you&#8217;re all smiley?<\/p>\n<p>Yeah. If that doesn&#8217;t happen to you anymore, that&#8217;s your intuition telling you that he only pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fase-de-luna-de-miel\/\"><b>La fase de luna de miel<\/b><\/a><b> ended a long time ago. You barely see each other, and when you do, he just doesn&#8217;t try to make you feel special like he once did.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Juntarse es m\u00e1s una obligaci\u00f3n que algo que se hace por amor.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s even worse when you&#8217;re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relacion-a-distancia-prueba-definitiva-amor\/\">relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/a>Pero ya no tienes nada de qu\u00e9 hablar. Ese fue mi caso, al menos.<\/p>\n<p><b>The words that come out of our mouths were there only to fill in the awkward silence. And then it suddenly hit me \u2013 This isn&#8217;t going to work!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Trust me, when he loves you, you can&#8217;t ever get tired of each other.<\/p>\n<h3>18. Las mentiras nunca terminan<\/h3>\n<p>I once read that &#8221;to love is to stop lying.&#8221; How very true that is!<\/p>\n<p>Cuando alguien te importa, quieres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-formas-de-establecer-una-conexion-emocional-mas-profunda-con-tu-hombre\/\">establecer una conexi\u00f3n profunda con ellos<\/a>, and you know you can&#8217;t do that if you&#8217;re not telling the truth.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por lo tanto, uno de los <\/b><b>se\u00f1ales claras<\/b><b> pretende <\/b><b>te quiero<\/b><b> is when he keeps lying to you. Even his \u201c<\/b><b>Te quiero<\/b><b>&#8216;s\u201d feel fake.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He has become so used to lying that you don&#8217;t even know who he really is.<\/p>\n<p>Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn&#8217;t value you enough to be honest with you?<\/p>\n<h3>19. He doesn&#8217;t care about your life at all<\/h3>\n<p><i>\u00bfTe interrumpe cuando empiezas a hablar para contar su propia historia? O peor a\u00fan, \u00bfest\u00e1 demasiado distra\u00eddo con su <\/i><i>redes sociales<\/i> <i>aplicaciones<\/i><i> prestarte atenci\u00f3n en el <\/i><i>primer puesto<\/i><i>?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Un hombre que s\u00f3lo pretende <\/b><b>te quiero<\/b><b> nunca le importar\u00e1 lo que tengas que decir. <\/b>He won&#8217;t bother asking how your day went or what childhood events affected you the most.<\/p>\n<p><b>He won&#8217;t ask because, to him, you&#8217;re just&#8230; there.<\/b> He may label you as his girlfriend, but he doesn&#8217;t treat you as a loved one.<\/p>\n<p>So, yes, if you notice that he&#8217;s the one doing all the talking, that&#8217;s a big red flag.<\/p>\n<h3>20. He doesn&#8217;t respect you yet demands your respect<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143833 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer se sientan a la mesa y hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una de las se\u00f1ales de que finge amarte es cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-que-debes-hacer-si-te-estan-faltando-al-respeto-en-tu-relacion\/\">he doesn&#8217;t respect you<\/a> pero exige TU respeto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Whenever you&#8217;re open about something that bothers you, he&#8217;s quick to judge you. You&#8217;re always the dramatic one who makes a fuss about nothing at all.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He probably manages to convince you that you ARE wrong, but deep down, you know he just doesn&#8217;t respect you enough to listen to your wants and needs.<\/p>\n<p>In a nutshell, he disrespects you, but when you call him out on it, he acts like you&#8217;re the one who disrespected him.<\/p>\n<h3>21. Todo lo que sientes es decepci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>When you feel someone&#8217;s love, it fills you with energy and strength. Every time you think about them, it makes you so happy you might burst.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero, cuando piensas en c\u00f3mo te quiere tu chico, tu estado de \u00e1nimo decae de repente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tiene la sensaci\u00f3n de que su vida sentimental se ha convertido en una decepci\u00f3n tras otra. Apenas recuerdas la \u00faltima vez que fuiste realmente feliz.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you know that true love isn&#8217;t supposed to hurt. If you feel nothing but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-recordatorios-para-una-chica-que-no-vio-venir-el-desengano-amoroso\/\">desamor<\/a>, then it&#8217;s not love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-finge-amarte\/\">13 se\u00f1ales de que finge amarte: Las piezas que faltan<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Me quiere, no me quiere<\/h2>\n<p>Have you noticed any one of these signs he pretends to love you in your own relationship? I sure hope not, but if you have, don&#8217;t forget that you deserve much better.<\/p>\n<p><b>I know it&#8217;s hard to leave someone you love, but it&#8217;s even harder being with them despite knowing that they don&#8217;t reciprocate your feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t turn your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/68-frases-sobre-amar-a-alguien-que-no-te-quiere\/\">amor no correspondido<\/a> into something poetic because that&#8217;s self-destructive. Keep the love in your heart, but don&#8217;t stay where you aren&#8217;t appreciated.<\/p>\n<p>En el momento en que finalmente llegues a un lugar en el que ERES amado, ver\u00e1s que tomaste la decisi\u00f3n correcta.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you feel confused. One part of you wants to know the truth, and the other would be happy living a lie as long as you&#8217;re still with him. But, as much as it hurts, you deserve to know how he truly feels about you. Being with a guy who doesn&#8217;t care about you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":143836,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-143827","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Does-He-Love-You-Or-Not-21-Clear-Signs-He-PRETENDS-To-Love-You.-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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