{"id":143882,"date":"2022-02-04T23:11:54","date_gmt":"2022-02-04T23:11:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=143882"},"modified":"2022-07-19T08:37:15","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T08:37:15","slug":"cuando-un-chico-actua-interesado-entonces-retrocede","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-un-chico-actua-interesado-entonces-retrocede\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando un chico se muestra interesado y luego se echa atr\u00e1s: 15 razones leg\u00edtimas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>\u00bfHay algo m\u00e1s molesto que las personas que juegan al fr\u00edo y al calor? \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa que un <\/i><i>chico act\u00faa interesado<\/i><i> \u00bfy luego retrocede?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s confusing as hell. <b>Un minuto, tu mente te dice que ya no le gustas, y al siguiente, te das esperanzas pensando en los buenos momentos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s the truth here?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to say. But, if you stay with me, we&#8217;ll explore it together. Now, let&#8217;s do an analysis!<\/p>\n<h2>Cuando un chico se muestra interesado y luego se echa atr\u00e1s: 15 posibles razones<\/h2>\n<p>Si quieres saber qu\u00e9 significa que un chico se muestre interesado y luego se eche atr\u00e1s, echa un vistazo a estas 15 razones leg\u00edtimas:<\/p>\n<h3>1. He&#8217;s scared of letting someone in<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143884 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre imaginario sentado a una mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tu chico ha sido traicionado antes, es probable que tenga <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-tantos-hombres-sufren-problemas-de-compromiso\/\">cuestiones de compromiso<\/a>. Cada vez que conoce a alguien nuevo, probablemente piensa que el pasado se repetir\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>So, it\u2019s very possible that he\u2019s just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-signos-reveladores-de-que-esta-luchando-contra-sus-sentimientos-por-ti\/\">luchando contra sus sentimientos por ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>This has nothing to do with you, though. Maybe you haven&#8217;t given him any reason to doubt you, but he&#8217;s still on red alert because he\u2019s just <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-5-razones-mas-comunes-por-las-que-los-hombres-tienen-miedo-al-amor\/\"><b>asustado de amor<\/b><\/a><b> and doesn\u2019t feel safe with anyone anymore\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This is a very common reason men pull away. If you sense that your man is the same, don&#8217;t pressure him into committing to you. Just be patient and prove to him that you will be very careful with his heart.<\/p>\n<h3>2. He thinks you&#8217;ll be more into him<\/h3>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s annoying as hell, but this is just his way of getting your attention. <b>He&#8217;s scared you&#8217;ll run off if he starts showering you with affection.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s be honest, a lot of women ARE intrigued by guys they can&#8217;t have, so his fear is valid. He just doesn&#8217;t want to lose you, that&#8217;s all.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t belong in this category of women, why not tell him that you like upfront, mature men who don&#8217;t like playing games?<\/p>\n<p><i>En cuanto se da cuenta de que sus largos mensajes y sus constantes <\/i><i>llamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/i><i> won&#8217;t drive you away, he will be more than happy to declare his love for you every second of the day.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>3. Acaba de tener una ruptura terrible<\/h3>\n<p><i>Si ha roto recientemente con su novia, probablemente necesite tiempo para procesar lo sucedido.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t blame him for being slow. He&#8217;s taking his time only because he&#8217;s serious about you.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t see you as a rebound woman, so he wants to solve his past issues before finally committing to you.<\/p>\n<p>Para ser honesto, este tipo de hombre es admirable por no saltar de una relaci\u00f3n a otra.<\/p>\n<p><b>Significa que estar en una relaci\u00f3n es <\/b><b>gran cosa<\/b><b> para \u00e9l, y quiere tener cuidado con el tipo de mujer con la que elige estar.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>4. You&#8217;re not the only woman in his life<\/h3>\n<p>I know this isn&#8217;t what you wanted to hear, but maybe you&#8217;re just one of the many women he interacts with.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-verdades-sobre-los-mujeriegos-que-deberias-conocer\/\"><i>He\u2019s a womanizer<\/i><\/a><i>Y para \u00e9l, todo esto es un programa de Factor X donde todos compiten por su amor, y al final, \u00e9l elegir\u00e1... <\/i><i>el<\/i><i> que m\u00e1s le convenga sin importarle c\u00f3mo se sientan los dem\u00e1s.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTengo que decir que esto es una se\u00f1al de alarma?<\/p>\n<p><b>Entonces nunca le gustaste VERDADERAMENTE en el <\/b><b>primer puesto<\/b><b>!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And, if he treats women this way, he doesn&#8217;t deserve a place in your life anyway. Don&#8217;t allow him to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-esta-jugando-contigo\/\">jugar contigo<\/a> \u2013 leave before it\u2019s too late&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3>5. He&#8217;s not sure of your feelings<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143885 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer sonrientes se sientan a la mesa y hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En lugar de preguntarte qu\u00e9 significa que un chico muestre inter\u00e9s y luego se eche atr\u00e1s, hazte esta pregunta:<\/p>\n<p><i>Have you made it clear that you&#8217;re into him?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Not every guy is the same. Some will fight for you even if you reject them a hundred times. Others will ghost you if there is even the slightest doubt you don&#8217;t reciprocate his feelings.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tu hombre podr\u00eda ser <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-signos-le-gusta-el-rechazo-miedo\/\"><b>miedo al rechazo<\/b><\/a><b>as\u00ed que empieza <\/b><b>alej\u00e1ndose<\/b><b> to protect himself. It&#8217;s easier to abandon you than to risk getting hurt.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you feel that this guy likes you, don&#8217;t send him mixed signals. Let him know that you feel the same.<\/p>\n<p><i>Ligar un poco. Haz prolongado <\/i><i>contacto visual<\/i><i>. Compliment him. You don&#8217;t have to be direct, but there are so many other ways to <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-decirle-a-un-chico-que-te-gusta-15-formas-de-demostrarle-lo-que-sientes\/\"><i>demu\u00e9strale que te gusta<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Pretending you&#8217;re an evasive Ice Queen will only <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-formas-en-las-que-saboteas-accidentalmente-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/\">sabotear tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a>. S\u00f3lo si pasas tiempo con \u00e9l podr\u00e1s pasar al siguiente nivel.<\/p>\n<h3>6. He&#8217;s too shy to make a move<\/h3>\n<p>Aw, aren&#8217;t shy guys adorable? The way they keep their head down in your presence because they&#8217;re scared they&#8217;ll say or do the wrong thing.<\/p>\n<p>Se preocupan tanto por causar una buena impresi\u00f3n que se ponen torpes y toda la situaci\u00f3n acaba siendo un desastre.<\/p>\n<p><b>Prefieren <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-saber-si-un-hombre-se-siente-atraido-por-ti-pero-lo-oculta-10-senales\/\"><b>ocultando sus sentimientos<\/b><\/a><b> for you because they feel like they&#8217;re out of your league. They could be dying to be with you but too <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-los-hombres-tienen-miedo-de-acercarse-a-las-mujeres-6-razones-probadas\/\"><b>miedo de acercarse a ti<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>End the poor guy&#8217;s suffering. Be <\/i><i>el<\/i><i> a <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-iniciar-una-conversacion-con-un-chico-10-consejos-infalibles\/\"><i>iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n<\/i><\/a><i>. It&#8217;s the 21st century, for God&#8217;s sake!<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, a los hombres les resulta atractivo que una mujer tenga la confianza suficiente para acercarse a ellos primero, ya sea en persona o a trav\u00e9s de las redes sociales.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t listen to people that tell you: &#8221;Oh, but guys like a challenge!&#8221; I&#8217;ve been given the same advice, but I still did what felt right for ME and texted the guy I liked first.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY adivina qu\u00e9? Estaba MUY interesado.<\/p>\n<p><b>If he&#8217;s a <\/b><b>buen chico<\/b><b>estar\u00e1 encantado cuando le env\u00edes un <\/b><b>mensaje de texto<\/b><b> primero porque <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/le-gustas-a-un-timido\/\"><b>le gustas T\u00da<\/b><\/a><b> \u00a1y no el desaf\u00edo!<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>7. He thinks he&#8217;s not good enough for you<\/h3>\n<p>This guy could also be pulling away because he&#8217;s intimidated by what a high-quality woman you are. But, that&#8217;s also what attracts him to you, so he probably keeps coming back.<\/p>\n<p>If you sense that he&#8217;s got <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombres-con-baja-autoestima\/\">problemas de baja autoestima<\/a> que le impiden iniciar una relaci\u00f3n comprometida contigo, \u00a1toma cartas en el asunto!<\/p>\n<p><b>Shower him with compliments and tell him how much you respect him. Find a way to show him that he&#8217;s the <\/b><b>hombre adecuado<\/b><b> por ti y lo mucho que te gustan las peque\u00f1as cosas de \u00e9l que nadie m\u00e1s nota.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Obviamente, este tipo de chico necesita tu validaci\u00f3n, as\u00ed que una vez que la consiga, \u00a1se sentir\u00e1 atra\u00eddo por ti al instante!<\/p>\n<h3>8. He&#8217;s got other priorities right now<\/h3>\n<p>I know this one&#8217;s hard to believe, but men aren&#8217;t always ready for a committed relationship. Even if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-senales-tempranas-podrian-contagiarte\/\">he\u2019s caught feelings for you<\/a>otras cosas podr\u00edan estar impidi\u00e9ndole estar contigo.<\/p>\n<p><b>It&#8217;s not that he doesn&#8217;t take you seriously. It&#8217;s precisely because he knows he can&#8217;t be a good boyfriend to you at the moment that he starts <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-me-ignora-de-repente\/\"><b>ignor\u00e1ndote de repente<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Still, it IS slightly selfish, even though he&#8217;s probably not aware of it. If he&#8217;s got other priorities, he shouldn&#8217;t waste ANY of your time.<\/p>\n<p><i>It&#8217;s really up to you to decide whether he&#8217;s worth the wait. If you decide that he is, make sure to give him a time limit. Life is too short to spend it waiting for anyone.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>9. He doesn&#8217;t know what to say<\/h3>\n<p>Ah, another adorable reason! I just love it when a guy acts interested then backs off because he&#8217;s too awkward to start another conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que me pasa eso, \u00a1decido ayudarle! <b>After all, if there&#8217;s MUTUAL attraction, why does he need to be the only one who tries?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A m\u00ed tambi\u00e9n me incomodaba cortejar a un chico, pero cuanto m\u00e1s lo hac\u00eda, m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil me resultaba.<\/p>\n<p>Only two months ago, I would&#8217;ve told you how silly that is. But, now, it has become as natural to me as breathing.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, me aseguro de que el esfuerzo sea el mismo. Pero nunca dejo de animarle envi\u00e1ndole primero un mensaje de texto.<\/p>\n<p><i>You&#8217;d be surprised what wonders encouraging a guy does! Try it. I dare you&#8230;. I double dare you!<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>10. Necesita averiguar lo que siente por ti<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143886 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre sentado en un \u00e1rbol mirando al mar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-sitting-on-a-tree-looking-out-to-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los chicos act\u00faan distantes y luego se alejan?<\/p>\n<p><b>Well, when you start a relationship with someone, your life significantly changes. Your partner, who was nothing to you a while ago, becomes a priority. That&#8217;s a pretty <\/b><b>gran cosa<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, cuando un chico act\u00faa interesado y luego se aleja, que s\u00f3lo podr\u00eda significar que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-sabe-lo-que-quiere\/\">he doesn\u2019t know what he wants<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/necesita-espacio-7-maneras-de-decir\/\">Necesita espacio<\/a> para averiguar cu\u00e1nto le gustas y lo que eso significa para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>How mature of him, isn&#8217;t it?!<\/p>\n<p><i>I know it&#8217;s also very tiring to wait for someone to make a decision but think about it. This guy will make you his girlfriend only if he TRULY likes you.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed, cuando te elija, sabr\u00e1s que sus sentimientos son reales. \u00a1Qu\u00e9 bendici\u00f3n es, de verdad!<\/p>\n<h3>11. He\u2019s realized you&#8217;re not the one after all<\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s sad as hell, but very possible. He could&#8217;ve liked you in the early stages, but the more he talked to you, the more he realized <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-no-quiere-una-relacion-contigo\/\">he doesn\u2019t want a relationship with you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>He didn&#8217;t want to hurt your feelings by telling you directly, so he just stopped initiating conversation in the hope you&#8217;ll figure it out yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll know this is his real reason if he acts very cold whenever you talk. In that case, accept the situation as it is, and try to move on.<\/p>\n<p><i>Just because you&#8217;re not &#8216;it&#8217; for him doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re not good enough for someone else. It simply means that you two aren&#8217;t compatible.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Cr\u00e9eme, todo ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s claro cuando conozcas a alguien cuya energ\u00eda encaje a la perfecci\u00f3n con la tuya sin que ninguno de los dos tenga que esforzarse.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So, instead of despairing over him not wanting you, try meeting someone new! If you&#8217;re too uncomfortable doing it in person, check out some online dating sites.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, it&#8217;s time for you to shift your focus onto someone else.<\/p>\n<h3>12. He&#8217;s not yet ready to lose his freedom<\/h3>\n<p>Muchos hombres asocian las relaciones con la p\u00e9rdida de libertad. Ven a las mujeres como dictadoras que intentar\u00e1n controlar todos los aspectos de su vida.<\/p>\n<p><b>If your guy had a crazy ex-girlfriend, it&#8217;s no wonder he finds it hard to start a <\/b><b>relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/b><b>! He just doesn&#8217;t believe in the goodness of women anymore!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Estaba tan traumatizado por su <\/i><i>relaciones anteriores<\/i><i> that he just can\u2019t see things clearly.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Podr\u00edas ser la encarnaci\u00f3n de la amabilidad y la consideraci\u00f3n, pero su miedo a\u00fan puede impedirle perseguirte.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Pero no se preocupe. Todo lo que tiene que hacer es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/entender-a-un-hombre\/\">entenderlo<\/a> y dale espacio. De todas formas, la necesidad nunca es el camino correcto.<\/p>\n<p>When he comes back to you again, don&#8217;t be mad. It&#8217;s not that he doesn&#8217;t like you. He&#8217;s just scared.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, a man isn&#8217;t obligated to make you his priority at the beginning of a relationship anyway (and neither are you!). So, take it slow, and once you officially get together, it will be all the more satisfying!<\/p>\n<h3>13. Quiere tomarse su tiempo<\/h3>\n<p>Podr\u00eda ser un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cualidades-de-un-buen-hombre\/\">buen hombre<\/a> who&#8217;s taking his time because he doesn&#8217;t want to be involved with just ANYONE. <b>Quiere una relaci\u00f3n que le haga realmente feliz. <\/b>Hot, isn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00bfDe verdad te gustar\u00eda estar con un hombre que quiere convertirte en su novia despu\u00e9s de vuestra primera conversaci\u00f3n?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I admit, sometimes you just click with someone, and you know right away that you&#8217;re perfect for each other. But, it&#8217;s still better to get to know the person first.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you have just begun talking, don&#8217;t read too much into it when a guy acts interested then backs off.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero, si <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hes-bare-minimum-ing-you\/\"><b>he\u2019s bare minimum-ing you<\/b><\/a><b> all the time, and you&#8217;ve been waiting an eternity for him to make an actual move, don&#8217;t wait any longer.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>14. Necesita activar de nuevo su energ\u00eda masculina<\/h3>\n<p><b>Yeah, you might love your man&#8217;s sensitive side, but he probably doesn&#8217;t. Men like feeling masculine, and <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/emocionalmente-vulnerable\/\"><b>vulnerabilidad emocional<\/b><\/a><b> les hace sentirse d\u00e9biles.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Un d\u00eda estar\u00e1 encima de ti y al d\u00eda siguiente se apartar\u00e1 para volver a abrazar su masculinidad.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll probably find him playing games with his male friends or doing similar &#8216;manly&#8217; stuff, haha!<\/p>\n<p><i>Tu trabajo aqu\u00ed es mostrarle los problemas de <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/masculinidad-toxica-en-tu-hombre\/\"><i>masculinidad t\u00f3xica<\/i><\/a><i>. However, don&#8217;t overdo it. The pressure of society is real, so if he feels the need to have some time for himself, let him.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>But, of course, if he neglects you a lot, it goes without saying that he doesn&#8217;t deserve your attention at all.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Sus sentimientos por ti le asustan<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143887 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre imaginario se sienta en el despacho y mira hacia otro lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-man-sits-in-the-office-and-looks-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hablamos del amor todo el tiempo, pero experimentarlo es otra cosa.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe your guy doesn&#8217;t have much experience. Or, maybe he has dated women he didn&#8217;t have true feelings for.<\/p>\n<p><b>You\u2019ve triggered <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-desencadena-la-atraccion-emocional-en-un-hombre\/\"><b>atracci\u00f3n emocional<\/b><\/a><b> in him. He\u2019s never felt this way before, so now he\u2019s terrified.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But, don&#8217;t worry. He won&#8217;t be gone long. If you\u2019ve managed to make him fall <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-cosas-subconscientes-que-hacen-los-hombres-cuando-se-enamoran-perdidamente-de-una-mujer\/\">locamente enamorado de ti<\/a>, he&#8217;ll come back.<\/p>\n<p>Dale tiempo para que se adapte al nuevo mundo que acaba de descubrir.<\/p>\n<h2>Qu\u00e9 hacer cuando un chico se muestra interesado y luego se echa atr\u00e1s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143888 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre hablando con una mujer\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are so many reasons guys back off after being interested in you. But&#8230; how do YOU react to his actions? If you&#8217;re confused about that part, check out this dating advice:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Dale espacio<\/h3>\n<p>Puede que tu chico s\u00f3lo necesite algo de tiempo para averiguar si vuestra relaci\u00f3n va a alguna parte. <b>Al fin y al cabo, cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-distanciarse-de-alguien\/\">distanciarnos de alguien<\/a>, that&#8217;s when we realize how we really feel about them.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Questioning his feelings isn&#8217;t necessarily a bad thing. Don&#8217;t immediately jump to the worst possible conclusion. Let things be as they are.<\/p>\n<p>If he comes back, you&#8217;ll know he&#8217;s for real. And if he doesn&#8217;t, then you deserve much better than him.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Cu\u00eddate<\/h3>\n<p>Cuando un chico se muestra interesado y luego se echa atr\u00e1s, lo m\u00e1s importante que puedes hacer es centrarte en tu propia vida. D\u00e9jale con sus propios sentimientos y date el gusto de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/autocuidado-emocional\/\">actividades de autocuidado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don&#8217;t let your days go to waste just because he backed off for a while. Don&#8217;t let your happiness and <\/b><b>autoestima<\/b><b> dependen de su <\/b><b>amar la vida<\/b><b>. \u00a1Hay tantas otras cosas que hacer adem\u00e1s de esperar a que vuelva!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Take care of your mental and physical health. Find new hobbies. Hang out with your friends. Your relationship with him is just one aspect of your life, and it doesn&#8217;t deserve ALL of your attention.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Hable con \u00e9l abiertamente<\/h3>\n<p>Este es el consejo sobre relaciones m\u00e1s importante que puedo darte: <b>Si mantiene <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/soplar-caliente-y-frio-la-psicologia-detras-del-juego-de-citas\/\"><b>jugar al fr\u00edo y al calor<\/b><\/a><b> with you, then maybe it&#8217;s time you ask him what it&#8217;s all about.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Games are tiring. We all want to know where we stand. So, don&#8217;t be afraid to demand honesty from him. It&#8217;s the least he can do.<\/p>\n<p><i>You aren&#8217;t being annoying or clingy. You actually deserve to know if your relationship will grow into something more. Don&#8217;t allow him to waste your time.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>4. Corta todos los lazos con \u00e9l<\/h3>\n<p>Todos los expertos en relaciones te dir\u00e1n lo mismo. <b>If your guy hasn&#8217;t figured out what he wants, even months later, then maybe it&#8217;s time you stop waiting for him. He is obviously taking you for granted. Don&#8217;t let him.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>As much as you like him, you don&#8217;t deserve to be treated like you&#8217;re &#8216;just some woman&#8217; he talks to every now and then.<\/p>\n<p>I know you want a serious relationship, so don&#8217;t you dare settle for less!<\/p>\n<h2>Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n<p>So, yes, it&#8217;s not necessarily the end of the world when a guy acts interested then backs off. It&#8217;s not always because he doesn&#8217;t like you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><i>As we&#8217;ve seen, <\/i><i>los chicos se alejan<\/i><i> for the most surprising of reasons! It&#8217;s up to you to determine what your guy&#8217;s deal is, so you can act accordingly.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t torture yourself with questions like &#8221;Does he like me?&#8221; and &#8221;Will he come back?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m no relationship coach, but it&#8217;s best to take it slowly. <b>Good things require time and effort. You&#8217;ll appreciate it even more when you finally get what you want.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is there anything more annoying than people who play hot and cold? What does it even mean when a guy acts interested then backs off? I know it&#8217;s confusing as hell. One minute, your mind is telling you that he no longer likes you, and the next, you give yourself hope by thinking about the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":143883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-143882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/When-A-Guy-Acts-Interested-Then-Backs-Off-15-Legit-Reasons-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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