{"id":14392,"date":"2020-04-13T09:34:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T09:34:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14392"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:47:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:47:44","slug":"sobre-volver-a-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sobre-volver-a-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Cada vez que pienses en volver con \u00e9l, lee esto"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know it\u2019s hard for you to shut him out of your life, from your head, from your heart. I know you go to bed at night, all alone, fighting with your thoughts, staring at the empty, cold walls.<\/p>\n

I know that you are lonely, but that doesn\u2019t mean you have to volver a \u00e9l<\/a>. S\u00e9 que te acostumbraste a \u00e9l y a su tacto.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que estuviste cerca de \u00e9l tanto tiempo y no sabes nada m\u00e1s. S\u00e9 que crees que te da seguridad cuando en realidad te pone ansiosa.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t stop rewinding in your mind everything you\u2019ve been through, in the hope that you\u2019ll find the situation where everything went wrong.<\/p>\n

There is an eternal fight inside you because one part of you knows it\u2019s best for you to forget him and move on, but the other part is still hooked on to him.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esa peque\u00f1a parte de ti tiene miedo y te retiene. Te mantiene corriendo en c\u00edrculos y lastimarse<\/a> cada vez.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que te mueres por saber cu\u00e1ndo desapareci\u00f3 el amor. \u00bfD\u00f3nde se torci\u00f3 todo? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 todo se volvi\u00f3 tan desordenado y complicado?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Deja de acosarle. Deja de llamar a su n\u00famero y colgar el tel\u00e9fono en p\u00e1nico despu\u00e9s de darte cuenta de lo que estabas a punto de hacer.<\/p>\n

Stop looking at his profile to see where he\u2019s at and who he is with. That won\u2019t make it any easier.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te har\u00e1 sentir peor. Har\u00e1 que lo desees a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You know why you left. You left because he wasn\u2019t the same man you fell in love with. You know that, so don\u2019t go back to him.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t turn back time and relive the moments when the two of you were in love, when he cared about you, when he loved you. Those times are gone and nothing will bring them back.<\/p>\n

No es el hombre que sol\u00eda ser. Ha cambiado.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to know why or when he changed, you just have to understand that he changed and nothing will bring him back.<\/p>\n

Erase him from your memories because you\u2019re only hurting yourself. He doesn\u2019t care about you and even if you go back to him, he will hurt you again because he still won\u2019t care.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

A veces sue\u00f1as con cambiarle y hacerle ver que su comportamiento est\u00e1 mal, que se comporta como un aut\u00e9ntico imb\u00e9cil. Eso es lo que te da esperanza y te empuja a volver con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

But you have to realize that you can\u2019t change him, you can\u2019t help him. He is the only one who has the power to do that and if he doesn\u2019t want to or doesn\u2019t get that he needs help, there is no point in staying.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando estabais juntos y las cosas empezaron a cambiar, \u00bfrecuerdas c\u00f3mo te sent\u00edas? \u00bfRecuerdas que eras t\u00fa el responsable de todo lo malo que ocurr\u00eda?<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eras el que quer\u00eda trabajar en vuestra relaci\u00f3n, quer\u00edas salvar lo que quedaba de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Te esforzaste tanto por pasar por alto todas las tonter\u00edas que hab\u00eda hecho, pero de alg\u00fan modo todo te sali\u00f3 mal.<\/p>\n

Recuerdas que pasasteis momentos preciosos juntos en los que os olvidasteis de todo lo que estaba pasando.<\/p>\n

Realmente cre\u00edas que vuestra relaci\u00f3n hab\u00eda recuperado la chispa de anta\u00f1o, pensabas que s\u00f3lo hab\u00eda sido una mala racha y dabas gracias a Dios por ello porque le quer\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Bueno, esa burbuja se rompi\u00f3 en un segundo porque su comportamiento cambi\u00f3 de la nada. Se volvi\u00f3 loco sin ninguna raz\u00f3n. Cre\u00f3 peleas de la nada.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even remember how it all happened, how you found yourself in the situation where you felt like a piece of shit, unworthy of living.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo llegaste a la situaci\u00f3n en la que te estaba gritando como un loco?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo fue posible pasar de un momento de felicidad total a lo que parece una eternidad de tristeza absoluta?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Cada vez que desees volver con \u00e9l, recuerda que t\u00fa eras la persona con la que \u00e9l descargaba sus frustraciones.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que su ira y su rabia se proyectaron en ti y despu\u00e9s, \u00e9l se sent\u00eda mejor y t\u00fa te sent\u00edas como una mierda. \u00bfDe verdad quieres volver a pasar por todo eso?<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t deserve you and he never did.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Al principio, era dulce, se preocupaba por ti. Te llamaba s\u00f3lo para decirte que te quer\u00eda, pero luego todo eso desapareci\u00f3, como si alguien hubiera apagado un interruptor.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He became someone you no longer recognized. He wasn\u2019t your person anymore, he was just a person.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa quer\u00edas salir entonces, pero era como si \u00e9l supiera que estabas a punto de dejarle, as\u00ed que volv\u00eda a los buenos tiempos y se convert\u00eda en la persona de la que te enamoraste, s\u00f3lo para retenerte, para emocionalmente<\/a> chantajearte, para que te sientas demasiado culpable para dejarle.<\/p>\n

And when you decided to stay, everything would be the same, so he would stop caring, and he would ignore you and treat you like you didn\u2019t even exist.<\/p>\n

Una vez m\u00e1s te quedaste degradada y herida. Sola en una relaci\u00f3n con un hombre que se hab\u00eda convertido en un completo monstruo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que ten\u00edas miedo de seguir adelante. S\u00e9 que fue incre\u00edblemente duro para ti dejarle porque era todo lo que hab\u00edas conocido durante bastante tiempo.<\/p>\n

You doubted yourself because you thought you wouldn\u2019t it make a day without him. But you were wrong. You found that strength and you left. That was the best thing you could have ever done.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ruin it by volviendo atr\u00e1s.<\/a> There will always be hard days when you don\u2019t want to get out of bed.<\/p>\n

There will be days when you won\u2019t be able to look yourself in the mirror.<\/p>\n

There will be days when you will want to get back to him. Don\u2019t, just don\u2019t. You\u2019re better off alone.<\/p>\n

Piensa en el dolor y la miseria que te caus\u00f3 y recuerda que nada puede ser peor que eso.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go back to him because you deserve so much more than him. You\u2019re so much stronger and more beautiful when he isn\u2019t around.<\/p>\n

You shine bright when you are away from him, so please don\u2019t go back to him.<\/p>\n

You know that this has to end sometime. Let it be this time. Don\u2019t go back to him.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Cada<\/p>\n

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