{"id":14425,"date":"2020-06-13T10:31:18","date_gmt":"2020-06-13T10:31:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14425"},"modified":"2022-01-17T15:37:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T15:37:16","slug":"dio-por-sentado-que-le-importaba-mucho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dio-por-sentado-que-le-importaba-mucho\/","title":{"rendered":"Me diste por sentado porque me importaba demasiado"},"content":{"rendered":"

You thought I would stay forever. Didn\u2019t you? You thought no matter what you did or how poorly you treated me, I would always be there, hanging on, hooked on the idea of love.<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan momento, yo misma lo cre\u00ed. Pens\u00e9 que no hab\u00eda nada que pudiera alejarme de ti. Me alegro de haber demostrado que ambos est\u00e1bamos equivocados.<\/p>\n

Me culp\u00e9 durante mucho tiempo. Pensaba que te hac\u00eda infeliz. Que era demasiado necesitada, demasiado pegajosa. Que necesitaba cambiar por completo para ser digna de ti.<\/p>\n

Y no importaba lo que hiciera, siempre ten\u00edas alg\u00fan comentario sarc\u00e1stico que me dol\u00eda mucho.<\/p>\n

You would come and go as you pleased. After a fight, or for no reason at all, you would disappear. You wouldn\u2019t call, you wouldn\u2019t text, you were nowhere to be found.<\/p>\n

My face would be puffy from all the crying and I couldn\u2019t calm my nerves. And as soon as I would make peace that you were not coming back and that that was how we would end, volver\u00edas otra vez<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me mandabas mensajes como si no hubiera pasado nada, como si nos hubi\u00e9ramos visto el d\u00eda anterior y nos hubi\u00e9ramos ido de buenas maneras. Sab\u00edas que te dar\u00eda la bienvenida.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edas que estaba desesperadamente triste sin ti. Pensabas que ten\u00edas derecho a un lugar en mi vida pasara lo que pasara.<\/p>\n

Y cada vez que volv\u00edas me desviv\u00eda por hacerte feliz. Intentaba ser mejor. Trabajar en nosotros. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Para darte m\u00e1s de mi tiempo y atenci\u00f3n. Y t\u00fa hac\u00edas lo contrario. Cuanto mejor era yo, peor eras t\u00fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca tuviste tiempo para m\u00ed. Las palabras bonitas y los cumplidos se convirtieron en recuerdos lejanos.<\/p>\n

Words of kindness would reappear only when you saw that I had reached my limit and that I couldn\u2019t take it anymore.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Nunca quer\u00edas hacer nada ni ir a ning\u00fan sitio, ni siquiera cuando era importante para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

If I had a problem I couldn\u2019t come to you with it. If I had it good you would ignore me completely.<\/p>\n

Parec\u00eda casi como si mi felicidad te molestara. Nunca estabas ah\u00ed para m\u00ed, pasara lo que pasara. Nunca pude apoyarme en ti.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, nunca tuviste problemas para que te apoyara. Siempre estaba ah\u00ed para ayudarte, escucharte y animarte.<\/p>\n

I know I pulled you out of a dark place so many times. I wouldn\u2019t let you quit. I always believed in you. But you took it as the most natural thing in the world.<\/p>\n

You took all of it for granted. You never felt the urge to give anything back. You didn\u2019t feel like you had to.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Usted acaba de tomar sin siquiera considerar que yo estaba all\u00ed, que yo era digno de su atenci\u00f3n. Que Yo merec\u00eda el mismo amor<\/a> y afecto que te estaba dando.<\/p>\n

Que necesitaba que me cuidaras tanto como yo te cuidaba a ti. Nunca te diste cuenta de eso.<\/p>\n

I guess in a way it\u2019s my fault, though now I am at the point where I don\u2019t blame myself for anything. <\/em><\/p>\n

Pero mi mayor error fue que me preocup\u00e9 demasiado, Am\u00e9 demasiado<\/a> y le di demasiado a alguien indigno de todo eso. <\/em><\/p>\n

A alguien que pensaba que porque alguien se preocupara tanto por \u00e9l ten\u00eda derecho a tratarlo como basura.<\/em><\/p>\n

I know that time changes people, I just couldn\u2019t imagine for the life of me that it would change you so negatively.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You transformed from the perfect boyfriend to a mere shadow of yourself and you became somebody completely different. It\u2019s funny how people you care so much about end up being the ones who hurt you the most.<\/p>\n

Supongo que el dolor es mayor por ello.<\/p>\n

Por suerte, en alg\u00fan momento, me di cuenta de que estaba sola incluso cuando estaba contigo. Que estaba triste cuando estaba contigo. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Que ya no sab\u00eda c\u00f3mo era la felicidad gracias a ti. Que aquellos d\u00edas felices que compartimos formaban parte de la historia antigua.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

I realized that my heart doesn\u2019t have a switch. That I can\u2019t simply turn it on and off as you come and go from my life. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t allow it anymore. So I decided that the next time you left there would be no going back.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And I am sticking to it. Now that I look back I can\u2019t believe I allowed myself to go through all of that with you.<\/p>\n

Que te permit\u00ed tratarme como si fuera alguien completamente irrelevante. Ahora me quieres de vuelta. Pero ya no hay vuelta atr\u00e1s<\/a>.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que si te diera otra oportunidad la desperdiciar\u00edas. Siempre lo hiciste.<\/p>\n

People like you don\u2019t change for the better. But people like me, on the other hand, do. They care too much so they hurt too much as well.<\/p>\n

Pero se curan. Aprenden de las malas experiencias y de las malas relaciones. Se vuelven m\u00e1s inteligentes. Se vuelven m\u00e1s felices por s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

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