{"id":144484,"date":"2022-02-14T20:07:04","date_gmt":"2022-02-14T20:07:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=144484"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:48:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:48:31","slug":"debo-enviar-un-mensaje-de-texto-a-mi-ex-feliz-cumpleanos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/debo-enviar-un-mensaje-de-texto-a-mi-ex-feliz-cumpleanos\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfDebo felicitar a mi ex por su cumplea\u00f1os? 9 preguntas que debes hacerte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Your ex’s birthday is soon, and one thought keeps occupying your mind: \u201cDeber\u00eda <\/i>Le mando un mensaje a mi ex<\/i> feliz cumplea\u00f1os<\/i><\/a>\u2026??.\u201d <\/i>Y, cr\u00e9eme, s\u00e9 lo abrumadores que pueden ser esos pensamientos.<\/b><\/p>\n

I had the same dilemma once, and last week, my best friend was in the same situation. To be honest, I’m not a relationship expert, but I gave her some advice from my own experience, and it did help her make the best decision.<\/p>\n

Of course, our stories aren’t the same, and my intention isn’t to make you or prevent you from sending that text message. I’m only here to help you navigate through your decision-making process.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDebo felicitar a mi ex por su cumplea\u00f1os? 9 preguntas que debes hacerte<\/h2>\n

I know that many of you are wondering, \u201cShould I wish my ex a happy birthday or not?\u201d right now, and, unfortunately, I can\u2019t give you a direct answer here. After all, it’s your call. <\/b>Sin embargo, te preparar\u00e9 para que tomes la decisi\u00f3n CORRECTA.<\/p>\n

Before you type the bday text message and send it to your ex, ask yourself the following questions, and I’m sure you won’t do anything you may regret later.<\/p>\n

1. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 quieres felicitar a tu ex?<\/h3>\n

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\u00bfCu\u00e1l es la verdadera raz\u00f3n por la que quieres enviarles un mensaje de feliz cumplea\u00f1os? \u00bfEs porque sinceramente quieres desearles un feliz a\u00f1o o tienes otros motivos ocultos?<\/p>\n

Si cree que su texto puede <\/i>haz que te echen de menos<\/i><\/a> or that it’ll bring you two back together, that is one of the worst <\/i>signos que<\/i>‘re still deeply in love with them and that you desperately want to <\/i>consigue tu <\/i>ex vuelta<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, tienes todo el derecho a luchar por la persona que amas, pero esta no es la forma de hacerlo.<\/b><\/p>\n

2. \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo rompisteis?<\/h3>\n

Si su ruptura <\/i>era<\/i>‘t long ago, and you haven’t heard from each other since then, sending them a <\/i>texto de feliz cumplea\u00f1os<\/i> s\u00f3lo puede complicar m\u00e1s las cosas.<\/i><\/p>\n

El objetivo de <\/b>la regla del no contacto<\/b><\/a> es que <\/b>deber\u00eda<\/b>‘t text, call, or see each other for some time, no matter what. <\/b>\u200b<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if there’s a good chance you’ll reconcile, you should wish them a happy birthday. Recordando sus <\/i>d\u00eda especial<\/i> les demostrar\u00e1 que a\u00fan te importan de verdad y puede acelerar el proceso de reconciliaci\u00f3n.<\/i><\/p>\n

3. \u00bfC\u00f3mo termin\u00f3 su relaci\u00f3n?<\/h3>\n

\u00bfEs usted amigo de tu ex-novia\/novio<\/a>? \u00bfHa tenido una mala ruptura<\/a> or decide to split in a ‘civil’ way?<\/p>\n

Well, if your relationship wasn’t healthy, if you weren’t happy together and ended things in a very bad way, then why would you want to send them that text in the first place? It’s really unnecessary and won’t do either of you any good.<\/b><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, si fueras <\/i>el <\/i>volquete<\/i><\/a>, I <\/i>ser\u00eda<\/i>‘t advise wishing your ex a <\/i>feliz cumplea\u00f1os<\/i> porque puede que a\u00fan te guarden rencor.<\/i><\/p>\n

4. \u00bfSigue en vigor el periodo de no contacto?<\/h3>\n

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Si you’ve blocked your ex on social media<\/a> or vice versa after the breakup and haven\u2019t unblocked them, it means that the no contact period is still on.<\/p>\n

I know it’s their <\/b>d\u00eda especial<\/b> y que te doler\u00eda no desearles un <\/b>feliz cumplea\u00f1os<\/b>pero debes respetar <\/b>normas de no contacto<\/b><\/a> hasta el final.<\/b><\/p>\n

Then again, if you think that it’s time to break the silence, that both of you are ready to have a friendly talk, you can unblock them and send them a <\/i>feliz cumplea\u00f1os<\/i> texto. <\/i>Aun as\u00ed, que el texto sea breve y sencillo. Que sea un simple mensaje de cumplea\u00f1os para un amigo.<\/p>\n

5. \u00bfSigues sintiendo algo por ellos?<\/h3>\n

\u00bfY tus sentimientos hacia tu ex novio\/a? \u00bfSigues teniendo sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos hacia ellos o simplemente les respetas y aprecias por lo que tuvisteis una vez?<\/b><\/p>\n

Si todav\u00eda les quieres, entonces env\u00edales un <\/i>texto de feliz cumplea\u00f1os<\/i> s\u00f3lo puede herir tus sentimientos.<\/i> En realidad, su respuesta puede perjudicarte.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, si quieres desearles todo lo mejor en sus <\/i>d\u00eda especial<\/i> because you still care for them as a friend, it’s completely okay to send them that <\/i>feliz cumplea\u00f1os<\/i> mensaje.<\/i><\/p>\n

6. \u00bfQuieres recuperar a tu ex?<\/h3>\n

If your answer is yes, don’t think I’m going to judge you. However, do you really believe that a simple happy birthday text is enough to get your ex back?<\/p>\n

Si de verdad crees que es la forma correcta de hacer que te echen de menos y que vuelvan, qui\u00e9n <\/i>soy yo<\/i> to stop you? However, if you want my sincere opinion, it’s a terribly <\/i>mala idea<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ten siempre presente que hay una buena raz\u00f3n para que tu relaci\u00f3n <\/b>podr\u00eda<\/b>‘t succeed the <\/b>primera vez<\/b>. <\/b>\u00bfRealmente merece la pena darle una segunda oportunidad? \u00bfCree que las cosas podr\u00edan ser diferentes esta vez?<\/p>\n

7. \u00bfEs esta tu manera de encontrar un cierre?<\/h3>\n

Si es as\u00ed, entonces saludo completamente sus intenciones. Si les env\u00eda un <\/i>texto de feliz cumplea\u00f1os<\/i> te ayudar\u00e1 <\/i>encontrar el cierre<\/i><\/a> you need, then do it and don’t even think about whether you’ll get a response or not.<\/i><\/p>\n

However, don’t forget what your intentions were, and don’t get your hopes up if you receive a response you weren’t hoping for.<\/p>\n

8. \u00bfTe gustar\u00eda que te desearan un feliz cumplea\u00f1os?<\/h3>\n

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If things were the other way around, would you want them to send you a happy bday text, or even a merry Christmas, happy new year, or happy Valentine’s day text message? \u00bfSu mensaje te har\u00eda sentir feliz, o s\u00f3lo complicar\u00eda m\u00e1s las cosas?<\/b><\/p>\n

You probably wouldn’t like to receive a text from your ex after you’ve finally managed to move on. It\u2019s the same thing for your ex… your <\/i>mensaje de texto<\/i> may make them happy, but it may also push them a step backward after they’ve finally started moving forward.<\/i><\/p>\n

9. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 te lo est\u00e1s replanteando?<\/h3>\n

You didn’t just type in your message and send it to your ex. You’re reconsidering it, weighing the pros and cons, and thinking about all the possible consequences.<\/i><\/p>\n

And I know why that is… Se trata de un <\/b>gran cosa<\/b> for you, and you simply want to do what’s best for both of you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even though you probably don’t want to admit it, you still have some romantic feelings for your ex-boyfriend\/girlfriend. You don’t know what this message may bring you, and the truth is, you’re so afraid of it, of the unknown.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDebes felicitar a tu ex por SMS? Pros y contras<\/h2>\n

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Here’s a list of pros and cons when it comes to sending your ex a happy bday text. Espero que esto te haga reconsiderar lo de darle al bot\u00f3n de enviar y te ayude a tomar la mejor decisi\u00f3n posible.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ventajas de enviar un mensaje de cumplea\u00f1os a tu ex<\/b><\/h3>\n

Tal vez <\/b>they’ve already moved on <\/b><\/a>y comenz\u00f3 un <\/b>nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/b> con otra persona.<\/b> En ese caso, ese texto s\u00f3lo os traer\u00eda recuerdos del pasado a los dos y os recordar\u00eda viejas heridas que deben quedarse en el pasado.<\/p>\n