{"id":14459,"date":"2020-05-14T08:52:08","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T08:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14459"},"modified":"2022-01-30T21:32:06","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T21:32:06","slug":"7-razones-por-las-que-nunca-persigues-a-un-chico-aunque-lo-desees-mucho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-nunca-persigues-a-un-chico-aunque-lo-desees-mucho\/","title":{"rendered":"7 razones por las que nunca debes perseguir a un chico (aunque lo desees fervientemente)"},"content":{"rendered":"

The usual conclusion to come to when a guy doesn\u2019t chase you is that no est\u00e1 interesado en ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And believe me, in most cases, this is more than true. I know that you\u2019ve probably had enough of rejection and disappointment and you don\u2019t even want to chase someone because a part of you thinks that you are going to get turned down.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you just give up and you know what, you\u2019re right! I\u2019m not a feminist and I\u2019m not saying that you have to lie down and do absolutely nothing.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just saying that you should save any dignity you\u2019ve got left and wait for the right man to come to you.<\/p>\n

Espera a quien sea digno de ti. Espera al que realmente te quiera por ti, alguien a quien le importes.<\/p>\n

Si de verdad le importa y le interesa, encontrar\u00e1 la manera de conseguir tu atenci\u00f3n<\/a> and one day you\u2019re going to be happy that you did nothing to initiate the chase.<\/p>\n

Siga leyendo para saber por qu\u00e9 deber\u00eda nunca persigas a un chico<\/a> pero deja que te persiga<\/a> en su lugar:<\/p>\n

1. Te quita mucho tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

So first of all, if he likes you then he has to be sure he does. He can\u2019t like you one moment and the next be indecisive. So chasing him is out of the question.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let anyone play hard to get because you deserve someone who can\u2019t wait to be in your presence, someone who will want to spend his free time with you.<\/p>\n

2. Da\u00f1a tu autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you chase a man who isn\u2019t interested in you, it can really hurt your self-esteem.<\/p>\n

I know that it doesn\u2019t seem like a big deal, but if you really like a guy, getting rejected and hurt is a big deal.<\/p>\n

Chasing someone who doesn\u2019t care makes you feel like you are worthless and you don\u2019t deserve his attention. Well, that\u2019s just not true. You deserve better than that.<\/p>\n

3. He doesn\u2019t want to be caught<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

OK, so if you have to chase a man, that usually means that he doesn\u2019t want to get caught because he probably has commitment issues and you don\u2019t want to get in the middle of that. That kind of relationship will only hurt you and nothing less.<\/p>\n

He will give you attention at the beginning, but as your relationship becomes more serious, he will get more distant because he doesn\u2019t want to be tied down. And yet again, you don\u2019t need a man who needs to be chased.<\/p>\n

4. No es \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Si tienes que perseguirle, no es para ti. Deber\u00eda ser al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Love shouldn\u2019t be that complicated. Love should be simple, between two people who met and instantly fell in love.<\/p>\n

There shouldn\u2019t be any toying with emotions or playing games with one another, it should just be simple.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si te pillas persiguiendo a alguien, tienes que preguntarte si realmente le importas lo suficiente cuando hace que le persigas,<\/p>\n

5. Te olvidas de tus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La persecuci\u00f3n ocupa mucho de tu tiempo y empiezas a obsesionarte con ese chico. Te consume y puede ocupar todo tu tiempo.<\/p>\n

So, it\u2019s not unusual that in that process you forget about your friends\u2014you start to ignore them because all your attention is revolved around why you can\u2019t catch him and what\u2019s going on inside his head.<\/p>\n

Well, no one is more important than your friends and family and you should never neglect them, especially not for someone who probably doesn\u2019t care that much about you.<\/p>\n

6. Tal vez s\u00f3lo quiere sexo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

So, there is a possibility of getting the man you chased but only because he wanted you to chase him\u2014and why? Probably s\u00f3lo para tener sexo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Because, let\u2019s face it, men who don\u2019t want to be chased are not the men who want to commit to others, so it\u2019s only logical that when they decide to be caught, they do it only to get one thing. When it becomes boring, they leave.<\/p>\n

7. You\u2019re doomed to a one-sided love<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Como ya he dicho, aunque lo atrapes, no vas a estar contento.<\/p>\n

It will probably be a relationship in which you are going to try to solve all the problems and always be the one to blame when something doesn\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa vas a ser la que ame y \u00e9l va a ser el que est\u00e9 en ello porque no tiene nada mejor que hacer.<\/p>\n

Do you really want to chase men and risk your heart getting broken? I don\u2019t think you do.<\/p>\n

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