{"id":144701,"date":"2022-02-18T14:36:12","date_gmt":"2022-02-18T14:36:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=144701"},"modified":"2022-03-09T08:32:18","modified_gmt":"2022-03-09T08:32:18","slug":"carta-al-novio-expresando-sentimientos-heridos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-al-novio-expresando-sentimientos-heridos\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta abierta a tu novio expresando tus sentimientos de dolor"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfHay algo peor que un coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a>? Y lo triste es que nunca lo ves venir.<\/p>\n

Piensas que la persona que tienes delante siempre te dar\u00e1 la el amor que mereces<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

After all, they’re YOUR person. You don’t doubt them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And then, all of a sudden, they turn into a stranger who mercilessly tears you apart. You barely know what to do. You stand frozen… and all alone.<\/p>\n

But, it’s okay to be lost. It’s okay to have problemas de pareja<\/a>, too. Their actions can never be justified, but I do hope you know that it’s not necessarily the end…<\/em><\/p>\n

Si te sientes mal, desah\u00f3gate. Escribe una carta a tu novio expresando tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

If you’re doing it for the sake of your mental health, that’s fine. If you talk because you want to fix your problems, that’s also fine.<\/p>\n

Whatever you feel is valid. But, if you’re not quite sure how to start expressing your feelings, take a look at the open letter below.<\/p>\n

Una carta a tu novio expresando tus sentimientos de dolor<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Mi amada,<\/p>\n

Where do I even begin? What I feel inside is too overwhelming for words, but I still believe they’re necessary.<\/p>\n

If I don’t tell you how I feel, we’ll never move past this, and we’ll just keep falling apart… silently… surely…<\/p>\n

Me hiciste da\u00f1o. T\u00fa me rompi\u00f3 en pedazos<\/a>. No por lo que hiciste sino porque fuiste TU quien lo hizo.<\/strong> Nunca esper\u00e9 que fueras t\u00fa quien me tratara as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edas que yo estaba mal, y aun as\u00ed me dijiste cosas tan horribles, cosas que podr\u00edan asustarme para siempre. Esa fue la primera vez que quise romper contigo.<\/p>\n

Tus palabras siguen resonando en mi cabeza, destruy\u00e9ndome<\/a> una y otra vez. Quer\u00eda anteponer mi salud mental y sacarte de mi vida.<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9: ”How will I ever take care of myself properly when I have someone like this in my life? How will I ever become a better person if he keeps reminding me of everything I did wrong?”<\/em><\/p>\n

I know what I’m guilty of. I’m not afraid to asumir la responsabilidad<\/a> for my actions. But, aren’t we all guilty? Does that mean I am less deserving of love?<\/p>\n

That’s all I really wanted \u2013 for you to love me, for you to hug me tightly when my world was falling apart. Instead, you were the one to make it fall apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But that’s not all… From that moment, Me sent\u00ed abandonado<\/a> y sola en el mundo. Pens\u00e9 que eras la \u00fanica persona que me entend\u00eda, la uno que pudiera sacarme de la oscuridad<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I didn’t think you’d ever judge me for having a hard time, nor that you would make me perder mi autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00a1Sabes cu\u00e1nto lo he intentado! Sabes que combatir la depresi\u00f3n<\/a> hasn’t been easy for me, yet you weren\u2019t there for me<\/a>. You just threw your accusations around when all I wanted was for you to tell me that it’ll be okay.<\/p>\n

You made me a promise. You told me you would always support me no matter what I was going through. Why couldn’t you honor those words?<\/em><\/p>\n

I tried to pretend that I was okay, that you didn’t hurt my feelings. But, when we talked the next morning, I knew that wouldn’t be so easy.<\/p>\n

Incluso dud\u00e9 de ti por un momento. Me dije a m\u00ed mismo: ”He’s not the love of my life. If he were, he wouldn’t treat me this way.”<\/em><\/p>\n

But, the next moment, it all became clear \u2013 Sab\u00eda que ten\u00eda que decir todo lo que me ha estado agobiando.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I’m not writing you this letter to blame you for what you did. I just want you to know how much me haces da\u00f1o<\/a> because if I don’t let it out, it’ll ruin our relationship forever.<\/p>\n

And, I don’t want that. I still think of you as mi alma gemela<\/a>, the one I’m supposed to be with the rest of my life.<\/p>\n

Do you feel that way, too? Don\u2019t you think we deserve a segunda oportunidad<\/a>? \u00bfCrees que ser\u00e1s m\u00e1s amable conmigo la pr\u00f3xima vez?<\/em><\/p>\n

I know things haven’t been perfect lately, but have you really forgotten all the good times?<\/p>\n

\u00bfHas olvidado los a\u00f1os que pasamos haci\u00e9ndonos re\u00edr y t\u00fa loving me when I\u2019m at my most unlovable<\/a>?<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve always had gran qu\u00edmica<\/a>Y s\u00e9 que parece una tonter\u00eda, pero en cuanto te vi, supe que te querr\u00eda para siempre.<\/p>\n

Y aqu\u00ed estoy, a\u00f1os despu\u00e9s, y nada ha cambiado.<\/p>\n

Yet… Te echo de menos<\/a>. It’s only been one fight, but it tore me apart. It’s like we created a space between us, but neither of us has the guts to admit it even exists, let alone cross it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s why I made this decision… writing a love letter to boyfriend expressing hurt feelings and heartbreak. After all, I\u2019ve always been a mujer que lleva el coraz\u00f3n en la manga<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Creo que podemos solucionarlo. Lo \u00faltimo que quiero es perderte.<\/p>\n

For God’s sake, I’ve never loved anyone the way Te quiero<\/a>. And, I know you love me, too. We can solve any problem that comes between us because it’s not stronger than our bond.<\/p>\n

I’ve never been very good at letting go. I’m someone who remembers every single bad thing anyone has ever done to me. But, this is you…<\/em><\/p>\n

You’re the one person I would forgive anything, the one person I could look at only with loving eyes. You’re my one true love.<\/p>\n

But, I know I have hurt you, too. In a moment of rage, I’ve said things I’m not proud of. Maybe you started the fight, but that’s still no excuse. We are both to blame.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCrees que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n podr\u00edas perdonarme? \u00bfCrees que podemos dejar esto atr\u00e1s?<\/strong><\/p>\n

After all, we are only human beings. We can’t be flawless. Making mistakes is what we do. Otherwise, how can we learn?<\/p>\n

I believe that these trials and tribulations are necessary. I believe they’ll make our connection even stronger. I just believe… in us.<\/p>\n

I can’t lose my best friend in the whole world. Who would I share my silly thoughts with then? Who else would understand my weird sense of humor?<\/em><\/p>\n

Please… can we go back to how we used to be? It’s only been a few days, but it feels like an eternity.<\/p>\n

I kept trying to tell you how I felt. I would sit down, start typing a message, and then thoughts would creep in… ”Oh, come on, he hurt you. He should be the one to apologize,”<\/em> o ”Oh my God, you sound so desperate!”<\/em><\/p>\n

But, here I am! Why? Because I don’t see this as desperation. I see it as fighting for the hombre que amo<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don’t care that you haven’t said anything yet. I get it. I know it’s hard for you to be emocionalmente vulnerable<\/a>. It’s been hard for me, too.<\/p>\n

But, I had a moment of clarity last night \u2013 alguien tiene que dar el primer paso.<\/strong> I don’t mind that being me because this isn’t about that at all. This is about keeping our relationship alive.<\/p>\n

This may be a letter to boyfriend expressing hurt feelings, but I also want to say that I’m sorry.<\/p>\n

De verdad, ni mil disculpas podr\u00edan expresar lo mal que me siento.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t my intention to make you feel unworthy. And I know your intentions weren’t bad either.<\/p>\n

We may have said things we didn’t mean, but let’s not ruin the beautiful thing we have over a bad day.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We’ll just make sure to treat each other with love and respect in the future. But, we can’t do that unless we talk about the past.<\/p>\n

Hell, why don’t we recreate that evening, erase it from our memories entirely?<\/p>\n

I’ll talk about my troubles, and you won’t try to encourage me.<\/em><\/p>\n

You’ll just take me by the hand and carefully listen to what I have to say. No judgment. No words at all, for that matter.<\/em><\/p>\n

Just a soft, empathetic look and a gentle smile that says, ”I’m always here for you.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Do you think we can do that? Do you feel the same way I do? As hurt as I am, you\u2019re a man I don\u2019t want to let go of<\/a>. Creo que nuestro amor es tan fuerte que puede resistir cualquier tormenta.<\/p>\n

People say that love isn’t enough, but they’re wrong.<\/p>\n

It’s love that\u2019s kept us together all these years. It’s love that made me write esta carta abierta<\/a>. It’s a million little things that always make me find my way back to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We may have lost our way, but we won’t be lost forever. Todav\u00eda tienes mi coraz\u00f3n<\/a>, even though it’s been bruised.<\/p>\n

Besides, bruises heal. We can heal it… with our love.<\/em><\/p>\n

Entonces, querida, \u00bfqu\u00e9 dices? \u00bfSeguimos siendo t\u00fa y yo? \u00bfNos perdonamos? \u00bfNos amaremos a\u00fan m\u00e1s ferozmente en el nuevo a\u00f1o que viene?<\/p>\n

Si su respuesta es afirmativa, ya sabe d\u00f3nde encontrarme.<\/p>\n

Atentamente,<\/p>\n

Tu ni\u00f1a<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo escribir una carta al novio expresando sentimientos heridos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve reached your punto de ruptura<\/a> y quieres escribir tu propia carta a tu novio, intenta responder primero a las siguientes preguntas:<\/p>\n

\u2022 In what way did your boyfriend hurt you?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 How did you want him to treat you?<\/p>\n

\u2022 How does it all make you feel?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Do you think your relationship is worth saving?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 If yes, what can you do to fix your problems.<\/p>\n

Como tienes intenci\u00f3n de escribir una carta a tu novio expresando tus sentimientos heridos, quiz\u00e1 sea mejor que respondas a estas preguntas en papel.<\/p>\n

Piensa detenidamente en cada una de ellas. Y luego, deja que tus emociones hagan el resto.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, escribir\u00e1s la mejor carta cuando te dejes abrumar por lo que sientes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Espero que esta carta al novio expresando sentimientos heridos te ayude a crear la tuya propia.<\/p>\n

Nobody should bottle up their grief. You deserve to be heard, and it’s always best to talk directly to the person who hurt you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I believe you can fix things. But, even if it all goes wrong, you will know you have tried, and you won’t look back with regret wishing you did more.<\/p>\n

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