{"id":14642,"date":"2020-04-29T08:30:16","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T08:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14642"},"modified":"2022-02-28T12:52:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T12:52:41","slug":"amante-infiel-rompe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amante-infiel-rompe\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como te rompe amar a un infiel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-puedo-evitar-amar-al-toxico-tu\/\">Amar a un infiel<\/a> es ese tipo de amor que nos agota. Ese tipo de amor que nos deja rotos, vac\u00edos y exhaustos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You never enter a relationship expecting for someone to be a cheater, you never give your trust to someone if you know it\u2019ll be played.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca dejas entrar a alguien si sabes que te dar\u00e1 por sentado.<\/p>\n<p>And even with all of the signs screaming in your face that he is not who you thought he was, you still hold on to hope that maybe it\u2019s all in your head.<\/p>\n<p>Que tal vez si te esfuerzas m\u00e1s y le quieres con m\u00e1s fuerza, cambiar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s what wrecks us. Our love, our crazy fire that burns us back, our silly heart that still believes, even when it gets broken over and over again.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77552 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-in-black-shirt-covering-her-face-e1590604144769.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camisa negra tapandose la cara\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what loving a cheater does to us. <strong>He makes you feel like you\u2019re not enough<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Sientes que todas las dem\u00e1s mujeres son m\u00e1s guapas que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>Every other woman has his attention, while you fight just for a second of it. You start doubting yourself, wondering if maybe it\u2019s you.<\/p>\n<p>If maybe it\u2019s something you did or the way you are.<\/p>\n<p>Empiezas a preguntarte c\u00f3mo cambiar para que te ame, mientras \u00e9l no hace nada para imped\u00edrtelo. Mientras \u00e9l no hace nada para demostrarte su amor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te hace luchar por su amor.<\/strong> Sientes que si dejas de intentarlo se ir\u00e1, as\u00ed que sigues luchando y luchando hasta que te quedas sin fuerzas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77549 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/photo-of-crying-eye-e1590604093401.jpg\" alt=\"foto de ojo lloroso\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Sigues dando partes de ti s\u00f3lo para hacerle feliz, hasta que te pierdes por completo. Pero el caso es que \u00e9l se quiere a s\u00ed mismo m\u00e1s que a nadie.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre se antepondr\u00e1 a s\u00ed mismo, siempre antepondr\u00e1 sus deseos a tus necesidades.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sus juegos te har\u00e1n temer volver a confiar en alguien.<\/strong> Su traici\u00f3n a tu amor, a la historia que compart\u00eds, es s\u00f3lo porque necesita m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo porque sea incapaz de amar y de conformarse, te romper\u00e1. Y sus acciones dejar\u00e1n cicatrices en tu tierno coraz\u00f3n, el coraz\u00f3n que esconder\u00e1s del mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1n la causa de todos los <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/la-verdad-tras-los-muros-emocionales-construidos\/\">muros que construyes<\/a>porque tienes miedo de que te vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>Te encerrar\u00e1s en ti mismo, porque est\u00e1s harto de que te descuiden, harto de dar y no recibir m\u00e1s que dolor a cambio.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77550 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-touching-her-hair-e1590604109304.jpg\" alt=\"chica triste toc\u00e1ndose el pelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>He will make you feel like you\u2019re the unlovable one.<\/strong> You will believe that it was you, that you could\u2019ve done things differently.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you could\u2019ve worn your hair like that girl at the bar and bought a dress like that girl at the restaurant.<\/p>\n<p>Perdi\u00e9ndote en compararte con otras mujeres, tratando de encajar en el molde de perfecci\u00f3n que \u00e9l tiene. Pero cari\u00f1o, t\u00fa ya eres perfecta.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not you who is the unlovable one, it\u2019s him who is incapable of loving.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Seguir\u00e1 haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o una y otra vez, mientras le quieras.<\/strong> Every single time you look away, it\u2019ll break you.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you wake up alone in bed, it\u2019ll shatter your hopes into thousands of tiny pieces.<\/p>\n<p>Y cada una de esas piezas te atravesar\u00e1, hiri\u00e9ndote y haci\u00e9ndote sangrar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77551 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-holding-phone-while-leaning-on-sofa-e1590604128547.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sosteniendo el tel\u00e9fono mientras se apoya en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Mientras sigas con \u00e9l, te romper\u00e1. E incluso si se disculpa, <a href=\"http:\/\/madamenoire.com\/478466\/never-going-to-change\/\" rel=\"noopener\">nunca cambiar\u00e1<\/a>. Aunque se ofrezca a compensarte, nunca lo har\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Porque, \u00bfhay alguna forma de compensar el haber roto a alguien? \u00bfHay alguna forma de compensar el haber destruido a alguien?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor plantar en ellos una semilla de miedo, por hacerles construir muros s\u00f3lo para mantenerlos a salvo?<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te amar\u00e1 como mereces ser amada.<\/p>\n<p>He will never care for you the way you cared for him. And he will never treat you the way you\u2019re meant to be treated.<\/p>\n<p>He is capable of only giving you pain, over and over again, until you decide it\u2019s enough. Until you put yourself first and walk away for good.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-77547 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/This-Is-How-Loving-A-Cheater-Breaks-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"As\u00ed es como te rompe amar a un infiel\" width=\"784\" height=\"1176\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/This-Is-How-Loving-A-Cheater-Breaks-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/This-Is-How-Loving-A-Cheater-Breaks-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/This-Is-How-Loving-A-Cheater-Breaks-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/This-Is-How-Loving-A-Cheater-Breaks-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 784px) 100vw, 784px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Loving a cheater is that kind of love that drains us. That kind of love that leaves us broken, empty and exhausted. You never enter a relationship expecting for someone to be a cheater, you never give your trust to someone if you know it\u2019ll be played. You never let someone in if you know&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":77546,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14642","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/This-Is-How-Loving-A-Cheater-Breaks-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14642","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14642"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14642\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77546"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14642"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14642"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14642"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}