{"id":146587,"date":"2022-03-03T16:04:38","date_gmt":"2022-03-03T16:04:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=146587"},"modified":"2022-07-31T23:35:48","modified_gmt":"2022-07-31T23:35:48","slug":"nos-amamos-pero-no-podemos-estar-juntos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nos-amamos-pero-no-podemos-estar-juntos\/","title":{"rendered":"Nos queremos pero no podemos estar juntos: Qu\u00e9 hacer"},"content":{"rendered":"

‘We love each other but can’t be together’… Yes, there are two sides of love, and this is the not-so-pretty one. El amor prohibido, casi imposible<\/a> puede hacer m\u00e1s da\u00f1o a una persona.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s when your heart is filled with love for some person, but at the same time, you’re pasando por el desamor m\u00e1s doloroso<\/a>.<\/strong> You love them, but you know you shouldn’t, and it’s killing you inside.<\/p>\n

Indeed, our heart has that awful habit of ignoring our mind a little too often. It’s just that no matter how hard you try and no matter how much you want it, you just can’t control it.<\/p>\n

You can’t control your romantic emotions nor do you have the power to delete someone from your heart.<\/em> Sin embargo, debe saber que no importa la situaci\u00f3n, amor verdadero<\/a> is always worth the fight. And, I’m here to help you come out from that battle as a winner.<\/p>\n

We Love Each Other But Can’t Be Together: 8 Possible Reasons, With Relationship Advice<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

There are various reasons why two people in love can’t be together. I’ve selected the most common ones and provided them with some efficient relationship advice.<\/p>\n

Ya conoces el dicho, la procrastinaci\u00f3n trae p\u00e9rdidas<\/em>… So, let’s find a way to build a bridge between you and your loved one, and make things between you work.<\/p>\n

1. We love each other but can’t be together because of distance.<\/h3>\n

I know… being in una relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/a> chupa. Cuando \u00e9ramos novios, mi marido tuvo que mudarse lejos por su trabajo, y te juro que fue el a\u00f1o m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de mi vida.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, nunca consideramos la ruptura como una opci\u00f3n.<\/strong> We made a promise to each other that we’ll stay together no matter what, and that no distance will be able to separate us.<\/p>\n

To make a long story short, we endured it all, and now, four years later, we’re happily married. Your love story can have the same ending, but only if you make efforts to hacer que tu relaci\u00f3n a distancia funcione.<\/a><\/p>\n

- La comprensi\u00f3n y la comunicaci\u00f3n regular son el arma m\u00e1s poderosa contra la distancia<\/strong><\/p>\n

You should simply behave like you’re in a ‘normal’ relationship. Mant\u00e9nganse en contacto regularmente, hablen y hablen por tel\u00e9fono todos los d\u00edas, hablen de sus d\u00edas, planifiquen sus vacaciones juntos, encuentren una manera de mantener el contacto. la intimidad<\/a> alive whether it’s through sexting or whatever<\/em>…<\/p>\n

Ten paciencia<\/a> y comprensi\u00f3n por encima de todo. Ten en cuenta que la distancia no significa nada cuando dos personas se quieren de verdad y quieren permanecer juntas pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

2. We love each other but can’t be together because of different faiths.<\/h3>\n

I always try to comfort myself that our society has overcome these faith-related issues, but unfortunately, that’s not true. These things still exist and many couples decide to break up because of sus diferentes religiones<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Please don’t become one of those couples. God loves us all, and in His eyes, we’re all the same<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

- Todo empieza y termina con el respeto y la aceptaci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can always agree to disagree about some things; however, you shouldn’t falta de respeto<\/a> or completely refuse your partner’s values and beliefs. If they’re important to them, such things must be important to you, too.<\/p>\n

In the end, different holidays come with different faiths. That means you’ll have more reason for celebrations and more reasons to be happy and surrounded by people you love.<\/em><\/p>\n

3. We love each other but can’t be together because we’re committed to other people.<\/h3>\n

You’re deeply in love with each other, but are one or both of you married? The fact is, these things happen every day, and that’s exactly the reason why divorce exists.<\/p>\n

However, don’t engage in any kind of relationship while you don’t end your marriage. Estar en una relaci\u00f3n con un hombre casado<\/a>\/woman is terribly difficult and almost never ends in a good way… trust me, I know it best.<\/p>\n

- Ambos tienen que elegir un bando<\/strong><\/p>\n

En ese proceso de toma de decisiones, debe preguntarse una cosa y ser brutalmente sincero con la respuesta. Are you truly in love with each other or do you think it’s just passion or infatuation?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esto podr\u00eda ayudarte con la respuesta; 10 diferencias cruciales entre el amor y el enamoramiento.<\/a><\/p>\n

If you have any doubts regarding the strength of your love, you might make a huge mistake by leaving your partner… a mistake that will haunt you for the rest of your life.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, if you’re sure of what you feel for each other, then it’s unfair to lie to your life partner. You need to find the strength to deja tu matrimonio<\/a> y permanezc\u00e1is unos junto a otros aunque el mundo entero se ponga en vuestra contra.<\/p>\n

4. We love each other but can’t be together because we keep hurting each other.<\/h3>\n

\"atractiva<\/p>\n

Gaslighting,<\/a> abuso emocional<\/a>falta de comprensi\u00f3n y respeto, manipulaci\u00f3n, jealousy…<\/a> \u00bfSon todos estos los patrones de tu relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

Just because you’re in love doesn’t mean you also have to be blind<\/em>. It’s good that both of you are aware of your unhealthy relationship, but it’s not good that you’re thinking about renunciar a tu amor.<\/a><\/p>\n

If one person keeps hurting the other, then it’s amor no correspondido<\/a>y realmente no tiene sentido luchar por ese tipo de relaci\u00f3n. Sin embargo, si ambos sois igualmente culpables de esos errores, pod\u00e9is haz que tu relaci\u00f3n vuelva a funcionar<\/a> si la voluntad de esforzarse es mutua.<\/p>\n

- Trabaja en tu relaci\u00f3n en lugar de renunciar a ella<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo los cobardes abandonan y se rinden cuando las cosas se ponen dif\u00edciles.<\/em>. La cuesti\u00f3n es quedarse y seguir luchando.<\/p>\n

Ya has dado un gran paso en arreglar su relaci\u00f3n<\/a>; you admitted that it’s toxic<\/strong>. Ahora, s\u00f3lo tienes que encontrar la manera de exprimir esa toxicidad y hacer que vuelva a ser saludable.<\/p>\n

Just because you walked onto a few obstacles on your way doesn’t mean you can’t be together anymore. You can and you must for the sake of your love.<\/p>\n

5. We love each other but can’t be together because our families don’t approve of it.<\/h3>\n

No matter how much you try to prove that your love is sincere and that you’re really made for each other, your families just won’t support<\/a> tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Entiendo por qu\u00e9 pens\u00e1is que lo mejor ser\u00eda tomar caminos separados y seguir con vuestras vidas. They’re the people you love the most in the entire world, and it’s completely normal that their opinions matter to you that much.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, shouldn’t your happiness be the most important thing for them? If you two make each other happy, aren’t they being unfair for standing in the way of your love?<\/p>\n

- Contar con el apoyo de tus seres queridos es importante, pero tienes que decidir cu\u00e1les son tus prioridades<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tienen dos opciones: dejarse llevar s\u00f3lo para complacer a sus familias o ir en contra de ellas y luchar por su amor.<\/em><\/p>\n

I agree… both of them are hard ones. However, together, you can find a way to deal with your families while, on the other hand, if you choose the first option, you might regret it for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

After all, they’ll have to find a way to accept you two as a couple sooner or later.<\/strong> I think they won’t risk losing their family members just because they don’t particularly like your life partners.<\/p>\n

6. We love each other but can’t be together because our life goals don’t align.<\/h3>\n

Hoy en d\u00eda se ha generalizado la idea err\u00f3nea de que las dos personas que forman una pareja deben tener las mismas ambiciones, objetivos y metas para el futuro, o al menos similares.<\/p>\n

Por el contrario, el objetivo de una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> es mantener tu independencia<\/strong>. Puede tener diferentes objetivos en la vida<\/a>pero deb\u00e9is apoyaros y ayudaros mutuamente a conseguirlos.<\/p>\n

- Compromise! It’s always better to bend a little than to break into pieces<\/strong><\/p>\n

Para que una relaci\u00f3n funcione, debes compartir un \u00fanico objetivo: envejecer juntos<\/strong><\/a>. Si \u00e9se es el \u00fanico objetivo que ten\u00e9is en com\u00fan, nada m\u00e1s importa.<\/p>\n

Don’t let your selfish desires ruin what you two have. I’m not saying you should give up on your goals and dreams, but by cultivating acceptance and respect, you will be able to find common ground<\/em>\u2026 the ground to build your future together.<\/p>\n

7. We love each other but can’t be together because of the big age gap.<\/h3>\n

Ustedes dos est\u00e1n enamorados, pero la enorme diferencia de edad<\/a> between you is causing you real problems, and you think it’ll never allow you to be happy together.<\/p>\n

Of course, it’s not only age, but all the differences and different life experiences that come with it<\/em>… adem\u00e1s, supongo vuestras familias se oponen firmemente a vuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/a>\u00bfverdad?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing: none of those things matter because you’re looking at it from a very wrong perspective…<\/p>\n

- Debes verlo como una oportunidad, no como un obst\u00e1culo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most couples are terrified of their differences because they think it’ll ruin their relationship sooner or later.<\/em> Unfortunately, they’ve no idea how wrong they truly are.<\/p>\n

En realidad, esas diferencias pueden acercar a dos personas.<\/strong> Las diferencias nos permiten descubrir y aprender muchas cosas el uno del otro, lo que s\u00f3lo puede redundar en el fortalecimiento del v\u00ednculo entre los miembros de la pareja.<\/p>\n

After all, love doesn’t care for age, faith, race, and such things… actually, when two people truly love each other, nothing else matters except that love.<\/p>\n

8. We love each other but can’t be together because of his\/her infidelity.<\/h3>\n

Estabas en una relaci\u00f3n amorosa, pero de repente, tu cuento de hadas se trunc\u00f3 porque \u00bfte ha enga\u00f1ado tu pareja?<\/a><\/p>\n

Now, you know you still love them and they claim they love you, too, and how it was all just a mistake they don’t plan to repeat ever again. However, do you think that you aren’t able to leave their mistakes behind, but at the same time, you think you can’t leave them behind either?<\/p>\n

Para ser sinceros, elegir entre perdonar a un infiel<\/a> and letting go of them is a tough call, but you’ll have to decide what to do soon. I hope this will help you make the right decision…<\/p>\n

- El perd\u00f3n es la forma m\u00e1s elevada de amor<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong with forgiving your partner for cheating on you. However, it’s only if you’re doing it for the right reason… if you’re doing it because you really love them and see that they honestly regret their mistake.<\/em><\/p>\n

Los errores se han convertido en una gran parte de nuestras vidas, y la verdad es que nadie es inmune a cometer errores, especialmente cuando se trata de nuestra vida amorosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you really can’t find the strength to forgive your partner for betraying you in such a way, you really shouldn’t continue that relationship. It’ll be a deeply unhealthy relationship, and sooner or later, you will break up and it’ll be for good.<\/p>\n

What Do You Do When You Love Someone But Can’t Be Together?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Being in this situation can seriously impact your mental health, especially if you don’t know how to cope with it. Here are a few tips that will help you keep your own sanity during these hard times in your life.<\/p>\n

1. S\u00e9 realista y mira las cosas como son.<\/h3>\n

Don’t get me wrong… you should have the faith that one day, you’ll overcome obstacles and finally be together<\/em>. However, what you shouldn’t do is keep living in hope.<\/p>\n

You can spend some time there, but sooner or later, you’ll have to step into reality and stay there.<\/strong> No importa lo dura o injusta que sea la vida, no tienes m\u00e1s remedio que vivirla.<\/p>\n

You have to keep that realistic point of view for the sake of your own sanity. Living in a bubble may work for some time, but once you step out of it, you’ll be enfrentarse al desamor m\u00e1s doloroso<\/a> de tu vida.<\/p>\n

2. Accept that some people simply aren’t meant to be together.<\/h3>\n

Algunas cosas est\u00e1n fuera de tu control y s\u00f3lo tienes que aceptarlo.<\/strong> No matter how much you want something to work out, God has other plans for you, and that’s something you can’t change.<\/p>\n

Algunas personas, a pesar de los fuertes sentimientos que sienten el uno por el otro, simplemente no son destinado a ser<\/a> o permanecer juntos para siempre.<\/em><\/p>\n

Puedes aceptarlo y centrarte en tu curaci\u00f3n o puedes seguir viviendo en una mentira y seguir esperando que ocurra lo imposible. Sinceramente, ambas opciones son dif\u00edciles, pero la primera es mucho menos dolorosa.<\/p>\n

3. Gestiona tus emociones de forma saludable.<\/h3>\n

Don’t even think about suppressing your emotions. You’re separated from the person you love… this is not the time to pretend you’re strong.<\/em><\/p>\n

You may think that bottling up your emotions helps you ease the pain. But, the truth is, it’ll only prolong your heartbreak because sooner or later, those emotions will find a way out.<\/p>\n

Encontrar una manera de controlar que monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones desbordantes<\/a> you’re currently dealing with.<\/strong> Cry if you have the need to, break something if it’ll help you with the anger that is eating you inside. Don’t let your emotions consume you… find a healthy way to deal with them.<\/p>\n

4. Conf\u00eda en tu mejor amigo.<\/h3>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Compartir tus penas con tus mejores amigos y tus familiares es la \u00fanica terapia que necesitas<\/em>. Even if they can’t offer you advice about what you should do, they will be there for you and they will try everything just to see you smile again.<\/p>\n

It’s perfectly normal that you can’t deal with all of this alone. Permita que sus seres queridos le ayuden y consuelen.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is really not the time for you to act like you’re so brave and all of that nonsense. Trust me… when it comes to love, we’re all weak and we all need help.<\/p>\n

5. Por mucho que les quieras, siempre debes quererte m\u00e1s a ti mismo.<\/h3>\n

La \u00fanica persona que estar\u00e1 contigo el resto de tu vida eres t\u00fa mismo<\/em>. That’s the only fact, and it’s time to remind yourself of that.<\/p>\n

Nunca debes amar a otra persona m\u00e1s de lo que te amas a ti mismo. Recuerda siempre una cosa; you’re the only person you can’t live without.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Si no tiene sentido luchar por ello, encuentra la fuerza para dejarlo ir.<\/h3>\n

If it’s really pointless to keep fighting for it, you need to gather the strength and courage to seguir adelante.<\/a> Let go of what can’t be and save yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s pointless to hold onto something you know can never work. It can only keep breaking your heart, every single day, piece by piece…<\/p>\n

7. Cree en el poder del tiempo.<\/h3>\n

Tal vez they aren’t your soulmate after all<\/a>. Tal vez lo sean, pero te encontraste en el momento equivocado.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

El tiempo lo dir\u00e1<\/strong>. No te queda m\u00e1s remedio que darle tiempo y ver qu\u00e9 pasa. If you’re meant to be together<\/a>, you’ll cross paths in the future, and you’ll never separate again. On the other hand, if they aren’t your destiny, time will bring you peace and healing.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe puede estar enamorado sin estar juntos?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, you can. In fact, the pain and the longing can intensify the love you feel for them even if they’re taken away from you forever.<\/p>\n

Even if many bad things happen between you, even if they’re far away from you, even if you decided to part ways years ago, you can still be in love with them like the very first time you meet them.<\/p>\n

Whether we like it or not, love isn’t something that can be controlled<\/em>. Only our heart has the privilege to decide who it’ll let in and how long that person will stay there<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

El bot\u00f3n para apagar las emociones no existe ni existir\u00e1 nunca.<\/em> El coraz\u00f3n quiere lo que quiere, y no hay absolutamente nada que puedas hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n

We Love Each Other But Can’t Be Together Quotes<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You can also seek solace in these powerful \u2018we love each other but can’t be together\u2019 quotes<\/em>.<\/p>\n

1. “A flame may love a snowflake, but they can never be together without each harming the other.” \u2013 Chris Colfer<\/p>\n

2. “I don’t cry because we’ve been separated by distance, and for a matter of years. Why? Because for as long as we share the same sky and breathe the same air, we’re still together.” \u2013 Donna Lynn Hope<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. “My heart and mind are telling me two different things. My heart is telling me that this is a great love. My mind is telling me that there is a difference between real love and forbidden love. My mind is also telling me that I shouldn\u2019t want to be with you.” \u2013 Cassandra Clare<\/p>\n

4. “I love you more than I could ever describe, but our time has come and gone. I don\u2019t want to end things like this, and I don\u2019t give up hope. Maybe someday, we will meet again and it will be back like it used to.” \u2013 Unknown<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. “Even though we were never supposed to be together, I can\u2019t be with anyone else, no matter the consequences.” \u2013 Nicole Gulla<\/p>\n

6. “And then, when there is nothing else between us but love, we can begin to find a way to truly be together.” \u2013 S.J. Watson<\/strong><\/p>\n

7. “Our forbidden love was never meant to survive. I had no idea life could be this hard without you with me. I see clearly now that we weren\u2019t meant to be together. The love we have is a forbidden love.” \u2013 John West<\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

‘We love each other but can’t be together’ is the sentence I hate the most because nothing is impossible with amor verdadero<\/a>. I believe with all my heart that love is the most powerful force in the universe, and the only one that’s capable of making real wonders.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes, you need exactly that… a wonder. On the other hand, sometimes, a bit of faith combined with mutual effort is more than enough in order to hacer que una relaci\u00f3n sana funcione<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

If it’s truly impossible for you to be together, then you must know that it isn’t amor verdadero<\/a> despu\u00e9s de todo. Y eso te facilitar\u00e1 mucho el proceso de seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll conoce a tu alma gemela<\/a>; the person who’ll show you what true love really is. At that moment, it’ll be perfectly clear to you why this relationship couldn’t survive.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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