{"id":14688,"date":"2020-05-16T10:56:26","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T10:56:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14688"},"modified":"2022-03-10T17:48:44","modified_gmt":"2022-03-10T17:48:44","slug":"8-signos-evidentes-de-que-nunca-va-a-cambiar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-signos-evidentes-de-que-nunca-va-a-cambiar\/","title":{"rendered":"8 se\u00f1ales evidentes de que nunca va a cambiar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si te has topado con un muro en la relaci\u00f3n, sin saber si merece la pena quedarse y luchar o alejarse, entonces conoces el dolor de la lucha.<\/p>\n

A veces, por mucho que lo intentemos o por mucho que queramos a nuestra pareja, nos resulta demasiado doloroso.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re struggling with working on their behavior, either because they just don\u2019t know how to change or they don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n

Para ayudarte decidir si quedarse o marcharse,<\/a> hicimos una lista de los signos m\u00e1s comunes de que no va a cambiar. Nunca.<\/p>\n

1. Se convierte en modo Hulk en lugar de modo mejorado<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Para mejorar nuestro comportamiento, para empezar a trabajar en \u00e9l, primero tenemos que aceptar que algo va mal. Tenemos que ver nuestros errores y defectos para poder corregirlos.<\/p>\n

But if he gets angry every time you mention that he hurt you or that he did something he promised he wouldn\u2019t, then he can\u2019t see the problem.<\/p>\n

Sigue pensando que es perfecto, no importa si te ofreci\u00f3 una disculpa tiempo antes o prometi\u00f3 cambiar.<\/p>\n

2. He doesn\u2019t know the meaning of the word \u2018compromise\u2019<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It\u2019s either his way or no way. He has done nothing wrong, so there is no need for him to change or do anything.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all in your head, so you are the one who should deal with it.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s never willing to step into your shoes and see things from your perspective.<\/p>\n

He sticks to his own opinion, regardless of how wrong it is. To him, it\u2019s the most perfect one.<\/p>\n

3. Piensa que s\u00f3lo quieres cabrearle<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

No importa lo cuidadosamente que te acerques a \u00e9l, no importa lo mal que te sientas, \u00e9l s\u00f3lo oye nag nag nag.<\/p>\n

He is so self-involved that he can\u2019t see the pain in your eyes, he just hears what he wants to hear. And that would be you nagging and trying to piss him off.<\/p>\n

Incluso te acusar\u00e1 de querer fastidiarle el d\u00eda, para poder hacerte sentir culpable y que te disculpes y dejes el tema por un tiempo.<\/p>\n

4. He laughs it off and he doesn\u2019t care how it affects you<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

When you tell him that you\u2019re broken, he rolls his eyes, saying how you\u2019re being overdramatic.<\/p>\n

Cuando le suplicas que se esfuerce un poco en la relaci\u00f3n, te hace sentir loca s\u00f3lo porque te atreviste a decir algo as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

After all, he is the only one who\u2019s trying and working on it, you\u2019re just too selfish to see it.<\/p>\n

Y cuando le digas que hay un problema, bromear\u00e1 al respecto y cambiar\u00e1 de tema. Esta es una se\u00f1al de que realmente s\u00f3lo se preocupa de s\u00ed mismo.<\/a><\/p>\n

5. Desaparece ocasionalmente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Every time you try to talk to him, he turns into a ghost. He is nowhere to be found, his cell phone is off or he\u2019s straight-up avoiding you with loads of work he has to do (and you know he\u2019s somewhere getting drunk).<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a se\u00f1al de que no est\u00e1 preparado<\/a> para escucharte, para o\u00edr hablar de sus errores. Y lo m\u00e1s probable es que nunca lo har\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Cuando termine de fantasmear, volver\u00e1 y fingir\u00e1 que no ha pasado nada. Como si todo estuviera bien.<\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s a liar\u2014and a bad one<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

De hecho, cada vez que miente te das cuenta y tiene un largo historial de mentiras, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 esperas que esta vez sea diferente? Hace promesas, pero nunca las cumple.<\/p>\n

All he has is words, but they mean nothing if actions don\u2019t follow them. It\u2019s up to you to decide whether you want to listen to his lies or your heart.<\/p>\n

7. Regardless of the consequences, he just doesn\u2019t care<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

Whether there weren\u2019t any the first time he messed things up or if there are huge ones, like you leaving, he just doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

Nothing really bothers him\u2014after all, it\u2019s your problem too. So, you should work on it.<\/p>\n

8. That\u2019s just who he is<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

How can you be so selfish and ask him to change? That\u2019s who he is, that\u2019s part of him. If he loses that, he won\u2019t be himself anymore. Bullshit.<\/p>\n

He just doesn\u2019t feel like putting any effort into your relationship and into making you happy. That kind of man is not digno de un solo segundo de su tiempo.<\/a><\/p>\n

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