{"id":14715,"date":"2020-02-16T12:30:31","date_gmt":"2020-02-16T12:30:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14715"},"modified":"2022-01-14T02:08:21","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T02:08:21","slug":"10-miedos-irracionales-relaciones-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-miedos-irracionales-relaciones-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"10 miedos irracionales que todos los hombres tienen en sus relaciones"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fear can keep us from doing so many great things. Usually, it&#8217;s the female side of the relationship who has the biggest fears regarding the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s always questioning everything in order to know if there&#8217;s anything wrong. But what if I told you that men are the ones with the most irrational fears in their relationships?<\/p>\n<p>In their eyes, a relationship can be wonderful or terrifying; there\u2019s no in-between. They are afraid of the same things as we women are, plus more.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, esto puede no aplicarse a todos los hombres. Cada persona es completamente diferente y las mujeres pueden <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/fulfillment-any-age\/201506\/why-we-fear-fear-and-what-it-costs-us\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">experimentar estos miedos<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. No disponer de tiempo suficiente<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-que-los-hombres-temen\/\">Los hombres tienen miedo<\/a> that throughout the week they won&#8217;t have the time needed to dedicate to the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t find it rational to invest a whole day in a road trip with their girlfriend when they could finish a project they started or watch the game that night.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. No esforzarse lo suficiente<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Because of the fact that they are scared that they won&#8217;t make time for their girlfriend, this automatically leads to the fear of not giving enough effort.<\/p>\n<p>Los hombres no tienen ni idea de cu\u00e1nta atenci\u00f3n necesita realmente una mujer y qu\u00e9 hacer para que se sienta especial.<\/p>\n<p>So this puts a lot of pressure on them and they fear that they won&#8217;t do a good job.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Moverse demasiado r\u00e1pido<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>This fear can be so illogical that it can slow down the relationship process. You see, men are creatures of habit and when they start a relationship after a long period of being single, something seems off and they don&#8217;t really seem to like that things are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/114917-7-signs-your-relationship-is-moving-too-fast\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">movi\u00e9ndose tan r\u00e1pido<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You might be together for years and he still can&#8217;t \u2018&#8217;put a ring on it\u2019&#8217; because of his fear. This can lead <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-la-mayoria-de-los-hombres-piensan-demasiado-en-una-relacion\/\">a pensar demasiado<\/a> y puede empezar a cuestionarse toda la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Cambiar<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Este miedo es algo racional. Nuestra vida consiste en ser nosotros mismos y hacer todo lo que nos gusta, \u00bfverdad? As\u00ed que, naturalmente, los hombres temen que su relaci\u00f3n les cambie hasta el punto de dejar de amar las cosas que les gustaban cuando eran solteros.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships can be time-consuming and he might be thinking that there&#8217;s no way you can put effort into making your partner feel happy and into the other dreams and goals you have besides the relationship.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. No hay suficiente sexo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>We all know that men love sexual interaction and they fear that having sex with one partner for the rest of their life might get boring at one point or that their partner won&#8217;t be up for having sex as often as they do.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, a los hombres les encanta tener relaciones sexuales con muchas mujeres, s\u00f3lo para darle sabor a las cosas. As\u00ed que una vida sexual mon\u00f3gama no les resulta tan atractiva.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. A partner who&#8217;s too needy<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-14729 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/pexels-photo-821534.jpeg\" alt=\"Pareja mir\u00e1ndose\" width=\"800\" height=\"570\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/pexels-photo-821534.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/pexels-photo-821534-300x214.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/pexels-photo-821534-768x547.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bueno, por supuesto, las relaciones crean dependencias mutuas, pero los hombres temen que su novia pueda ser <a href=\"https:\/\/goodmenproject.com\/sex-relationships\/relationship-killer-dont-be-too-needy-or-clingy-dg\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">demasiado dependiente de ellos y necesitada<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Because he loves you, he will do whatever it takes to make you happy, but that also creates scenarios that aren&#8217;t really pleasing to him.<\/p>\n<p>Men want more breathing space as they&#8217;re getting to know their partner and that&#8217;s what&#8217;ll give them some security.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. Enga\u00f1o<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Enga\u00f1ar es lo peor y m\u00e1s deshonesto que te puede hacer una persona a la que quieres.<\/p>\n<p>After you&#8217;ve been cheated on, you start feeling like you&#8217;re not good enough and men, just like women, don&#8217;t want that.<\/p>\n<p>They fear you cheating on them and whatever they say, it&#8217;ll break their heart to the core if you do.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">8. Vulnerabilidad<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>We all know that men are born protectors. Society doesn&#8217;t let them show a weakness of any kind and they got used to that mindset. But the moment they get more emotionally invested in the relationship, there might be a fear of vulnerability.<\/p>\n<p>They weren&#8217;t raised with the idea that being vulnerable is acceptable, but rather to rarely show their emotions. They fear their emotions like the plague and they simply crawl back to their room and hide together with their vulnerability.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">9. Perder amigos<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Los hombres adoran a sus amigos y a su familia, y la idea de que una relaci\u00f3n no les deje suficiente espacio y tiempo para dedicarles resulta aterradora.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just that if you start investing yourself too much in a serious, committed, romantic relationship, you invest less (or nothing at all) in other relationships.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">10. Heartbreak<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>They fear getting hurt. If a man had a hard time with past relationships, it&#8217;s normal if he fears commitment now.<\/p>\n<p>Los hombres tienen miedo de que su pareja les deje, rompa con ellos o les enga\u00f1e. Temen perder a alguien tan especial para ellos y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-senales-de-que-te-van-a-romper-el-corazon\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">que les rompan el coraz\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fear can keep us from doing so many great things. Usually, it&#8217;s the female side of the relationship who has the biggest fears regarding the relationship. She&#8217;s always questioning everything in order to know if there&#8217;s anything wrong. But what if I told you that men are the ones with the most irrational fears in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":14727,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14715","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/josh-peterson-506905-1.jpg",800,553,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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