{"id":147327,"date":"2022-03-15T11:43:26","date_gmt":"2022-03-15T11:43:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=147327"},"modified":"2022-12-01T11:51:55","modified_gmt":"2022-12-01T11:51:55","slug":"cuando-un-chico-te-ignora-pero-le-gustas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-un-chico-te-ignora-pero-le-gustas\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando un chico te ignora pero le gustas, \u00bfqu\u00e9 est\u00e1 pasando?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As\u00ed que conoces a un chico, te gusta, le gustas, empez\u00e1is a hablar o os enroll\u00e1is. Est\u00e1s segura de que est\u00e1 interesado cuando, de repente, silencio de radio.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s distant and pulling away, so you can&#8217;t help but start questioning yourself and your actions. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-no-se-ha-puesto-en-contacto-contigo-en-un-mes\/\"><b>En <\/b><b>un chico te ignora<\/b><\/a><strong> pero le gustas, te preguntas si fue algo que hiciste lo que lo alej\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In a situation like this, not knowing what\u2019s going on makes it easy enough to start obsessing. It can really shake a person\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/50-frases-inspiradoras-sobre-la-autoestima-que-aumentaran-la-confianza-en-uno-mismo-cada-dia\/\"> autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>There are lots of reasons he might be ignoring you, but let\u2019s get one thing out of the way first.<\/p>\n<h2>The Best Thing To Do When A Guy Ignores You But Likes You&#8230;&#8230;is nothing.<\/h2>\n<p>Yes, really, it\u2019s best if you simply don\u2019t do anything. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-echara-de-menos-si-le-dejo-solo-es-algo-que-merece-la-pena-averiguar\/\"><b>Dale tiempo y espacio<\/b><\/a>, <strong>y d\u00e9jate de preocupaciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>El tipo de chico al que le gustas de verdad se acercar\u00e1 cuando haya pasado lo que sea que le est\u00e9 frenando.<strong> If he\u2019s ignoring you out of selfish reasons, he won\u2019t admit it if you ask anyway.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si das el primer paso, empieza por esperar m\u00e1s de lo que crees que deber\u00edas. Env\u00eda un mensaje casual y olv\u00eddate del tema.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t blow up his phone. You took the first step; now it\u2019s up to him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En lugar de preguntarme por \u00e9l, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-centrarse-en-uno-mismo\/\"><b>dedica algo de tiempo a centrarte en ti mismo<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong> You might realize you don\u2019t even care about him by the time he hits you up.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfPuedes gustarle a un hombre e ignorarte?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-147330\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Claro que s\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The saying goes something like, if someone likes you, they&#8217;ll let you know for sure, but that&#8217;s not always so.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pi\u00e9nsalo as\u00ed, \u00bfalguna vez te ha gustado alguien y no se lo has hecho saber? <strong>Existen <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-me-ignora-de-repente\/\"><b>muchas razones<\/b><\/a> por mantener las distancias.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando un chico te evita pero le gustas, algunas de estas preguntas pueden ayudarte a llegar a algunas conclusiones sobre cu\u00e1l puede ser el motivo:<\/p>\n<p>- <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-puede-pasar-un-dia-sin-hablarte\/\"><b>\u00bfEs \u00e9l <\/b><b><i>en realidad<\/i><\/b><b> \u00bfIgnorarte?<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What makes you think he&#8217;s ignoring you?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 When did it start? Did something specific happen?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>\u00bfHasta qu\u00e9 punto es importante saberlo con certeza?<\/strong> \u00bfTe interesa la relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What does your intuition tell you?<\/p>\n<p>Las respuestas a estas preguntas y a la secci\u00f3n siguiente pueden ayudarle a determinar con exactitud lo que est\u00e1 ocurriendo.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 un chico ignora a una chica que le gusta?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-147343\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio sentado frente a su novia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-opposit-from-his-girlfriend-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s always about him. Don\u2019t try to guess what\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n<p>Aseg\u00farate de no reaccionar de forma exagerada ni crear dramatismo donde no lo hay. <strong>Ah\u00f3rrate la ansiedad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando descubras <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-he-sabido-nada-de-el-en-todo-el-dia\/\"> la verdadera raz\u00f3n <i> por qu\u00e9 <\/i> he\u2019s ignoring you<\/a>Hablar con \u00e9l de tus sentimientos es a veces la mejor opci\u00f3n. Pero, por lo general, debes ignorarle de inmediato.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo debes hablar con \u00e9l? Cuando sepas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-dejo-de-enviarte-mensajes\/\"><b>he\u2019s ignoring you<\/b><\/a> because he thinks you don\u2019t like him back.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo hay que tener paciencia? <strong>En todos los dem\u00e1s casos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>1. He&#8217;s not actually ignoring you<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-147331\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"joven rubia pensando al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-blond-woman-thinking-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 You only think he&#8217;s ignoring you<\/h4>\n<p>It can be hard to shift perspective and look at life from someone else\u2019s point of view. A lot of the time, what may seem catastrophic to you might not even register with someone else.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En otras palabras, es posible que le tengas p\u00e1nico, mientras que ignorarte es lo \u00faltimo en lo que piensa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aseg\u00farate de que realmente ocurre algo antes de preocuparte.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCree que puede estar exagerando o volvi\u00e9ndose paranoico? Intente averiguar por qu\u00e9. <strong>It\u2019s important to find balance and not rely too much on external validation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Other things need his attention<\/h4>\n<p>It&#8217;s entirely possible that it has nothing to do with you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Maybe he\u2019s in the middle of something, or something is going on in his life that is taking up his time and attention.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Puede estar ocupado o estresado, tener una urgencia en el trabajo o con su familia, o simplemente tener otras prioridades. <strong>If you don\u2019t know his circumstances, it\u2019s too soon to worry.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un chico al que le gustas pero tambi\u00e9n le gusta el resto de su vida es algo bueno.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He functions in a different way<\/h4>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo ha pasado realmente? \u00bfQu\u00e9 le hizo creer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-mas-comunes-por-las-que-de-repente-ignora-tus-mensajes\/\"> he\u2019s ignoring you<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s not texting you every day, or if he doesn\u2019t devote his entire attention to you every time you see him, he might just work that way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Las personas tienen necesidades y h\u00e1bitos diferentes.<\/strong> Puede que su estilo de comunicaci\u00f3n sea diferente al tuyo y que un mensaje de texto a la semana sea frecuente para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Es posible que lo que a ti te parece una clara se\u00f1al de que te ignora sea s\u00f3lo un caso de expectativas diferentes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La forma de saberlo es pensar si su comportamiento es t\u00edpico en \u00e9l o fuera de lo com\u00fan.<\/strong> Por ejemplo, si siempre env\u00eda mensajes de texto raramente, \u00bfla frecuencia es la misma? Si es as\u00ed, no tienes de qu\u00e9 preocuparte.<\/p>\n<h3>2. He&#8217;s feeling vulnerable<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-147338\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"hombre atento junto a la ventana y observando la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/mindful-man-standing-by-the-window-and-watching-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s not sure you like him<\/h4>\n<p>Nadie est\u00e1 libre de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-hacen-que-los-hombres-se-sientan-inseguros-las-mujeres-ni-siquiera-se-dan-cuenta\/\"> inseguridades<\/a>. Todos tenemos algo que nos hace sentir fr\u00e1giles y que influye en nuestro comportamiento.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Si le gustas y aun as\u00ed te evita, puede que se est\u00e9 protegiendo.<\/strong> Exponerte y mostrar tus sentimientos por alguien que podr\u00eda no corresponderte te hace vulnerable.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que est\u00e9 esperando a asegurarse de que a ti tambi\u00e9n te gusta.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He thinks you don&#8217;t like him<\/h4>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve hinted you dislike him even jokingly, or he simply never got the indication that you like him that he needed, he might think that you\u2019re not interested.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You might think that your feelings were plain to see, but if this guy feels that you don\u2019t like him, he could be ignoring you out of self-preservation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If he thinks that he has no chance with you, it\u2019s easier not to deal with his feelings than to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-signos-le-gusta-el-rechazo-miedo\/\"> ser rechazado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Give him confidence by letting him know you\u2019re interested.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He lacks courage<\/h4>\n<p>Hay muchos hombres que nunca hacen un movimiento para evitar el dolor potencial, ya sea el rechazo o posibles problemas futuros en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-un-chico-se-enamora-de-ti-siempre-dice-estas-palabras\/\"><b>Podr\u00eda estar aplastando<\/b><\/a>, but he won&#8217;t do anything about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Whether he believes you don&#8217;t like him or knows that you do, he might be too intimidated to do anything.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s up to you to decide whether you can deal with this level of anxiety and make a move yourself.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s shy<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/le-gustas-a-un-timido\/\"> Chicos t\u00edmidos<\/a> can be really cute, especially the anticipation of what he\u2019ll be like when he comes out of his shell.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If he\u2019s chronically shy, he might just not know what to do.<\/strong> Particularly if he\u2019s an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relacion-con-un-introvertido\/\"> introvertido<\/a>puede perderse en su cabeza la mayor parte del tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Podr\u00eda sentirse socialmente torpe y como si no tuviera ni idea de c\u00f3mo ligar para llamar tu atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Try putting him at ease by making it clear that you&#8217;re into him.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He thinks he&#8217;s too obvious<\/h4>\n<p>This guy might think he&#8217;s being super obvious about his feelings, so he&#8217;s trying not to be. He\u2019s probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-quiere-que-te-fijes-en-el\/\"> staring at you when you\u2019re not looking<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>By trying not to be too flirty, he&#8217;s gone to the other extreme. Instead of showering you with attention the way he wants to, he ignores you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He thinks he\u2019s being subtle, but he&#8217;s overdoing it.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s trying to look cool<\/h4>\n<p>A veces un tipo que te ignora <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-signos-evidentes-de-que-finge-que-no-le-gustas\/\"> doesn&#8217;t want to seem overly eager<\/a> because he wants you to think he\u2019s cool.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cree que ser distante le hace m\u00e1s atractivo, pero podr\u00eda ser contraproducente y perder su oportunidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you think this might be what\u2019s going on, ask if he&#8217;s interested in dating you and watch him sputter.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s doesn&#8217;t want to be pushy<\/h4>\n<p>Cuando un chico siente que tal vez le gustas demasiado, puede que se aleje para no parecer pegajoso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He might be afraid that you might think he&#8217;s weird or creepy if he&#8217;s too intense in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-saber-si-un-hombre-se-siente-atraido-por-ti-pero-lo-oculta-10-senales\/\"><b>expresando sus sentimientos<\/b><\/a>,<\/strong> particularly if it\u2019s in the early stages of getting to know each other.<\/p>\n<p>If you discover that he\u2019s interested but doesn&#8217;t want to look desperate and scare you off, make it clear to him what level of enthusiasm you feel comfortable with.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s unsure what to do<\/h4>\n<p>This is especially common if it\u2019s someone you already have a relationship with \u2013 a friend, a co-worker, or an acquaintance.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cuando un chico te ignora pero le gustas, puede que tenga miedo de arruinar tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-senales-de-que-le-gustas-mas-que-como-amiga-pero-le-da-miedo-admitirlo\/\"><b>relaci\u00f3n existente<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If what\u2019s between you is already pleasant, he might be unsure if it&#8217;s worth changing it.<\/p>\n<p>Ac\u00e9rcate a \u00e9l si crees que le gustas y quieres mantener una relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s been hurt in the past<\/h4>\n<p>Un chico que pens\u00f3 que le gustaba a una chica s\u00f3lo para ser rechazado cuando se acerc\u00f3 a ella podr\u00eda ser muy cuidadoso con sus sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Si le hirieron en el pasado y ahora duda, puedes romper el hielo compartiendo tu propia vulnerabilidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>(Warning: If he mentions the \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-hace-estas-10-cosas-lo-siento-te-han-friendzoned\/\"> friendzone<\/a>\u2019 in a serious way, reconsider whether you should give him a chance.<\/p>\n<p>Los chicos que creen en ese concepto muestran amabilidad s\u00f3lo si eso les da una oportunidad de juntarse contigo y piensan que<strong> ser tu amigo es una especie de castigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Puede que necesiten trabajar mucho antes de convertirse en adultos funcionales).<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He thinks you&#8217;re not single<\/h4>\n<p>Puede que te haya visto con alguien o haya o\u00eddo algo que le haya hecho pensar que ya tienes pareja.<\/p>\n<p>When a guy ignores you but likes you, he\u2019s usually trying to protect his feelings in some way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He might be giving you the cold shoulder because of a misunderstanding, so if you\u2019re interested, make it clear that you\u2019re available.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s freaking out<\/h4>\n<p>Si siente que le gustas demasiado, un chico puede sentirse abrumado por los sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Any intense emotion changes the way people behave, so even if he\u2019s usually outgoing, he could be pulling back.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Puede que le resulte dif\u00edcil expresar sus fuertes sentimientos, as\u00ed que facil\u00edtaselo mostr\u00e1ndote atento y comprensivo. Comun\u00edcate con un lenguaje corporal abierto, un tono acogedor y empat\u00eda.<\/p>\n<h3>3. He&#8217;s having second thoughts<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-147339\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste mental sentado en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-mindful-man-sitting-on-the-couch-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s confused<\/h4>\n<p>When a guy ignores you but likes you, it\u2019s possible that he&#8217;s not completely sure about his feelings. <strong>He&#8217;s taking his time to think about it and figure out his next move.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Otra posibilidad es que lo que quiere de una relaci\u00f3n haya cambiado.<\/p>\n<p>He might be used to hooking up, but now he wants something serious with you. On the other hand, it\u2019s also possible that he\u2019s looking for a fling, but you want a relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Either way, there\u2019s nothing you can do but wait and decide what to do when you have more information.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He wants to slow things down<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-relacion-va-demasiado-deprisa-pero-se-siente-bien\/\">Las cosas podr\u00edan ir demasiado deprisa<\/a> para \u00e9l. Por esta raz\u00f3n, <strong>he\u2019s pulling back to make things move slower.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tal vez \u00e9l esperaba saludarte de vez en cuando, pero t\u00fa empezaste a enviarle mensajes de inmediato cuando intercambiasteis los n\u00fameros.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re showing more interest than he\u2019s ready for, he might also be afraid that you want a more serious relationship than he does.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If it&#8217;s always you who&#8217;s initiating things, stop doing it. Let him take things at his own pace if you\u2019re interested enough, or if he\u2019s too slow for you, keep moving.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s not ready<\/h4>\n<p>If you\u2019ve shown that you like him, it doesn\u2019t mean he doesn\u2019t like you back if he\u2019s not paying you attention. Give him space because his reluctance might be all about him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s important to note that liking someone doesn&#8217;t have to mean you want to be in a relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe he isn&#8217;t in the right place for a relationship, or he has other priorities at the moment. <strong>He might come back when he\u2019s ready.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He likes you but doesn&#8217;t want a relationship<\/h4>\n<p>Hay muchas razones para que alguien <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-te-rechazaria-un-chico-si-le-gustas\/\"> no querer una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> incluso cuando les gusta otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>Asuntos personales, como las exigencias de su trabajo, pueden hacer que sea un inconveniente. Puede que se mude pronto a otra ciudad o que tenga obligaciones familiares que conviertan una relaci\u00f3n en un engorro.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He might also think that you&#8217;re not a good fit, depending on both of your values, circumstances, and many other reasons.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Muchas cosas pueden convertirse en obst\u00e1culos aunque nos guste alguien, as\u00ed que puede que os est\u00e9 ahorrando a los dos un posible desenga\u00f1o amoroso.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He wants space<\/h4>\n<p>Si \u00e9l estaba algo interesado pero no lo suficiente como para buscar una relaci\u00f3n, puede que se est\u00e9 echando atr\u00e1s porque parece que t\u00fa quieres cosas diferentes.<br \/>\nHe might feel like you\u2019re coming on too strong, and pretty much anything would be too much for him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Instead of letting you know he\u2019s not interested, he\u2019s pulling back. He might be trying to spare your feelings, but this might not be the best way to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-seras-demasiado-para-un-tipo-que-no-se-cansa-de-ti\/\"> Si le gustaras lo suficiente<\/a>, your attention wouldn&#8217;t bother him, so you should move on to someone who does.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s losing interest<\/h4>\n<p>This guy may have liked you in the beginning, but after the initial spark passed, he\u2019s lost interest. <strong>Maybe the initial excitement was very intense, so now that things have settled down, he\u2019s not into it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If he&#8217;s someone who dislikes confrontation, it\u2019s easier for him to ignore you than face you and tell you that he\u2019s no longer interested.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Su falta de franqueza podr\u00eda estar haciendo las cosas inc\u00f3modas y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-8-senales-contradictorias-mas-comunes-que-envian-los-hombres-y-su-significado\/\"><b>envi\u00e1ndote <\/b><b>se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Este es otro caso en el que deber\u00edas ignorarle y buscar el siguiente cap\u00edtulo de tu vida amorosa en otra parte.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He was never interested<\/h4>\n<p>Quiz\u00e1 te dio la impresi\u00f3n de que le gustabas cuando bailasteis juntos en una fiesta, pero en realidad s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda bailar. Al d\u00eda siguiente, t\u00fa estabas enamorada y \u00e9l volvi\u00f3 al trabajo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you misinterpreted a situation and he wasn\u2019t interested in the first place, he isn&#8217;t ignoring you; he just went on with his life as usual.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It may be a hard pill to swallow if you\u2019ve just been misreading the signs.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Preg\u00fantate sinceramente si realmente ha mostrado inter\u00e9s.<\/strong> If you don\u2019t have a 100% affirmative answer to this, don\u2019t put yourself through unavoidable heartache.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He just wants friendship<\/h4>\n<p>If you\u2019ve been spending time with a guy and grown to like him, but he\u2019s not showing any signs of romantic interest, it\u2019s also possible that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-hombres-y-las-mujeres-nunca-pueden-ser-solo-amigos\/\"> le gustas como amigo <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When a guy ignores you but likes you as a friend, he might suspect you\u2019re into him and doesn&#8217;t want to lead you on.<\/strong> He\u2019s trying to help you save face and not outright reject you.<\/p>\n<p>Ten en cuenta que nadie es atractivo para todo el mundo. <strong>Que un chico no est\u00e9 interesado no dice nada sobre tu atractivo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, it\u2019s up to you to decide what to do. If you like him as a person and think you\u2019ll be able to get over your attraction, it might be worth it to pursue a friendship.<\/p>\n<h3>4. He&#8217;s not a good guy<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-147340\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio sentado en el tejado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-roof-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s punishing you<\/h4>\n<p>If you did something that upset him, even if you don\u2019t know what it was, he might be mad at you, but in an unacceptable way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If he hits on others in front of you, ignores you but acts friendly towards others, if he\u2019s giving you the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-formas-de-reaccionar-ante-el-silencio-en-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/\"><b>tratamiento silencioso<\/b><\/a> y siendo malo a prop\u00f3sito, deja a este tipo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Such toxic behavior would be unsavory even if you did something serious, let alone if you don\u2019t even know what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s playing games<\/h4>\n<p>Alguien que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-de-que-no-es-mas-que-un-jugador\/\"> jugando con tus sentimientos<\/a> a prop\u00f3sito es manipulador e inmaduro.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If he knows you like him, but he\u2019s playing hard to get, it means he\u2019s trying to get the upper hand and establish an unhealthy power dynamic.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Esto nunca es una buena base para una relaci\u00f3n.<strong> You don\u2019t need dating tips for this guy \u2013 you need to be done with him as soon as you can.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He was in it only for the chase<\/h4>\n<p>Some guys only enjoy yanking you around. They hit on you, seduce you, but they don\u2019t follow through. <strong>Demuestra una gran inmadurez y descuido.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When the initial thrill has worn off, this type of guy is done. He has fun impressing you, but it\u2019s not exciting when you like him back.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Para \u00e9l, el cuento de hadas termina cuando la pareja se junta, y la vida real despu\u00e9s es aburrida.<\/strong> Puedes hacerlo mejor.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 He&#8217;s a player<\/h4>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing wrong with keeping your options open when you\u2019re dating casually, but if he\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-un-jugador-13-senales-de-advertencia-de-que-un-hombre-no-va-en-serio-contigo\/\"> jugando en el campo<\/a>podr\u00eda no ser honesto sobre sus intenciones.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tal vez s\u00f3lo fingi\u00f3 que le importaba y sigui\u00f3 adelante.<\/strong> Tal vez te estaba enga\u00f1ando, pero ahora volvi\u00f3 con su pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Los tipos as\u00ed siempre piensan que pueden encontrar a alguien mejor. Nadie es lo suficientemente bueno para ellos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you&#8217;re not his first choice, you don&#8217;t need him.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfY ahora qu\u00e9?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-147342\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el sal\u00f3n y pensando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ser ignorado o rechazado puede ser peor que ser rechazado porque te deja con ganas de respuestas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cuando un tipo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-un-chico-actua-interesado-entonces-retrocede\/\"><b>te ignora pero le gustas<\/b><\/a>Puede tener varias razones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Unless he\u2019s obviously pining and needs you to confirm that you like him back, don\u2019t put yourself out there and get hurt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>El mejor consejo para una relaci\u00f3n es que te conviertas en una prioridad.<\/strong>. No importa lo importante que sea otra persona, si la pones por delante de ti mismo, nadie va a ser feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Take care of yourself, and let him come when he\u2019s ready.<strong> If he doesn\u2019t, you still have <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/centrate-en-ser-una-gran-mujer\/\"><b>la mejor persona<\/b><\/a> a tu alrededor: a ti mismo.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So you meet a guy, you like him, he likes you, you start talking, or you hook up. You\u2019re sure he\u2019s interested when all of a sudden, radio silence. He&#8217;s distant and pulling away, so you can&#8217;t help but start questioning yourself and your actions. 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