{"id":14738,"date":"2020-07-16T13:37:46","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T13:37:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14738"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:55:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:55:22","slug":"esto-es-en-lo-que-se-convirtio-despues-de-que-la-rompieras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-en-lo-que-se-convirtio-despues-de-que-la-rompieras\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es en lo que se convirti\u00f3 despu\u00e9s de que la rompieras"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ella te quer\u00eda y t\u00fa la rompiste. En lugar de hacer la vida hermosa para ambos simplemente d\u00e1ndole tu amor, elegiste ir al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso apesta. \u00bfSabes por qu\u00e9? Porque ella sac\u00f3 el extremo m\u00e1s corto del palo.<\/p>\n<p>She did nothing to deserve the things you did to her. But unfortunately, she wasn\u2019t one of those who dodged the bullet.<\/p>\n<p>Le diste justo en el centro del coraz\u00f3n. Ni un mil\u00edmetro m\u00e1s arriba ni m\u00e1s abajo. Y ella se rompi\u00f3 en un mill\u00f3n de pedazos.<\/p>\n<p>The list of things you did to her is so long that one can\u2019t help but wonder if you feed off of other people\u2019s misery.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe hace feliz ver a alguien abatido? \u00bfTe sientes bien contigo mismo cuando dejas a una persona en lo m\u00e1s bajo que ha estado en su vida?<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te preocupaste por lo que quedar\u00eda de ella una vez que hubieras acabado con ella. Nunca te detuviste ni un segundo a pensar en c\u00f3mo tus acciones de mierda la afectar\u00edan a ella, a esa chica que no quer\u00eda otra cosa que estar a tu lado y amarte.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfHay algo peor que ver a una buena chica <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/girls-falling-bad-boys-3-juegos-mentales-que-nos-juegan-los-narcisistas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">enamorarse del hombre equivocado<\/a> y luego convertirse en otra persona una vez que la rompe el mismo tipo que se supon\u00eda que la amaba?<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de un desenga\u00f1o, todos cambiamos. Pero despu\u00e9s de que nos rompan, cambiamos por completo.<\/p>\n<p>Porque las lecciones que aprendes despu\u00e9s de que te rompen se quedan grabadas en tu mente para siempre. Y nunca puedes olvidarlas.<\/p>\n<h2>La convertiste en una persona que ya no conf\u00eda en nadie<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93812\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"Chica triste y pensativa sentada sola en el alf\u00e9izar mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because she trusted you and look where that got her. If she had just been a little smarter, if she hadn\u2019t gone all in from the beginning, if she hadn\u2019t assumed you were one of the good guys, she wouldn\u2019t be this broken now.<\/p>\n<p>But she is. And that\u2019s why she doesn\u2019t trust anyone anymore. She\u2019s always one foot out the door.<\/p>\n<h2>Desde que la rompiste, ya no lleva su coraz\u00f3n en la manga.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93813\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crosswalk.com\/family\/singles\/he-said-she-said\/what-does-it-mean-to-guard-your-heart.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Guarda su coraz\u00f3n<\/a> now, with all the resources she has. She\u2019s built walls so high that nothing can tear them down.<\/p>\n<p>It will be a long time before she thinks about welcoming anyone in. That\u2019s if she ever decides to do that.<\/p>\n<h2>Ahora sabe que s\u00f3lo puede contar consigo misma<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93815\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el parquet junto a una ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She counted on you and you pulled the rug from under her feet. You showed her that she shouldn\u2019t trust anyone.<\/p>\n<p>But worst of all, she saw that even though she was there for someone with all her being, it didn\u2019t mean that someone would be there for her too. You showed her that the only person who won\u2019t let her down is herself.<\/p>\n<h2>Tach\u00f3 el amor de su lista de deseos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93817\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vestido blanco sin mangas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Este era su \u00faltimo deseo. Pero ella ya no quiere amor. Porque le mostraste que el amor duele.<\/p>\n<p>You showed her the dark side of falling for someone. And now she sees love through the prism of you. And it\u2019s not nice.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why she said goodbye to love. She no longer wants to love or to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>Ese cap\u00edtulo de su vida est\u00e1 cerrado, e incluso podr\u00eda estar cerrado para siempre.<\/p>\n<h2>Aprendi\u00f3 a re\u00edr incluso cuando ten\u00eda ganas de gritar. Aprendi\u00f3 a sonre\u00edr incluso cuando todo en ella se romp\u00eda.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93819\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven relaj\u00e1ndose en casa con una taza de caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She was never good at faking her feelings. But you know, life teaches you even the things you don\u2019t really want to know.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-cosas-que-entenderan-las-personas-que-embotellan-emociones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">reprime sus sentimientos<\/a>. She doesn\u2019t show anyone how she feels. When she feels like screaming, she just laughs.<\/p>\n<p>When she feels like breaking, she just smiles. Because if she lets herself go, she\u2019s afraid that she\u2019ll break into a million pieces and that she\u2019ll never be able to pull herself back together.<\/p>\n<h2>She hates the sentence \u201cI\u2019m fine\u201d, but after you, that\u2019s all she ever says about her feelings<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93822\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back.jpg\" alt=\"primer plano retrato de mujer mirando hacia atr\u00e1s\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t let anyone know how she feels. She says she\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n<p>But in that fine, there are millions of emotions, thousands of tears and one huge heartbreak. She\u2019s everything but fine even though she\u2019ll never admit that.<\/p>\n<p>Era la persona m\u00e1s encantadora con la que se pod\u00eda estar. Era la persona m\u00e1s feliz del mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Ella cre\u00eda que hab\u00eda bondad en las personas y que el amor pod\u00eda salvar el mundo. Pero t\u00fa le demostraste lo contrario.<\/p>\n<p>You showed her that her love isn\u2019t strong enough to defeat someone as bad as you are. And you turned her into one of those people she begged God for her to never become.<\/p>\n<p>La convertiste en un cad\u00e1ver viviente. Camina, habla, respira y come, pero no tiene alma. Ya no tiene amor.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s cold. There are no warm emotions in her bloodstream. There is no happiness or honest smiles. She lost all that to you.<\/p>\n<p>You pulled her into your darkness and you let her go, only when you saw that there wasn\u2019t a single trace of light left in her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93807\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Esto es en lo que se convirti\u00f3 despu\u00e9s de que la rompieras\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She loved you and you broke her. Instead of making life beautiful for both of you by simply giving her your love, you chose to go the other way around. And that sucks. Do you know why? Because she pulled the shorter end of the stick. She did nothing to deserve the things you did&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":93808,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14738","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":24,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. 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