{"id":14749,"date":"2020-04-20T14:43:13","date_gmt":"2020-04-20T14:43:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14749"},"modified":"2022-01-20T11:42:37","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T11:42:37","slug":"carta-chica-intento-duro-hombre-no-le-importaba-menos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-chica-intento-duro-hombre-no-le-importaba-menos\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a la chica que se esforz\u00f3 demasiado por un hombre al que no le importaba nada"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’re exhausted. <\/strong>Puedo verlo en las bolsas bajo tus ojos y en la forma en que mueves tu cuerpo al cruzar la calle.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s cansado.<\/strong> \u00bfY todos estos problemas para qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

For someone who can’t see your efforts and someone who couldn’t care less how hard all this is on you.<\/p>\n

You’ve been looking to make his life better and to please his every wish,<\/strong> but look at your bones, ripping your skin, because you haven’t been able to eat properly for days.<\/p>\n

You wanted to do so much for him that you stopped taking care of yourself. But let’s be honest, he just takes, takes and takes.<\/p>\n

Nunca devuelve nada<\/a> y todo lo que haces es llorar en la desesperaci\u00f3n. <\/strong>Cuando os conocisteis, visteis algo especial en \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Como si por fin fuera el chico que pod\u00eda dar la vuelta a tu mundo y darte el valor para volver a confiar en el amor.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019d been hurt far too many times and you thought that he was going to pick up the broken pieces and carry them with respect and appreciation.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando miras hacia atr\u00e1s en tu relaci\u00f3n ahora, \u00bfes eso realmente lo que hizo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te dijo que te hab\u00eda dado mucho y que le deb\u00edas algo a cambio. Le deb\u00edas tu cuerpo y tu obediencia.<\/p>\n

Le deb\u00edas cenas cocinadas y sexo despu\u00e9s. Le deb\u00edas la boca callada y los ojos secos, porque hab\u00eda hecho mucho por ti.<\/p>\n

Open your eyes! You don’t owe him anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te debes un respeto y un amor que \u00e9l nunca podr\u00eda darte, porque estaba demasiado ocupado<\/a> tomando todo lo que le diste.<\/p>\n

Te entregaste a \u00e9l incondicionalmente, \u00bfy para qu\u00e9? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 renunciaste a todo para hacerle sentir bien?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No hab\u00eda nada que le demostrara que se lo merec\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te manipul\u00f3 con sus palabras y su encanto, haci\u00e9ndote creer que era \u00e9l quien hac\u00eda todo el trabajo para mantener la relaci\u00f3n sana y fuerte, pero con sus dedos t\u00f3xicos metidos en ella, no hizo m\u00e1s que envenenarte el coraz\u00f3n. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Te dej\u00f3 ciego. <\/strong>However, you’re not the one to blame.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eres una mujer enamorada y tendemos a entregarnos plenamente al amor. Amamos amar. Esa es nuestra maldici\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

There were no signs of his abuse at the beginning so you fell for him hard and you keep falling, but he won’t be the one to catch you, because he couldn’t care less<\/a> si te duele.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quiere que sea agradable para \u00e9l. That’s why, darling\u2014stand up and move those feet. Walk away!<\/strong><\/p>\n

He isn’t the one for you and he will never be the right choice for any woman, ever. He is too selfish to love.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que puede ser dif\u00edcil de creer, pero ser\u00e1s amado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un d\u00eda ser\u00e1s adorada por el hombre adecuado. Te amar\u00e1 una persona que sabe apreciar tus esfuerzos y la sangre, el sudor y las l\u00e1grimas que pones en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You won’t ever need to cry again<\/a>. Pero para conocer a esa persona incre\u00edble, tienes que dejar ir a tu pareja actual que no hace m\u00e1s que aprovecharse de ti.<\/p>\n

Analiza la relaci\u00f3n desde la perspectiva de una tercera persona y m\u00edrala racionalmente. Has sido maltratado e incomprendido.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por primera vez en mucho tiempo, cu\u00eddate y demu\u00e9strate a ti misma que est\u00e1s dispuesta a hacer lo que haga falta para salir de ese horrible entorno.<\/p>\n

Querida, \u00e1mate a ti misma. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If there’s anything I want you to know, that I want you to realize, is that you need to love yourself more than you love anyone else in this world.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>\n

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