{"id":147566,"date":"2022-03-17T11:23:47","date_gmt":"2022-03-17T11:23:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=147566"},"modified":"2022-10-23T09:00:56","modified_gmt":"2022-10-23T09:00:56","slug":"senales-de-que-tu-ex-te-esta-poniendo-a-prueba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-tu-ex-te-esta-poniendo-a-prueba\/","title":{"rendered":"15 se\u00f1ales claras de que tu ex te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba (+c\u00f3mo manejarlo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tu ex sigue en tu vida sin intenci\u00f3n de irse? \u00bfEst\u00e1n jugando con tu mente a prop\u00f3sito, o est\u00e1n contemplando la idea de volver a estar juntos<\/b><\/a> \u00bfContigo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is a thin line between these two things. It\u2019s pretty difficult to distinguish between a toxic person who is toying with you and someone trying to decide whether your relationship deserves a retake.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfcu\u00e1l es la diferencia? \u00bfCu\u00e1les son las se\u00f1ales de que tu ex te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, honey, I got you covered. Check out these clues and see for yourself!<\/p>\n

Se\u00f1ales de que tu ex te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba<\/h2>\n

\u00bfMe est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba mi ex? Si te identificas con todos o la mayor\u00eda de estos patrones de comportamiento, \u00a1definitivamente lo son!<\/p>\n

1. Intentar ponerte celoso<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Una de las primeras se\u00f1ales de que tu ex te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba es si hace todo lo posible por ponerte celoso<\/a>. I know what you must be thinking right now: But they\u2019re happy in a new relationship?<\/em><\/p>\n

Perm\u00edtanme decirles algo de inmediato: esto no es m\u00e1s que una gran mentira. Trust me, if they\u2019re really in love, they wouldn\u2019t care if you were updated about it or not.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 hace tu ex? Ponen toda su energ\u00eda en asegurarse de que te enteras de su supuesta felicidad.<\/p>\n

If they run into your best friend, they\u2019ll tell them everything about their new romance. They keep on posting new selfies all over their social media platforms, waiting for your reaction.<\/p>\n

Una cosa es segura: tu ex quiere que vuelvas<\/a>; otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t be doing all of this in the first place. They\u2019re clearly in a rebound relationship since they haven\u2019t gotten over you just yet.<\/p>\n

If you show them jealousy, it will be a sign that you still care. A sign that they\u2019re safe to ditch this new person and make a move on you.<\/p>\n

2. Escarbar en el pasado<\/h3>\n

Let\u2019s face it \u2013 you two broke up for a reason. Well, if your ex is a mature person, they\u2019ll want to get rid of this emotional baggage before renewing your relationship.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it seems like they\u2019re digging through the past without an actual purpose or just to break your heart even more. Trust me, one of the common reasons behind this kind of behavior is that they\u2019re setting the record straight before giving your romance a second chance.<\/p>\n

Su ex <\/b>volver\u00e1<\/b><\/a> once they\u2019re sure that you\u2019re both over everything that has happened, and it\u2019s your job to show them that you\u2019re now a changed person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

After all, what\u2019s the point of getting back together if you keep on going back to the hard times you had in the past? Now is the time to show them that you\u2019re perfectly aware of your mistakes and that you don\u2019t plan on repeating them.<\/p>\n

Of course, this kind of behavior can be a sign that your ex is only looking for closure. In that case, they wouldn\u2019t show all the other signs from this list!<\/p>\n

3. Intentar acostarse contigo<\/h3>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a tough one. You and your ex are on good terms, but lately, they\u2019ve been acting differently. You can see through it, though \u2013 they\u2019re trying to get you into bed.<\/p>\n

I have to admit \u2013 this is a tricky decision. On the one hand, you can see it as a sign your ex misses you and wants to volver juntos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pero, al mismo tiempo, tambi\u00e9n puede ser una trampa. \u00bfY si planean us\u00e1ndote<\/b><\/a> \u00bfy no volver a llamarte?<\/strong><\/p>\n

If I were you, I\u2019d see this as one of the signs your ex is testing you. They\u2019re trying to understand if they can have you whenever they feel like it and if you\u2019ll give them everything they\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing if you\u2019re only after physical pleasure. But here’s some relationship advice if your final goal is reconciliation: don\u2019t do it, especially if they have a new boyfriend or girlfriend.<\/p>\n

Every relationship expert will tell you pretty much the same thing: make it clear that they can\u2019t only get parts of you. You\u2019re a whole package, and your body doesn\u2019t come without any strings attached.<\/p>\n

4. Sin contacto<\/h3>\n

The no contact rule \u2013 the universal way to haz que un ex te eche de menos<\/a>. Su ex finge haberte superado<\/a> y desaparece de tu vida s\u00f3lo para darte la oportunidad de sentir su ausencia.<\/p>\n

They clearly need validation from you. Trust me, they\u2019re sitting at home, patiently waiting for you to make a move and reach out to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they follow the no contact rule strictly, they won\u2019t contact you first, even if their life depends on it. On the contrary, they\u2019re waiting to see if you\u2019ll do anything about it.<\/p>\n

This person probably feels like you take them for granted. Maybe you assume that they\u2019ll always be around no matter what happens, and they\u2019re trying to prove you otherwise.<\/p>\n

\u00bfLe tender\u00e1s la mano? \u00bfO esperar\u00e1s a que expire la norma de no contacto? Todo depende de ti.<\/p>\n

5. Preguntas profundas y personales<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Su ex ha estado llamando y enviando mensajes de texto<\/a> with seemingly weird questions lately. They\u2019re tackling topics they\u2019ve never dealt with before.<\/p>\n

\u00bfHas pensado alguna vez que el hecho de que tu ex te ponga a prueba es, en realidad, una forma de que vuelva a conocerte? Sobre todo si hab\u00e9is roto hace tiempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quieren saber cu\u00e1l es su postura sobre algunos temas importantes. \u00bfHa cambiado de opini\u00f3n sobre ciertas cosas que les molestaban en el pasado?<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s some great news: it\u2019s possible they\u2019ve realized you\u2019re marriage material, so that\u2019s why they\u2019re testing the waters. They todav\u00eda siento algo por ti<\/a> \u2013 there is no doubt about that.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, quieren asegurarse you\u2019re compatible<\/a> as well. They\u2019re asking you all these preguntas personales profundas<\/a> para comprobar tu actitud hacia las cosas que les importan.<\/p>\n

6. Juegos fr\u00edos y calientes<\/h3>\n

S\u00e9 que todos odiamos juegos mentales<\/a> You don\u2019t know where you stand, and you have no idea what might happen tomorrow. Your ex is anything but consistent when it comes to how they treat you.<\/p>\n

One day, they act like they\u2019d die to get back together with you. To be exact, it sometimes seems like nothing has changed, and it\u2019s as if you\u2019re just continuing where you left off.<\/p>\n

Pero luego tenemos la otra cara de la moneda historia de fr\u00edo y calor<\/a>. Hay momentos en los que tu ex no aparece por ning\u00fan lado.<\/p>\n

De repente deja de devolver tus mensajes<\/a> and calls, and they don\u2019t ask to meet up. They no longer text you or check in, and even your mutual friends don\u2019t know what\u2019s gotten into them.<\/p>\n

And just when you make peace with the fact that they\u2019re out of the picture for good, they make a great comeback! Before you know it, you\u2019re back to square one, and the cycle begins all over again.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs esta una de las se\u00f1ales de que tu ex te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba? Por supuesto que s\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But please be careful, as this might not be the kind of test you\u2019re hoping to get from them. It\u2019s possible that they\u2019re actually just trying to see how far they can go without you walking away for good.<\/p>\n

7. La prueba de lealtad<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Todos los coaches de relaciones te dir\u00e1n lo mismo: si tu ex quiere volver a estar juntos<\/a>, they\u2019ll expect you to remain loyal during the breakup. When I mention loyalty, I\u2019m not talking about staying faithful.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, they\u2019ll be hurt if they find out you had a new relationship in the meantime. However, loyalty is much more important than this.<\/p>\n

Tu ex comprobar\u00e1 si a\u00fan puede contar contigo. \u00bfViolaste su confianza aunque estabais separados?<\/p>\n

\u00bfHiciste algo que se considera prohibido, como salir con un amigo com\u00fan? \u00bfHablaste mal de tu ex y de toda vuestra relaci\u00f3n tras la ruptura?<\/p>\n

They might talk to you about these things directly, or they might ask around. Either way, if you pass the loyalty test, you\u2019ll likely get back together.<\/p>\n

8. Uso de plataformas de medios sociales<\/h3>\n

Let\u2019s face it: your ex keeps on low-key stalking you. They\u2019re not some kind of a psychopath who follows you around and stares through your windows at night. However, they use modern-day methods to keep track of your activities.<\/p>\n

Yes, that\u2019s right, I\u2019m talking about social media. Nunca se pierden las actualizaciones de tus historias, les gustan todas tus publicaciones y repasan tu lista de seguidores con regularidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, there is also a different group of exes who only lurk in the background. You are still friends on social media, but they pretend like you don\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n

Either type of behavior is a kind of test. First of all, they\u2019re probably waiting for your reaction.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSer\u00e1s el primero en entrar en sus mensajes de texto? \u00bfLe dar\u00e1s a me gusta a sus mensajes y continuar\u00e1s con este peque\u00f1o juego?<\/p>\n

Y por supuesto, \u00bfpublicar\u00e1n algo sospechoso? \u00bfEncontrar\u00e1n alguna se\u00f1al de una nueva novia o novio?<\/p>\n

9. Darte el poder<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Una de las se\u00f1ales de que tu ex te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba est\u00e1 relacionada con el hecho de que te dan la oportunidad de tomar una decisi\u00f3n. Exponen claramente sus intenciones, pero el poder est\u00e1 en tus manos.<\/p>\n

They clearly want to see if you\u2019ve grown since your breakup. How do you plan on making this happen?<\/p>\n

Will you even move towards reconciliation? If the answer is yes, how will you resolve your issues? Clearly, you have some; otherwise, you\u2019d still be together.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPiensas tomarte las cosas con calma o quieres seguir con tu relaci\u00f3n como si nada hubiera pasado?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re in charge, so plan every step and think things through before acting on them!<\/p>\n

10. La prueba del \u00e9xito<\/h3>\n

It\u2019s when a relationship ends that you start to see your ex-partner more clearly. Well, that\u2019s exactly what your ex has been doing during this time you two are apart.<\/p>\n

They know that you\u2019ve reached a crossroads: you\u2019ll either break things off forever or turn this into a long-term relationship or even marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Puede que cuando estaban juntos tu situaci\u00f3n econ\u00f3mica y tu carrera no les parecieran gran cosa, pero ahora quieren saber si algo ha cambiado.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest with you: this is something women do more than men. But you can\u2019t say: \u201cMy ex-girlfriend is a gold-digger\u201d just because she puts you through a success test.<\/p>\n

Basically, she\u2019s checking whether you\u2019ve moved from a dead spot. Did you find a better job or get a raise? Are you now more motivated to make something out of your life?<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean she\u2019s only interested in your money. She just wants un hombre financieramente estable<\/a> a su lado, un hombre con el que pueda planear su futuro.<\/p>\n

11. Poner a prueba tus l\u00edmites<\/h3>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

A veces, tu ex sigue haci\u00e9ndote diferentes cosas malas. They know you still love them, and they\u2019re not testing to see if you\u2019ll take them back \u2013 they\u2019re testing your boundaries to see how much you can take.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll be seeing other men and women without even trying to hide it. They\u2019re disrespecting you in different ways and treat you like garbage.<\/p>\n

Pero, al mismo tiempo, te impiden irte cada vez que intentas marcharte. Uno pensar\u00eda que no quieren saber nada de ti, pero se quedan a tu lado a pesar de hacerte pasar un infierno.<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan momento, esta persona querr\u00e1 volver juntos<\/a> with you \u2013 there is no doubt about that. But until that happens, they want to break you completely.<\/p>\n

Basically, they\u2019re bajando el list\u00f3n<\/a>. Before you know it, you\u2019ll settle for these breadcrumbs they\u2019ve been tossing away at you.<\/p>\n

So, you won\u2019t ask for more in the future. Actually, you\u2019ll be more than happy when they finally decide to put a label on your relationship.<\/p>\n

12. Tomar el control<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re dealing with a toxic ex, they\u2019ll use this period of separation to gain even more control over you. You miss them, and they know it.<\/p>\n

Aunque te niegues a admitirlo, lo cierto es que har\u00edas pr\u00e1cticamente cualquier cosa con tal de tenerlos de vuelta<\/a>. S\u00ed, eso incluye aceptar su comportamiento posesivo.<\/p>\n

This time, they\u2019re not checking your boundaries. Instead, they\u2019re imposing their controlling limits on you.<\/p>\n

Te proh\u00edben literalmente quedar con algunos amigos, te piden que borres tus redes sociales y controlan tu vida de otras maneras. Al principio, puede que lo veas como una se\u00f1al de que todav\u00eda te quieren<\/a>. Si no, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 estar\u00edan tan celosos?<\/p>\n

Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte, this is a major red flag. They\u2019re using your vulnerabilities to take complete charge of your life. And they\u2019re testing you to see how far they can go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, cuando ustedes dos volver juntos<\/a> y te das cuenta de lo que has firmado, ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde para cambiar las condiciones.<\/p>\n

13. Pedirle ayuda<\/h3>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

One of the signs your ex is testing you is that they\u2019re still asking for your help. Don\u2019t see this as their way of taking advantage of your kindness<\/p>\n

Even though this is possible, it\u2019s more likely that your ex is checking whether they can rely on your not. Obviously, this is only possible if you two stayed on good terms.<\/p>\n

They keep on making excuses to reach out. You\u2019re the only one whose advice they believe in and the only one who can give them a hand when they\u2019re going through a hard time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is no doubt about one thing: your ex still holds a great deal of trust in you. But at the same time, they\u2019re wondering if you\u2019re still the same person who is ready to move mountains for their sake.<\/p>\n

Si les demuestras que lo eres, es un billete de vuelta a su vida.<\/p>\n

14. Centrarse en su vida amorosa<\/h3>\n

Is my ex testing me to see if they\u2019re interested in my love life? Definitely yes!<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s clear tu ex est\u00e1 celoso<\/a>, but at the same time, they\u2019re not really doing anything special to get you back. What\u2019s the deal with that?<\/p>\n

Well, every relationship expert will give you the same answer: they\u2019re literally letting you find someone new.<\/p>\n

Are they doing it because they don\u2019t love you and actually want you to move on? Absolutely not!<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want to be the one you settle for if there is someone better out there for you. They don\u2019t want to be convenient for you.<\/p>\n

They want you to have options and to always choose them, no matter the competition. They want to know that you\u2019d rather be alone than with someone else if you couldn\u2019t have them.<\/p>\n

15. Recordando los viejos tiempos<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Una buena se\u00f1al de que tu ex te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba es que siguen sacando a relucir los viejos tiempos<\/strong>. \u00bfC\u00f3mo reaccionar\u00e1s cuando mencionen el pasado? \u00bfCambiar\u00e1s de tema o empezar\u00e1s a sonre\u00edr de forma coqueta?<\/p>\n

Your reaction will tell them everything they need to know. But that\u2019s not all.<\/p>\n

Quieren ver c\u00f3mo percibes todo lo que pas\u00f3 entre vosotros desde tu punto de vista. \u00bfVes tus errores y har\u00edas algo diferente?<\/p>\n

Esta es su oportunidad.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si tu ex est\u00e1 tanteando el terreno?<\/h2>\n

Si tu ex quiere seguir en contacto con la excusa de los amigos que quedan<\/b><\/a>, they\u2019re probably testing the waters. This is especially true if they keep on flirting with you and sending you se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019re not asking for a second chance just yet, but they\u2019re definitely trying to see if you\u2019ll give them the green light to keep on trying to get you back.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si tu ex est\u00e1 intentando llamar tu atenci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n

If your ex is going out of their way to make you jealous, it\u2019s a good sign that they\u2019re actually trying to get your attention.<\/strong> No paran de restregarte su nueva relaci\u00f3n por la cara s\u00f3lo para obtener una reacci\u00f3n por tu parte.<\/p>\n

Also, they\u2019re probably reaching out to your friends and family instead of calling you directly. Or they will just give you random llamadas de borrachos <\/a> and text messages and pretend like nothing\u2019s happened in the morning.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si tu ex te quiere en secreto?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si tu ex novio o novia quiere volver<\/b><\/a>, they\u2019ll do everything in their power to stay in your life. They\u2019ll make excuses to see you or, at least, hear from you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll keep on reminding you of the good old days, trying to get you back with the help of nostalgia. This person will stalk your social media apps because they want to be up to date on what\u2019s going on in your life.<\/p>\n

And let\u2019s not forget about their jealousy. They can\u2019t handle the idea of you dating someone else because they still think of you as theirs.<\/p>\n

Para terminar:<\/h2>\n

Todas las se\u00f1ales de que tu ex te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba est\u00e1n aqu\u00ed. Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 vas a hacer al respecto?<\/p>\n

Bueno, todo depende de c\u00f3mo quieras que acabe esto. Si piensas recuperar a tu ex, aseg\u00farate de superar todas sus pruebas. Dales exactamente lo que quieren y persu\u00e1deles de que tu relaci\u00f3n merece una <\/b>segunda oportunidad<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t see a future here, don\u2019t waste your precious time and energy on these mind games. What\u2019s the point? Just cut them off and proceed to heal your broken heart.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why is your ex still in your life with no intention of leaving? Are they playing with your mind on purpose, or are they contemplating the idea of getting back together with you? There is a thin line between these two things. It\u2019s pretty difficult to distinguish between a toxic person who is toying with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":147591,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-147566","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/15-Clear-Signs-Your-Ex-Is-Testing-You-How-To-Handle-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","parent":29627,"count":51,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29629,"category_count":51,"category_description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","cat_name":"getting him back","category_nicename":"getting-him-back","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/147566","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=147566"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/147566\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/147591"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=147566"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=147566"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=147566"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}