Evitar la comunicaci\u00f3n, ignorar y herir a otra persona de esa manera demuestra qu\u00e9 tipo de persona eres en realidad<\/strong>. Tambi\u00e9n da\u00f1a la relaci\u00f3n que tienes con esa persona, a veces incluso m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de toda reparaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n La verdad es que, utilizando este m\u00e9todo de abuso emocional<\/a> may define your personality, and if you still aren\u2019t sure how that\u2019s possible, you\u2019ll need to stay with me until the end.<\/p>\n He aqu\u00ed 6 formas en las que hacer callar a alguien dice mucho de tu car\u00e1cter.<\/p>\n La verdad es que la mayor\u00eda de la gente opta por dar la espalda a alguien cuando quieren evitar conflictos<\/a> y la confrontaci\u00f3n con otra persona.<\/em><\/p>\n They think it\u2019s the perfect way to steer clear of abuso verbal<\/a>, but, unfortunately, what they aren\u2019t aware of is that the silent treatment is also a form of abuse… abuso emocional.<\/strong><\/p>\n I personally believe that it\u2019s one of the most common reasons for relaciones malsanas<\/a> nowadays. Couples choose to avoid fights because they don\u2019t have the courage to solve their issues by speaking about their problems directly, and they think it\u2019ll help them save their relationship.<\/p>\n Por el contrario, el silencio s\u00f3lo conseguir\u00e1 distanciarlos y debilitarlos. conexi\u00f3n emocional.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n If you don\u2019t feel free to talk about everything directly and openly with your loved one, then your relationship is anything but healthy. Besides, the fact is, the longer you keep stonewalling them, the less chance you\u2019ll have to fix and salva tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n If you don\u2019t have the courage to confront another person, the only logical conclusion is that you\u2019re struggling with deep self-esteem and self-confidence issues.<\/p>\n Maybe you think you won\u2019t be able to win the argument, or you\u2019re scared you may say something that will drive them away.<\/em> It doesn\u2019t really matter because it\u2019s still the same conclusion: te consumen las dudas sobre ti mismo.<\/a><\/p>\n Esto puede perjudicar profundamente su salud mental y su bienestar general.<\/strong> No ser consciente de tu val\u00eda, dudar de tus propias cualidades y replegarte en tu caparaz\u00f3n puede ser una seria amenaza para todas tus relaciones futuras.<\/p>\n Until you free yourself from that self-doubt and overcome your self-esteem issues, you\u2019ll never be able to build and maintain a healthy relationship with another human being.<\/em><\/p>\n You\u2019ll keep pushing people away by giving them the silent treatment.<\/strong> As\u00ed que t\u00f3mese esto como una seria advertencia: empiece a trabajar para mejorar su autoestima<\/a> y acabar de una vez por todas con estos malos patrones de conducta.<\/p>\n Maybe you\u2019re aware that the silent treatment is a form of abuso emocional<\/a>y quieres castigar a tu ex-marido\/mujer, familiar o ser querido que te hizo da\u00f1o us\u00e1ndolo.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, \u00bfsab\u00eda que el dolor emocional tambi\u00e9n puede causar dolor f\u00edsico? Y el hecho es que violencia dom\u00e9stica<\/a> comienza con el abuso emocional y verbal en la mayor\u00eda de los casos.<\/em><\/p>\n Las primeras veces que tu pareja te haga da\u00f1o o teng\u00e1is un desacuerdo, puede que pienses en castigarle d\u00e1ndole la espalda, pero \u00bfqu\u00e9 ocurrir\u00e1 despu\u00e9s de que ocurra varias veces m\u00e1s?<\/p>\n It\u2019s really something you should think about. No importa lo que otra persona te haga, nadie merece sufrir abusos o malos tratos de ning\u00fan tipo.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, instead of sulking and going silent for days when you get into a fight with your loved one, try to take a timeout and cool off. Don\u2019t act in the heat of the moment because you’ll be sorry later.<\/p>\n If you can\u2019t solve your issues through healthy communication, then maybe you shouldn\u2019t be together<\/a>. Maybe you aren\u2019t meant to be together…<\/p>\n Trust me, it wasn\u2019t until last week that I was aware that giving someone the silent treatment speaks volumes about your character. Yo era evasivas<\/a> my partner from time to time, but it was only because I thought I\u2019d teach him a lesson that way.<\/em><\/p>\n Por supuesto, me equivoqu\u00e9, y ahora, lo entiendo claramente. La semana pasada, tuvimos una charla seria y sincera, y hablamos de todo lo que nos molestaba en nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n He said that what annoyed him the most in our relationship was how I always tried to gaslight him after my \u2018silence period\u2019 was over. And I was like, \u201cWHAAAT? I never do that. ?\u201d Except I really did. I was guilty as charged, but I just didn\u2019t want to admit it to myself for a long time.<\/p>\n Y ves esto, justo aqu\u00ed, la frase que le dije, es la mejor se\u00f1al de gaslighting<\/a>. I immediately started denying the facts to make both him and myself believe that I wasn\u2019t doing that<\/strong>. En realidad, intent\u00e9 culparle de mi mal comportamiento, lo cual est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que mal.<\/p>\n He explained how he always had to walk on eggshells around me because he never knew when I’d go silent again. I am now aware of my mistake, and I\u2019m still working on it.<\/p>\n I am not an abuser. I don\u2019t want my partner to feel bad, unhappy, or no querido en nuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/a>. Decid\u00ed renunciar al tratamiento silencioso y basta de luz de gas<\/a>. Realmente me preocupo por \u00e9l, y voy a trabajar duro para arreglar nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Personas que muestran rasgos de personalidad narcisista<\/a> suelen tener diferentes formas (manipuladoras) o m\u00e9todos (abusivos) que les ayudan a mantener a sus v\u00edctimas cerca.<\/em><\/p>\n El tratamiento silencioso es precisamente uno de esos m\u00e9todos. They use it mostly because they want to punish their victims for acting in a way they don\u2019t approve of.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tambi\u00e9n lo utilizan como precauci\u00f3n para demostrar a sus v\u00edctimas (que probablemente han desarrollado fuertes sentimientos hacia ellos) que pueden perderlos f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n It\u2019s actually a kind of warning to their victims to say that if they don\u2019t behave how they want, they\u2019ll leave them.<\/p>\n They hope that their victims won\u2019t see it as abuse, and they continue to manipulate them in that way as long as they don\u2019t uncover their game. Unfortunately, most victims realize this too late.<\/p>\n In the end, if you\u2019re giving someone the silent treatment, it may make you seem like un narcisista<\/a>. Para evitarlo, pi\u00e9nsatelo dos veces antes de decidir darle la espalda a alguien.<\/em><\/p>\n Irreflexivo. Profundamente ap\u00e1tico. Despreocupado. Ignorante. Despreocupado. Ego\u00edsta<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n De nuevo, todos estos rasgos son propios de una persona narcisista. Y, cr\u00e9eme, ser llamado narcisista es el peor t\u00edtulo que una persona puede recibir.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, si lo piensas bien, \u00bfqu\u00e9 clase de persona sigue haciendo da\u00f1o a alguien a prop\u00f3sito sin que le importe lo m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo?<\/p>\n So, the next time you give someone the cold shoulder, think about this. If you don\u2019t want to make yourself look like a narcissist, give up on using this awful narcissistic technique.<\/p>\n Si alguien te utiliza, te maltrata o te hace da\u00f1o, habla de ello con \u00e9l. Intenta resolver tus conflictos de forma sana en lugar de callarte.<\/em><\/p>\n And always remember, just because someone hurt you doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re allowed to hurt them too. Don\u2019t stoop to their level just because you want to get revenge on them. A suelta<\/a> y alejarse es y ser\u00e1 siempre la mejor venganza.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Una persona narcisista.<\/strong> People with narcissistic personality traits care only for themselves, and if they think the silent treatment can benefit them, the other person\u2019s suffering won\u2019t make them give up on it.<\/p>\n Una persona manipuladora.<\/strong> Oh, this is definitely all manipulative people\u2019s favorite technique to manipulate someone else into doing something they want them to do. If the person on the receiving end has genuine feelings for them, sooner or later, they\u2019ll fall for their manipulation.<\/p>\n Una persona inmadura.<\/strong> Evitar conflictos y ignorar a alguien<\/a> just because you can\u2019t communicate with them in a healthy way is a huge sign of immaturity.<\/p>\n Una persona cruel y ap\u00e1tica.<\/strong> Someone who doesn\u2019t care for other people\u2019s feelings is also able to give someone the silent treatment. They\u2019re simply emotionally numb and unable to feel another person\u2019s pain.<\/p>\n Un abusador.<\/strong> Someone with an abusive personality disorder is also capable of hurting another person through the silent treatment. For them, it\u2019s a form of abuse they gladly use to punish their victims.<\/p>\n Desde una perspectiva psicol\u00f3gica, tratamiento silencioso<\/a> se considera una forma de abuso emocional<\/strong>Un m\u00e9todo manipulador que utilizan los maltratadores para castigar a sus v\u00edctimas u obligarlas a hacer algo.<\/p>\n When someone decides to cut off communication with another person, they need to have a reason for it. You can\u2019t just stop talking to someone because it doesn\u2019t make sense at all.<\/p>\n Personas con baja autoestima<\/a> and those who struggle with insecurities are prone to this form of emotional abuse because they aren\u2019t able to resolve conflict with another person. They go silent to \u2018save themselves\u2019 and don\u2019t even think about the person on the receiving end.<\/p>\n Esta forma de abuso emocional es profundamente malsana y t\u00f3xica, y puede da\u00f1ar incluso las relaciones m\u00e1s s\u00f3lidas. La falta de comunicaci\u00f3n debilita la conexi\u00f3n entre los miembros de la pareja (especialmente en las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas) y hace que poco a poco se vayan distanciando.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, el hecho es que puede tener peores consecuencias<\/a> on a person\u2019s mental health than verbal abuse<\/strong>. Esas consecuencias pueden incluso causarles dolor f\u00edsico y dejarles cicatrices que les perseguir\u00e1n en todas sus relaciones futuras.<\/p>\n La mayor\u00eda de los psic\u00f3logos y expertos en relaciones consideran que el tratamiento silencioso es profundamente inmaduro. In fact, most of them agree that it\u2019s a method immature, narcissistic, and manipulative people use to emotionally abuse sus v\u00edctimas.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Las personas maduras siempre encuentran la manera de resolver sus conflictos de forma sana, a trav\u00e9s de una comunicaci\u00f3n saludable.<\/em> Avoiding communication is something they never do because they know that it\u2019s never a way to deal with issues and disagreements.<\/p>\n We all know that adolescents and young adults are prone to ostracism, and it\u2019s just another piece of evidence that supports the fact that the silent treatment is immature.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re a stable and mature person, you\u2019ll deal with your problems directly and won\u2019t try to ignore, avoid, or hide from them. If you don\u2019t know how to express your feelings and thoughts, you should really work on your emotional maturity.<\/p>\n To be completely honest, it\u2019s okay only if you don\u2019t care for that person at all and want to make it clear to them. On the other hand, you should always show someone respect even if you don\u2019t particularly care for them.<\/p>\n Puede termina tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a> con esa persona y expl\u00edcale tus razones. Your silent treatment may be heartbreaking for the person on the receiving end, and hurting someone else\u2019s feelings on purpose makes you a bad person.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s actually a sign of narcissism. Just try to imagine how you would feel if someone ignored you in the same way? Not a good feeling, right?<\/p>\n Then, don\u2019t make another person feel that way \u2013 you can always find a more painless way to end communication with that person.<\/p>\n As much as I try, I simply can\u2019t think of any positive effects the silent treatment may have on a relationship between two people. As\u00ed que, s\u00ed, es malo para una relaci\u00f3n, y puede da\u00f1ar o arruinar por completo el v\u00ednculo entre los miembros de la pareja.<\/em><\/p>\n La comunicaci\u00f3n es y debe ser la base de toda relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a><\/strong>. After all, there are no problems or issues that can\u2019t be solved through healthy communication.<\/p>\nDar a alguien el tratamiento del silencio dice mucho de tu car\u00e1cter<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u2022 You aren\u2019t brave enough to confront them directly<\/h3>\n
\u2022 You have self-esteem issues<\/h3>\n
\u2022 You try to punish the other person through this emotional abuse<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Stonewalling goes hand in hand with gaslighting<\/h3>\n
\u2022 It\u2019s one of the most favorites methods of narcissists<\/h3>\n
\u2022 You don\u2019t care about the consequences your silent treatment may have, which makes you…<\/h3>\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 tipo de persona da el tratamiento del silencio?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfQu\u00e9 psicolog\u00eda hay detr\u00e1s del tratamiento silencioso?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfEs inmaduro el tratamiento del silencio?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfEst\u00e1 bien dar a alguien el tratamiento del silencio?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfEs malo para una relaci\u00f3n dar el tratamiento del silencio?<\/h2>\n
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