{"id":148323,"date":"2022-03-31T11:49:36","date_gmt":"2022-03-31T11:49:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=148323"},"modified":"2022-06-08T17:14:28","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T17:14:28","slug":"como-hacer-que-un-narcisista-se-obsesione-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-hacer-que-un-narcisista-se-obsesione-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo hacer que un narcisista se obsesione contigo en 9 sencillos pasos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Los narcisistas suelen carecer de empat\u00eda, lo que les hace extremadamente manipuladores y controladores. <strong>Tambi\u00e9n saben presentarse de la mejor manera posible para conseguir lo que quieren de los dem\u00e1s con poco esfuerzo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que muchas personas tienen un problema con c\u00f3mo hacer que un narcisista obsesionado con usted despu\u00e9s de una ruptura. Estoy aqu\u00ed para ayudarle en su b\u00fasqueda. Despu\u00e9s de ver las mejores maneras de hacer que un narcisista <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-signos-de-obsesion\/\"><i> obsesivo<\/i><\/a>Tambi\u00e9n hablaremos de algunas de sus preguntas.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>En <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-te-cambia-salir-con-un-narcisista\/\"><b>saliendo con un <\/b><b>narcisista<\/b><\/a>Debes saber que no es f\u00e1cil romper con ellos y que pueden ser muy manipuladores.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mientras atraviesas el proceso de ruptura, es importante que sepas que no est\u00e1s solo y que hay personas que pueden ayudarte en estos momentos dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n<h2>C\u00f3mo hacer que un narcisista se obsesione contigo: 9 maneras<\/h2>\n<p>Estas son algunas de las mejores formas de hacer que un narcisista se obsesione contigo:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Luce lo mejor posible<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-148324\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atractiva posando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/attractive-woman-posing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-rasgos-narcisistas-que-quiza-no-reconozca-de-inmediato\/\"> rasgos narcisistas<\/a> pueden parecer encantadores al principio, pueden ser muy manipuladores y exigentes cuando conocen a su pareja ideal. Suelen utilizar su encanto para conseguir lo que quieren de la relaci\u00f3n sin tener en cuenta c\u00f3mo les afecta a largo plazo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por eso recomiendo lucir un aspecto afilado para atraer a tu ex narcisista y hacer que se obsesione contigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Narcissists are attracted to people who are confident and have a strong sense of self. So, if you want to get their attention, you need to look your best. This includes dressing the part and using makeup to make them feel like they&#8217;re the only one in the room.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>2. Don\u2019t commit<\/h3>\n<p><em>Todos sabemos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/narcisistas-manipuladores-psicopatas-personas-toxicas-dano\/\"><i> narcisistas <\/i><i> perjudicar a las personas<\/i><\/a>especialmente los m\u00e1s vulnerables, como los compa\u00f1eros de trabajo y los suegros. Por eso, la mejor manera de huir de una relaci\u00f3n narcisista es no comprometerse en absoluto.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Recuerda que los narcisistas no son f\u00e1ciles de atraer. Suelen tener muchos rasgos narcisistas que hacen que sea dif\u00edcil acercarse a ellos. Sin embargo, hay algo que puede jugar a tu favor: se obsesionan contigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>En el contexto de las citas, el compromiso suele definirse como la promesa de ser fiel y leal a alguien dentro de una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Involucrarse con otras personas<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-148325\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja sonriente conversando durante un caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/smiling-couple-talking-on-a-coffee-date-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los narcisistas suelen tener dificultades para mantener relaciones sanas con los dem\u00e1s. Tienden a ser insensibles a las necesidades de sus parejas y a menudo no est\u00e1n disponibles emocionalmente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Adem\u00e1s de no estar disponibles emocionalmente, los narcisistas pueden ser muy cr\u00edticos con sus parejas para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-horribles-que-hacen-los-narcisistas-para-controlar-a-sus-victimas\/\"><b>mantener el control sobre sus v\u00edctimas<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Pero, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puedes relacionarte con otras personas? Ayudar\u00eda que tu pareja narcisista supiera que est\u00e1s flirteando con otras personas o saliendo con alguien nuevo que es el <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/razones-para-salir-con-tu-polo-opuesto\/\"><i> polo opuesto<\/i><\/a> de ellos. De hecho, as\u00ed los mantendr\u00e1s enganchados a ti e interesados.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>4. Ser arrogante<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfEs usted un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-de-saber-si-es-un-narcisista-o-simplemente-un-egocentrico\/\"> narcisista tambi\u00e9n, o s\u00f3lo eres egoc\u00e9ntrico<\/a>? Las personas con trastorno narcisista de la personalidad o NPD se sienten atra\u00eddas por las personas de mayor estatus.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Narcissistic people are often arrogant, but they also have a fragile ego that can be easily bruised. This is why it&#8217;s important to know how to handle narcissists when you&#8217;re in relationships with them and when you want to get back at them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Arrogance is one of the most unattractive qualities a person can have if you ask me. It can be really difficult to make someone love you when they feel like they&#8217;re dealing with an egotistical individual. Still, it\u2019ll get the job done with your narcissist.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>5. No hay tiempo para ti<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-148326\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio de pie al aire libre y enviando mensajes de texto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the most effective and easiest methods to make a narcissist obsess over you is to pretend that you don&#8217;t have time. This can be done by simply not responding to their texts or emails and just being unavailable for a while.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pretending you don&#8217;t have time is one of the best ways to make someone interested in you because it creates a sense of mystery around your life and makes them curious about what&#8217;s going on with your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Sin embargo, este m\u00e9todo tiene algunos riesgos, como que la persona se ofenda o que dejes de gustarle porque piense que la estabas ignorando. De este modo, pueden incluso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-el-narcisista-engana-a-la-gente-haciendole-creer-que-es-el-bueno\/\"><i> enga\u00f1ar a la gente haci\u00e9ndoles creer que son los buenos<\/i><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>6. Sin cumplidos<\/h3>\n<p>S\u00ed, esta es una de las <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-pasos-para-poner-a-un-narcisista-en-su-sitio\/\"> formas de poner a los narcisistas en su sitio<\/a>. In fact, you don\u2019t say anything positive to them; you will soon have them hooked. <strong>Esto se debe a que les encanta ser ignorados. Les recuerda su trauma.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Hacer cumplidos a su pareja es una parte sana e importante de su relaci\u00f3n. Es una se\u00f1al de que est\u00e1s contento con ella.<\/strong>. Si no hay regalos ni cumplidos, el narcisista querr\u00e1 saber qu\u00e9 le pasa, lo que le doler\u00e1 m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<h3>7. \u00a1Ignorar, ignorar, ignorar!<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-148327\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria con gafas sentada sumida en profundos pensamientos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una vez que empieces a ignorar a tu abusador, puedes estar segura <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-en-las-que-he-conseguido-romper-el-hechizo-de-un-narcisista\/\"> you have managed to break a narcissist \u2019s spell<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La mejor manera de tratar con un narcisista es ignorarlo. Si est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n con uno, es importante que mantengas tu propia autoestima y no te acerques demasiado a \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>La mejor manera de hacerlo es ignorando sus mensajes de texto, llamadas y mensajes durante d\u00edas. Las personas narcisistas suelen ser inseguras, as\u00ed que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chicos-que-necesitan-atencion-femenina-constante\/\">necesitan atenci\u00f3n constante<\/a>y te cazar\u00e1n por ello.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>8. Ser perseguido<\/h3>\n<p>Los narcisistas son famosos por su capacidad para ser encantadores y persuasivos. Son expertos en encontrar formas de manipular a las personas para que les den lo que quieren.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We all know what it\u2019s like to be chased by a narcissist. It is one of their <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-rasgos-malignos-que-todos-los-narcisistas-tienen-en-comun\/\"><b>rasgos malvados<\/b><\/a>. La \u00faltima vez, ellos eran los que mandaban, pero esta vez ser\u00e1s t\u00fa quien d\u00e9 el primer paso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Los narcisistas son personas que sienten que merecen un trato especial. Creen que el mundo gira a su alrededor y que tienen derecho a todo, por eso no dejar\u00e1n de perseguirte.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Descartar<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-148328\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria mirando el m\u00f3vil en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>The last step in our \u2018how to make a narcissist obsessed with you\u2019 guide is to discard narcissists. In fact, you will do this in the same way they have discarded you. It\u2019s just one of the ways <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-un-narcisista-juega-contigo-y-como-afrontarlo\/\"><i> narcisistas <\/i><i> jugar contigo<\/i><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9stas son algunas de las habilidades que necesitas para dejarles marchar: reconocer que su narcisismo nunca cambiar\u00e1, evitar sus t\u00e1cticas de manipulaci\u00f3n y utilizar refuerzos positivos en lugar de negativos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A los narcisistas a menudo les cuesta dejar ir a las personas que les rodean porque est\u00e1n acostumbrados a obtener lo que quieren de ellas. Pero, necesitan aprender que siempre hay alguien m\u00e1s ah\u00ed fuera que est\u00e1 dispuesto a darte el amor y la felicidad que te mereces.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo llamar la atenci\u00f3n de un narcisista?<\/h2>\n<p>Consigues la atenci\u00f3n de los narcisistas siendo complaciente con ellos. Los narcisistas son personas que tienen una visi\u00f3n grandiosa de s\u00ed mismas. Creen que son mejores que los dem\u00e1s y que pueden hacer cualquier cosa gracias a sus talentos naturales.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The term \u201cnarcissist\u201d was first coined by <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/pro\/freud-and-the-nature-of-narcissism#1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Sigmund Freud<\/b><\/a> y se define como alguien con un exagerado sentido de la propia importancia, incapacidad para reconocer los sentimientos y necesidades de los dem\u00e1s y necesidad de admiraci\u00f3n constante.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>To attract a narcissist&#8217;s attention, you need to be aware of what they are looking for. Maybe they are looking to lower someone&#8217;s self-esteem through <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/bombardeo-de-amor\/\"><i> bombardeo de amor<\/i><\/a> o luz de gas.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Narcissists are typically drawn to people like them \u2013 someone who is similar in age, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-advertencia-de-que-su-pareja-esta-arruinando-su-salud-mental\/\"><b>salud mental<\/b><\/a>y estatus. Tambi\u00e9n tienden a sentirse atra\u00eddos por personas con mucha energ\u00eda y carisma.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>La persona que eligen como pareja suele ser alguien a quien puedan controlar f\u00e1cilmente o alguien que les complete de alguna manera.<\/p>\n<p><em>This is why I do not recommend playing a game with someone who has a narcissistic personality disorder. They will say \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estos-son-6-significados-ocultos-detras-de-un-te-quiero-narcisista\/\"><i> I <\/i><i> te quiero<\/i><\/a>,\u201d or the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-un-narcisista-se-calla\/\"><i> narc <\/i><i> se callar\u00e1<\/i><\/a> pero muestran falta de empat\u00eda y siguen con sus juegos mentales.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo recomiendo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/reflejando-a-un-narcisista\/\"> reflejando a un narcisista<\/a>...sin contacto, y centr\u00e1ndose en su autoestima y validaci\u00f3n. De esta manera, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-de-que-por-fin-has-superado-a-tu-ex-narcisista\/\"> &nbsp;por fin superar\u00e1s a tu ex narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo mantener enganchado a un narcisista?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-148329\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven sentada y pensando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Just like keeping your NPD person interested, you just need to hook them long enough to get their narcissistic supply of emotional games and validation. It\u2019s best if you have <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombres-con-baja-autoestima\/\"> baja autoestima<\/a> y devaluarte a ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Narcissists are difficult to keep in a relationship because they&#8217;re always looking for validation from the people they associate with and can be very demanding. They mostly feel <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-tipos-de-narcisistas-que-todo-empatico-atrae\/\"><b>atra\u00eddo por <\/b><b>emp\u00e1ticos<\/b><\/a> o familiares dependientes como sus v\u00edctimas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Los narcisistas est\u00e1n tan ensimismados que se creen el centro del universo. Tienen un sentido del derecho y pueden sentir que merecen un trato especial debido a su inteligencia, belleza o talento. Creen que no tienen <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/inseguridades-en-una-relacion\/\"> inseguridades<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aqu\u00ed tienes algunas ideas sobre c\u00f3mo mantener enganchado a un narcisista:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Be impressive<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u2022 Seem self-obsessed<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Fuel their narcissistic behavior<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u2022 Be talented<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Give them the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hacer-callar-a-alguien-dice-mucho-de-tu-caracter\/\"><i> tratamiento silencioso <\/i><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u2022 Make a social media post directed at them<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Have a loved one or narcissistic parent<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Un narcisista se siente muy competitivo y quiere ganar a toda costa. Tambi\u00e9n suelen ser muy encantadores cuando tratan con personas que les caen bien o que les felicitan por su inteligencia o su \u00e9xito.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Por eso, los narcisistas creen que s\u00f3lo se merecen lo mejor, y sus relaciones, nada saludables, lo demuestran.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfTe perseguir\u00e1 un narcisista?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-148330\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio sentado junto al port\u00e1til sumido en profundos pensamientos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/serious-man-sitting-by-the-laptop-in-deep-thoughts-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, un narcisista te perseguir\u00e1, y ah\u00ed radica la <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-diferencias-cruciales-entre-un-narcisista-y-un-sociopata\/\"> diferencia entre un soci\u00f3pata y un narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>If you&#8217;re the one they want, then they will chase you and pursue you relentlessly. If they&#8217;ve got their sights set on someone else, they will take an interest in them and try to win them over. You can make these people go away by not engaging with them.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>They will use the word &#8220;love&#8221; a lot. They may see you as their significant other or future spouse or even push for intimacy without warning. If this is happening to you, stand clear.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Also, they will become possessive and jealous if they&#8217;re in a relationship with someone else. In fact, they may already be in a relationship with someone else or want to keep you as an exclusive partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Es probable que intenten sabotear vuestras relaciones, socavar el tiempo que pas\u00e1is juntos y ejercer m\u00e1s presi\u00f3n sobre ti. Por eso te aconsejo que no sigas las reglas sobre c\u00f3mo hacer que un narcisista se obsesione contigo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSabes cu\u00e1nto tiempo se tard\u00f3 en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/recuperarse-del-abuso-narcisista\/\"> recuperarse del abuso narcisista<\/a> and get out of that narcissistic relationship. You don\u2019t want to get sucked in again. This is why you need to live your life after <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/narcisista-amante-de-la-vida\/\"> amar a un narcisista <\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>La venganza es dulce, pero no una buena idea<\/h2>\n<p>If you find yourself in a relationship with someone who has these traits, it is important to make sure that you leave the relationship as soon as possible so that you don&#8217;t become a victim of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/abuso-narcisista\/\"> abuso narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>While learning how to make a narcissist obsessed with you is fun, and you enjoy the moments where you feel on top of the world, it\u2019s not a good idea to poke around. Your plan can backfire, and you can end up in a bad cycle again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Por tanto, extrema las precauciones cuando utilices estas t\u00e9cnicas e informa siempre a alguien de confianza si est\u00e1n abusando de ti. En cualquier caso, no dudes en disfrutar de tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-por-las-que-estar-agradecido-al-entrar-en-un-nuevo-capitulo-de-tu-vida\/\"><i> nuevo cap\u00edtulo en la vida<\/i><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Narcissists typically lack empathy, making them extremely manipulative and controlling. They are also very good at presenting themselves in the best possible light to ensure that they get what they want from others with little effort. This is why many people have a problem with how to make a narcissist obsessed with you after a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":148331,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-148323","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/How-To-Make-A-Narcissist-Obsessed-With-You-In-9-Easy-Steps-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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