He aqu\u00ed otras preguntas complementarias:<\/strong> \u00bfHe hecho algo mal? \u00bfNo merezco su atenci\u00f3n? \u00bfO tienen cosas m\u00e1s importantes que hacer en este momento?<\/em><\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de esta sesi\u00f3n de cavilaciones, respiro hondo y recuerdo este famoso dicho: La gente saca tiempo para lo que quiere. Y punto.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa esto realmente?<\/p>\n \u00bfEstamos tan ocupados que dedicar nuestro tiempo a alguien o a algo se ha convertido en un lujo?<\/p>\n Are we unwilling to give our time to those who give their time to us just because we don’t feel like it? Have we become a nation of egocentric people who only think of their own needs?<\/em><\/p>\n As you can see, there are many reasons and theories for this “controversial” topic. Some of these reasons are totally valid, while others aren’t.<\/strong> Espero que mi an\u00e1lisis cr\u00edtico de este tema le llene de conocimiento y sabidur\u00eda.<\/p>\n Todos sabemos que la gente tiene cosas que hacer. Lo que tambi\u00e9n sabemos es que la gente dedica su tiempo y energ\u00eda a cosas que le INTERESAN.<\/strong> Recuerda esta frase porque puede ser un salvavidas en algunas circunstancias.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, s\u00ed, la mayor\u00eda de la gente (incluida tidsoptimists<\/a>) tienen una agenda muy apretada. Se distraen, se agotan (sobre todo si tienen relaciones ansiedad<\/a>), u otras fuerzas externas pueden interferir en su deseo de dedicar tiempo a otras cosas o personas.<\/p>\n Pero al final, ni siquiera las personas m\u00e1s ocupadas est\u00e1n tan ocupadas o malo enviando mensajes de texto<\/a> that they can’t find a few seconds or minutes of their time to send you a text.<\/strong> No one is so busy that they can’t spend quality time with you once a month or a few times a year.<\/p>\n La gente saca tiempo para lo que quiere y para quien quiere porque tiene sus propias prioridades. Si combinas esto con una falta de empat\u00eda y comprensi\u00f3n hacia los dem\u00e1s, ah\u00ed lo tienes: Una receta para hacer da\u00f1o a los que te quieren.<\/p>\n B\u00e1sicamente, podemos dividir a las personas en dos categor\u00edas:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Those who make time for what they want because they don’t have any other choice at the moment.<\/em><\/p>\n \u2022 Those who make time for what they want because they don’t really care about other things or other people.<\/em><\/p>\n With that said, below you\u2019ll find a list of valid and not-so-valid reasons why people choose to make time for what they want.<\/p>\n A veces, la gente est\u00e1 preocupada por trabajos exigentes, problemas de salud o asuntos familiares. En estas y otras circunstancias similares, dedicar tiempo a cualquier otra cosa se convierte en un lujo.<\/p>\n It’s difficult to prioritize other things when you aren’t at peace with yourself. He aqu\u00ed algunas razones v\u00e1lidas por las que la gente saca tiempo para lo que quiere:<\/strong><\/p>\n No todos los trabajos son iguales. Algunos trabajos son diez veces m\u00e1s agotadores que otros, as\u00ed que al final del d\u00eda no te quedan fuerzas para nada m\u00e1s que dormir.<\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, te conviertes en un robot desprovisto de alegr\u00eda humana, tales como apreciar las peque\u00f1as cosas<\/a>o pasar tiempo con sus seres queridos.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you’re a perfectionist with a demanding job, you’ll feel the urge to do everything in a “big way,” which can be exhausting.<\/p>\n If you’ve ever watched the popular YouTuber known as Crazy Russian Hacker, then you’re familiar with the famous sentence that he says in every video: “Safety is the number one priority.”<\/strong><\/p>\n I couldn’t agree more, but here’s my “advanced hypothesis”: Health should always be everyone\u2019s first priority.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you’re going through a period of life where you generally lack buena energ\u00eda<\/a> and you have poor health and low energy levels, then it’s no surprise that all your focus is directed on that.<\/p>\n La salud y la familia son sin duda dos cosas a las que hay que dar prioridad por encima de todo.<\/p>\n Perhaps you stay at home every night to look out for your little sisters or brothers, you’re a single parent, or you have family issues that need to be addressed…<\/strong> All of these are legit reasons to make time for what you want \u2013 in this case, your family.<\/p>\n You spend less time with others because you don’t experience relationships in the same way. The relationship you have with yourself is a burden, which is why you can’t focus on maintaining relationships with others.<\/strong><\/p>\n Las enfermedades mentales conllevan emociones negativas<\/a> que pueden impedir que te centres en hacer lo correcto. Adem\u00e1s, aislofilia<\/a> doesn’t count as a mental illness.<\/p>\n Todos tenemos caminos diferentes en la vida, y algunos a\u00fan estamos creando el nuestro. If you’re at that stage in your life, know that it’s an important reason and should be prioritized.<\/strong><\/p>\n Regardless of whether you’re focused on encuentra tu prop\u00f3sito<\/a> and passions or you’re going through the stages of spiritual awakening, working on finding and qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/a> exige mucho tiempo y paciencia.<\/p>\n The not-so-valid reasons are characteristic of people who are lost and don’t have clear goals and who are only interested in doing things they can get some kind of pleasure from. So, let’s see:<\/p>\n Here’s a quick recap of my recent experience: Every single time I texted him, he would ignore it the whole day. When I asked him why he acted that way, he just said that he was too busy.<\/p>\n Well, here’s my humble conclusion: Gente ego\u00edsta<\/a> don’t have a problem finding selfish ways to get what they want or not do what they don’t want.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nunca habr\u00e1 un momento perfecto para hacer algo. El trabajo importante no es m\u00e1s importante que las personas que te importan. Todos tenemos 5 minutos al d\u00eda para enviar un mensaje de texto o llamar a alguien si queremos.<\/p>\n “Being constantly busy” is an “elegant way” to excuse yourself from doing things you don’t want to do. Even if they had the busiest schedule in the world, they’d still manage to find time for important people in their life.<\/strong> Why? Because it’s human nature.<\/p>\n A potential silver lining in all this is that if they’re constantly busy, they’re probably not worthy of being in your life. If you notice such signs, do yourself a favor and save yourself.<\/p>\n Algunas personas son muy poco comprensivas con los dem\u00e1s. Este tipo de personas se centran sobre todo en s\u00ed mismas y en cosas triviales, como pasar demasiado tiempo viendo la televisi\u00f3n y negarse a hacer otra cosa que no sea eso.<\/p>\n Prioritizing such things over spending time with people who love you shouldn’t become routine.<\/strong> Las excusas poco convincentes requieren tanto esfuerzo, m\u00e1s que ser honesto con uno mismo<\/a> y otros.<\/p>\n First of all, try to deal with it in a positive way. This means that you shouldn’t judge them or make them feel bad about their choices. It’s best to find a neutral way to tell them how their behavior makes you feel. An open and honest conversation is a must.<\/strong><\/p>\n Si sus razones son v\u00e1lidas, dales algo de tiempo y espera a que se pongan en contacto contigo primero, cuando puedan. If they don’t, or if their reasons are totally invalid, then you have every right to cut off all contact and focus on people who are happy to spend time with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n The biggest mistake you can make is to think that the problem is you. If you’re sure that the problem is not you but their lame excuses, then you shouldn’t let them make you question your self-worth.<\/p>\n En lugar de eso, sigue adelante. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Because they don’t deserve to spend time with you, even if they want to. Life’s too short to waste time <\/a>sobre esas personas.<\/strong><\/p>\n How they treat others says a lot about how they perceive themselves and life in general. Do you really want to spend your time with superficial people who don’t care about your feelings and are only focused on themselves?<\/p>\n I’m sure these inspiring quotes summarize everything said above:<\/em><\/p>\nLa gente saca tiempo para lo que quiere sacar tiempo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u2022 A demanding and exhausting job.<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Health issues.<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Family matters.<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Mental health problems.<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Working on finding themselves and their purpose.<\/h3>\n
Razones no tan v\u00e1lidas por las que la gente saca tiempo para lo que quiere<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u2022 Not finding 5 mins in their day to text or call you back because “they’re busy.”<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Being constantly busy.<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Other lame excuses.<\/h3>\n
How Do You Deal With People Who Don’t Have Time For You?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n10 \u2018People Make Time For What They Want\u2019 Motivational Quotes<\/h2>\n
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