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<\/p>\nEs bien sabido que todos los narcisistas son h\u00e1biles manipuladores y mentirosos. Pero la verdadera cuesti\u00f3n sigue siendo c\u00f3mo enga\u00f1ar a un narcisista para que diga la verdad.<\/p>\n
\u00bfHay alguna forma de hacerlo? \u00bfEs posible superar sus enga\u00f1os y derrotarlos en su propio juego?<\/p>\n
Well, whoever told you it isn\u2019t, didn\u2019t know these tricks!<\/p>\n
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Here\u2019s a 14-step-program on how to trick a narcissist into telling the truth.<\/p>\n
When you\u2019re dealing with someone who has a narcissistic personality disorder, sometimes you have to become similar to them to get what you want. That\u2019s exactly why your first step must be connected to finding this person\u2019s vulnerable side.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t let them trick you into thinking that they\u2019re some kind of superhuman who puede sobrevivir a todo<\/a>. Trust me, this person has their share of weaknesses, just like the rest of us. But they\u2019re doing their best to hide them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Well, if you\u2019re in any kind of toxic relationship with them, it means that you\u2019re in. You\u2019ve gained access to their personality, and now, it\u2019s time to put it to good use.<\/p>\n Do your best to put your emotions aside and pay attention to this person. Pretend that you\u2019re seeing them for the first time. What is it that you notice?<\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo peor que podr\u00edas hacerles? \u00bfCu\u00e1les son sus mayores temores? Estas son las cosas que puedes usar en su contra para herirles emocionalmente.<\/a><\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Formas de herir emocionalmente a un narco.<\/a><\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about a narcissistic partner, a madre narcisista<\/a>, or a friend with an NPD. The worst thing you can do is pretend like everything is perfectly okay when you know very well they\u2019re not telling the truth.<\/p>\n This is the type of behavior every victim of narcissistic abuse is guilty of. You\u2019re sick and tired of arguing all the time. Besides, you\u2019re convinced that you won\u2019t get anywhere with it.<\/p>\n You already know the drill. You claim that they\u2019re lying, and they claim that they\u2019re telling the truth, and it goes on and on until one of you backs down.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, decidiste seguir la corriente e ignorar sus mentiras<\/a>. Well, that\u2019s your number one mistake. By doing this, you\u2019re just giving them the green light to continue with their toxic behavior.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why this has got to come to an end. It\u2019s time you confront their lies and show them las tienes todas resueltas.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Tell them straight that you know they\u2019re lying.<\/strong> No hay nada que puedan decir o hacer para que cambies de opini\u00f3n y para que les creas.<\/p>\n C\u00f3mo enga\u00f1ar a un narcisista para que diga la verdad: Bueno, en primer lugar, tienes que averiguar c\u00f3mo lidiar con narcisistas encubiertos<\/a>. Don\u2019t expect them to tell the truth just because you ask them politely. Instead, you\u2019ll have to break them to get what you want.<\/p>\n What do people suffering from NPD secretly want from their victims? That\u2019s right, they\u2019re looking for validation.<\/strong> Esto es especialmente cierto para los narcisistas malignos que est\u00e1n socialmente aislados y probablemente s\u00f3lo te tienen a ti en sus vidas.<\/p>\n Bueno, si quieres conseguir que digan la verdad, tienes que ignorarlos<\/a> and their feelings. It doesn\u2019t matter if they\u2019re heartbroken or sad \u2013 you have to act like you couldn\u2019t care less about it.<\/p>\n Trust me, they\u2019re just playing the victim so you give up on your quest for the truth. Tricking you is part of their narcissistic behavior.<\/p>\n You have to remain cold-hearted even if you see a narcissist crying or acting like they\u2019re falling apart right in front of you.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re trying to figure out how to trick a narcissist into telling the truth, maybe the best way to do so is to give them some time for self-reflection. Make them feel your absence, make them think about their actions, and most importantly, make them afraid of losing you.<\/p>\n De una cosa no hay duda: tu narcisista volver\u00e1 arrastr\u00e1ndose antes de lo que imaginas. Al fin y al cabo, ellos te necesitan m\u00e1s a ti que t\u00fa a ellos.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pero tienes que ser firme y coherente. D\u00edgales que la \u00fanica manera de romper el no periodo de contacto<\/a> es decir la verdad y dejarse de mentiras.<\/strong><\/p>\n At first, they probably won\u2019t take you seriously. However, when they see that you\u2019re not joking, they\u2019ll agree to your terms. Trust me \u2013 this person is ready to do whatever it takes to lure you back into their net.<\/p>\n No obstante, deber\u00edas aprovechar este periodo para cortar de verdad con ellos y volver a tu propia vida sin tener que lidiar con esto soci\u00f3pata<\/a> nunca m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s a great way to catch your narc in a lie: bluff. But you have to convince yourself that the things you\u2019re saying really are true if you want this to work out.<\/p>\n Forget about getting tongue-twisted, avoiding eye contact, or getting sweaty palms. You have to look like you know exactly what you\u2019re talking about.<\/strong><\/p>\n Let\u2019s imagine this scenario: you know that your el narcisista miente<\/a>. Pero, lamentablemente, no tiene pruebas s\u00f3lidas de sus afirmaciones.<\/p>\n So if you confront them without anything to back up what you\u2019re saying, you\u2019ll lose before you even start. That\u2019s why you have to perfect the art of bluffing and make them think that you\u2019ve les pill\u00f3 en una mentira<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n It all depends on what they\u2019re lying about.<\/p>\n You can always say that a mutual friend saw them doing something they shouldn\u2019t have (make sure not to put the blame on anyone in particular; instead, tell them that you don\u2019t want to reveal their identity and violate their trust).<\/p>\n You can say that you heard them talking on the phone about it or that you\u2019ve been snooping through their phone and found evidence.<\/p>\n But here\u2019s a pro tip: you don\u2019t even have to know what the lie is about. It will be enough to tell them that you know exactly what they\u2019re hiding (even though you have no clue) and that it would be better for them to spill it.<\/p>\n Their reaction will help you see what\u2019s going on for real.<\/p>\n Luz de gas, triangulaci\u00f3n, tratamiento silencioso, \u00bfEnga\u00f1o?<\/a> I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard of each one of these tactics. To be exact, you’ve probably been subjected to all of them.<\/p>\n Well, now it\u2019s time to turn the tables and use these tactics on your narc. Refleja a tu narcisista<\/a>\u00a1! Mira, hacer cualquiera de estas cosas no es algo de lo que debas estar orgulloso.<\/p>\n And just because you use them on your narc doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s okay to keep on using them in the outside world \u2013 unless you want to be just like them.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, tiempos desesperados requieren medidas desesperadas. Y este es uno de esos momentos.<\/strong><\/p>\n As\u00ed que, la pr\u00f3xima vez que tu narcisista te mienta, juega un poco con su mente. Puedes elegir entre ignorarle, hacer que se cuestione su cordura o ponerle celoso.<\/p>\n What\u2019s important is that every time they try to deceive you, they see the consequence of their actions. Trust me, before you know it, they\u2019ll understand what you\u2019re doing, and they\u2019ll learn their lesson.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re dealing with people who suffer from narcissism, you always have to be one step ahead of them. Of course, that is only possible from the moment you notice their red flags and accept that you\u2019re dealing with a bad person.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you\u2019re trying to figure out how to trick a narcissist into telling the truth, you must begin acting before their next lie. When I say acting, I mean collecting evidence in time.<\/p>\n S\u00ed, eso incluye husmear en su tel\u00e9fono y en las redes sociales e incluso acosarles f\u00edsicamente.<\/p>\n Tienes que ser consciente de una cosa: los narcisistas mienten<\/a>, but they also cover up their lies amazingly. And they\u2019re incredibly quick in doing so.<\/p>\n So, you have to collect evidence before confronting them because they\u2019ll get rid of it as soon as you call them out on their actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n Also, remain calm until you gather enough evidence. Start investigating the moment you begin suspecting they\u2019re not telling the truth.<\/p>\n But don\u2019t confront them right away because that will give them a better chance of getting away with their deceptions. Instead, let them think that they\u2019re safe while you\u2019re gathering more and more proof.<\/p>\n Does your narc claim that lying isn\u2019t such a big deal? How many times have you heard them saying that they did it to protect you or that they were white lies that don\u2019t mean anything?<\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 tal si les das a probar de su propia medicina? \u00bfQu\u00e9 te parece devolverles la jugada cuando menos se lo esperen?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t worry about being too obvious about it. Your goal is to get caught eventually!<\/strong><\/p>\n You want them to realize that you\u2019re deceiving them without being able to do anything about it. They\u2019ll probably confront you, and when that happens, just use the same t\u00e1cticas de manipulaci\u00f3n<\/a> lo hacen.<\/p>\n Stick to your version of the truth as if your life depends on it. They\u2019re jugando con tu salud mental<\/a>, so why wouldn\u2019t you do the same to them?<\/strong><\/p>\n Of course, this doesn\u2019t have to go on forever. You\u2019ll just play along for a little while until they get the point and see how it really feels.<\/p>\n Esto es algo que nunca debes olvidar cuando te preguntes c\u00f3mo enga\u00f1ar a un narcisista para que diga la verdad: nunca debes renunciar a la verdad. \u00a1Y lo digo en serio!<\/p>\n Si you\u2019re a victim<\/a> de abuso emocional narcisista<\/a>, you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about. You two have been fighting for hours, and after a while, you\u2019ve now had enough.<\/p>\n Mientras tanto, tu narco ha empezado a insultarte y a humillarte de otras maneras. As\u00ed que, ahora, solo quieres acabar con todo eso.<\/p>\n You know that they\u2019re not telling the truth, but you\u2019re ready to agree with anything they say just to make peace. They\u2019ve sucked you dry<\/a>, and you can\u2019t take it anymore, so you end up being the one who apologizes.<\/p>\n In the end, you tell them that they\u2019re not lying and that they\u2019re absolutely right \u2013 you made a mistake. And that\u2019s exactly what they were counting on.<\/p>\n Se esforzaron en arruinar tu autoestima para que acabaras sinti\u00e9ndote incapaz de luchar contra ellos.<\/strong><\/p>\n The moment you do this, you lose all of your credibility. In the future, every time you try to call a narc out on their lies, they\u2019ll refer to this situation.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, no matter what happens, always stick to the truth! If you think you can\u2019t handle arguing with them, it\u2019s better not to tackle the issue in the first place.<\/p>\n But if you open Pandora\u2019s box, don\u2019t close it until you get your way.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s one thing you should keep in mind when trying to figure out how to trick a narcissist into telling the truth: they\u2019ll try to play on your nerves. The last thing this person wants is for you to stay calm.<\/p>\n Why? Well, because it\u2019s easier to manipulate you if you get all worked up and lose your temper. Even better, this is also when they can accuse you of being insane and neurotic.<\/strong><\/p>\n See how they win the argument? And it\u2019s perfectly natural to lose your nerve when someone is clearly making a fool out of you.<\/p>\n Bueno, eso es exactamente con lo que cuentan. Por eso debes darles la espalda.<\/p>\n You must remain calm and stick to the point, no matter what. Don\u2019t let them use reverse psychology on you, don\u2019t let them hacerse la v\u00edctima<\/a>, and don\u2019t let them twist your words or spin the truth.<\/p>\n Your final goal here is to make a narcissist tell the truth. That\u2019s what you should stick to.<\/p>\n Por favor, prep\u00e1rese mentalmente antes de enfrentarse a ellos. Haz lo que sea necesario para mantener la calma en la medida de lo posible.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you show them any sign of anxiety or nervousness, you\u2019re done. They\u2019ll use your weaknesses against you and defeat you in the blink of an eye.<\/p>\n How many times have you heard the sentences such as: \u201cIt was nothing, you are overreacting,\u201d \u201cThose are just your insecurities talking,\u201d or \u201cYou misinterpreted the entire situation.\u201d<\/p>\n \u00bfY qu\u00e9 si lo hiciste? \u00bfHace que las cosas sean menos dolorosas? Por supuesto que no.<\/p>\n Estas l\u00edneas forman parte de cada relaci\u00f3n narcisista<\/a>. Un narcisista intenta devaluar tus emociones cont\u00e1ndote su versi\u00f3n de los hechos.<\/strong><\/p>\n First of all, that\u2019s impossible because only one version of the truth exists. Nevertheless, even if you did overreact or misinterpret things, the fact is that you ended up hurt and heartbroken.<\/p>\n And that is exactly what you should focus on. No matter what the narc is telling you, don\u2019t give up on the idea that their lies emotionally damaged you.<\/p>\n Once again, you have to turn the tables. This person has made you emotionally dependent on them, and that\u2019s why they keep on getting away with their lies. So, what does it take for your truth to be acknowledged?<\/p>\n Pues, lamentablemente, t\u00fa tienes que hacer lo mismo. Tienes que utilizar sus t\u00e1cticas para haz que se vuelvan adictos a ti<\/a>. When that happens, they\u2019ll be too scared to lie because that means potentially losing you.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00bfIncluye esto perjudicar su bienestar emocional y mental a largo plazo? S\u00ed. \u00bfIncluye esto bombardeo de amor<\/a> y luego romper con ellos de la nada, \u00bfs\u00f3lo para recuperarlos? S\u00ed.<\/p>\n C\u00f3mo enga\u00f1ar a un narcisista para que diga la verdad: Eleva tu nivel de exigencia y hazle ver que decir la verdad es obligatorio.<\/p>\n This is how things should be in a healthy relationship without having to accentuate them, I know. But you\u2019re dealing with a psic\u00f3pata narcisista<\/a> here \u2013 don\u2019t forget that. Therefore, they have to know that lying is not an option and that it\u2019s one of your most important deal-breakers.<\/p>\n How can you show them that you\u2019re serious? Well, the next time a narcissist apologizes and comes crawling back with fake promises of a better life, don\u2019t forgive them, and don\u2019t take them back.<\/strong><\/p>\n Instead, give them a condition. They have to admit that they were lying; otherwise, you won\u2019t forgive them.<\/p>\n Warn them that you already know the truth, but you just want to hear it from them. Once again, you\u2019ll be bluffing.<\/p>\n Narcisista t\u00e1cticas de manipulaci\u00f3n<\/a> can get to literally anyone, and you\u2019re not immune to them either. Lying and gaslighting are almost always part of this emotional abuse.<\/p>\n Pero el mayor problema aqu\u00ed es que, despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, empiezas a cuestionar tu propia cordura y dudar de uno mismo<\/a>. They brainwash you to the point where you\u2019re not sure whether they\u2019re really lying or you\u2019re just imagining things.<\/strong><\/p>\n That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to have someone you can trust \u2013 an unbiased bystander. No, I\u2019m not saying that this person would be third-wheeling in your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s enough to have a close friend or family member who is objective enough to tell you the truth.<\/strong> Confide in this person, and they\u2019ll become your own personal reality checker.<\/p>\n But I have to warn you: a narcissist is likely to claim that they\u2019re telling the truth and continue with their juegos mentales<\/a>Incluso cuando hay testigos de por medio. Por eso hay que aplicar m\u00e1s de una estrategia a la hora de averiguar c\u00f3mo enga\u00f1ar a un narcisista para que diga la verdad.<\/p>\n Un narcisista miente todo el tiempo y mantiene todo oculto<\/a>. So, basically, when you hear them talking, it means that they\u2019re not telling the truth.<\/strong><\/p>\n And I\u2019m not even exaggerating when I say this. A narc\u2019s entire life is a big lie. They lie to themselves and consequently lie to others, including you.<\/p>\n La mejor manera de enga\u00f1ar a un narcisista es para no darles validaci\u00f3n.<\/strong> Instead of making them feel important, ignore their feelings and act like they\u2019re completely irrelevant to you.<\/p>\n No caer en su trampa es lo que hace miserable a todo narcisista.<\/strong> They will use manipulation techniques but won\u2019t understand why their abuso narcisista<\/a> no te afecta en absoluto.<\/p>\n He aqu\u00ed algunas frases que le ayudar\u00e1n apagar un narco<\/a>:<\/p>\n 1. \u201cLet\u2019s just agree to disagree.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n 2. \u201cThat is your opinion, and I won\u2019t argue against it, but I won\u2019t accept it as my own either.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n 3. \u201cThat is unacceptable behavior, and I won\u2019t tolerate it.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n 4. \u201cYou have no power or control sobre m\u00ed.<\/a>“<\/strong><\/p>\n 5. \u201cDon\u2019t try reversing the roles and playing the victim.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 6 r\u00e9plicas eficaces para acallar a un narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n Now that you\u2019ve learned how to trick a narcissist into telling the truth, it\u2019s time to ask yourself if it\u2019s really worth it. Okay, you\u2019ll beat them, ponerlos en su sitio<\/a>, and you\u2019ll prove a point, but won\u2019t this entire process drag you even deeper into their mess?<\/p>\n2. Enfr\u00e9ntate a sus mentiras<\/h3>\n
3. Ignorar sus sentimientos<\/h3>\n
4. No tener contacto<\/h3>\n
5. El arte del farol<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfC\u00f3mo se hace?<\/h4>\n
6. M\u00e9todos narcisistas<\/h3>\n
7. Recoger pruebas a tiempo<\/h3>\n
8. Recu\u00e9state sobre ellos<\/h3>\n
9. Nunca renunciar a la verdad<\/h3>\n
10. Mantener siempre la calma<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n11. Conc\u00e9ntrate en tus emociones<\/h3>\n
12. Haz que dependan emocionalmente de ti<\/h3>\n
13. Don\u2019t accept their apologies<\/h3>\n
14. Un espectador parcial<\/h3>\n
\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si un narcisista est\u00e1 mintiendo?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfC\u00f3mo enga\u00f1ar a un narcisista para que haga lo que t\u00fa quieres?<\/h2>\n
\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer que un narcisista se sienta miserable?<\/h2>\n
Qu\u00e9 decir para desarmar a un narcisista<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPara terminar:<\/h2>\n