{"id":1488,"date":"2018-06-16T13:05:21","date_gmt":"2018-06-16T13:05:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1488"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:54:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:54:51","slug":"6-signos-reveladores-de-que-no-le-gustas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-signos-reveladores-de-que-no-le-gustas\/","title":{"rendered":"6 se\u00f1ales reveladoras de que no le gustas tanto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Girls, let\u2019s face it – men can be complicated. In the crazy dating game girls can get such a bad reputation for not knowing what we want, but it\u2019s time to flip the lid on those pesky males because they can be just as bad.<\/p>\n

When it comes to dating, we like to keep our cards close to our chest. There\u2019s so much impact and false importance placed on \u2018playing hard to get\u2019 and \u2018treat \u2018em mean, keep \u2018em keen\u2019 that it can be difficult to figure out what someone really thinks.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re trying to suss out whether someone likes you or not, reading all of these confusing signals can be nigh on impossible. This can be particularly tough when you think that you might be catching feelings for someone but you just can\u2019t figure out if they\u2019re feeling the same<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ladies, it\u2019s time to read between the lines and ditch the dudes who aren\u2019t cutting the mustard. Here are the telltale signs he\u2019s just not that into you. If your man is displaying any of these, then you need to kick him to the curb and upgrade. Let\u2019s go!<\/p>\n

1. La comunicaci\u00f3n es la clave<\/span><\/h2>\n

The bottom line is – when you\u2019re into someone, you want to speak to them. When you first begin dating someone, if you like each other then you should be in the honeymoon period, simply unable to get enough of each other. If you\u2019re waiting for a text back without good reason, then it doesn\u2019t look like good news.<\/p>\n

Granted, occasionally there are times when a person can\u2019t get to their phone. If they\u2019re at work or if they\u2019re with family or perhaps out with the boys. However, if someone can\u2019t spare two seconds of their time to check in with you, make sure you\u2019re ok or just reply to a message you\u2019ve sent, then they\u2019re just not that into you.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no excuse for sloppy communication – we all deserve attention and affection, and if someone\u2019s not giving you those things in the very early stages then the chances are they never will.<\/p>\n

2. 2. Falta de inter\u00e9s<\/span><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s imperative to be with someone who cares about your life. Though you might not necessarily have shared interests, having someone there who is interested in what you have to say, cares about your opinion and wants to know how you are is essential if you want a relationship to get off the ground.<\/p>\n

Si te encuentras con alguien que se muestra distante, desinteresado por la conversaci\u00f3n y que simplemente no se toma el tiempo de escuchar c\u00f3mo te ha ido el d\u00eda, o\u00edr tu opini\u00f3n y preguntarte por tu vida, entonces tienes que ense\u00f1arle la puerta.<\/p>\n

3. Atenci\u00f3n<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you\u2019re spending time with someone – you want their focus and their attention to be on you, as you would expect from any partner.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re out with someone and you find they\u2019re constantly on their phone or not showing you the attention that you deserve, then it might just be because they don\u2019t quite like you as much as you once thought.<\/p>\n

Similarly, to reiterate the first point in this article, if when you\u2019re apart there is a distinct lack of attention from this person you\u2019re choosing to dedicate your time to, then you have to question where their attention is.<\/p>\n

Of course, everyone is entitled to their alone time and there\u2019s a fine line between standing up for yourself and being a bit clingy. Having said this, everyone should be able to dedicate enough time and attention to someone who means a lot to them, and that\u2019s the bottom line.<\/p>\n

4. Guardar un secreto<\/span><\/h2>\n

If someone is serious about you and really likes you – they will have told someone about you. Whether that\u2019s their friends or family (or both, which is what should naturally happen), there\u2019s absolutely no way that you should be a secret.<\/p>\n

If you sense that your partner is keeping you a secret for a little longer than is normal, then maybe it\u2019s time to start wondering if he\u2019s really as into you as you think.<\/p>\n

Of course, when a relationship is new there are naturally those who wish to take things a little more slowly and this is perfectly normal. However, if things have been going on for a decent amount of time and they don\u2019t want to introduce you to their friends or family, then not only is it a little upsetting, but it\u2019s quite suspicious too.<\/p>\n

Never forget that you deserve to be shown off to the world – don\u2019t spend time with someone who you aren\u2019t convinced is into you.<\/p>\n

5. Comportamiento sospechoso<\/span><\/h2>\n

Girls – this is where we implore you to trust your intuition. If you sense that someone is keeping something from you, then the odds are that you\u2019re probably right. Whether they\u2019re a little suspicious with their phone, off the radar when you\u2019re apart or engaging in peculiar social media conversations with girls you\u2019ve not seen or heard of before – all of these things could be red flags.<\/p>\n

Of course, all of these things could be perfectly coincidental and it\u2019s important to calm down and assess the situation before questioning, but if you sense that something isn\u2019t right – don\u2019t be afraid to ask.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re under the impression that you\u2019re exclusive and should be taking all of someone\u2019s attention, don\u2019t let them keep secrets and entertain others because you deserve better. Also, this probably means that they\u2019re just not that into you.<\/p>\n

6. Excusas, excusas, excusas<\/span><\/h2>\n

If you believe that someone is playing you with excuses, then they most probably are. Whether they are giving you excuses for lackluster communication, excuses for not wanting to see you or excuses for not treating you how you deserve, then all of these things aren\u2019t right.<\/p>\n

If someone constantly has excuses for you rather than justifications for behavior that isn\u2019t making you happy, then, unfortunately – they might just not be that into you.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, none of these points are nice behaviors to be on the receiving end of. Being led on by someone who possibly isn\u2019t that into you is hurtful, but nipping a dead end relationship in the bud is a short term hurt for a long term gain.<\/p>\n

Leaving someone who doesn\u2019t treat you correctly only paves the way for someone who will – so keep your head high, acknowledge what you deserve and never settle for less.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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