{"id":148945,"date":"2022-04-14T08:47:48","date_gmt":"2022-04-14T08:47:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=148945"},"modified":"2022-07-31T23:38:10","modified_gmt":"2022-07-31T23:38:10","slug":"como-decirle-a-tu-pareja-que-te-gusta-por-sms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-decirle-a-tu-pareja-que-te-gusta-por-sms\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo decirle a tu enamorado que te gusta por SMS: 25 maneras sencillas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Te gusta alguien a quien no ves tan a menudo como te gustar\u00eda. \u00bfO est\u00e1s demasiado nervioso para decirle lo que sientes en persona?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPara qu\u00e9 sirven las redes sociales y los mensajes de texto? Como ves, siempre hay una soluci\u00f3n a tus problemas.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 lo que te debes estar preguntando ahora. <strong>You\u2019re figuring out how to tell your crush you like them over text with minimal risk of being rejected.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Worry not because I\u2019ve got you covered. Read on and follow my advice to achieve success!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>C\u00f3mo decirle a tu enamorado que te gusta por mensaje de texto de 19 maneras<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-148947\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer feliz escribiendo en el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9stas son las formas m\u00e1s eficaces de decirle a tu pareja que te gusta a trav\u00e9s de un mensaje de texto:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Don\u2019t do it out of the blue<\/h3>\n<p>When you\u2019re wondering how to tell your crush you like them over text, the important thing is not to do it out of the blue.<\/p>\n<p>This is real life, not a romantic movie, and trust me when I tell you that sending someone you barely know (or who doesn\u2019t have any romantic interest in you) a declaration of love via text message out of the blue won\u2019t work.<\/p>\n<p>En realidad, <strong>it will probably just scare them away. They won\u2019t take you seriously, and you\u2019ll blow the whole thing up before it even starts.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Of course, it wouldn\u2019t be so awkward if you\u2019re already flirting with this person face to face. Maybe they\u2019ve been sending you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/17-senales-del-lenguaje-corporal-que-le-gustas-en-secreto-y-le-interesas\/\">body language signals that they\u2019re into you<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p>However, even in that case, it\u2019s better to have some kind of introduction to what\u2019s about to happen.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Entablar una conversaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>So, how do you tell your crush you like them over text if you can\u2019t just type I love you and hit send? Well, before anything else, you have to start some kind of conversation with them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ser\u00eda mejor si tuvieras una excusa para empezar a enviarles mensajes de texto<\/strong>. Maybe they\u2019re in your friend group, they\u2019re your coworker, or you two have something in common.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you\u2019ll have a reason to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-iniciar-una-conversacion-con-un-chico-10-consejos-infalibles\/\">iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n<\/a>. The trick is to get them talking and for them to show you that they\u2019re willing to start a convo.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Cuidado con los temas de conversaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>Remember that you\u2019re texting this person for the first time ever. Naturally, you need a way to start the convo right.<\/p>\n<p>Para que eso ocurra, <strong>necesitas un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/juegos-de-conversacion-para-romper-el-hielo\/\">rompehielos<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If your crush is someone you already know, this won\u2019t be so hard. For example, if they\u2019re a coworker, start by asking them something work-related.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if we\u2019re talking about a close friend, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already texted them before, so you\u2019ll have less trouble breaking the ice.<\/p>\n<p>But what if your crush is someone you don\u2019t know so well? Well, in that case, a simple<\/p>\n<p><em>Hi. What\u2019s up?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00eda suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>No hay duda de que las redes sociales deben ser tus aliadas en estas situaciones.<strong> Si usted <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deberia-seguir-a-la-persona-que-me-gusta-en-instagram\/\">s\u00edguelos en Instagram<\/a> o Snapchat, responde a su historia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t think of a clever response, just send them an emoji reaction to a selfie they posted. A lot of people use this as an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/preguntas-para-citas-rapidas\/\">rompehielos<\/a> porque funciona.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Mejora tus mensajes de texto<\/h3>\n<p>What do you do when they actually respond? Well, this is the point where you\u2019ll have to improve your texting game.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s a pro tip: if you are too nervous to text them, ask your best friend for some advice. They\u2019ll give you a pep talk to improve your self-esteem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando hables con tu enamorado, aseg\u00farate de preguntarle <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/210-preguntas-profundas-para-explorar-la-mente-de-alguien\/\">preguntas abiertas<\/a>. Make sure you tell them something about yourself but don\u2019t forget that you\u2019re here to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/preguntas-para-conocerte\/\">con\u00f3zcalos<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be afraid to engage in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/preguntas-sobre-relaciones-profundas-gran-conversacion\/\">conversaciones profundas<\/a> \u2013 this is the best way to build an emotional connection with them.<\/p>\n<p>It would be great if you had some basic info about this person before texting them. That way, you can show them that you have the same interests (even if you don\u2019t, LOL).<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you know what their favorite band is, send them a new song by them and ask them if they like it. Of course, you\u2019ll pretend that you love listening to them as well. Don\u2019t worry, these are just little white lies that won\u2019t harm anyone.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Convierte tus conversaciones en algo habitual<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-148950\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-looking-at-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s de averiguar c\u00f3mo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-decirle-a-alguien-que-te-gusta\/\">dile a la persona que te gusta que te gusta<\/a> a trav\u00e9s de mensajes de texto, tu objetivo final es convertir tus mensajes en algo habitual. Dales las buenas noches y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/parrafos-de-buenos-dias-para-ella\/\">mensajes de texto de buenos d\u00edas,<\/a> y siempre <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-sencillos-trucos-para-mantener-siempre-la-conversacion-con-el\/\">mantener la conversaci\u00f3n.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s another pro tip: never end the conversation. Never text them:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Adi\u00f3s, tengo que irme.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>En vez de eso, desaparece. Luego, despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, devu\u00e9lveles el mensaje diciendo:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Oye, lo siento, tuve que irme. \u00bfD\u00f3nde est\u00e1bamos?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>o algo as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>De este modo, la conversaci\u00f3n nunca se detiene. Y s\u00ed, esto se aplica a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/200-bonitos-y-entranables-mensajes-de-buenas-noches-para-el-y-para-ella\/\">mensajes de buenas noches<\/a> as well \u2013 if you\u2019re anxious about initiating the conversation all over again the next day.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Don\u2019t forget to compliment them<\/h3>\n<p>Now that you\u2019re both comfortable enough around each other, it\u2019s time to start actually <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-formas-sutiles-pero-solidas-de-ligar-con-un-chico\/\">ligando con ellos<\/a>. La mejor manera de hacerlo es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-felicitar-a-una-chica-guapa\/\">felicit\u00e1ndoles<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Of course, your entire conversation won\u2019t be all about praising and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/piropos-para-mujeres\/\">felicit\u00e1ndoles<\/a>. Pero hacerles un cumplido de vez en cuando funcionar\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be too poetic when doing this. Once again, this is real life, not a romcom.<\/p>\n<h3>8. S\u00e9 coqueto<\/h3>\n<p>The last thing you want is to end up trapped in the friend zone. That is exactly why you\u2019ll have to start exchanging <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/51-mensajes-de-texto-coquetos\/\">textos coquetos<\/a> con ellos lo antes posible.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede empezar preguntando a algunos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/60-preguntas-divertidas-para-tu-novio\/\">preguntas l\u00fadicas<\/a>. It\u2019s okay to use innuendos, but please, make sure you don\u2019t cross the line.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bromea con ellos, pero nunca seas vulgar. No es el momento de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-80-mensajes-mas-calientes-para-enviar-a-un-chico\/\">mensajes de texto obscenos<\/a> \u2013 you\u2019re just getting to know each other.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Investiga c\u00f3mo se siente tu enamorado<\/h3>\n<p>Antes de averiguar c\u00f3mo decirle a tu pareja que te gusta por mensaje de texto, <strong>ser\u00eda estupendo saber m\u00e1s sobre sus sentimientos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>En primer lugar, averigua m\u00e1s sobre su vida amorosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Are they already in a relationship? If they aren\u2019t single, there is not much point in declaring your love for them, but you can do it anyways \u2013 without any expectations.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1l es su tipo de hombre o mujer? \u00bfEst\u00e1n emocionalmente disponibles?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure you have some good friends who can help you find out all of this information.<\/p>\n<p>Pero hay algo m\u00e1s digno de investigaci\u00f3n:<strong> how do they feel about you? Sadly, there is probably no one who can give you this information \u2013 you have to figure it out by yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Por favor, lee entre l\u00edneas y s\u00e9 sincero contigo mismo. \u00bfC\u00f3mo responden a tus mensajes? \u00bfTe responden coquetamente? \u00bfSe han sincerado contigo?<\/p>\n<p>Lo mismo ocurre con los encuentros cara a cara que se producen entretanto.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1l es su <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-signos-de-lenguaje-corporal-chica-que\/\">lenguaje corporal<\/a> \u00bfTe lo est\u00e1 diciendo? \u00bfHay contacto visual? \u00bfSonr\u00eden cuando te ven?<\/p>\n<h3>10. Mantener las cosas ligeras<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-148952\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en el suelo y enviando mensajes de texto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-sitting-on-floor-and-texting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every dating coach will tell you the same thing: don\u2019t put any pressure on your crush.<\/p>\n<p>Abordar algunos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/111-grandes-temas\/\">temas profundos<\/a> is one thing (if you feel that they\u2019re comfortable with it), but rushing things and taking your entire texting conversation too seriously is something else.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, it\u2019s better to keep things light. <strong>Pretend like texting them is not such a big deal and never show them that it\u2019s the center of your day!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>11. Uso de emojis y memes<\/h3>\n<p>En caso de que<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/emoji-coqueto\/\"> utilizar emojis<\/a> when texting your crush or not? Well, it\u2019s all about balance.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You should definitely use them to keep things light, especially when you\u2019re joking or when you two are flirting<\/strong>. However, please, don\u2019t allow for your entire conversation to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/emojis-que-los-chicos-usan-cuando-te-quieren\/\">ser emojis<\/a> s\u00f3lo.<\/p>\n<p>What about memes? Well, there is nothing wrong with sending your crush a funny meme that reminds you of them. Once again, this shouldn\u2019t be the basis of your entire conversation.<\/p>\n<h3>12. Pero evite las abreviaturas<\/h3>\n<p>On the other hand, every dating coach will tell you to avoid abbreviations. I mean, what\u2019s the point? What will you do with all of that spare time you saved because you didn\u2019t write the entire word?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Abbreviations make you look immature. It looks like you\u2019re not interested enough to put effort into forming a decent sentence<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3>13. Revisa dos veces tu texto con un mejor amigo<\/h3>\n<p>Before sending THE text message, please double-check everything with a close friend. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re incapable of doing it by yourself, but a second opinion can\u2019t hurt.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00eddele a tu amigo que sea sincero, aunque eso signifique decirte la cruda verdad.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Are you being too pathetic? Is the text too cheesy? Is it even time to send a risky text like that? Should you be more direct? Or maybe you\u2019re being overly direct?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re blinded by infatuation, and there is no way you can find the answers to all of these questions by yourself.<\/p>\n<h3>14. El momento oportuno lo es todo<\/h3>\n<p>By now, you\u2019ve learned a thing or two about your crush\u2019s routine. That\u2019s why it\u2019ll be easier for you to pick the perfect timing to send this text.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it while they\u2019re at work or in lectures. Don\u2019t send it if you know they\u2019re out with friends either.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You want to pick a time when you know they\u2019re alone and preferably not busy. Also, make sure it\u2019s not too late when you send them the text.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What if they\u2019re already asleep, and you stay awake all night, waiting for their response? Of course, everyone\u2019s schedule is different, so I can\u2019t give you the precise time to send the text \u2013 you have to pick it yourself.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Don\u2019t expect too much<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-148955\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer escribiendo en el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-texting-on-phone-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t mean to kill your mood, but I have to warn you not to expect too much. First of all, people can <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/citas-que-te-hacen-parecer-desesperado\/\">huele a desesperaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Cr\u00e9eme, puede que t\u00fa no lo sientas, pero tu enamorado s\u00ed. Y ser\u00e1 una gran decepci\u00f3n para ellos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you send your text, the only thing you should feel is relief. You\u2019ve done the \u201cdirty work,\u201d you\u2019ve gotten everything off your chest, and things are now out of your control.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As scary as this might sound, at the same time, it\u2019s also liberating.<\/p>\n<p>After all, what\u2019s the worst thing that can happen? They tell you that they don\u2019t feel the same way?<\/p>\n<p>Worry not because you\u2019ll have a backup plan for that scenario as well.<\/p>\n<h3>16. But don\u2019t let your insecurities get to you<\/h3>\n<p>However, there is a difference between being ready to handle failure and seeing it as the only possible option. When you\u2019re wondering how to tell your crush you like them over text, make sure not to let your insecurities take over.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombres-con-baja-autoestima\/\">baja autoestima<\/a> is a major turn-off, the same way desperation is. You\u2019re worthy of this person\u2019s feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Just because you\u2019re into them doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re better than you in any way. Instead of acting nervous and insecure, show them that you see your worth, even if they don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<h3>17. Tenga claras sus intenciones<\/h3>\n<p>I can\u2019t stress this enough: don\u2019t get trapped in the friendzone! That\u2019s why you simply must be clear about your intentions.<\/p>\n<p>No, you won\u2019t tell them <em>Te quiero<\/em>. You won\u2019t write them a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/34-mejores-poemas-romanticos-de-amor-para-el-y-para-ella\/\">poema de amor<\/a> ni nada por el estilo.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, tienes que dejar claro que quieres algo m\u00e1s que amistad.<\/p>\n<p>Si es necesario, s\u00e9 directo y ve al grano envi\u00e1ndoles un mensaje como \u00e9ste:<\/p>\n<p><em>Me gustas, \u00bfsientes lo mismo por m\u00ed?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>o<\/p>\n<p><em>I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about you lately. Do you want to go out on a date?<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>18. No a los textos largos<\/h3>\n<p>Cuando te dije que no les escribieras un poema de amor, tambi\u00e9n me refer\u00eda a que no les enviaras p\u00e1rrafos largos en los que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/90-mensajes-romanticos-para-que-tu-pareja-se-derrita-de-amor\/\">declara tu amor eterno<\/a> para ellos. Un mensaje as\u00ed ser\u00e1 inc\u00f3modo y ahuyentar\u00e1 a tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p>No es necesario entrar en detalles sobre sus sentimientos. <strong>Don\u2019t act like a tragic hero from a romantic novel, and keep things as short and concise as possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>19. No enviar mensajes dobles o triples<\/h3>\n<p>Pero \u00bfy si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-razones-por-las-que-ha-dejado-de-enviarte-mensajes-de-repente\/\">they don\u2019t respond<\/a> after a certain time? Well, nothing! It\u2019s not like you have much choice left.<\/p>\n<p>No, you won\u2019t double or triple text them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You won\u2019t ask them if they\u2019ve received your initial text \u2013 I\u2019m sure they have; after all, it\u2019s delivered or even read.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You won\u2019t ask them if they are ready to give you an answer \u2013 they\u2019re not; if they were, you would have gotten one.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Give them time to process things and make up their mind. They\u2019ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-no-te-contesta\/\">devolverte el mensaje<\/a> tarde o temprano.<\/p>\n<p>And if they don\u2019t? Well, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ninguna-respuesta-es-una-respuesta\/\">ninguna respuesta es una respuesta<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<h2>Si responden positivamente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-148949\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"hombre escribiendo en el tel\u00e9fono en la cocina\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-typing-on-phone-in-the-kitchen-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Entonces, pas\u00f3 lo mejor. Te han dicho que les has vuelto a gustar. \u00bfQu\u00e9 deber\u00edas hacer? \u00bfC\u00f3mo actuar?<\/p>\n<h3>1. P\u00eddeles una primera cita<\/h3>\n<p>First and foremost, you\u2019re going to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-pedir-una-cita-a-un-chico-12-consejos-para-tener-exito\/\">p\u00eddeles una cita<\/a>.<strong> You won\u2019t keep on exchanging texts forever, will you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to see each other face to face and talk about your potential romantic relationship. After all, this was what you wanted all along.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t send them a text:<\/p>\n<p><em>Oye, \u00bfte gustar\u00eda tener una cita conmigo?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>En su lugar, sugiera un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/20-ideas-increibles-para-salir-por-la-noche\/\">idea para una cita<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t have to be anything fancy \u2013 meeting at a local coffee shop will do the trick. However, you should be the one to set the time and date.<\/p>\n<p>If they can\u2019t make it at that specific time, suggest a rain check. Don\u2019t worry, I\u2019m sure they want to go out with you.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do, don\u2019t suggest Netflix and chill or something like that. If you do, they\u2019ll assume you have just one thing in mind, and they won\u2019t take you seriously.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Tell them that you\u2019re happy<\/h3>\n<p>There is nothing wrong with telling them that you\u2019re happy with their response. After all, <strong>you\u2019ve been wondering how to tell your crush you like them over text for a while now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>3. But don\u2019t make a big deal out of it<\/h3>\n<p>However, try not to make a big deal out of it. Remember \u2013 <strong>you told them you\u2019re into them, not that they\u2019re the love of your life and that you can\u2019t live without them!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know that your crush\u2019s simple yes is a huge confidence boost, but please don\u2019t let them see how much it means to you because an overly thrilled reply might make you appear desperate, and you don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\n<h2>If They Don\u2019t Feel The Same Way<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-148951\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre escribiendo en el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/man-texting-on-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>El peor escenario posible se ha hecho realidad. En <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/conseguir-que-le-gustes-a-alguien\/\">don\u2019t like you back<\/a>y s\u00f3lo te ven como un buen amigo.<\/p>\n<p>Tough luck, but that\u2019s part of life. And this is exactly how you should take it.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Don\u2019t be too pushy<\/h3>\n<p>First of all, be aware that it\u2019s their right not to like you. It\u2019s probably nothing personal \u2013 maybe they\u2019re in love with someone else, or you\u2019re just not their type.<\/p>\n<p><strong>After all, I bet you like them for no particular reason. Well, it\u2019s possible that they don\u2019t have a specific reason for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-simplemente-no\/\">que no me gustas<\/a> \u2013 they just aren\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The bottom line is that you shouldn\u2019t ask for an additional explanation. Don\u2019t send texts like:<\/p>\n<p><em>Why don\u2019t you like me?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfPodr\u00eda gustarte en el futuro?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfHay algo que pueda hacer para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-hacer-que-te-desee\/\">hacer que te guste<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t lose your dignity, no matter what!<\/p>\n<h3>2. Termine la conversaci\u00f3n educadamente<\/h3>\n<p>No, you won\u2019t tell them that you\u2019ve sent the text to the wrong person just to make things less awkward. Trust me, something like this will actually make things even more awkward!<\/p>\n<p><strong>But you know what would be even worse? Insulting your crush or trying to put them down just because they don\u2019t like you back.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>En su lugar,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.scienceofpeople.com\/end-conversation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> termine la conversaci\u00f3n lo m\u00e1s educadamente posible<\/a>. Env\u00edales un mensaje como este:<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry that you feel that way but thank you for your honesty. No hard feelings!<\/p>\n<p>o<\/p>\n<p><em>I can\u2019t say I\u2019m not disappointed, but hey, life goes on. It would be easier for me if we didn\u2019t stay in touch \u2013 I hope you understand.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>3. It\u2019s not the end of the world<\/h3>\n<p>Finally, please, don&#8217;t see it as the end of the world. I know it feels like that now, but trust me, it really isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En lugar de verlo como una gran derrota, t\u00f3matelo como una lecci\u00f3n. Si\u00e9ntete orgulloso de ti mismo por ser lo bastante valiente para salir de tu zona de confort y asumir este riesgo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t repress your emotions \u2013 it\u2019s perfectly okay to be disappointed. However, don\u2019t let this one negative experience prevent you from trying something similar in the future.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfDeber\u00edas decirle a tu enamorado que te gusta por SMS?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-148954\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mujer usando el tel\u00e9fono en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/woman-using-phone-in-a-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you \u2013 it\u2019s always better to have this conversation in person. Nevertheless, <strong>if you\u2019re too nervous to tell them how you feel face to face, there is nothing wrong with doing it via text.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 le digo a mi enamorado por SMS?<\/h2>\n<p>Si desea <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/impresionar-a-una-chica-entonces-haz-estas-preguntas\/\">impresiona a tu pareja<\/a> with your texting skills, compliment them, and don\u2019t forget to ask them open-ended questions so you can <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-mantener-una-conversacion-con-una-chica\/\">mantener la conversaci\u00f3n<\/a>. He aqu\u00ed algunos ejemplos:<\/p>\n<p><em>Te ve\u00edas tan linda hoy.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Anoche so\u00f1\u00e9 contigo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I have a confession to make: I can\u2019t stop thinking about you.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 tal el d\u00eda?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 opinas de [inserta el nombre de una pel\u00edcula o menciona un acontecimiento de actualidad]?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar:<\/h2>\n<p>No hay una respuesta correcta a la pregunta de c\u00f3mo decirle a la persona que te gusta que te gusta por SMS sin que te rechace.<strong> Actually, there a magical way to make them give you a positive response doesn\u2019t exist.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sin embargo, lo importante es que des lo mejor de ti.<\/strong> Buena suerte.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-149904\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo decirle a tu crush que te gusta por mensaje de texto 25 maneras sencillas Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-735x1103.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-223x335.jpg 223w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-231x347.jpg 231w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-347x520.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-427x640.jpg 427w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-512x768.jpg 512w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019re into someone you don\u2019t see as often as you\u2019d like. Or are you too nervous to tell them how you feel in person? Well, what are social media and texting for? You see, there is always a solution to your problems. I know what you must be wondering now. You\u2019re figuring out how to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":148953,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-148945","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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