She seems distant, but it’s not because of you. She’s just scared she’ll break again and she won’t find a way to patch those broken pieces.<\/p>\n
You have no idea how hard it is to say “I am ready to get back out there. I am ready to put my heart on the line again.” when you can barely stand. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Keep that in mind. Know that her walls can’t be forced down they need to fall naturally and the only way you can manage to that is if you love her patiently, truly, deeply.<\/p>\n Le importas, le importas mucho, s\u00f3lo necesita tiempo. Necesita saber que puede confiar en ti. Necesita saber que no vas a hacerle da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n Te dar\u00e1 lo mejor de s\u00ed misma, te querr\u00e1 como nadie lo ha hecho nunca, s\u00f3lo necesita que t\u00fa hagas lo mismo por ella.<\/p>\n She needs you to be honest She’s heard too many lies and endured too many hurtful words. So don’t do the same.<\/p>\n I know you know this already but it worth saying it again – without honesty, you can’t really make a relationship work.<\/p>\n So say what’s on your mind and stick to it. Make your actions follow what you say and everything will be great.<\/p>\n Podr\u00e9is confiar los unos en los otros. Conectar\u00e9is m\u00e1s profundamente. Ella se sentir\u00e1 segura para enamorarse completamente de ti.<\/p>\n Necesita que la aceptes tal y como es.<\/p>\n Don’t try to change her. Accept her fully. Accept who she is and accept her past. She will love you more if you let her fix herself.<\/p>\n I know that you might be tempted to rush and help her get better, but that won’t help.<\/p>\n You need to remember that her past was very hard on her and that she does need a lot of time to heal, it’s not something that happens overnight. It’s hard for her, too.<\/p>\n Necesita que le des espacio<\/p>\n There will come times where she’ll need some alone time, so respect that. Don’t be mad.<\/p>\n Don’t blow up her phone with calls and messages, don’t show up at her door. Just slow down and take it easy.<\/p>\n She needs some time to recharge and find her balance. She knows you are there. Give her space, she’ll come to you when she feels good again.<\/p>\n Necesita que seas paciente cuando se trata de intimidad<\/p>\n Ella necesita conectar contigo emocionalmente para poder conectar contigo f\u00edsicamente. \u00c1brete a ella, d\u00e9jala entrar y dale tiempo para que haga lo mismo.<\/p>\n She wants to make love to you. Yes, it sounds corny. But it’s a big deal to her.<\/p>\n She doesn’t want something casual or fleeting. So don’t force her into doing something she is not ready to do you will just push her away.<\/p>\n Necesita que le digas lo guapa que es<\/p>\n Hazle cumplidos. Puede que sus experiencias pasadas la hayan hecho sentirse insegura, as\u00ed que recu\u00e9rdale lo guapa que es.<\/p>\n No s\u00f3lo su aspecto f\u00edsico, sino tambi\u00e9n su alma.<\/p>\n Tell her how kind she is, and how generous, loving and caring she is. Don’t just tell her that she’s sexy.<\/p>\n M\u00e1s bien, demu\u00e9strale que la aprecias por completo, en cuerpo, mente y alma.<\/p>\n Necesita un abrazo, necesita muchos.<\/p>\n Hug her. A lot. Physical touch creates energy that words can’t express and it’s important to let her know that you’re there for her and what says, ”I’m not letting you go,” more than a tight hug? Nothing.<\/p>\n That’s why it’s important to hug her as much as you can. Hug her when she is sad, scared, happy, mad. Hug her for no reason at all.<\/p>\n Necesita que seas coherente<\/p>\n Keep doing everything that you’re doing and don’t back down. You will be able to break those walls one stone at a time and you will be grateful that you have been consistent when you see all the love that she can feel.<\/p>\n You will get the entire world the moment when she sees that you’re not messing around.<\/p>\n There she is, she’s standing right in front of you\u2014the most wonderful woman you have ever seen. 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