{"id":149158,"date":"2022-04-18T09:47:43","date_gmt":"2022-04-18T09:47:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149158"},"modified":"2022-06-08T17:25:02","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T17:25:02","slug":"como-fantasmear-a-alguien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-fantasmear-a-alguien\/","title":{"rendered":"Cu\u00e1ndo y c\u00f3mo enga\u00f1ar a alguien correctamente: 6 mejores maneras"},"content":{"rendered":"

El acto fantasma<\/a> se ha convertido en una de las formas modernas m\u00e1s populares de cortar el contacto con alguien<\/a> subtly. If you’ve ever been ghosted, then you know how painful it is, but sometimes, it’s just necessary.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, hay algunas situaciones en las que<\/b> fantasma<\/b><\/a> es inapropiado, y tambi\u00e9n hay situaciones en las que el ghosting es lo \u00fanico razonable.<\/b><\/p>\n

How will you know when it is okay to ghost someone? From today, you’ll definitely learn that, and, more importantly, you’ll also learn how to ghost someone the right way!<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo fantasmear a alguien de la forma correcta<\/h2>\n

If you have doubts about ghosting, you’re probably wondering whether there is a nice way to ghost someone. Well, I don’t think there is. Whichever way you choose, it will leave them with question marks. Although there might not be a nice way, there is always the right way.<\/p>\n

1. \u00bfEst\u00e1s seguro de que ya no quieres a esa persona en tu vida?<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

\u00bfFue este un <\/i>relaci\u00f3n importante<\/i> a usted o simplemente un<\/i> aventura a corto plazo<\/i><\/a>? \u00bfEsta persona pone en peligro tu bienestar de una forma u otra?<\/i><\/p>\n

These are the questions you need to ask yourself to realize whether you’re truly ready to let them go.<\/b> If you’re making an impulsive decision, you might regret it later on.<\/p>\n

So, it’s best to be honest with yourself. Then, what will it be? Are you 100% ready to enter ghosting mode?<\/p>\n

2. En caso afirmativo, h\u00e1galo gradualmente<\/h3>\n

Ramani Durvasula, psic\u00f3logo cl\u00ednico licenciado y profesor de psicolog\u00eda en la Universidad Estatal de California en Los \u00c1ngeles, describe el ghosting de la siguiente manera:<\/p>\n

\u201cGhosting is exactly what it sounds like; it\u2019s quietly<\/i> disappearing from someone\u2019s life<\/i><\/a>, like a ghost.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

Imagina estar en <\/b>contacto permanente<\/b> ...y de repente un d\u00eda deciden matarlas como fantasmas.<\/b> Definitivamente, ese no es el camino a seguir. Si quieres evitar la intensidad emocional que conlleva el ghosting repentino, hazlo gradualmente.<\/p>\n

Quitely = gradualmente.<\/b><\/p>\n

First, stop responding to some of their texts and calls. After a while, stop responding for a longer period of time. Then, at a certain point, you’ll be ready to cut off communication for good.<\/p>\n

3. Dejar de invertir en la comunicaci\u00f3n con ellos<\/h3>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

A great way to gradually “get rid of them\u201d is to stop investing your time in communicating with them. If you haven’t invested much time in them, it will be easier to end things.<\/p>\n

If they keep tagging you in comments, don’t reply. Also, don’t start ghosting them on all <\/b>redes sociales<\/b> plataformas simult\u00e1neamente.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they’re texting you on both Facebook and Instagram, choose to ghost them on Facebook first. After that, ignore their messages on Instagram as well.<\/p>\n

El objetivo aqu\u00ed es dejar de invertir en comunicarse con ellos de forma indirecta. <\/b>This will also make it easier for them to accept it. It’s harder to cope with something that ends abruptly, right?<\/p>\n

5. Despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, b\u00f3rralos\/bloqu\u00e9alos en las redes sociales<\/h3>\n

You’ve succeeded in ghosting them for so many days! Congrats! What’s your next step, you wonder?<\/p>\n

Gracias a la moderna <\/b>tecnolog\u00edas de la comunicaci\u00f3n<\/b>tenemos el lujo de borrar virtualmente a la gente de nuestras vidas. <\/b>El mejor momento para eliminarlos o bloquearlos en las redes sociales es despu\u00e9s de unos d\u00edas\/semanas sin comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

That way, chances are, they won’t even notice that they’re no longer on your friends list. If you haven’t been communicating, it\u2019ll make no difference to them whether they’re still your friend or not.<\/b><\/p>\n

Still, there are exceptions. Some people won’t be able to accept that you deleted or blocked them. They’ll take it too personally (which is not something you can influence).<\/p>\n

Relacionado: Qu\u00e9 pasa cuando se da cuenta de que le has bloqueado<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Estar preparado para todo<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de ser ignorado por alguien<\/a>, I’m convinced that there’s no gray area here. You either upset the person, or they don’t care about it at all.<\/p>\n

Todo depende de lo conectados que estuvieran contigo en el <\/b>primer puesto<\/b>. If you didn’t spend <\/b>mucho tiempo<\/b> together or didn\u2019t text a lot, it would be easier for them to<\/b> seguir adelante<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pero si hab\u00e9is pasado mucho tiempo juntos y todav\u00eda se preocupan por ti, prep\u00e1rate para cualquier cosa. As a matter of fact, some people can’t accept rejection regardless of whether you saw them or texted once in your life or more than that.<\/b><\/p>\n

Hay de todo, as\u00ed que prep\u00e1rate para todos los resultados posibles. Establecer l\u00edmites sanos es imprescindible cuando se trata de aprender a fantasmear con alguien.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo est\u00e1 bien fantasmear con alguien?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

People ghost others for various reasons; some of them are legit, while others are not-so-legit. We all have boundaries when it comes to social connections and different things, so when someone doesn’t respect them, the m\u00e9todo ghosting<\/a> es muy \u00fatil.<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunas situaciones en las que est\u00e1 bien fantasmear con alguien:<\/b><\/p>\n

4. Ser persistente pase lo que pase<\/h3>\n

S\u00ed, la persona a la que fantasmear\u00e1s estar\u00e1 en el extremo receptor (suponiendo que le importes y quiera estar en tu vida). Pero has decidido ponerle punto final porque tienes tus propias razones.<\/p>\n

So, don’t let <\/b>culpabilidad fantasma<\/b> le impiden ser coherente en su decisi\u00f3n. Aprenda a<\/b> configure <\/b>l\u00edmites saludables<\/b><\/a> sin sentirse culpable por ello.<\/b> En caso de duda, recuerda por qu\u00e9 decidiste fantasmear con esa persona.<\/p>\n

Don’t fall for their attempts to blackmail you, beg you, or make you feel bad. Si tu vida parece de diez <\/b>veces<\/b> easier since you’ve not been in contact with them, then you know you’ve made the right decision.<\/b><\/p>\n

(Sin embargo, si crees que has cometido un error, siempre puedes admitirlo, pedirles perd\u00f3n y cambiar las cosas).<\/p>\n