{"id":149512,"date":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","date_gmt":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149512"},"modified":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","modified_gmt":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","slug":"senales-de-que-un-preso-te-quiere-de-verdad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-un-preso-te-quiere-de-verdad\/","title":{"rendered":"8 se\u00f1ales de que un preso te quiere de verdad (y c\u00f3mo hacer que dure)"},"content":{"rendered":"

If your partner or someone you\u2019re dating is currently an inmate, I bet you can\u2019t help but wonder, \u00bfC\u00f3mo puede<\/i> un condenado<\/i><\/a> \u00bfMe quieres?<\/i><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo tengo una cosa que decir: La ausencia hace que el coraz\u00f3n se encari\u00f1e.<\/b> Por tanto, si te quer\u00edan de verdad antes de ir a la c\u00e1rcel, te seguir\u00e1n queriendo a pesar de las circunstancias.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s how I see it.<\/p>\n

A <\/b>relaci\u00f3n carcelaria<\/b> es una forma de<\/b> relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/b><\/a>. When you look at it that way, it\u2019s easier for you to endure the distance.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ser amigos por correspondencia en la c\u00e1rcel tambi\u00e9n es una forma leg\u00edtima de relaci\u00f3n epistolar<\/a> (algo que toda pareja normal deber\u00eda practicar de vez en cuando).<\/p>\n

So, yes, being in a \u201c<\/b>relaci\u00f3n carcelaria<\/b>\u201d will test your love and patience, but you have nothing to worry about if your feelings are mutual.<\/b><\/p>\n

But, how will you know? Below you\u2019ll find the surefire signs an inmate really loves you and how you can make your relationship last!<\/p>\n

8 se\u00f1ales de que un preso te quiere de verdad<\/h2>\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s really hard to decipher whether your partner in prison has strong feelings for you because you don\u2019t see each other often.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, hay algunas cosas sutiles y no tan sutiles que pueden indicarle si realmente <\/b>te quiero<\/b> (o no).<\/b><\/p>\n

Si la mayor\u00eda de las siguientes se\u00f1ales le suenan, no tiene de qu\u00e9 preocuparse:<\/p>\n

1. Te escriben cartas sentimentales<\/h3>\n

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Todos sabemos que los reclusos tienen mucho tiempo para pensar, repensar y sobrepensar. As\u00ed que, s\u00ed, puedes estar seguro de que tambi\u00e9n pensar\u00e1n en sus sentimientos hacia ti y hacia vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Si realmente <\/b>te quiero<\/b>, chances are they\u2019ll express their feelings via <\/b>escritura de cartas<\/b>. If they write you sentimental letters, know that they\u2019ve been<\/b> pensando en ti<\/b><\/a> MUCHO<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

They have a strong urge to convey their deepest feelings in love letters, and they can\u2019t wait for you to read them and write them back. Be sure they\u2019ll reread it multiple times once they get your letter.<\/p>\n

En mi opini\u00f3n, un <\/b>relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/b> no es nada sin<\/b> cartas de amor emotivas<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

To the non-inmate couples reading this: I\u2019m not saying that you should exchange love letters throughout the entire year but occasionally would be a good thing.<\/p>\n

2. Sus paquetes de asistencia significan mucho para ellos<\/h3>\n

\u00bfSabes qu\u00e9 es lo que hace tremendamente feliz a cualquier preso? Los paquetes de asistencia. Recibir paquetes es una forma de conectar con el mundo exterior y con su vida anterior a la c\u00e1rcel.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que presta atenci\u00f3n a c\u00f3mo reaccionan cuando les llevas sus cosas favoritas, comida, etc. <\/b>Now you\u2019re probably wondering: Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 tiene esto que ver con que me quieran? <\/i>Cr\u00e9eme, lo hace.<\/p>\n

Si te dicen que tus paquetes les alegran el d\u00eda y nunca se olvidan de agradec\u00e9rtelo, sabr\u00e1s lo mucho que significan para ellos. They don\u2019t only care about receiving it, but they appreciate the effort and love that you put into it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esto tambi\u00e9n puede verse como recibir regalos<\/i>que es uno de los cinco lenguajes del amor<\/a>. If this is your partner\u2019s love language, then it can\u2019t get better than that!<\/p>\n

3. La chispa en sus ojos es constante cada vez que les visitas<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve seen it in movies multiple times.<\/p>\n

Un preso espera impaciente su <\/i>amado<\/i> to come to visit them… and as soon as they see them, their eyes become brighter and sometimes fill with happy tears.<\/i><\/p>\n

Esta chispa es exactamente lo que tiene que buscar cada vez que visite a su compa\u00f1ero <\/b>recluso<\/b>. Porque los ojos nunca mienten.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re genuinely happy to see you every time you visit them, know they really mean it. The spark in their eyes tells you their love for you is stronger than ever, and you have nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

4. Hablas de cosas importantes de la vida<\/b><\/h3>\n

Los temas de las conversaciones tambi\u00e9n son importantes. Habl\u00e1is solo del d\u00eda a d\u00eda o profundiz\u00e1is m\u00e1s?<\/p>\n

Hablar de las cosas importantes de la vida = mantener conversaciones significativas.<\/b><\/p>\n

If your inmate partner is only interested in small talk, then this means they\u2019re not really interested in connecting with you on a deeper level.<\/p>\n

Conversaciones profundas e inspiradoras<\/b><\/a> son el combustible de toda relaci\u00f3n (especialmente de una relaci\u00f3n a distancia como la suya).<\/b> Este tipo de conversaciones te dejan satisfecho durante horas y d\u00edas antes de volver a hablar.<\/p>\n

If this is something you already practice, then it\u2019s one of the clear signs an inmate really loves you.<\/p>\n

5. They don\u2019t call you only when they need something<\/h3>\n

Esto es brillante y una de las maneras m\u00e1s f\u00e1ciles de saber si un preso te quiere de verdad<\/a> o no.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you all agree that if someone calls you only when they need something from you, they aren\u2019t being genuine.<\/b> (It\u2019s happened to me multiple times in friendships and romantic relationships.)<\/p>\n

So, if your love interest doesn\u2019t only call you when they need you to bring them something or do something for them, you can be sure they truly care about you.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t see you only as their middleman between prison and the <\/b>mundo exterior<\/b>.<\/b> They see you as the love of their life, and they want to know how you are feeling, what you\u2019re doing, and so on.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re interested in your well-being and not only about you telling them what\u2019s going on in the world. That\u2019s how you know their feelings for you shouldn\u2019t be questioned.<\/p>\n

6. They tell you that they\u2019re ready to change<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Esta es probablemente una de las se\u00f1ales m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles y genuinas de que un preso te quiere de verdad. La verdad es que todos cometemos errores durante el viaje llamado vida, y nadie deber\u00eda ser juzgado por ello. Lo mismo se aplica a su ser querido en prisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Ahora que tienen mucho tiempo para pensar en sus acciones pasadas<\/b> (concretamente sobre lo que les llev\u00f3 all\u00ed en primer lugar), tienen la oportunidad de hacer una autorreflexi\u00f3n de calidad.<\/b><\/p>\n

Si te dicen que they\u2019re ready to change<\/a> y no volver\u00e1n a cometer el mismo error de acabar en la c\u00e1rcel, cr\u00e9ales. If a man\/woman is ready to change, they won\u2019t only do it for themselves but also their <\/b>seres queridos<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re ready to change for the better, it\u2019s because they truly love you, and they don\u2019t want your relationship or you to suffer.<\/p>\n

7. Hablan del futuro<\/h3>\n

Ah, the sweet taste of new beginnings! I can only imagine how hard it is to stay optimistic when you\u2019re in prison, but I guess it\u2019s possible to even find a silver lining there.<\/p>\n

Love is a miracle. When you\u2019re in love, you have no problem being positive regardless of where you are.<\/b> Also, you have no problem talking about the bright future that awaits you once you\u2019re out of prison.<\/p>\n

If they talk about the future and already make plans even before they\u2019re out of there, know that they\u2019re truly ready to change. From now on, they have solemnly sworn to themselves that they\u2019ll do their best to make it up to you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quieren que seas feliz. Quieren crear un futuro feliz<\/a> for both of you by making plans in advance and reassuring you that they\u2019ll manage to bring them to life.<\/p>\n

8. They aren\u2019t pen pals with other men\/women<\/h3>\n

I\u2019m not sure if you\u2019re familiar with this, but there are sites where you can become pen pals with prisoners. One such site is called Write A Prisoner. You can email them or send them a letter (a physical letter).<\/p>\n

Tenga en cuenta que algunos presos est\u00e1n en estos sitios para otros fines, como oportunidades educativas, encontrar mentores y similares.<\/b><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to say is that if your inmate partner has an online profile on such sites only to be pen pals with other women\/men, then this is a red flag. It\u2019s like having a dating profile in the real world, which can also lead to potential visits.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they aren\u2019t into this sort of thing, you know the only person they think about is YOU. They\u2019re not interested in meeting other people because they\u2019re solely focused on you. Why? Because they love you.<\/p>\n

How To Make Your \u201cPrison Relationship\u201d Last<\/h2>\n

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Making your prison relationship last requires patience, effort, and creativity. As a matter of fact, it\u2019s like maintaining any other relationship, but the only difference is the circumstances. Here are the things you should pay special attention to in order to make it last:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Exchange as many letters as you can<\/h3>\n

Know that every letter you write them will be their keepsake. When they\u2019re feeling down, they\u2019ll reread your letters, which will make them feel instantly better.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, esto te ayudar\u00e1 a mantener la conexi\u00f3n. <\/b>Escribir una carta es una buena manera de exprese sus sentimientos m\u00e1s profundos<\/a> y deseos, as\u00ed que intercambien tantas cartas como sea posible.<\/p>\n

It will make your relationship stronger and your partner\u2019s days brighter.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Visit often<\/h3>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019re already using this option to the fullest potential (visiting them whenever you can) according to prison visits policy.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t hurt to remind you to visit them often because letters are not enough to<\/b> mantener viva la chispa en una relaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a>. When you\u2019re not able to visit them, you can always make a <\/b>llamada telef\u00f3nica<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

There\u2019s also another type of visit known as a conjugal visit, which is a great thing for couples. During a conjugal visit, an inmate is allowed to spend a few hours or days in private with a visitor. I bet you know what this means. ?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make every conversation meaningful<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re dating someone in jail, it\u2019s important to make every convo meaningful because this is the basis of your bond.<\/p>\n

Puede que no compartan cada <\/b>cosa mala<\/b> que les pas\u00f3 en la c\u00e1rcel, pero puedes animarles a que intenten desahogarse.<\/b> Let them know that you\u2019re there to listen to them whenever they\u2019re ready to share things with you.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, habla de tus planes de futuro como si todo fuera normal.<\/b> Don\u2019t let the distance of prison interfere with your dreams or positivity. You\u2019re stronger than that.<\/p>\n

Haz que cada conversaci\u00f3n valga su tiempo y el tuyo, porque el tiempo es la moneda m\u00e1s valiosa.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be creative when expressing your love and affection<\/b><\/h3>\n

Yup, it\u2019s important to be creative when it comes to gestos rom\u00e1nticos<\/a>incluso cuando tu pareja est\u00e1 en prisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t just repeat \u201c<\/b>I <\/i><\/b>te quiero<\/i><\/b><\/a>\u201d several times a day, but show your affection to your <\/b>amado<\/b> de formas diversas y creativas.<\/b> Puedes escribirles una historia de amor, cantarles tu canci\u00f3n favorita canci\u00f3n de amor<\/a>o puedes hornear una galleta en forma de coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas formas de expresar el amor que se sienten el uno por el otro, y esto va en ambos sentidos. Tu compa\u00f1ero de prisi\u00f3n tambi\u00e9n puede encontrar una forma de expresar su afecto escribiendo cartas o algo similar.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Tickle their imagination<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Just because your partner is in prison doesn\u2019t mean you should stop seducing one another. Your atracci\u00f3n sexual<\/a> can still be at its peak, and all you need to do is tickle each other\u2019s imagination.<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunas ideas:<\/b><\/p>\n

Dress up when you\u2019re about to visit them (especially during <\/i>visitas conyugales<\/i>).<\/i><\/p>\n

H\u00e1blales con voz seductora a trav\u00e9s de <\/i><\/b>llamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/i><\/b>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Dale un toque picante a tus cartas.<\/i><\/p>\n

Sus\u00farrale al o\u00eddo algunas<\/i><\/b> palabrotas<\/i><\/b><\/a> phrases (if you\u2019re able to).<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tell them that you\u2019re thinking about them A LOT.<\/i><\/p>\n

The more you\u2019re thirsty for one another, the more you\u2019ll feel connected. That\u2019s how attraction works regardless of whether you\u2019re in prison or not. As long as you\u2019re attracted to one another, you won\u2019t have a problem finding a way to express it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t let anyone interfere with your relationship<\/h3>\n

I\u2019ve learned this the hard way: Una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> is a relationship where a couple decides for themselves and doesn\u2019t let others interfere.<\/p>\n

Con esto me refiero a <\/b>familiares<\/b> and neighbors who won\u2019t stop gossiping and giving you unsolicited<\/b> consejos sobre relaciones<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they judge your partner for being in prison and disapprove of your relationship, don\u2019t listen to them (unless you think they\u2019re right).<\/p>\n

En el <\/b>fin de la jornada<\/b>lo que importa son tus sentimientos y no lo que digan los dem\u00e1s. Establece l\u00edmites desde el <\/b>primera vez<\/b> empiezan a interferir en tu vida amorosa.<\/b> Esto le ayudar\u00e1 a protegerse.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s my rule of thumb: My amar la vida<\/a> is nobody\u2019s business. If they want to give me advice, I\u2019ll listen to them, but in the end, I\u2019ll do what I think is right and not what others tell me to do. Tener una relaci\u00f3n privada<\/a> es definitivamente el camino a seguir. Punto.<\/p>\n

Cultivar la paciencia<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

After going through these signs that an inmate really loves you, I\u2019m sure now you\u2019re convinced that everything is going as smoothly as it should. As always, conf\u00eda en tus instintos<\/a> porque el m\u00edo nunca me ha fallado.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s my humble confession that might bring you comfort as you\u2019re waiting:<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been pen pals for 2 and a half years with a guy I really like, so yes, you can do it, too! I\u2019m about to see him in the next few days, and I\u2019m SO excited about it. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll also be excited about welcoming your bae back into the outside world soon.<\/p>\n

When that happens, you\u2019ll realize how powerful love truly is. \u201cNo matter how long it takes, true love is always worth the wait.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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