{"id":14974,"date":"2020-06-21T11:20:15","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T11:20:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14974"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:49:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:49:17","slug":"objetivos-reales-de-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/objetivos-reales-de-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed son los verdaderos objetivos de una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siento que me bombardean con este hashtag #relationshipgoals en casi todas las cuentas de redes sociales que tengo.<\/p>\n

And in some, I can recognize genuine relationship goals, while in others, I don\u2019t get the point.<\/p>\n

It was cute at first\u2014photos of happy couples, photos of grandma and grandpa after 60 years of marriage, photos of two best friends, photos of someone and their pet and so on and so on.<\/p>\n

Hay un significado m\u00e1s profundo en cada una de estas fotos y env\u00edan mensajes de amor, felicidad, uni\u00f3n, amistad y pude ver a d\u00f3nde quer\u00edan llegar.<\/p>\n

Pero despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, la gente comenz\u00f3 a publicar todas estas cosas falsas y ponerlo bajo #relationshipgoals.<\/p>\n

Se notaba que todas las fotos estaban montadas, todo el amor que las parejas se mostrando<\/a> was forced and that the people weren\u2019t living in the moment, they were only captured like that in photos so they could display it to their broad social media community.<\/p>\n

Eso me hizo pensar en qu\u00e9 consisten realmente los objetivos de una relaci\u00f3n en t\u00e9rminos de amor de pareja.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que hice una lista que es mejor que cualquier cosa que puedas ver en #relationshipgoals:<\/p>\n

A relationship goal is not to make other people envious, it\u2019s to make two people in a relationship happy<\/h2>\n

\"parejaIf you are a couple who love each other, you shouldn\u2019t feel the urge to prove anything to anyone.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 deber\u00eda importarte lo que piensen los dem\u00e1s y poner una carga as\u00ed en tu relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

So what if there\u2019s hardly any trace of your love on social media? That doesn\u2019t make your love less, that makes your love more. Because the love you feel is something private, rare and special and your focus should be just on the two of you. It doesn\u2019t matter what anybody else thinks.<\/p>\n

Tener tu propio peque\u00f1o universo<\/h2>\n

\"parejaNo hay nada que grite m\u00e1s relaci\u00f3n perfecta que cuando una pareja tiene comprensi\u00f3n, apoyo, respeto y comunicaci\u00f3n mutuos. Hablan de cosas que s\u00f3lo ellos dos pueden entender.<\/p>\n

Se r\u00eden de cosas que nadie m\u00e1s entiende. Est\u00e1n tan unidos que a veces basta una mirada para que el otro sonr\u00eda.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about understanding each other on a deeper level. It\u2019s about dreaming together and making future plans.<\/p>\n

Tener una enorme confianza mutua<\/h2>\n

\"siluetaTodos sabemos que las relaciones se basan en la confianza, pero cuando se trata de poner en pr\u00e1ctica esa palabra, todos somos un poco lentos.<\/p>\n

Shouldn\u2019t one of the true relationship goals be to be with someone you can trust completely?<\/p>\n

Sadly, lack of trust is what ruins most relationships these days. We have all had our trust broken so badly at some point that we don\u2019t feel like we can risk letting our guard down and having faith that this time things might be different.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que pasamos nuestro tiempo dudando y cuestionando y asfixiante<\/a> relaciones potencialmente buenas.<\/p>\n

Si decides estar con alguien, debes tener un poco de fe en \u00e9l y considerarlo digno de confianza.<\/p>\n

So, the next time their phone rings, don\u2019t bend to see who is calling, don\u2019t check their phone left unsupervised and don\u2019t create scenarios in your head that don\u2019t have a true connection to reality.<\/p>\n

Si hay algo que deber\u00edas saber, cr\u00e9eme, la verdad tiene una forma de salir cuando menos te lo esperas.<\/p>\n

Apreciar la sencillez<\/h2>\n

\"hombreLove is all about those little things that have great worth. It\u2019s about spending time together in the best way you know how. It\u2019s about smiling and crying together.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s making an adventure out of something as simple as grocery shopping or a car ride home.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s waking up next to that special someone and having a sense of belonging. It\u2019s valuing the things you do when you are together.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t go to places you don\u2019t like or you don\u2019t care about just so you could put a hashtag with #relationshipgoals on it and impress your social media friends.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a fancy dinner if you are having an awful time fighting with your partner, especially if you are not the fancy dinner type.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t a candlelit pizza with just the two of you being cozy and happy be so much better?<\/p>\n

Comprometidos pero libres<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

A veces, el miedo a perder a alguien especial hace que la gente se aferre demasiado.<\/p>\n

This leads to some behaviors that will most likely suffocate a relationship, so they feel this urge to text 24\/7, or FaceTime when they don\u2019t text, or spend every waking moment together.<\/p>\n

Cuando vives tus objetivos de relaci\u00f3n, te sientes seguro de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Sabes que tu pareja es comprometido<\/a> and he doesn\u2019t have to text you every 5 seconds or see you every day.<\/p>\n

You know that the love you share won\u2019t change, no matter what.<\/p>\n

Being included in each other\u2019s life<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

It\u2019s talking about everything and nothing. Being best friends and lovers at the same time. It\u2019s when your partner sees his future with you, so he makes a place in his life for you.<\/p>\n

You know each other\u2019s families and friends and you include each other in your plans.<\/p>\n

Piensa en el efecto que tendr\u00e1n sus decisiones en su pareja.<\/p>\n

Cuando uno necesita consejo, es el primero al que acude. Cuando uno de los dos toma grandes decisiones en la vida, el otro es su mayor apoyo.<\/p>\n

Cuidar<\/h2>\n

\"El<\/p>\n

We are all more than capable of taking care of each other but from time to time it\u2019s nice to have somebody to do that for you.<\/p>\n

Especially if you are sick and in desperate need of someone to make some homemade soup or tea. Even if they are there just to fetch you something or put one more blanket on you, it\u2019s nice to know you are not alone.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, it\u2019s nice even when your health is perfect.<\/p>\n

La persona que ama de verdad se preocupa de verdad. Se desvive por hacer feliz a la persona que quiere. Y un poco de mimo nunca hace da\u00f1o a nadie.<\/p>\n

El sexo es importante pero no obligatorio<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando se tiene una relaci\u00f3n duradera, la vida sexual se ralentiza un poco.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s not something you should be worried about. It\u2019s a natural occurrence, even though a lot of people wouldn\u2019t admit to it that easily.<\/p>\n

Sex is an important part of any relationship and it\u2019s perfectly normal to spend time with each other and not have sex every time.<\/p>\n

Sex is something that should never be forced and if one you is not in the mood, it\u2019s not a big deal.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas otras cosas que pod\u00e9is hacer juntos: hablar, re\u00edr, tumbaros y relajaros, abrazar<\/a>, watch a movie or listen to some music, just enjoy each other\u2019s company. It\u2019s the best form of intimacy you will ever experience.<\/p>\n

Ser fiel a uno mismo en una relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"anguloMuchas personas creen que tienen que cambiar para complacer a su pareja.<\/p>\n

Sure, a relationship is about making compromises and finding a common path but that doesn\u2019t mean you have to change from the core.<\/p>\n

Nadie debe cambiar para adaptarse a otra persona. Si lo haces, te pierdes a ti mismo y te vuelves infeliz.<\/p>\n

Uno de los objetivos de una relaci\u00f3n debe ser la compatibilidad. Encontrar a alguien imperfecto con quien encajes perfectamente.<\/p>\n

All those happy couples on social media aren\u2019t happy because they are perfect, they are happy because they have found somebody who love them in spite of their flaws.<\/p>\n

Una buena relaci\u00f3n deber\u00eda hacerte m\u00e1s feliz, m\u00e1s seguro de ti mismo, radiante y lleno de energ\u00eda. Deber\u00eda realzarte a ti y a tus sentimientos y no hacerte sentir que no eres suficiente. Debes sentirte a gusto con tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Tus puntos fuertes y d\u00e9biles no deben intimidarte. La otra parte tambi\u00e9n los tiene.<\/p>\n

La relaci\u00f3n de tu vida ser\u00e1 con alguien a quien le guste tu rareza y singularidad y no con alguien que intente cambiar<\/a> you into \u2018normal\u2019.<\/p>\n

Luchar te hace m\u00e1s cercano<\/h2>\n

\"mujerTodas las parejas se pelean. Las que no lo hacen est\u00e1n embotellando sus emociones hasta el punto de una explosi\u00f3n catastr\u00f3fica que probablemente ser\u00e1 su muerte.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, hay peleas que debes evitar, como tirar cosas a tu compa\u00f1ero o ponerte agresivo de cualquier manera.<\/p>\n

Si tus peleas son as\u00ed, deber\u00edas replantearte tu relaci\u00f3n y, muy probablemente, ponerle fin.<\/p>\n

Pero si tus peleas incluyen escuchar a ambas partes y presentar buenos argumentos, vas por buen camino.<\/p>\n

Ese tipo de peleas en las que aprendes algo de ti mismo y de tu pareja hacen que la relaci\u00f3n crezca.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t believe in those fairy tale relationships of pure harmony. Fights are a normal occurrence and they can improve your relationship if you find a common language or improve things that are wrong.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1is completamente enamorados<\/h2>\n

\"hombreYou have that physical connection and it\u2019s something that cannot be put into words. When lust is mixed with love and mutual understanding, there is nothing that can top that.<\/p>\n

There is no need to post photos of the two of you slobbering all over each other or lying in bed for everyone to see. That\u2019s just distasteful.<\/p>\n

People\u2019s private moments should be just that\u2014private. Relationship goals shouldn\u2019t contain photos of you lying half naked in bed.<\/p>\n

La pasi\u00f3n que compart\u00eds es claramente un objetivo de la relaci\u00f3n, pero mantener ese fuego para los ojos de s\u00f3lo vosotros dos s\u00f3lo lo har\u00e1 m\u00e1s especial y extraordinario.<\/p>\n

Handling each other\u2019s flaws<\/h2>\n

\"hombreIt sounds a bit harsh but it couldn\u2019t be truer. We are all flawed in some way and sometimes those flaws, just like our strong points, are deeply incorporated in us.<\/p>\n

El objetivo principal aqu\u00ed es estar con una persona cuyos defectos puedas soportar.<\/p>\n

There are people out there with maybe even minor or insignificant flaws but we wouldn\u2019t last a second in a relationship with them or tolerate any of it.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando se trata de la persona que amamos de verdad, aceptamos esos defectos como parte de ella y tambi\u00e9n llegamos a amarla o, al menos, a tolerarla. Nos adaptamos a sus defectos como ellos se adaptan a los nuestros.<\/p>\n

Enamor\u00e1ndonos cada d\u00eda<\/h2>\n

\"apasionadaCouples in long-term relationships often forget to say things or do those special kinds of things for each other because they assume that the other side knows how they feel. It\u2019s never a good thing to assume that.<\/p>\n

Tell your partner you love them from time to time, if not every day. Tell them they look handsome, hot or beautiful when you see that they made an effort or simply compliment their casual messy look because surely it\u2019s adorable.<\/p>\n

Tened citas. Vayan juntos de aventura. Hagan un viaje por carretera. Viajen. Pasad tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n

Esas peque\u00f1as muestras de afecto, felicidad y uni\u00f3n nunca deben pasar de moda ni darse por sentadas.<\/p>\n

Even if you know that somebody will probably be in your life forever, that\u2019s not a reason to stop making an effort.<\/p>\n

Try living these 13 relationship goals I listed because they are true, human and genuine and maybe you will have the chance to achieve the ultimate goal of being each other\u2019s everything and sharing your future together.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Recuerda: Las relaciones nunca tienen que ver con otras personas, ni con seguidores en las redes sociales, likes o comentarios, sino simplemente con que los dos hag\u00e1is que funcione.<\/p>\n

You might have your ups and downs but that\u2019s what makes you grow and makes your relationship stronger.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t buy into those photos on social media. They are just plain photos, frozen fragments of time.<\/p>\n

They are not real and we shouldn\u2019t believe everything we see on social media anyways.<\/p>\n

En pocas palabras, los objetivos de una relaci\u00f3n pueden alcanzarse si eres una persona capaz de tener una relaci\u00f3n normal, sana y amorosa, si est\u00e1s con alguien que te ve como realmente eres y quiere que seas feliz, y si est\u00e1s con alguien cuyo amor por ti coincide con tu amor por \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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