{"id":14986,"date":"2019-02-21T08:56:09","date_gmt":"2019-02-21T08:56:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14986"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:53:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:53:08","slug":"el-amor-se-rompio-encontro-el-camino-de-vuelta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-se-rompio-encontro-el-camino-de-vuelta\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor de \u00e9l la destroz\u00f3 (pero ella encontr\u00f3 el camino de vuelta)"},"content":{"rendered":"

No dejaba de preguntarse: \u00bfY si todo se tuerce? \u00bfY si le rompe el coraz\u00f3n? \u00bfY si lo estropea todo? \u00bfSobrevivir\u00e1 ella? Cuando se conocieron, se preguntaba muchas cosas. La vida le ense\u00f1\u00f3 a no fiarse s\u00f3lo de una cara bonita o de palabras halagadoras.<\/p>\n

Pero hab\u00eda algo dentro de \u00e9l, a la vez diab\u00f3lico y angelical, algo tan fuerte que la manten\u00eda enganchada a \u00e9l. Ignor\u00f3 su intuici\u00f3n porque pens\u00f3 que s\u00f3lo era miedo y se arriesg\u00f3 con \u00e9l. Y por mucho que roto<\/a> ella, lo volver\u00eda a hacer.<\/p>\n

No, she wouldn’t go back to him. But she realized that she was not about to spend her life full of regret. All those moments with him were the best and the worst she had ever experienced. They were the closest things to heaven but they were also hell itself when it all went down in flames.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuando lo conoci\u00f3, volvi\u00f3 a sentirse viva por primera vez en mucho tiempo. Esa sensaci\u00f3n de estar enamorada la hac\u00eda estar radiante. Se pod\u00edan ver destellos de alegr\u00eda en sus ojos. \u00c9l lo hac\u00eda todo bien. Le dedicaba toda su atenci\u00f3n. Ella disfrutaba de los peque\u00f1os detalles, como los mensajes de buenos d\u00edas y los besos de buenas noches. Se desviv\u00eda por demostrarle lo mucho que significaba para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

He was someone she could have fun with and laugh with but also have serious conversations with, about anything, for hours. It felt like he was somebody she could lean on. Finally, someone she could trust. But she couldn’t be more wrong as that was just a mask he was wearing to win her over.<\/p>\n

Parec\u00eda que lo hac\u00eda todo a prop\u00f3sito, como si lo tuviera todo calculado y pensado. Era como un \u00e1ngel hasta que la conquist\u00f3 y hasta que se asegur\u00f3 de que ella era toda suya pasara lo que pasara. Era casi como si su plan maestro fuera usar su amor contra ella.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When he knew for sure that her love was genuine, that’s when the manipulaciones<\/a> empez\u00f3. Ella apenas reconoci\u00f3 los s\u00edntomas porque \u00e9l era muy h\u00e1bil. Sab\u00eda qu\u00e9 decir y c\u00f3mo decirlo. Cada vez que se enfadaba con \u00e9l acababa disculp\u00e1ndose o hablando de algo completamente distinto. Ten\u00eda la capacidad de hilar cada historia para adaptarla a sus necesidades.<\/p>\n

She was blinded by the love she had for him. He manipulated the way she saw things. He wouldn’t call for days and would come back saying it was her fault, that she should have tried harder. Every time she complained about not seeing him as much, he would always call her clingy or too needy. Not to mention that every time she had a rough day he would make it even worse by calling her overly sensitive.<\/p>\n

No ten\u00eda ni idea de lo que le hab\u00eda pasado a aquel hombre dulce, amable y comprensivo. El hombre que estaba a su lado le dec\u00eda que la quer\u00eda, pero la trataba como a una mierda la mayor parte del tiempo. La ignoraba, la hac\u00eda sentir in\u00fatil e irrelevante, y luego, cuando ve\u00eda que ella ya estaba deprimida, entraba y salvaba el d\u00eda; ese mismo d\u00eda que \u00e9l hab\u00eda arruinado antes, sin ayuda de nadie.<\/p>\n

She felt like her perfect dream had turned into the most horrible nightmare that she didn’t know how to wake up from. Things were getting worse and worse. His behavior got so hard to handle that he would call her names and put her down every time he could and she was just holding on tighter and tighter to him, trying to fix the unfixable.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La dej\u00f3 un d\u00eda, de la nada, y pas\u00f3 a su siguiente v\u00edctima. Ella pens\u00f3 que deb\u00eda de estar engatusando a su nueva v\u00edctima como hizo con ella a\u00f1os antes. Llor\u00f3 mucho mientras mantuvo la relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l, pero llor\u00f3 a\u00fan m\u00e1s cuando todo termin\u00f3, hasta el punto de que se le secaron las l\u00e1grimas y qued\u00f3 entumecida.<\/p>\n

Him leaving broke her so hard, even though people kept telling her she was better off. She had saved herself from his toxic paws. She should be thanking God because he had let her be. She was listening and she knew they were right but that didn’t make the pain any less.<\/p>\n

She went through a bad period for a while there. She felt so numb that she couldn’t feel all the good, all the people in her life trying to help her. She was beyond help until she decided to help herself, once she suddenly felt something shift inside of her. She felt some kind of hope and she discovered that she still had enough strength to fight for herself.<\/p>\n

Lo consigui\u00f3. Le demostr\u00f3 a \u00e9l, a todos los que la rodeaban y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, a s\u00ed misma, que no hay dolor que pueda dejarla abatida para siempre. Sinti\u00f3 que hab\u00eda despertado. Por primera vez, mir\u00f3 atr\u00e1s y lo vio todo tan horrible como era. Vio todas las formas en que \u00e9l la hab\u00eda manipulado y la hab\u00eda hecho sentir in\u00fatil. Lo vio como el bastardo que realmente era.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La dej\u00f3 en la ruina mucho antes de salir realmente de su vida. La vaci\u00f3 emocionalmente. Arruin\u00f3 su autoestima. Y todos esos juegos mentales<\/a> le hizo cuestionarse su cordura. Se sinti\u00f3 aliviada de que todo hubiera terminado. Dio gracias a Dios por alejarlo de ella. Era lo mejor que le hab\u00eda pasado.<\/p>\n

Ahora es la mujer que siempre debi\u00f3 ser. Sigue siendo un poco fr\u00e1gil, pero m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que nunca fue. Tom\u00f3 las riendas de su vida. Ha encontrado el camino de vuelta. R\u00ede, trabaja, persiste, sue\u00f1a, vive y se ama a s\u00ed misma y a su vida m\u00e1s que nunca.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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She kept asking herself: What if everything goes south? What if he breaks her heart? What if he messes up bad, will she survive? She was full of what ifs when they first met. Life taught her not to just trust a pretty face or flattering words. But there was something inside of him, both…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":14989,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14986","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/carol-oliver-503360-unsplash-1.jpg",800,566,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14986","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14986"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14986\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14989"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14986"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14986"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14986"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}