{"id":149886,"date":"2022-04-25T11:22:33","date_gmt":"2022-04-25T11:22:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149886"},"modified":"2022-04-25T11:22:33","modified_gmt":"2022-04-25T11:22:33","slug":"esta-distante-pero-sigue-enviando-mensajes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esta-distante-pero-sigue-enviando-mensajes\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9l es distante pero todav\u00eda mensajes de texto: 13 razones y 6 cosas que hacer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo peor que un hombre puede hacer en una relaci\u00f3n es empezar a actuar distante<\/a> sin una raz\u00f3n adecuada. Lo s\u00e9, puede volver loca a una mujer.<\/p>\n

But, there is an even worse scenario… Cuando est\u00e1 distante pero sigue mandando mensajes todos los d\u00edas.<\/em> You just can\u2019t get to the bottom of his distant behavior while, at the same time, you don\u2019t know how to respond to his text messages and how to behave in general.<\/p>\n

I bet you\u2019re waiting for him to text back right now.<\/strong> Well, while you\u2019re waiting, here is an interesting reading that will definitely help you figure out a way to deal with your man’s distant behavior. Or, at least, it\u2019ll make the waiting feel shorter, LOL.<\/p>\n

13 posibles razones por las que est\u00e1 distante pero te sigue mandando mensajes<\/h2>\n

Let\u2019s start by explaining some possible reasons why he is distant but still texts you very often. Be aware, though, that these reasons aren\u2019t there to justify what he\u2019s doing but to simply help you understand his behavior and true intentions.<\/em><\/p>\n

1. 1. Baja autoestima<\/h3>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Los hombres con inseguridades y problemas de salud mental son propensos a comportamiento en fr\u00edo y en caliente<\/a>. En<\/strong> De vez en cuando, se distancian sin motivo aparente, salvo la necesidad de espacio personal.<\/p>\n

Debido a su man\u2019s low self-esteem<\/a>puede empezar a dudar de tus sentimientos. Or, he may start thinking that you\u2019re too good for him and that he doesn\u2019t deserve you, which is definitely one of the reasons he\u2019s become distant<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

2. Cuestiones personales<\/h3>\n

\u00bfAlguna vez ha mencionado alg\u00fan problema en el trabajo? \u00bfSe ha peleado con alg\u00fan compa\u00f1ero? \u00bfQuiz\u00e1 tiene problemas en casa, con sus seres queridos?<\/em><\/p>\n

If he has already told you that, then things are pretty clear. Your man isn\u2019t distant because of you, he\u2019s distant because of those personal issues, and unfortunately, he can\u2019t stop them from affecting your relationship.<\/p>\n

3. El estr\u00e9s del nuevo trabajo est\u00e1 afectando a tu relaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n

Si tiene un nuevo trabajo, entonces creo que su comportamiento podr\u00eda estar justificado. Puede ser muy estresante adaptarse a un nuevo trabajo y mezclarse con los nuevos compa\u00f1eros.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If that\u2019s the case with your man, you should show him you understand and dale un poco de espacio<\/a>. It shouldn\u2019t be a huge threat to your relationship, just give him some time to solve those work-related things, and everything between you will be alright again.<\/p>\n

4. He\u2019s afraid of a face-to-face encounter<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve met online and have been texting for some time, maybe he knows that it\u2019s time for you to meet in person, and that terrifies him.<\/em><\/p>\n

He probably likes you already and doesn\u2019t want to screw everything up on la primera cita<\/a>. However, if he truly likes you, he\u2019ll have to overcome his fear, dar el primer paso<\/a> e invitarte a salir.<\/p>\n

5. Your first date didn\u2019t go as he planned<\/h3>\n

\u00bfOs conocisteis en una aplicaci\u00f3n de citas como Tinder o Match.com y os mandasteis mensajes durante alg\u00fan tiempo? Iba todo bien, pero concertasteis la primera cita y, tras ella, todo cambi\u00f3 y \u00e9l empez\u00f3 a comportarse distante de repente?<\/p>\n

Well, there is only one logical explanation for that: he isn\u2019t pleased with how your first date went. Tal vez eras un super divertido y texter interesante<\/a> but didn\u2019t give him that impression when he met you in person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Or perhaps, he\u2019s afraid that he didn\u2019t fulfill your expectations<\/strong>. Piensa que todo era incre\u00edble cuando s\u00f3lo os enviabais mensajes de texto y que no consigui\u00f3 mantener ese sentimiento cuando le conocisteis en la vida real.<\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s seeing another girl<\/h3>\n

I know it hurts to hear this, but it can definitely be one of the reasons. And unfortunately, it\u2019s one of the most common reasons he is distant but still texts you often.<\/p>\n

Last month, my friend was in the same situation. Once she confronted her man, he told her that he was confused and didn\u2019t know which one to choose.<\/p>\n

Of course, she immediately dumped his lame ass, and you should do the same IF you find out he\u2019s seeing someone else.<\/em><\/p>\n

7. He\u2019s trying to put you in the friend zone<\/h3>\n

Trust me, it wouldn\u2019t be the first time a man tries to do this. He isn\u2019t interested in dating you<\/a>...pero realmente le gustas y cree que podr\u00edas ser... buenos amigos<\/a>. That\u2019s why he is distant but still texts you every day.<\/p>\n

He probably won\u2019t send you textos coquetos<\/a> o rom\u00e1ntico mensajes de buenas noches<\/a>, but he\u2019ll reach out often just to check in with you.<\/em><\/p>\n

He thinks that by being honest, he might hurt your feelings; that\u2019s why he chooses to zona de amigos<\/a> you like this and make it \u2018easier\u2019 for the both of you.<\/p>\n

8. He\u2019s testing you<\/h3>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been in a relationship for a long time, he\u2019s probably thinking about making your relationship more serious. However, some men like to test their better halves before deciding to take that step.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t confront him or get angry at him initially. Ten paciencia<\/a> y mu\u00e9strate comprensivo, y deja que se abra a ti cuando se sienta preparado para ello.<\/strong><\/p>\n

9. He\u2019s spending time with his loved ones<\/h3>\n

Maybe he had a family crisis, and now, he\u2019s only focused on spending time with his loved ones.<\/p>\n

And if he admits that he\u2019s having family issues in your text conversation, then you need to show understanding.<\/em> Let him know you\u2019re there for him and that it\u2019s okay for him to take some time out to solve his issues.<\/p>\n

10. He\u2019s afraid of commitment<\/h3>\n

Si estuvieras hablando de una relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/a> y llevar su relaci\u00f3n al siguiente nivel, tal vez s\u00f3lo se asust\u00f3. Probablemente se preocupa mucho por ti, pero a\u00fan as\u00ed isn\u2019t ready to commit<\/a>.<\/strong> He doesn\u2019t want to give you false hope and then, at the last minute, give up and leave you.<\/p>\n

If this is the case, you shouldn\u2019t feel bad because of it. He wants you to go easy, but that doesn\u2019t mean he doesn\u2019t want you in his future.<\/p>\n

11. He\u2019s thinking of you, but he\u2019s still angry because of something you did wrong<\/h3>\n

\u00bfOs peleasteis por algo antes de que empezara a mostrarse distante? Si es as\u00ed, ah\u00ed tienes la respuesta a por qu\u00e9 est\u00e1 distante pero sigue envi\u00e1ndote mensajes muy a menudo.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s still angry at you because of your disagreement, but he misses you and can\u2019t go against his feelings.<\/em> He needs to check in with you because no matter how angry he is, he\u2019ll always care for you.<\/p>\n

12. Si estabas en una LDR, tal vez s\u00f3lo se cans\u00f3<\/h3>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Relaciones a distancia<\/a> can sometimes become too much for a partner, and maybe that\u2019s exactly what is happening with your man.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t get it out of him, his close friends probably already know the truth, so you should try ask them. If they start acting nervous and try to change the subject of the convo, it\u2019s a good sign they\u2019re hiding something. That is, they\u2019re trying to cover for their friend.<\/p>\n

Si ese es realmente el motivo de su comportamiento distante, deber\u00edas ser t\u00fa quien se marchara. Si un obst\u00e1culo como la distancia puede interponerse entre vosotros y separaros, todo lo dem\u00e1s tambi\u00e9n lo har\u00e1.<\/p>\n

13. Quiere romper contigo<\/h3>\n

Si estuvieras en una relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/a>, maybe he got bored, and his feelings towards you have just disappeared. However, because of the time you spent together, he doesn\u2019t know how to admit it to you.<\/p>\n

La cosa es, he\u2019s thinking about a breakup<\/a>, but he doesn\u2019t want to hurt your feelings.<\/strong> Unfortunately, he isn\u2019t aware that the more he prolongs it, the more it\u2019ll hurt you in the end.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo responder cuando un chico est\u00e1 distante pero te sigue mandando mensajes?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n quer\u00eda darte los mejores consejos para ayudarte a lidiar con tu hombre distante que no para de enviarte mensajes de texto. As\u00ed que adelante, \u00a1ay\u00fadate a ti misma! ?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Give it a couple of days<\/h3>\n

Deber\u00edas intentar no tener contacto con \u00e9l durante un par de d\u00edas. S\u00f3lo ignore his texts and don\u2019t text back<\/a> no importa lo que te mande por mensaje.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Play video games, hang out with your best friends…just do something that will keep your thoughts occupied.<\/em> Also, post some pics on social media just to make it clear that you\u2019re ignoring him.<\/p>\n

Mi consejo es la regla de los 3 d\u00edas<\/a>.<\/em> Esa es probablemente la mejor manera de averiguar si realmente tiene sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos por ti o si he\u2019s only playing you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Then, invite him to talk face to face<\/h3>\n

The third day will probably be the most difficult for you. However, the next day, you should send him a text message. And I don\u2019t mean you should send him a sweet texto de buenos d\u00edas<\/a>sino ir al grano e invitarle a hablar.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t text back, then you\u2019ll know that he didn\u2019t want to be with you in the first place.<\/strong> S\u00f3lo estaba jugando contigo y tal vez quer\u00eda usarte para satisfacer algunas de sus necesidades.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Or, at least, give him a phone call<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re, for some reason, afraid to meet face to face, you can simply call him. Confront him through a phone call and let him know his behavior is really bothering you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t let him manipulate you through mixed messages<\/h3>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t try to work things out through texting<\/strong>. He\u2019ll probably offer some lame excuses or try to make you think that nothing is wrong and that you\u2019re imagining it all.<\/p>\n

Y, lo peor es cuando est\u00e1 distante pero dice que no pasa nada.<\/em> It\u2019s like he\u2019s trying to make you look crazy. And he actually is because it\u2019s his form of manipulation to echarte la culpa a ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If none of it works out, ghost him<\/h3>\n

Si sigue negando que algo no va bien, deber\u00edas fantasmear con \u00e9l.<\/strong> But this time, for real. I\u2019m not saying you should go no contact for a couple of days again; I really mean that you should ign\u00f3ralo<\/a> like he doesn\u2019t even exist.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019ll be hard for you, but it\u2019s really the only way to make him understand that his behavior is hurting you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If he still doesn\u2019t make up his mind, wish him good luck<\/h3>\n

If he comes back, you\u2019ll know that he cares for you. And if he doesn\u2019t, well, then you\u2019ll know that it\u2019s time to move on<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t wait for him to make up his mind forever. If he isn\u2019t sure about his feelings, then he doesn\u2019t deserve you. You just need to accept that he isn\u2019t the right guy for you, wish him Suerte<\/a>y darle la espalda para siempre.<\/p>\n

Would A Guy Text You If He Wasn’t Interested Every Day?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Oh, he would, trust me. Maybe he isn\u2019t interested in dating you, but he definitely has other intentions.<\/p>\n

Te enviar\u00e1 mensajes todos los d\u00edas s\u00f3lo porque quiere tenerte cerca.<\/strong> He\u2019s probably seeing other women, too, but quiere mantenerte en segundo plano<\/a> por si alguna de esas aventuras llega a su fin.<\/p>\n

Lo har\u00e1 te env\u00edan se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/a> porque quiere confundirte y manipularte para que pienses que realmente le gustas<\/em>. Sin embargo, tienes que preguntarte si realmente DESEAS a ese tipo de hombre a tu lado.<\/p>\n

Why Does He Keep Contacting Me If He Doesn’t Want A Relationship?<\/h2>\n

Para ser sinceros, hay varias razones posibles. Puede que se sienta inseguro sobre sus sentimientos hacia ti o, por el contrario, que dude de tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, puede que te est\u00e9 dejando en un segundo plano.<\/strong> Maybe he\u2019s already in a relationship or est\u00e1 saliendo con otra persona<\/a> and isn\u2019t sure what to do or who to choose.<\/p>\n

Or, there is another option as well; maybe he doesn\u2019t want a relationship because he wants to keep enjoying the single life but wants something else from you. In other words, maybe he\u2019s only texting you because quiere acostarse contigo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In the end, whatever his reasons are, you shouldn\u2019t allow him to keep using you. If he doesn\u2019t know what he wants, you should.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to be someone\u2019s second choice when there are so many men who would kill to make you their one and only!<\/em><\/p>\n

Para terminar<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I hope this helped you get into your man\u2019s mind and figure out why he is distant but still texts you almost every day.<\/p>\n

Para consolarte, puede que s\u00f3lo sea una fase, y que la superes como si no hubiera pasado nada. Pero, por desgracia, tambi\u00e9n puede ser una enorme se\u00f1al de alarma de que he\u2019s about to break up with you<\/a> para siempre.<\/em><\/p>\n

Whatever his reason is, and no matter what happens, you just need to remember that it\u2019s not your fault.<\/strong> Even if he leaves you, keep in mind that it\u2019s his loss, not yours.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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