{"id":149906,"date":"2022-04-25T11:50:22","date_gmt":"2022-04-25T11:50:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149906"},"modified":"2022-05-11T19:49:03","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T19:49:03","slug":"cuanto-durara-una-relacion-de-rebote-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuanto-durara-una-relacion-de-rebote-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCu\u00e1nto Durar\u00e1 una Relaci\u00f3n de Rebote con un Narcisista? (y por qu\u00e9)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 tal? Te sugiero que prepares una copa o dos y te pongas c\u00f3modo. ? Antes de empezar con el tema principal, \u00bfCu\u00e1nto durar\u00e1 una relaci\u00f3n de rebote narcisista?<\/em> let\u2019s first define these two terms: narcissist and rebound relationship.<\/p>\n

- Un narcisista<\/a> es alguien que padece un trastorno narcisista de la personalidad (NPD).<\/strong> This means they have an exaggerated sense of self-worth and importance. They don\u2019t care about other people\u2019s feelings but focus solely on themselves.<\/em><\/p>\n

- Una relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/a> significa iniciar una nueva relaci\u00f3n sentimental sin haber superado la relaci\u00f3n anterior.<\/em><\/p>\n

So, how does a narcissist behave in a rebound relationship? How long will a narcissist rebound relationship last, and why? To these and many other questions, you\u2019ll find the answers below!<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto durar\u00e1 una relaci\u00f3n de rebote con un narcisista?<\/h2>\n

\"encuentro<\/p>\n

Typically, narcissist rebound relationships last for 2\u20134 months. In some cases, they may last for a year. Generally, a relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/a> durar\u00e1 mucho menos que una relaci\u00f3n normal.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re in a regular rebound relationship (that doesn\u2019t include narcissists), you can expect it to last up to 2\u20133 years.<\/strong> And, as I already mentioned, if you\u2019re in a rebound relationship with a narcissist, it will last only a few months; 2\u20134.<\/p>\n

Now you\u2019re probably wondering: What is the difference between a normal and a narcissist rebound relationship, and why does the latter last for a much shorter period? Below is your answer.<\/p>\n

7 Reasons Why Narcissist Rebound Relationships Don\u2019t Last Long<\/h2>\n

Narcissist rebound relationships don\u2019t last long because narcissists\u2019 egos are fragile after ending a relationship. They require too much admiration and focus solely on satisfying their narcissistic needs. Here\u2019s why such a rebound relationship won\u2019t last for long:<\/p>\n

1. Un narcisista requiere demasiado cuidado y admiraci\u00f3n en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Una vez que un narcisista entra en una nueva relaci\u00f3n, su autoestima se hace a\u00f1icos y se centra \u00fanicamente en aumentar su autoimportancia.<\/p>\n

Si el narcisista era el volquete<\/a>, they wouldn\u2019t be much affected by the breakup.<\/strong> Pero si fueran la persona abandonada, necesitar\u00edan mucho m\u00e1s cuidado y atenci\u00f3n en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote que en la anterior.<\/p>\n

Una nueva pareja no podr\u00e1 proporcionar esa cantidad de cuidados y afecto a un narcisista.<\/strong> Not because they don\u2019t want to but because a narcissist will appear needy and greedy at the same time, which is something no one is willing to tolerate in the long run.<\/p>\n

2. Los narcisistas se toman las cr\u00edticas muy en serio<\/h3>\n

They don\u2019t understand what constructive criticism is, and they don\u2019t even try to understand it. Narcissists see any type of criticism as a personal attack. (Now you can see the level of narcissism we\u2019re dealing with here.)<\/p>\n

We all know that relationships don\u2019t function without effort and the will to improve yourself.<\/strong> Given that they aren\u2019t ready to accept criticism (because they think they\u2019re perfect), they are capable of ending a rebound relationship before it even starts.<\/p>\n

I know it sounds absurd, but they take criticism very seriously. They don\u2019t really care about their new partner but about how they make the narcissist feel.<\/p>\n

So, if their new partner doesn\u2019t treat them how they imagined, they immediately pull away and start looking for such treatment elsewhere.<\/strong> Huelga decir que salir con un narcisista<\/a> ser\u00e1 una experiencia dolorosa.<\/p>\n

3. Su inseguridad se multiplica en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Narcissists\u2019 worlds revolve around their self-esteem and en busca de validaci\u00f3n<\/a> de los dem\u00e1s. Si un narcisista fue abandonado por su ex pareja, sus inseguridades se multiplicar\u00edan en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote.<\/p>\n

Su ego y su autoestima est\u00e1n muy reducidos y, por eso, lo ver\u00e1n todo como una bandera roja en su nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Espiar\u00e1n a su nueva pareja, preguntar\u00e1n constantemente por su paradero, har\u00e1n demasiadas preguntas sobre la gente con la que sale y la lista sigue y sigue.<\/p>\n

Now imagine being in a relationship with such a person. It\u2019s almost impossible not to lose your sanity, right?<\/strong> That\u2019s one of the reasons a narcissist rebound relationship doesn\u2019t last long.<\/p>\n

4. Su ego tiene el control<\/h3>\n

Regardless of whether they\u2019re in a long-term relationship or a rebound relationship, narcissists\u2019 egos are always in control. It dominates their being and their relationships with others.<\/p>\n

Relaciones sanas<\/a> requieren compromiso y, a veces, dejar de lado los intereses personales.<\/strong> This is something a narcissist never does because he doesn\u2019t know how and is not willing to.<\/p>\n

Their ego is in full control of them, so that\u2019s the only thing they listen to. Si intentas hablar de ello con un narcisista, te acusar\u00e1 de exagerar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

All these things make it difficult to maintain a relationship. As long as their ego is in control, they\u2019ll be unable to create meaningful and deep relationships with others.<\/p>\n

5. Un narcisista tiene m\u00e1s dificultades para superar su relaci\u00f3n pasada<\/h3>\n

\u00bfSab\u00edas que un narcisista tiene m\u00e1s dificultades para superar su relaci\u00f3n pasada que las personas normales? S\u00ed, \u00bfy sabes por qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

Como su ego estaba atado a la oferta narcisista que les proporcionaba su ex pareja, ahora les cuesta desprenderse de ella.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When your intentions are driven by ego, you form a stronger attachment with someone (though we\u2019re talking about an unhealthy attachment).<\/p>\n

Estaban b\u00e1sicamente apegados a lo que su ex pareja les proporcionaba y no a su relaci\u00f3n en general. Now they no longer have their ex-partner’s narcissistic supply, and they will try to make their ex jealous by posting pics of their new partner on social media.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This will only make it even harder for them to finally move on. Sooner than you know, their rebound relationship will collapse, and they\u2019ll move to the next one (or to their ex).<\/p>\n

6. Su mayor prioridad son ellos mismos<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

A narcissistic relationship is all about a narcissist being their biggest priority. They don\u2019t really care about their family members, their current partner, or anyone else.<\/p>\n

Toda su atenci\u00f3n se centra en s\u00ed mismos y en lo que pueden GANAR con esta relaci\u00f3n de rebote.<\/strong> Nunca se paran un segundo a pensar, \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo hacer que mi pareja actual est\u00e9 contenta y feliz?<\/em><\/p>\n

They\u2019re too busy thinking of new ways to manipulate them to get what they want.<\/strong> T\u00e1cticas de manipulaci\u00f3n narcisista<\/a> son uno de los mayores destructores de toda relaci\u00f3n (incluido el despecho).<\/p>\n

New partners often don\u2019t even know what\u2019s going on because they\u2019re blinded by their narcissist\u2019s charisma. But when they realize that they\u2019ve been manipulated all this time, la relaci\u00f3n termina abruptamente<\/a> y para siempre.<\/p>\n

7. When they\u2019re done playing with you, they\u2019ll find a new toy<\/h3>\n

Narcissists have this tendency to see their partners as toys. They enjoy playing with you, manipulating you, and reassuring you that it\u2019s all in your head.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1s que nada, disfrutan con lo que t\u00fa puedes darles: afecto, amor incondicional y cuidados.<\/strong> Bueno, a veces se hartan r\u00e1pidamente de sus nuevas parejas y empiezan a buscar un nuevo juguete (o, deber\u00eda decir, un juguete de rebote).<\/p>\n

When they\u2019re done playing with you because they\u2019re no longer interested in what you can give them, they\u2019ll shift to another toy that is more exciting to them at the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Chances are this new toy will end up like the previous one. In their eyes, every person can give them something another person can\u2019t. Playing with other people\u2019s feelings is their motto, and that is how they jump from one relationship to another.<\/p>\n

3 Etapas Principales En Una Relaci\u00f3n De Rebote Narcisista<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n de rebote narcisista consta de tres etapas principales. Comienza con la etapa de luna de miel, las cosas comienzan a complicarse en la etapa de devaluaci\u00f3n y termina con la etapa de descarte. \u00c9stas son las etapas narcisista etapas de la relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/a> explicado en detalle:<\/p>\n

1. La fase de luna de miel<\/h3>\n

Todo comienza con el colorido, brillante y prometedor etapa de luna de miel<\/a>. It\u2019s when you feel like you\u2019re on cloud nine 24\/7. Everything seems perfect, the butterflies in your stomach are fluttering away, and you can\u2019t see how things could go wrong.<\/p>\n

En esta etapa, un narcisista utiliza el viejo m\u00e9todo llamado bombardeo de amor narcisista<\/a>.<\/strong> They shower you with affection, promise you the land of milk and honey, and that they\u2019ll always be there for you no matter what.<\/p>\n

They seem like your soulmate and \u201cthe one.\u201d You trust their every word, and their actions don\u2019t seem fishy at all.<\/strong> While you\u2019re in this stage, asking yourself the question, \u00bfCu\u00e1nto durar\u00e1 una relaci\u00f3n de rebote narcisista?<\/em> you\u2018re convinced that it will last forever.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bflo har\u00e1?<\/p>\n

La fase de luna de miel no es m\u00e1s que la introducci\u00f3n a una relaci\u00f3n de rebote que est\u00e1 abocada al fracaso al cabo de unos meses.<\/strong> Narcissists\u2019 partners usually don\u2019t see this because they\u2019re blinded by their fake promises, but things will start to slowly unfold in the next stage.<\/p>\n

2. Etapa de devaluaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n

After the honeymoon stage, happy chemicals (endorphins, dopamine…) lose their initial intensity because reality kicks in. This happens to every single couple on earth.<\/p>\n

Empiezas a ver las cosas desde un punto de vista m\u00e1s realista.<\/strong> You no longer idealize your partner, but you\u2019re perfectly aware of their imperfections, quirks, and positive sides. But you still choose them because you genuinely like and love them.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, las cosas son muy diferentes cuando se trata de narcisistas en esta etapa.<\/strong> En lugar de abrazar la belleza de la realidad, se irritan y empiezan a poner a prueba tu comprensi\u00f3n. Antes de lo que imaginas, te conviertes en v\u00edctima de un abuso narcisista.<\/p>\n

Hoovering (chantaje emocional, que es un tipo de abuso emocional<\/a>), luz de gas<\/a>y jugar con tu salud mental se convierten en su principal preocupaci\u00f3n.<\/strong> Todas estas son se\u00f1ales de advertencia y exactamente lo que mi ex narcisista hizo, caus\u00e1ndome as\u00ed trastorno de estr\u00e9s post narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, at this stage, you will begin to see a narcissist\u2019s true self, their naturaleza ego\u00edsta<\/a>y su comportamiento descuidado. Y cuestionar\u00e1s sus intenciones, cada una de sus palabras y sus acciones.<\/p>\n

3. Fase de descarte<\/h3>\n

Once they get bored of their new supply and become tired of manipulating them, they\u2019ll seek another one. Being a narcissist\u2019s flying monkey is one of the worst things you can experience in your life.<\/p>\n

En la fase de descarte (como su nombre indica), un narco te dejar\u00e1 sin explicaci\u00f3n alguna.<\/strong> They won\u2019t care about how you feel one bit because, obviously, all this time, they were and are only focused on themselves.<\/p>\n

Y no s\u00f3lo eso. Tambi\u00e9n te acusar\u00e1n de ser un persona t\u00f3xica<\/a> aunque el \u00fanico socio t\u00f3xico aqu\u00ed son ellos.<\/strong> If you\u2019re still in love with them, heartbreak will be inevitable, but for the first time, you\u2019ll feel free as well.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have too many questions but no answers. They\u2019ll make you question why you were in a rebound relationship with them in the first place.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTodo esto no ha sido m\u00e1s que un mal sue\u00f1o? \u00bfTe abandonan s\u00f3lo para volver con una disculpa?<\/strong> No, they\u2019re leaving because they don\u2019t care about you (well, they never did).<\/p>\n

La raz\u00f3n por la que entran en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote es para aumentar su ego despu\u00e9s de una relaci\u00f3n fallida. Preguntarse por c\u00f3mo acabar con un narcisista<\/a>? Aplicar la regla del no contacto<\/a> y seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo afrontan los narcisistas una ruptura?<\/h2>\n

\"ruptura<\/p>\n

Lo afrontan de forma ligeramente distinta al resto de la gente normal. Una vez que rompen con su pareja, entran en una etapa de negaci\u00f3n y rabia.<\/p>\n

Intentan convencerse a s\u00ed mismos de que esto no est\u00e1 ocurriendo, y se enfadan porque ya no tienen su suministro narcisista.<\/strong> No, they aren\u2019t angry because they hurt their partner but because they can\u2019t keep satisfying their selfish purposes.<\/p>\n

Losing a valuable supply is every narcissist’s biggest nightmare. So, instead of grieving like normal people, they convince themselves that their ex literally meant nothing to them.<\/p>\n

By doing this, they\u2019re preventing negative emotions from hurting their most valuable thing: their ego.<\/strong> So, while they\u2019re in the process of fooling themselves and are devoid of reality, they start thinking about finding a new supply.<\/p>\n

Esta nueva oferta tambi\u00e9n se conoce como relaci\u00f3n de rebote. Su principal objetivo es encontrar una nueva v\u00edctima que les haga sentirse valiosos de nuevo. Una vez que encuentran a esa persona, se vuelven extremadamente exigentes y requieren cuidados y admiraci\u00f3n constantes.<\/p>\n

They literally suffocate their new partner only to feel alive again. After some time, they become bored of it and decide to find a new supply with whom they\u2019ll be more compatible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This time, they won\u2019t be looking for a quick shot but for something more \u201cmeaningful\u201d that will make them forget about their recent breakup.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: C\u00f3mo enga\u00f1ar a un narcisista para que diga la verdad: 14 t\u00e1cticas probadas<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfPueden durar a\u00f1os las relaciones de rebote?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Normalmente, las relaciones de rebote duran entre unos meses y un a\u00f1o. A veces, una relaci\u00f3n de rebote puede convertirse en una relaci\u00f3n a largo plazo que dure a\u00f1os, pero esto depende en gran medida del despechado.<\/p>\n

Si el despechado nunca logra superar su relaci\u00f3n pasada, su relaci\u00f3n de despecho sufrir\u00e1 y finalmente terminar\u00e1.<\/strong> Sin embargo, si el despechado encuentra un cierre en el proceso de una relaci\u00f3n de despecho, su nueva relaci\u00f3n puede durar m\u00e1s tiempo.<\/p>\n

Para tener \u00e9xito, el rebelde necesita volver a conectar con su verdadero yo y dejar atr\u00e1s su pasado. Tiene que reconocer sus heridas del pasado y perdonar a su ex y perdonarse a s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Yes, it\u2019s possible to forget about your ex while being in a rebound relationship, but it takes time.<\/strong> If the rebounder doesn’t open themselves up to their new partner and give them a chance to connect on a deeper level, then their relationship will most likely fail.<\/p>\n

Note that this doesn\u2019t apply to a narcissist and relaciones de rebote malsanas<\/a>. The only thing they\u2019re focused on is finding a new narcissistic supply, after which they\u2019ll shift to another one.<\/p>\n

Because of that, it\u2019s impossible for a narcissist to be in a rebound relationship that lasts for years.<\/strong> S\u00f3lo durar\u00e1 de 2 a 4 meses y, en algunos casos, hasta un a\u00f1o. Despu\u00e9s, cambian de v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

How long will a narcissist rebound relationship last? It can last 2\u20134 months and sometimes even a year. The main reason por qu\u00e9 una relaci\u00f3n narcisista dura tan poco<\/a> es que un narcisista se centra \u00fanicamente en aumentar su ego herido y encontrar un nuevo suministro de narc\u00f3ticos.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de la fase de luna de miel, llega la realidad y, con ella, el narcisista empieza a mostrar su verdadera cara.<\/strong> Empiezan a sentirse irritados y manipulan a su v\u00edctima de diversas maneras.<\/p>\n

At the last discarding stage, the narcissist leaves you with no explanation. On top of that, they accuse you of being a toxic partner. After this, they\u2019re once again in pursuit of another victim who will satisfy their ego and make them feel important again.<\/p>\n

Para un narcisista, las relaciones de rebote no son m\u00e1s que inyecciones r\u00e1pidas que necesita para volver a funcionar.<\/strong> So, they\u2019re not really picky about who their next victim will be. They just need someone who is willing to tolerate their manipulative nature (until they get tired of it).<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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