{"id":150612,"date":"2022-05-06T21:01:39","date_gmt":"2022-05-06T21:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=150612"},"modified":"2022-12-05T16:48:58","modified_gmt":"2022-12-05T16:48:58","slug":"como-te-cambia-que-te-enganen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-te-cambia-que-te-enganen\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo te cambia que te enga\u00f1en: 16 maneras"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What\u2019s the worst thing about being cheated on? The pain doesn\u2019t end the moment your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/toxic-relationship\/\">relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a> lo hace. <b>De hecho, las consecuencias perduran incluso despu\u00e9s de que <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/superar-el-desamor\/\"><b>repara tu <\/b><b>coraz\u00f3n roto<\/b><\/a><b> and think you\u2019ve healed completely.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Esto es exactamente <\/b><b>c\u00f3mo te cambia que te enga\u00f1en<\/b><b> \u00a1para siempre!<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>How Being Cheated On Changes You In Some Bad Ways&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>How does being cheated on affect a man? How does being cheated on affect a woman? Well, when it comes to this, it\u2019s absolutely irrelevant whether you are male or female.<\/p>\n<p><b>Estas son las peores formas en las que ser v\u00edctima de una infidelidad impacta en tu vida y <\/b><b>bienestar<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>1. Confiar en alguien se vuelve imposible<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150614 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer con el pelo largo y casta\u00f1o se sienta junto a la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When your partner cheats, you can\u2019t avoid developing <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-chica-con-problemas-de-confianza-te-ruega-que-no-hagas-estas-12-cosas\/\">fuertes problemas de confianza<\/a>. Por mucho que intentes confiar en otras personas, te resulta imposible hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, la persona a la que m\u00e1s quer\u00edas te apu\u00f1al\u00f3 por la espalda de la forma m\u00e1s dolorosa.<b> Your ex didn\u2019t only break your heart \u2013 they betrayed you as well. And that\u2019s what shattered you the most.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not only talking about your future relationships here. I\u2019m not talking just about romance.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you lose your faith in humanity. After all, your ex wasn\u2019t only your romantic partner. They were a friend and family member too.<\/p>\n<p><b>As\u00ed que si te hacen pasar por esto <\/b><b>desamor<\/b><b> without hesitation, what\u2019s stopping someone else from doing the same? Why are they different from all of your other <\/b><b>seres queridos<\/b><b>?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s not forget that this person promised you the world. They swore they would never do anything to hurt you, but that\u2019s exactly what they ended up doing.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, it would be strange if you didn\u2019t develop trust issues as a result.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Perder la capacidad de perdonar<\/h3>\n<p>C\u00f3mo te cambia que te enga\u00f1en: Bueno, para empezar, te olvidas de lo que es el perd\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re so bitter after everything that went on that, for the first time ever, you\u2019ve learned how to hate. At first, you think it\u2019s great that you didn\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-perdonar-a-un-infiel\/\">perdona a tu infiel<\/a> por todo lo que te hicieron.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019re absolutely right. Forgiveness is the last thing they deserve.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sin embargo, olvidaste una cosa: mereces <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/encontrar-la-fuerza-perdonar\/\"><b>perd\u00f3nalos<\/b><\/a><b>. That\u2019s right \u2013 you should do it for the sake of your own <\/b><b>bienestar<\/b><b>no por ellos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But the opposite happened. After you\u2019ve been betrayed by someone you cared for deeply, you swore that you\u2019d never let anyone break your heart again.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve raised the bar, and you\u2019re not ready to allow anyone to do you wrong. And that\u2019s amazing.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, that doesn\u2019t mean you should lose your ability to forgive altogether. Trust me \u2013 when you remember how to do it, you\u2019ll bring yourself the peace you so desperately need.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Participar en el juego de la autoculpabilidad<\/h3>\n<p><i>Was it me? Was it something I did? How come I wasn\u2019t enough for my <\/i><i>pareja<\/i><i>? How come I didn\u2019t see what was going on right in front of my nose?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Could I have done something to prevent this? What did they miss in our relationship? What did the other person have to offer my partner that I couldn\u2019t?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Whenever I talk to my friends who\u2019ve been cheated on, they all asked the same questions. Some of them refused to admit it at first, but eventually, everyone gets trapped in the same thought pattern.<\/p>\n<p><b>Let\u2019s get one thing straight: <\/b><b>autoconocimiento<\/b><b> es sorprendente. Desarrollas la capacidad de recapitular tus propios errores y llegas al punto de ser capaz de darte cuenta de tus equivocaciones.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Sin embargo, participar en el <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tienes-que-dejar-de-culparte-por-su-incapacidad-para-amarte\/\"><b>juego de autoinculpaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a><b> es algo diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The problem is that these thoughts transfer into every single area of your life. You don\u2019t stop with wondering if you were to blame for your partner having an affair.<\/p>\n<p>Every time someone does something to hurt you, you ask yourself why you weren\u2019t enough. And that\u2019s exactly how being cheated on changes you.<\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-dejar-de-pensar-demasiado-despues-de-haber-sido-enganado\/\">C\u00f3mo dejar de pensar demasiado despu\u00e9s de haber sido enga\u00f1ado (20 consejos)<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>4. No m\u00e1s fe en el amor<\/h3>\n<h3><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150615 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer imaginaria sentada en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/h3>\n<p>Here\u2019s the devastating truth: you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-ya-no-cree-en-el-amor\/\">ya no creen en el amor<\/a>. Yes, it\u2019s possible for you to care, and it\u2019s possible for another person to care for you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero hasta que esto te ocurri\u00f3, cre\u00edas en el amor eterno y todopoderoso. <\/b>You know what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n<p>Usted cre\u00eda en la <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/alma-gemela\/\">concepto de almas gemelas<\/a>. You believed that it was possible to find the one you\u2019d grow old with.<\/p>\n<p>Usted cre\u00eda en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-felices-para-siempre-resulto-ser-mi-peor-pesadilla\/\">felices para siempre<\/a>. Cre\u00edas en encontrar al elegido sin necesitar a nadie m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>Y ahora, despu\u00e9s de su <\/b><b>partner\u2019s infidelity<\/b><b>, all of that is erased. What\u2019s the point of entering a <\/b><b>nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/b><b> \u00bfcu\u00e1ndo acabar\u00e1 igual que el anterior?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Even when you\u2019re around happy couples, you see them in a different light. Of course, you don\u2019t say anything, but the truth is that you just expect one of them to cheat or do something similar.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Problemas importantes de autoestima<\/h3>\n<p>C\u00f3mo te cambia que te enga\u00f1en: Bueno, destruye tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/empieza-a-darte-cuenta-de-lo-que-vales\/\">sentimiento de autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t admit it at first, but you\u2019re having a hard time loving yourself the way you did. You weren\u2019t enough for your favorite human being in the world, so that must mean that you\u2019re not worthy of love.<\/p>\n<p><b>If the person who knew you best didn\u2019t think of you as <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-eres-digno-de-amor\/\"><b>digno de amor<\/b><\/a><b> y respeto, \u00bfqui\u00e9n eres t\u00fa para discutir con ellos?<\/b><\/p>\n<h4>Compararse<\/h4>\n<p>And let\u2019s face it, these self-confidence issues are mostly caused by the fact that you keep on comparing yourself with this <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/querida-otra-mujer\/\">otra mujer<\/a> o el hombre.<\/p>\n<p><i>What do they have that you don&#8217;t? Why were they better? What did they give your ex you didn\u2019t? Why did they replace you with this person?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not only talking about their physical appearance here. Even if your SO had an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/etapas-de-los-asuntos-emocionales\/\">aventura emocional<\/a>, you\u2019ll wonder about this new person\u2019s intellect, sense of humor, and personality.<\/p>\n<p>Once again, this doesn\u2019t end even after your toxic relationship does. Without even realizing it, you continue comparing yourself to the whole world.<\/p>\n<p><b>No paras de salir con que todo el mundo es mejor que t\u00fa, lo que obviamente no se acerca ni de lejos a la verdad.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>6. Convertirse en una persona que piensa demasiado<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019re analyzing your entire relationship, aren\u2019t you? What went wrong? When was the moment things started going downhill?<\/p>\n<p>Repites toda tu relaci\u00f3n una y otra vez, buscando pistas que no percibiste cuando deber\u00edas haberlo hecho.<\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, overthinking gets into your blood. You start to analyze everyone\u2019s every word and move.<\/p>\n<h4><b>&#8230;and an overworrier<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>And you don\u2019t just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-las-personas-que-piensan-demasiado-son-las-mejores-para-enamorarse\/\">convertirse en un pensador exagerado<\/a>. What\u2019s even worse is that you become an overworrier as well.<\/p>\n<p><b>Siempre se espera el peor resultado posible. Por supuesto, se trata de una auto<\/b><b>mecanismo de defensa<\/b><b> que has desarrollado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Es la \u00fanica manera de protegerse de otro desenga\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>If you expect the worst, it can\u2019t surprise you when it happens, can it? But if you hope for the best, your whole world will shatter into pieces when you\u2019re betrayed yet again.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this doesn\u2019t make sense, it\u2019s exactly how being cheated on changes you. You\u2019re constantly on the lookout, and you deprive yourself of the possibility of being happy.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Convertirse en una persona vengativa<\/h3>\n<p>Adm\u00edtelo, te obsesionas con la mejor manera de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mejor-venganza-simplemente-feliz\/\">vengarse de su ex<\/a>. Aunque en realidad no act\u00faes en consecuencia, pasas mucho tiempo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-mejor-venganza-es-seguir-adelante\/\">tramando tu venganza<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>After all, they did you so much harm. Why should they get away with it as if nothing happened? You won\u2019t let it slide just like that, will you?<\/p>\n<p>What should you do? Allow them to live their life as if they hadn\u2019t destroyed yours? Let them build their happiness on your tears?<\/p>\n<p>Absolutely not! You must make them pay, even if it\u2019s the last thing you do.<\/p>\n<p>At least, that\u2019s what you\u2019ve been thinking lately, haven\u2019t you? And I understand completely. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not here to judge you.<\/p>\n<p><b>However, I am here to burst your bubble and tell you that even revenge won\u2019t make you feel better.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3mo te cambia que te enga\u00f1en: Bueno, te hace <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-mujer-que-se-perdio-por-amor\/\">pi\u00e9rdete<\/a>, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>You weren\u2019t like this before. You didn\u2019t know what hatred was, but now it consumes you completely.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s exactly how it changed you \u2013 it changed the essence of who you were.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Ansiedad de relaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150616 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer triste sentada en el suelo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mucha gente desarrolla<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-metodos-de-eficacia-probada-para-combatir-la-ansiedad-en-las-relaciones\/\"> ansiedad en las relaciones<\/a> after surviving infidelity. And I\u2019m not talking about only questioning your new partner\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m talking about <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-empezar-a-salir-de-nuevo\/\"><b>entrar en el <\/b><b>siguiente relaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a><b> in the first place. Ever since you were cheated on, you\u2019re literally terrified of relationships.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t even think about <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/antes-de-volver-a-la-piscina-de-las-citas-hazte-estas-5-preguntas\/\">volver a la piscina de las citas<\/a>. Incluso si te empieza a gustar alguien nuevo, tu ansiedad se dispara e inmediatamente empiezas a correr por tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Pero \u00bfqu\u00e9 ocurre si consigues superar este obst\u00e1culo y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-de-que-te-estas-lanzando-a-una-nueva-relacion-demasiado-pronto\/\">iniciar una nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a>? Well, that\u2019s when your real problems begin.<\/p>\n<p>When someone cheats on you, you\u2019re positive that everyone else will do the same. You keep on expecting all hell to break loose.<\/p>\n<p>Usted <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-formas-en-las-que-saboteas-accidentalmente-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/\">sabotear tu nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a>Cuestiona tu autoestima y piensa demasiado en cada detalle de tu romance.<\/p>\n<p>Well, my dear, that\u2019s exactly what relationship anxiety looks like.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Desarrollar problemas de celos<\/h3>\n<p>Decidi\u00f3 no dar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-sincera-verdad-sobre-dar-una-segunda-oportunidad-a-un-infiel\/\">a tu infiel una segunda oportunidad<\/a>. And I\u2019m super proud of you for that. But every relationship coach will tell you the same thing: that doesn\u2019t mean that nobody else deserves to get a first chance.<\/p>\n<p>O al menos el beneficio de la duda.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this is hard to believe, but you don\u2019t have to go through your new partner\u2019s text messages, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-saber-si-alguien-mantiene-conversaciones-secretas-en-messenger\/\">conversaciones en messenger<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-puntuacion-de-mi-novio-en-snapchat-sigue-subiendo\/\">Puntuaci\u00f3n de Snapchat<\/a>, and other social media accounts. You don\u2019t have to be jealous of every single person of the opposite sex they talk to.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to search for signs that are clearly not there.<\/p>\n<p><b>I know what you must be thinking: you want to find out in time so you don\u2019t give them the opportunity to make a fool out of you. Well, guess what? Even that won\u2019t <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-no-enamorarse-salvese-quien-pueda\/\"><b>salvarte de un <\/b><b>coraz\u00f3n roto<\/b><\/a><b>!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>No tiene sentido <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/formas-de-combatir-los-celos\/\">ser posesivamente celoso<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, there is no point in comparing yourself to other people in your partner\u2019s life. They chose you for a reason. And that means that you\u2019re more than enough for them!<\/p>\n<h3>10. Dudar de sus decisiones<\/h3>\n<p>Ten\u00edas una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-signos-atascado-mala-relacion-tiempo-dejar\/\">mala relaci\u00f3n<\/a>. Does this mean that every new one will be the same? Well, according to you \u2013 that\u2019s exactly what it means.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00fan te culpas por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-para-elegir-siempre-al-hombre-equivocado\/\">elegir mal<\/a> y dejar entrar a la persona equivocada. Ahora, lo peor ser\u00eda repetir tu error.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que te vuelves demasiado cuidadoso. Empiezas a dudar de tu capacidad de juicio y te piensas demasiado cada decisi\u00f3n que tomas.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 this is not me saying that you should be reckless. It\u2019s great that you learn from your mistakes.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>However, don\u2019t allow that one awful experience to prevent you from doing what you want.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And I\u2019m not only talking about romantic relationships. I\u2019m talking about the fact that you\u2019ve become scared of chasing your dreams.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve stopped letting new people in because you assume that you\u2019ll make the wrong choice all over again. Trust me, you won\u2019t \u2013 you\u2019ve learned your lesson!<\/p>\n<h3>11. Cuestiones de salud mental<\/h3>\n<p>C\u00f3mo te cambia que te enga\u00f1en: Bueno, por desgracia, para muchas personas, trae numerosos problemas de salud mental.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pasar por una <\/b><b>desamor<\/b><b> afecta a su <\/b><b>qu\u00edmica cerebral,<\/b><b> and it\u2019s not unusual for a victim of cheating to <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/razones-por-las-que-estas-deprimido-porque-estas-enamorado\/\"><b>deprimirse<\/b><\/a><b> o ansioso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If this is something you can relate to, maybe it\u2019s time to visit a mental health professional who\u2019ll help you through the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/recuperacion-de-la-aventura\/\">proceso de curaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do, please don\u2019t be ashamed of how you feel. Remember: none of this is your fault!<\/p>\n<h2>&#8230; And In Some Good Ways<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150617 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer con un sombrero en la cabeza pasea por la playa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-walks-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll think I\u2019m messing with you, but guess what? Looking at it from a different perspective, being cheated on wasn\u2019t so bad after all. I know it breaks your heart and even threatens to make you incapable of loving again.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n te cambia a ti. Aqu\u00ed las tienes:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Te vuelves m\u00e1s fuerte que nunca<\/h3>\n<p>Lo bueno que te aporta ser enga\u00f1ado es una fortaleza mental incre\u00edble. S\u00e9 que acabo de hablar de problemas de salud mental, pero cr\u00e9eme, una vez que los superas con \u00e9xito, te vuelves m\u00e1s poderoso que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Bueno, si fuiste capaz de sobrevivir a ser traicionado por la persona que m\u00e1s amabas, literalmente no hay nada que pueda matarte.<\/p>\n<p>Pensaste que esto te destruir\u00eda. Pero aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s, con la cabeza bien alta a pesar de todo.<\/p>\n<p>Once you raise from the ashes, you realize that the only person you can\u2019t live without is yourself. You\u2019re no longer scared of anyone abandoning you.<\/p>\n<p><b>You\u2019re no longer terrified of <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-de-que-tiene-miedo-de-que-le-vuelvan-a-hacer-dano\/\"><b>que te rompan el coraz\u00f3n<\/b><\/a><b> because you know you\u2019ll succeed in gluing it back together.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>For the first time ever, you\u2019re completely free. And most importantly, you\u2019re finally aware of your strength and potential. How amazing is that?<\/p>\n<h3>2. You realize that some things aren\u2019t meant to be&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>Cuando te enga\u00f1an por primera vez, intentas llegar al fondo de todo lo ocurrido. Buscas el <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tristes-razones-por-las-que-los-hombres-enganan\/\">razones de este desastre<\/a> y haz todo lo posible por encontrar el significado m\u00e1s amplio.<\/p>\n<p>Pero entonces, despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, te das cuenta:<b> some things don\u2019t need an obvious reason. And your partner having an affair was one of them.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If this hadn\u2019t happened, you would never have realized that some things and some people are just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-destinados-a-estar-juntos\/\">no debe ser<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Your relationship had to end the way it did. Otherwise, you wouldn\u2019t have become the person you are today.<\/p>\n<p>Era s\u00f3lo una cuesti\u00f3n de fe. Y la vida te demostrar\u00e1 por qu\u00e9 en realidad fue lo mejor que te pudo haber pasado.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right \u2013 you saw it as a curse, but it was actually a blessing in disguise all along.<\/p>\n<h3>3. &#8230;and that sometimes God saves you<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150618 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de pelo largo casta\u00f1o con la cabeza gacha se sienta en la playa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-her-head-down-sits-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Remember how we talked about the fact that you\u2019ve lost faith in love and humanity? Well, that\u2019s why you\u2019ve regained your faith in God and the Universe.<\/p>\n<p>Esta dolorosa experiencia le ense\u00f1\u00f3 que hay una gran diferencia entre desear algo y necesitarlo realmente.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 intento decirte? Bueno, mira las cosas de esta manera: pensabas que necesitabas a tu ex.<\/p>\n<p>Pensaste que eran tu alma gemela. Pensaste que estabas destinado a envejecer con ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Y estabais dispuestos a hacer lo que fuera para borrar su infidelidad de vuestras vidas.<\/p>\n<p>Pero Dios te abri\u00f3 los ojos para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tus-oraciones-sin-respuesta-son-una-forma-de-dios-de-salvarte\/\">salvarte<\/a>. Lo hizo para darte claridad.<\/p>\n<p><b>After a while, you\u2019ll see this for yourself. You\u2019ll realize that you were actually blinded by the love you felt for them, and you\u2019ll come to the conclusion that your ex wasn\u2019t the one for you, regardless of the affair.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But guess what? If the affair hadn\u2019t happened, you would never have reached these realizations. Do you see what I\u2019m talking about now?<\/p>\n<h3>4. Aprendes a darle ca\u00f1a a tu vida de soltero<\/h3>\n<p>Perder la fe en el amor y sufrir ansiedad por una relaci\u00f3n no es nada f\u00e1cil. Sin embargo, sorprendentemente, tambi\u00e9n puede traerte algo bueno.<\/p>\n<p>Everything you went through made you stay away from relationships. But that doesn\u2019t have to be the worst thing that happened, does it?<\/p>\n<p><b>Te hizo apreciar tu <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/being-single\/\"><b>vida de soltero<\/b><\/a><b>. It feels great not having anyone to cheat on you, doesn\u2019t it?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>On a more serious note, you really do learn that it\u2019s better to be alone than with someone who doesn\u2019t treat you right.<\/p>\n<p>After escaping a terrible relationship, you learn to cherish the most important one \u2013 the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-relacion-con-uno-mismo-marca-la-pauta-de-todas-las-demas-relaciones\/\">relaci\u00f3n que tienes contigo mismo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So if you don\u2019t feel ready to start something new right away, take your time. Work on your self-esteem, remember how it feels to love yourself, and let go of the past.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Y para elegir mejor en el futuro<\/h3>\n<p>C\u00f3mo te cambia que te enga\u00f1en: Bueno, ciertamente te ense\u00f1a algunas lecciones.<\/p>\n<p><b>First of all, you\u2019ve become an expert in figuring out the <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-de-que-te-engana\/\"><b>se\u00f1ales de que tu pareja te enga\u00f1a<\/b><\/a><b>. I bet you\u2019re able to smell infidelity from a mile away and <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-pillar-a-un-tramposo\/\"><b>atrapar a un tramposo<\/b><\/a><b> en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But not only that \u2013 you know how to survive it as well.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>However, there is an even more important lesson you\u2019ve learned from this awful experience: to never settle for less than you deserve. The last thing you\u2019ll do is put up with infidelity ever in the future!<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfSer enga\u00f1ado te cambia para siempre?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150619 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away.jpg\" alt=\"una chica decepcionada con el pelo recogido se sienta en el sof\u00e1 y mira hacia otro lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-disappointed-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-on-the-couch-and-looks-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Being cheated on definitely does turn you into someone you never knew you could be. Sometimes, it will help you change for the better, and sometimes, you\u2019ll change for the worse, but one thing is clear: you won\u2019t stay the same!<\/p>\n<p>Either way, the impact it leaves on you is permanent and unerasable. Of course, it\u2019s up to you if you\u2019ll lose yourself and reinvent yourself completely after surviving an affair or if you\u2019ll just change some parts of your personality.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo te afecta que te enga\u00f1en?<\/h2>\n<p>Ser enga\u00f1ado afecta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/construir-la-confianza-en-uno-mismo-vida-exitosa-citas\/\">su confianza en s\u00ed mismo<\/a>La salud mental, las relaciones (incluidas las rom\u00e1nticas y las que mantiene consigo mismo) y la personalidad en su conjunto. B\u00e1sicamente, <b>afecta a todos los aspectos de tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>One of the worst things this experience takes away from you is faith. You no longer believe in love. You\u2019ve lost faith in happy endings, and you don\u2019t trust anyone around you.<\/p>\n<p>Even if that\u2019s the only way being cheated on affects you, it\u2019s more than enough!<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo afecta el enga\u00f1o al infiel?<\/h2>\n<p>Aunque no hay excusa para cometer adulterio, <b>tramposos<\/b><b> puede <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/13-signos-evidentes-de-culpabilidad-de-tu-marido-infiel\/\"><b>lucha contra la culpa<\/b><\/a><b>Tambi\u00e9n el odio a uno mismo, la ansiedad, la depresi\u00f3n y las inseguridades.<\/b> Their mental health can be destroyed after they realize what they\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n<p>However, this doesn\u2019t apply to all cheaters out there because not all <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-piensan-los-tramposos\/\">los tramposos piensan<\/a> the same. Some don\u2019t have trouble <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-perdonarse-por-enganar-y-no-contarlo\/\">perdonarse a s\u00ed mismos<\/a> y seguir con sus vidas como si nada hubiera pasado.<\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar:<\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019ve figured out how being cheated on changes you. But I must remind you that everything is still in your hands.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s up to you: will you benefit from this situation, or will you allow it to kill you emotionally? Will you look for the silver lining in this cloud, or will you let the storm wash you away?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The choice is all yours! And I know that you\u2019ll make the right one.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-150645\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo te cambia ser enga\u00f1ado 16 maneras Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-735x1103.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-223x335.jpg 223w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-231x347.jpg 231w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-347x520.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-427x640.jpg 427w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-512x768.jpg 512w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/How-Being-Cheated-On-Changes-You-16-Ways-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What\u2019s the worst thing about being cheated on? The pain doesn\u2019t end the moment your toxic relationship does. In fact, the consequences last even after you mend your broken heart and think you\u2019ve healed completely. This is exactly how being cheated on changes you for good! 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