{"id":150776,"date":"2022-05-10T18:17:22","date_gmt":"2022-05-10T18:17:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=150776"},"modified":"2022-05-10T18:17:22","modified_gmt":"2022-05-10T18:17:22","slug":"senales-de-que-tu-pareja-esta-perdiendo-interes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-tu-pareja-esta-perdiendo-interes\/","title":{"rendered":"15 se\u00f1ales de advertencia de que tu pareja est\u00e1 perdiendo inter\u00e9s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s be honest: being the other woman or the other man is bad enough. But having to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-te-quisiera-no-te-daria-motivos-para-dudar-de-el\/\">doubt your partner\u2019s feelings<\/a> en medio de este caos es una pesadilla en s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n<p>However, before you jump to any conclusions, you have to be sure what\u2019s really happening. Are you really seeing signs your affair partner is losing interest, or is there something else hidden behind their change in behavior?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo hay una forma de averiguarlo: \u00a1seguir leyendo!<\/p>\n<h2>15 se\u00f1ales de que tu pareja est\u00e1 perdiendo el inter\u00e9s<\/h2>\n<p>Si te identificas con todos o la mayor\u00eda de estos signos, tu pareja es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-cosas-que-hacer-si-se-esta-desenamorando-de-ti\/\">desenamor\u00e1ndome de ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Sin planes de futuro<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150778 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre hablando con una mujer\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos los expertos en relaciones te dir\u00e1n lo mismo: la primera se\u00f1al de alarma a la que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n es que tu pareja y t\u00fa ya no teng\u00e1is planes de futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Or, to be exact, they\u2019re the one who avoids the topic.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfRecuerdas c\u00f3mo eran las cosas al principio? Ambos so\u00f1abais con c\u00f3mo ser\u00edan las cosas cuando entrarais en una relaci\u00f3n real y comprometida.<\/p>\n<p>Probablemente hablasteis de un lugar donde alojaros, planeasteis viajar juntos y ten\u00edais toda vuestra vida en com\u00fan planeada.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, todo eso parece haber desaparecido de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana. Tu pareja se qued\u00f3 callada como si ninguna de esas conversaciones hubiera existido.<\/p>\n<p>Incluso cuando intentas abordar esta cuesti\u00f3n, te ignoran por completo.<\/p>\n<p><b>And I\u2019m not only talking about long-term <\/b><b>planes de futuro<\/b><b>. I\u2019m talking about short-term plans as well.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t get them to sign up for a weekend getaway or a coffee date tomorrow night, let alone anything else.<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t this fact alone suspicious? If you\u2019re being honest, you\u2019ll admit that it is definitely one of the signs your affair partner is losing interest.<\/p>\n<h3>2. &#8230; at least not with you<\/h3>\n<p>However, when you come to think of it, you\u2019re the only person they don\u2019t make any plans with. It\u2019s not that they\u2019re too busy. They have time \u2013 just not for you.<\/p>\n<p>They keep on making plans with their significant other and the rest of their family. Of course, they wouldn\u2019t even inform you of those plans, but they have to warn you not to send them text messages or call them when they\u2019re with them.<\/p>\n<p>When you ask them about their vacation plans, they\u2019ll tell you that they\u2019ve already booked everything with their primary partner.<\/p>\n<p>The hell with it, they\u2019re even planning on doing things with their best friends and coworkers. It looks like there is a place in their future for everyone. That is, everyone but you!<\/p>\n<p>Of course, when you confront him about this, he\u2019ll tell you you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n<p>Su pareja reserv\u00f3 los vuelos sin que ellos lo supieran, o tienen que asistir a un acto familiar.<\/p>\n<p><b>But you\u2019re not foolish enough to believe in these lies. After all, how come similar things didn\u2019t happen before?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right, the harsh truth is that your cheater doesn\u2019t see your relationship as <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-soy-una-chica-para-cosas-temporales\/\">algo duradero<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Evitan hablar de divorcio<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150779 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer confusa discute con un hombre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-confused-woman-argues-with-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you engaged in this affair, there were some promises made. You know the usual lines: their marriage or long-term relationship is falling apart, and they\u2019re about to break up or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/health-and-families\/divorce-help-marriage-sign-papers-b1932678.html\" rel=\"noopener\">divorciarse<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Se aseguraron de que creyeras que estar\u00edan juntos de verdad antes de que te dieras cuenta.<\/p>\n<p>Pero ahora, cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/34-signos-ya-no-ama\/\">ya no sienten nada por ti<\/a>, everything changed. They\u2019ve stopped bringing their divorce up completely.<\/p>\n<p>Incluso cuando les preguntas al respecto, se convierte en una gran pelea.<\/p>\n<p><b>Let\u2019s get one thing straight: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-sutiles-del-lenguaje-corporal-de-que-esta-mintiendo\/\"><b>probablemente estaban mintiendo<\/b><\/a><b> a ti desde el primer d\u00eda. Solo quer\u00edan que te enamoraras de ellos, y lograron su misi\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>However, as funny as this might sound, they no longer even put effort into deceiving you. It\u2019s like they don\u2019t give a damn whether you stay or leave.<\/p>\n<p>Or, to be exact, they know that you\u2019ll stay, so there is no point in persuading you that they\u2019ll end things with their SO. I know you\u2019ll have a hard time accepting this, but it\u2019s one of the most surefire signs your affair partner is losing interest.<\/p>\n<h3>4. You\u2019re nothing but a booty call<\/h3>\n<p>La intimidad f\u00edsica es crucial en toda relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica; nadie puede discutirlo. Tu aventura tendr\u00e1 m\u00e1s posibilidades de \u00e9xito si os llev\u00e1is bien en la cama.<\/p>\n<p>However, it can\u2019t be the only basis of a relationship. If it is, then you\u2019ve got yourself a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/13-reglas-a-seguir-relacion-nsa\/\">un tipo de acuerdo sin ataduras<\/a> y no tiene sentido buscar los signos reveladores de que tu pareja est\u00e1 perdiendo el inter\u00e9s, por no hablar de los sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p>Pero la situaci\u00f3n contigo es que ten\u00edas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-objetivos-sexuales-a-alcanzar\/\">incre\u00edble diversi\u00f3n entre las s\u00e1banas<\/a>. Nevertheless, it wasn\u2019t the only thing your relationship revolved around. However, that has changed.<\/p>\n<p><b>Lately, you\u2019ve been feeling like this person\u2019s <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-que-solo-eres-un-ligon\/\"><b>llamada de bot\u00edn<\/b><\/a><b>. Why? Well, because that\u2019s exactly <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/guy-10-things-youre-nothing-booty-call\/\"><b>lo que eres<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They call you in the middle of the night, asking when they can stop by. They don\u2019t arrange any activities whatsoever except those that involve a hotel room.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t talk, you don\u2019t travel, you don\u2019t watch movies together. You\u2019re only spending time with one another when you\u2019re sleeping together.<\/p>\n<p>What does this tell you? That they\u2019re still very much physically attracted to you, but that\u2019s about it.<\/p>\n<h3>5. &#8230; or they avoid physical intimacy altogether<\/h3>\n<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight: we\u2019re not talking about an emotional affair here, are we? That is why it\u2019s quite unusual for your partner to avoid physical intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>I just told you that it\u2019s bad if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-innegables-solo-quiere-sexo-no-amor\/\">s\u00f3lo quieren acostarse contigo<\/a>. And now I\u2019m telling you that it\u2019s bad if they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-tristes-razones-por-las-que-no-quiere-acostarse-contigo\/\">don\u2019t want to sleep with you<\/a> either. What\u2019s going on?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the trick is in finding balance \u2013 one of the things your relationship clearly doesn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 it\u2019s one thing if they\u2019re tired or if this is just a phase. You can\u2019t expect anyone to be turned on 24\/7 or for your sex life to always be at its peak.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s also understandable if you know that they\u2019re going through something. Maybe they\u2019re dealing with additional stress at work or something similar. In that case, this is not a red flag you should pay attention to.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sin embargo, si su <\/b><b>desinter\u00e9s<\/b><b> in physical intimacy lasts for some time and there is no valid explanation behind it, you\u2019ve got yourself a problem.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s even worse is that they refuse to talk about it. Whenever you tackle the issue, they accuse you of having only one thing on your mind.<\/p>\n<h4>\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa esto?<\/h4>\n<p>Well, that they\u2019ve probably stopped seeing you as their emotional partner. Instead, you\u2019ve become something like a best friend to them.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes intentar reavivar el brillo o conformarte con un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/etapas-de-los-asuntos-emocionales\/\">aventura emocional<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Nadie te conoce<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150780 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer imaginada mira a lo lejos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-imagined-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Keeping your relationship a secret is what an extra-marital affair is all about, I know. However, it\u2019s impossible to keep something like that a secret for so long from literally everyone.<\/p>\n<p><b>Cuando empezasteis a salir, tu <\/b><b>tramposo<\/b><b> showed you off. Of course, they made sure only people they trusted knew about you, which didn\u2019t include anyone who would tell on them to their spouse.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Sin embargo, ahora parece que ya nadie sabe de ti, ni siquiera sus <\/b><b>mejores amigos<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Does this mean that they\u2019ve become more careful? But for what reason if they\u2019re planning to file for divorce?<\/p>\n<p>Either way, that\u2019s not hidden behind this change of behavior. I hate to break it to you, but they simply don\u2019t feel the need to talk about you anymore. Yes, it\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, they don\u2019t plan to keep you around for much longer, so they don\u2019t see the need to bring you up in conversation.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Trabajar en su matrimonio<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfSe ha dado cuenta de que su pareja se esfuerza realmente por salvar su matrimonio, o s\u00f3lo me pasa a m\u00ed?<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you try to reach out, they\u2019re always with them. They started mentioning their SO more, even though they try not to do so.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they haven\u2019t told you anything about their reconciliation outright. However, I\u2019m sure you stalk their social media accounts or have mutual friends.<\/p>\n<p>You found out that they\u2019re living their lives like every other married couple. It looks like they\u2019ve just had a crisis, and now, they\u2019re doing everything to overcome it and rebuild the healthy relationship they once had.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re traveling together, going to the movies, and attending social functions. Basically, they\u2019re doing everything your partner isn\u2019t doing with you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Of course, you\u2019ve never had a problem with them <\/b><b>pasar el tiempo<\/b><b> con otros <\/b><b>familiares<\/b><b>. However, it seems like they\u2019re using this as an excuse to get closer to their SO.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Es una p\u00edldora dif\u00edcil de tragar. Parece que s\u00f3lo fuiste un condimento para su matrimonio. Obviamente les diste el soporte vital que necesitaban.<\/p>\n<p>But hey, it\u2019s better to realize it in time before you lose any more time with this person.<\/p>\n<h4>Terapeuta familiar<\/h4>\n<p>La mayor se\u00f1al de alarma de que tu pareja <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-salvar-un-matrimonio\/\">trabajando en su matrimonio<\/a> is that they\u2019re seeing a family therapist. You have to understand that they consider their relationship so important that they want to make it work at all costs.<\/p>\n<p>Both them and their SO are aware that they have problems \u2013 nobody can argue against that. These problems are above their area of expertise.<\/p>\n<p>However, they\u2019re so willing to work on them that they involve a professional to give them a hand.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Poner excusas<\/h3>\n<p>Una de las se\u00f1ales de que tu pareja est\u00e1 perdiendo inter\u00e9s se esconde en las excusas que sigue poniendo, sea cual sea la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You ask them about divorce? They will tell you that they can\u2019t leave their spouse because they\u2019re emotionally blackmailing them, because they have a mortgage together, or for the kids\u2019 sake.<\/p>\n<p>You ask them why they spend so little time with you? They keep telling you that they have to work extra hours, that they\u2019re busy at work, that they\u2019re tired, or that they just can\u2019t fit you into their schedule.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfLe suena? Pues la verdad es que podr\u00eda seguir y seguir porque hay infinidad de ejemplos de comportamientos similares.<\/p>\n<h4>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 ocurre esto?<\/h4>\n<p>Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 tienen en com\u00fan todos estos patrones? <b>That\u2019s right \u2013 they\u2019re all excuses.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Y siempre acabas con una gran y gorda nada. Sabes que <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-te-miente-basandose-en-su-signo-del-zodiaco\/\"><b>they\u2019re lying<\/b><\/a><b> to you, but the worst part is that they\u2019re getting away with it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This is not something you want to hear, but they\u2019re giving you these excuses just so you leave them alone. It\u2019s easier to deceive you to get back off their back than to tell you that they don\u2019t want to spend time with you.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Promesas vac\u00edas<\/h3>\n<h3><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150781 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer hablando con un hombre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/a-woman-talking-to-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/h3>\n<p>Excuses never come alone. They\u2019re always followed by <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-mas-palabras-dulces-y-promesas-vanas-quiero-honestidad-y-esfuerzo\/\">promesas vac\u00edas<\/a>. And you\u2019ve been getting a bunch of those as well.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo se divorciar\u00e1n? Pronto. \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo tendr\u00e1s el lugar que mereces en su vida? Ya lo tienes.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe querr\u00e1n para siempre? Claro que s\u00ed. \u00bfTe ven como su alma gemela? \u00bfQui\u00e9n si no?<\/p>\n<p><b>Todos<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tus-palabras-no-significan-nada-si-no-las-respaldas-con-hechos\/\"><b> estas palabras<\/b><\/a><b> sonar\u00edan perfectos si estuvieran respaldados con <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-que-ella-necesita-es-un-hombre-de-accion-no-un-hombre-de-palabras\/\"><b>acciones reales<\/b><\/a><b>. But when it comes to your relationship, that\u2019s definitely not the case.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Each one of these lines and promises are empty. Your partner\u2019s words don\u2019t match their deeds. And that\u2019s the whole problem.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it hasn\u2019t always been like this. On the contrary, it started happening once they started losing feelings for you.<\/p>\n<h3><b>10. You\u2019ve become their last resort<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Whether you like to admit it or not, the truth is that you\u2019ve become this person\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cansado-siempre-ultima-opcion\/\">\u00faltima opci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando empezasteis a salir, estaban dispuestos a dejarlo todo para pasar tiempo contigo. Se escapaban de casa para verte, cancelaban reuniones y citas de trabajo para estar a tu lado.<\/p>\n<p><b>T\u00fa eras su prioridad y ocupabas claramente el primer lugar en su vida. Sin embargo, todo eso ha cambiado con el tiempo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lately, they\u2019ve only been calling you when everyone else stands them up. Everything and everyone has become more important than you.<\/p>\n<p>Their family (including their spouse), work, best friends, hobbies\u2026 you name it.<\/p>\n<p>And you don\u2019t have a problem with them having a place in their life. After all, you know what you signed up for.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes un problema con el hecho de que, obviamente, ya no hay sitio para ti all\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h3>11. Tus sentimientos son lo \u00faltimo<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfHas intentado hablar con tu pareja de todas estas cosas que te molestan? Por supuesto que s\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfFue alguna vez una conversaci\u00f3n fruct\u00edfera? Claro que no.<\/p>\n<p>Why is that so? Well, isn\u2019t it obvious? At the end of the day, your feelings don\u2019t matter to them.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por doloroso que sea comprender esta idea, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-le-importas\/\"><b>they don\u2019t give a damn<\/b><\/a><b> sobre si te rompen el coraz\u00f3n o no.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t care if they leave you hanging, waiting for them to show up as they promised. They don\u2019t care if you cry yourself to sleep.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t give a damn about the fact they\u2019re ruining your future. They don\u2019t care how you feel.<\/p>\n<p>Por otro lado, se aseguran de no herir a su pareja. Se aseguran de no perturbar su vida aparentemente perfecta.<\/p>\n<p>It seems like everyone\u2019s emotions, needs, and well-being are significant. Everyone, except yours, that is.<\/p>\n<h3>12. It\u2019s all about them<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150782 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer imaginaria mira por la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-looks-out-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t it clear? Your entire relationship revolves around your partner.<b> It\u2019s pretty obvious that you two aren\u2019t equal here.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s not just about the fact that you two are spending less and <\/b><b>menos tiempo<\/b><b> together. It\u2019s also about the quality of that time.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo fue la \u00faltima vez que hablaste de ti? \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo fueron tus sue\u00f1os, miedos y problemas el tema principal de conversaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right, you can\u2019t even remember.<\/p>\n<p><b>Incluso cuando los dos entabl\u00e1is una comunicaci\u00f3n significativa, siempre acaba con ellos quej\u00e1ndose y t\u00fa siendo su hombro sobre el que llorar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re very understanding of all their troubles. You even listen to them talk about their marital problems.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re there to give them advice, hear them out, or give them a hand even when they don\u2019t ask for one.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, \u00bfle devuelven alguna vez el favor? Desde luego que no.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you need them, they\u2019re nowhere to be found. They\u2019re too busy to listen to you, let alone help you out with your issues.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s time to ask yourself this: Am I this person\u2019s emotional partner or a pro-bono therapist?<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>13. They\u2019re annoyed by everything you do<\/h3>\n<p>What are some of the first signs your affair partner is losing interest? Well, this one doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with affairs in general \u2013 it also answers the question of how to tell if your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-senales-de-que-esta-perdiendo-interes\/\">la pareja est\u00e1 perdiendo los sentimientos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando todo lo que haces molesta a tu pareja, una cosa est\u00e1 clara: \u00a1el enamoramiento hace tiempo que desapareci\u00f3!<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m mostly talking about those <\/b><b>peque\u00f1as cosas<\/b><b> they used to find interesting and cute. But now, they\u2019re literally bothered by the way you breathe.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s exactly what\u2019s going on in your affair.<\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo, antes eras celoso. Tu pareja lo ve\u00eda como una se\u00f1al de tu amor por ella. Se sent\u00eda halagada por tu car\u00e1cter posesivo.<\/p>\n<p>Now, all of a sudden, they can\u2019t stand this side of you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like that with everything. They\u2019re annoyed by the way you kiss them and make love to them, your text messages, how you look, talk, and behave.<\/p>\n<p>I hate to break it to you, but this person\u2019s disinterest is quite visible \u2013 you\u2019re just refusing to see it.<\/p>\n<h3>14. Hay alguien m\u00e1s<\/h3>\n<p>Okay, so they\u2019re cheating on their spouse with you \u2013 we\u2019ve got that covered. But once they start cheating with a third (or should I say fourth?) person, it\u2019s time to pick up what\u2019s left of your dignity and walk away.<\/p>\n<p><b>I mean, come on, you won\u2019t allow yourself to be cheated on by a person who\u2019s cheating on someone with you, will you?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If this is the case, the truth is that you\u2019re dealing with a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-que-es-un-infiel-en-serie-y-esta-de-acuerdo-con-ello\/\">tramposo en serie<\/a>. These people don\u2019t care who their lover is \u2013 as long as they are in a position to commit adultery.<\/p>\n<p>Odio tener que dec\u00edrtelo, pero esto nunca fue por ti. S\u00f3lo quer\u00edan hacer trampa, y t\u00fa eras conveniente.<\/p>\n<p>You obviously no longer give them the thrill they were getting at the beginning of your affair. Of course, this has nothing to do with you \u2013 this person is just moving from one victim to another.<\/p>\n<p>Y lamentablemente, tu tiempo se ha acabado.<\/p>\n<h4><b>Why didn\u2019t they leave you?<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>Well, why would they? If they have a chance to jiggle between the three of you, that\u2019s exactly what they will do.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Su intuici\u00f3n le dice<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-150783 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer imaginaria se sienta en una tabla y mira a lo lejos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-on-a-board-and-looks-into-the-distance-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, there is something even stronger than all of these signs your affair partner is losing interest. That\u2019s right, I\u2019m talking about your gut feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Pueden intentar enga\u00f1arte tanto como quieran, pero en el fondo, sabes que las cosas no son iguales.<\/p>\n<p>Lo notas en la forma en que te miran, en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-dice-su-beso-sobre-sus-sentimientos-hacia-ti\/\">la forma en que te besan<\/a>y, en general, en la forma en que te tratan.<\/p>\n<p>As much as you\u2019re trying to tell yourself that you\u2019re imagining things, you know the harsh truth. You\u2019re aware that your intuition is showing you signs you can no longer ignore.<\/p>\n<p>La \u00fanica pregunta es: \u00bfqu\u00e9 vas a hacer al respecto?<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si una aventura ha terminado?<\/h2>\n<p>If your affair partner has reconnected with their spouse as if nothing happened, your affair is over, even if they didn\u2019t break up with you outright. Don\u2019t expect them to be brave enough to end things with you directly. Instead, they\u2019ll let you make the conclusion yourself.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo suelen terminar las relaciones?<\/h2>\n<p>La mayor\u00eda de los affaires acaban con la vuelta de la pareja conyugal, aunque estos matrimonios suelen terminar en divorcio, seguido de una relaci\u00f3n comprometida con la tercera persona. Seg\u00fan algunas investigaciones, solo un peque\u00f1o porcentaje de los infieles abandonan realmente a sus esposas o maridos para construir una vida con sus amantes.<\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar:<\/h2>\n<p>I know that it was heartbreaking for you to relate to most of these signs your affair partner is losing interest. But they\u2019re here, and they\u2019re very much real.<\/p>\n<p><b>I don\u2019t mean to judge you, but this affair would\u2019ve ended one way or another. And it\u2019s definitely much better for you to know where you stand.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>To be honest, you have no other option but to leave even before seeing all these signs. However, now after you\u2019ve seen them, you know what your only choice is!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s be honest: being the other woman or the other man is bad enough. But having to doubt your partner\u2019s feelings in the middle of this chaos is a nightmare in itself. However, before you jump to any conclusions, you have to be sure what\u2019s really happening. Are you really seeing signs your affair partner&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":150777,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-150776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/15-Warning-Signs-Your-Affair-Partner-Is-Losing-Interest-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=150776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150776\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/150777"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=150776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=150776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=150776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}