{"id":151229,"date":"2024-11-04T22:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-11-04T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=151229"},"modified":"2024-11-04T10:01:39","modified_gmt":"2024-11-04T09:01:39","slug":"lo-que-vuelve-loco-a-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-que-vuelve-loco-a-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Maneras De Volver Locos A Los Narcisistas Y Jugar Con Ellos"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019re dealing with someone que tiene NPD<\/a>...asumes que no hay nada que puedas hacer para herirles emocionalmente. Incluso cuando lo intentas, siempre encuentran la manera de que te salga el tiro por la culata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I\u2019m here to end your misery. Once you learn what drives a narcissist insane, you can give them a taste of their own medicine and reverse the roles once and for all!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a1Estas 15 t\u00e1cticas te ayudar\u00e1n a volver loco a tu narcisista!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. El tratamiento silencioso<\/h2>\n\n\n
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If you\u2019re looking for formas de herir a alguien que muestra un comportamiento narcisista<\/a>, the best way to do so is by ignoring them. Yes, that\u2019s right, I\u2019m telling you to give them the tratamiento silencioso<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, has dado tu madre narcisista<\/a>padre o pareja exactamente lo que quer\u00edan de ti. Lloraste, les rogaste que cambiaran o discutiste con ellos hasta que perdiste todas tus fuerzas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And what did you accomplish with this? That\u2019s right, one big, fat nothing. So, why wouldn’t you change tactics? Why wouldn\u2019t you try ignoring them and behaving like they don\u2019t exist?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, this is what will trigger their narcissistic rage in the blink of an eye. And that\u2019s when you\u2019ll have them right where you want them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Perder el control<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\u00bfQu\u00e9 tienen en com\u00fan todas las personas con NPD? Entre otras cosas, uno de sus objetivos finales es tener el control<\/a> sobre sus v\u00edctimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los narcisistas, soci\u00f3patas y psic\u00f3patas emocionales<\/a> will get possessive because they\u2019re scared of losing control over you.<\/strong> You have to be aware that you\u2019re dealing with fan\u00e1ticos del control<\/a>. Todo tiene que ser a su manera o de ninguna manera en absoluto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why you must show them that they can\u2019t rule over you. You\u2019re the only one in charge of your own life. How do you do that? Well, you can start by disobeying them about some seemingly little things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, lo m\u00e1s importante es demostrarles que ya no tienen influencia sobre ti. Al menos, no tanta como sol\u00edan tener.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Aceptar las cr\u00edticas<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Here\u2019s every narcissist\u2019s biggest secret: they have incredibly baja autoestima<\/a>. \u00bfQui\u00e9n lo dir\u00eda, verdad?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bueno, en realidad ocultan su verdadero yo porque odian la persona que son. Las personas con trastorno narcisista de la personalidad tienen una percepci\u00f3n muy fr\u00e1gil de su autoestima.<\/strong> That\u2019s why being criticized is one of their biggest fears. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Invierten mucho tiempo y energ\u00eda en construir un rostro aparentemente perfecto que muestran al mundo. Por eso, en el momento en que les criticas por la cosa m\u00e1s insignificante, les causas una herida narcisista.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t even have to do it on purpose. You can jokingly say you don\u2019t like their new shirt or that they could have cleaned the house a bit better. On a conscious level, they know that you’re joking or that you mean well. However, their fragile ego can\u2019t stand admitting and accepting something like this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. No ser el centro de atenci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\u00bfQu\u00e9 necesita un narcisista? Validaci\u00f3n y admiraci\u00f3n. \u00bfQu\u00e9 vuelve loco a un narcisista? No tener nada de eso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about your padres narcisistas<\/a>, romantic partner, or friend \u2013 they\u2019re all the same when it comes to this. A estas personas les gusta ser el centro de atenci\u00f3n. De hecho, necesitan atenci\u00f3n como una persona normal necesita aire para respirar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what happens when someone else becomes your center of attention? A narcissist goes completely crazy. But you know what the funniest thing about this is? They can\u2019t take that you\u2019re your own center of attention either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The moment that happens, a narcissist feels like they\u2019re losing the ground they walk on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Ser llamado la atenci\u00f3n por sus acciones<\/h2>\n\n\n
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How great would it be if we could all do whatever the hell we wanted without anyone pointing out our mistakes? Well, that’s exactly what every narc expects of their victim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tienes que ser consciente de una cosa: estas personas luchan contra la falta de empat\u00eda.<\/strong> Si usted, por ejemplo, romper una relaci\u00f3n narcisista<\/a>, your ex will never feel guilty for breaking your heart. Not only that \u2013 they\u2019ll also be surprised if you gather the courage to call them out on their actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if you really refuse to give them a second chance and explain that your behavior is just a reaction to their actions, they\u2019ll be stunned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re talking about someone who thinks they\u2019re smarter than the rest of the world. So, they\u2019ll go crazy once you tell them straight that you know exactly what they\u2019re doing and that you don\u2019t plan on putting up with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Other people\u2019s happiness<\/h2>\n\n\n
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We\u2019ve already established that a lack of empathy is one of the most common rasgos narcisistas<\/a>. This doesn\u2019t only mean that they can\u2019t sympathize with someone else\u2019s pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This lack of empathy also means that they don\u2019t have the ability to be happy for other people. They just can\u2019t stand someone else\u2019s happiness and will do everything in their power to destroy it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

En el fondo, todos los narcisistas est\u00e1n celosos. En el fondo, saben que no pueden sentir la felicidad verdadera y pura, y odian a todos los que son capaces de sentirla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basically, if you want to drive a narcissist crazy, it\u2019s enough to show them that you\u2019re genuinely happy. Once they realize that all of the juegos mentales<\/a>...gaslighting, y... abuso emocional<\/a> they put you through didn\u2019t kill your spirit, they will be devastated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Reflejar a un narcisista<\/h2>\n\n\n
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C\u00f3mo apagar a un narcisista<\/a>? It\u2019s enough to treat them the same way they treat everyone else. Just give them a taste of their own medicine. Invierte las tornas y haz que se pongan en tu lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This kind of behavior is called mirroring a narcissist. Don\u2019t worry, you won\u2019t become just like them for real. You\u2019re a normal person, and you\u2019re only pretending to be like this to play with a narc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I\u2019m warning you: narcissistic mirroring is anything but easy. It includes numerous manipulation tactics, such as bombardeo amoroso<\/a> (seguido de fantasma<\/a>), el gaslighting, el tratamiento silencioso, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: I would never advise doing any of these things to some other random person. However, sometimes, this is the only way to herir emocionalmente a un narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Romper su hechizo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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What drives a narcissist insane? Well, the fact that their victim managed to break their spell. It\u2019s the realization that you got to the bottom of their intentions. It\u2019s that you got them all figured out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basically, they get upset the moment you realize that you\u2019re a victim of abuso narcisista<\/a>. Comprenderlo es el primer paso para escapando de ellos,<\/a> y lo saben muy bien.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t want you to take off your rose-tinted glasses. They\u2019ll do everything in their power to prevent you from seeing properly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when you finally get rid of their magic, they don\u2019t know what to do. You\u2019re no longer enchanted, and they don\u2019t have as much influence over you as they used to have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. The victim\u2019s independence<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\u00bfRecuerdas que hablamos de que un narcisista pierde el control? Tienes que saber que estas personas esperan que sus parejas, amigos y familiares dependan emocionalmente de ellos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ocurre cuando su v\u00edctima deja de ser emocionalmente dependiente<\/a> on them? Well, that\u2019s another thing a narc can\u2019t stand. Tu mundo ha dejado de girar a su alrededor, lo que destruye de inmediato su sentimiento de autoestima.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m not only talking about emotional independence. I\u2019m talking about any kind of independence, including financial, social, and so on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They will go insane if they see that you\u2019re capable of making your own decisions without their involvement. It looks like you don\u2019t need them anymore, which means practically nothing is holding you back from leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Que alguien sea mejor que ellos<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Todas las personas que padecen un trastorno narcisista de la personalidad tienen graves problemas de autoestima. Intentan ocultarlo, pero se comparan constantemente con todas las personas de su entorno, incluidos sus amigos, familiares, parejas sentimentales, compa\u00f1eros de trabajo e incluso personas que simplemente pasan por su lado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In their twisted sense of reality, they have to be better than everyone else. On the contrary, they\u2019re completely worthless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To them, people\u2019s entire existence on this planet is nothing but a big competition. <\/strong>Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 vuelve loco a un narcisista? La horrible comprensi\u00f3n de que alguien es mejor que ellos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s enough for you to praise their coworker and tell them that they have a good sense of humor or to tell them that you like their best friend\u2019s new car. Normal people wouldn\u2019t even notice these remarks. But a narc will think about them for days!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Tratamiento ordinario<\/h2>\n\n\n
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One of the first red flags to pay attention to when figuring out if someone is a narcissist is this person\u2019s sense of self-importance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s the irony of their personalities: they actually lucha con grandes inseguridades<\/a>, but at the same time, they think that they\u2019re more important than the rest of the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estas personas esperan un trato VIP dondequiera que vayan. Quieren sentirse como la realeza, siempre bajo los focos. <\/strong>But what if that doesn\u2019t happen? What if you invite them to a party? You don\u2019t ignore them, nor do you welcome them as a special guest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, that would crush them more than anything! It means that they\u2019ve lost the ability to get any reaction from you. And that was the only superpower they had. If that doesn\u2019t destroy them, nothing will!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Verg\u00fcenza p\u00fablica<\/h2>\n\n\n
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If you know a thing or two about narcissism, you know that people with NPD are usually the most prominent members of society. It doesn\u2019t matter what kind of abuso narcisista<\/a> you\u2019re going through \u2013 your abuser will always do their best to hide it from the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all, why do you think gaslighting is so important to them? They\u2019re terrified that you\u2019ll speak out about their actions. They want to prevent it so badly that they\u2019re ready to persuade you that you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what drives a narcissist insane? Destroying their public image! They can\u2019t stand being embarrassed in front of other people.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Criticizing and humiliating them when you\u2019re with company will do the trick. But you know what will destroy them completely? Showing the world their true colors! Lifting the mask they show everyone and revealing who they really are will crush them more than anything!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. 13. No salirse con la suya<\/h2>\n\n\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about little things or huge decisions. A narcissist has to have everything go their way. Have you forgotten? After all, we\u2019re talking about the most intelligent and capable people in the whole wide world!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todo el mundo, especialmente sus v\u00edctimas, debe escucharles y seguir su ejemplo. Eso es otra cosa que les hace sentirse superiores y les ayuda con su rocosa confianza en s\u00ed mismos. Por lo tanto, lo que les vuelve locos es que las cosas no salgan como ellos quieren.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, you\u2019re in a relaci\u00f3n narcisista<\/a>. Tu pareja rom\u00e1ntica planeaba insultarte, y entonces empez\u00f3 a gaslighting usted<\/a>. They were sure that things would go smoothly, as always. They would manage to convince you that you\u2019re overreacting and imagining things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But this time, you reacted differently. You stick to your story, and you don\u2019t allow them to brainwash you with their manipulation tactics. Not getting the outcome they were expecting leaves them confused. However, you have to be careful about this one because it also triggers narcissistic rage!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Que les llamen la atenci\u00f3n por sus inseguridades<\/h2>\n\n\n
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La diferencia entre una persona normal y alguien con narcisismo es c\u00f3mo percibe estas inseguridades. Las personas normales saben que nadie es perfecto. Saben que las inseguridades son perfectamente normales; hacen todo lo posible por superarlas y a veces incluso bromean sobre ellas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, every narc pretends to be flawless. They deceive the world into thinking that they love their true selves even though that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you look closely, you\u2019ll get to the bottom of sus inseguridades<\/a>. You\u2019ll find out what they hate about themselves the most. And once you find that out, it\u2019s time to tackle these insecurities. But make sure to pretend that you\u2019re doing it by accident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll get an even better effect if you do it in public.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Sin contacto<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Finally, if you\u2019re wondering what drives a narcissist insane, the answer is: no tener contacto<\/a>\u00a1! Esto incluye no hablar con ellos, bloquear su n\u00famero<\/a>, ignoring their text messages, not visiting places you know you might run into them, not mentioning their name to your mutual friends…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Significa cortar con ellos por completo y vivir tu vida como si nunca hubieran formado parte de ella. <\/strong>Pero hay algo que debes tener en cuenta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando normalmente ir sin contacto<\/a> with someone, you\u2019re doing it to get them back. You want them to feel your absence so they can appreciate your presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, this shouldn\u2019t be your primary goal when dealing with a narc. Trust me \u2013 you don\u2019t want this person back, and you don\u2019t want them obsesionado contigo<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re going no contact for two reasons. First of all, you\u2019re doing it to drive your narc crazy. But at the same time, you should be doing it to help yourself heal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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