{"id":151584,"date":"2022-05-25T19:59:32","date_gmt":"2022-05-25T19:59:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=151584"},"modified":"2022-09-20T08:39:19","modified_gmt":"2022-09-20T08:39:19","slug":"como-compensar-a-tu-novia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-compensar-a-tu-novia\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo compensar a tu novia y mantenerla contenta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Every couple fights, but if you\u2019re looking up how to make it up to your girlfriend, you\u2019ve probably done something that made her angry. Depending on how much you\u2019ve hurt her, it might not be easy to bounce back from it.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you escalated an argument you had or were unwilling to compromise, the situation might be easier to deal with than if you cheated on her. Still, the process is more or less the same, no matter what you\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n

Making it up to her might not be easy, especially if you\u2019ve hurt her and broken her trust. It\u2019s going to take sincerity, effort, and patience if you want to work on your relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo compensar a tu novia<\/h2>\n

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How to make it up to your girlfriend so that she considers forgiving you? If your girlfriend is angry with you because you\u2019ve hurt her, it might take her more time to come around. Tambi\u00e9n tienes que aceptar la posibilidad de que no te perdone.<\/b><\/p>\n

Si la raz\u00f3n de vuestra discusi\u00f3n fuera la falta de conexi\u00f3n y comprensi\u00f3n, ella podr\u00eda calmarse m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido, pero esos problemas seguir\u00e1n existiendo y habr\u00e1 que abordarlos<\/b>. Otherwise, before you know it, you\u2019ll be fighting again.<\/p>\n

No matter if you\u2019re disculparse por hacer trampas<\/a> or for something minor you\u2019ve done, the steps to forgiveness are always the same. Here\u2019s how to do it.<\/p>\n

1. Escuchar y tener paciencia<\/h3>\n

\"sonriente<\/p>\n

\u2022 Calm down<\/h4>\n

The first thing to do after an argument is to calm down. Step back, and don\u2019t let the momentum take you so far that either of you says something that can\u2019t be fixed. Muchos <\/b>rupturas<\/b> happen during fights because emotions are running high, and you say things you don\u2019t mean.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to be right and win the argument \u2013 remember that tu relaci\u00f3n es m\u00e1s importante<\/b><\/a> que la lucha.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Give her space<\/h4>\n

If she\u2019s too angry to talk to you after you\u2019ve done something that hurt her, respect her and give her some space. Let her come to terms with what\u2019s happened and process her feelings. <\/b>Estar en el extremo receptor de su ira es dif\u00edcil, pero en este punto, usted debe hacer sus sentimientos una prioridad.<\/p>\n

Put yourself in her shoes and think about how she\u2019s feeling because of what you\u2019ve done.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Be patient<\/h4>\n

She might not be ready to talk to you for a while. Be patient and wait until she\u2019s ready to hear your apology. Incluso despu\u00e9s de que te disculpes, puede que tarde un tiempo en aceptarlo.<\/b> Si te importa tu relaci\u00f3n, deber\u00edas respetarlo.<\/p>\n

Give her time to think things over and a chance to process what happened, how she\u2019s feeling, and what she wants to do. Don’t pressure her and try to convince her of anything because that will only backfire.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Listen to her<\/h4>\n

When she\u2019s able to talk to you, give her your full attention. Listen to what she has to say, even if she\u2019s just telling you how angry with you she is.<\/b> Deja que muestre sus sentimientos, por muy molestos que sean para ti.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t argue with her, don\u2019t interrupt her, and don\u2019t contradict her. <\/b>If you pay attention to what she\u2019s telling you, it will help you understand her point of view and her feelings.<\/p>\n

2. Pedir disculpas<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be sincere<\/h4>\n

Cuando llegue el momento de disculparse despu\u00e9s de la pelea<\/a> comes, the most important thing is that you\u2019re sincere about it.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not sorry that you hurt her but that you got caught, it will never work. <\/b>She\u2019ll see through it. If you\u2019re not really sorry for what you\u2019ve done but only want things to go back to the way they used to be, you\u2019re only buying time until the next fight.<\/p>\n

When you apologize, make it clear you\u2019re sorry by showing your effort and sincerity. <\/b>Don\u2019t try to make things right through a text message or phone call, but in person. If she doesn\u2019t want to see you, wait until she does.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Accept that you were wrong<\/h4>\n

When you\u2019ve done something that hurt your girlfriend, you should asumir la responsabilidad<\/b> por tus actos. Reconoce que has hecho algo mal. Don’t justify yourself, and don\u2019t blame the circumstances.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even if what you\u2019ve done might not seem like a big deal to you, it still hurt her. Don\u2019t think about what you meant to do but about how your girlfriend feels. Que tuvieras o no la intenci\u00f3n de hacerle da\u00f1o no tiene nada que ver con el hecho de que lo hicieras.<\/b><\/p>\n

When apologizing, acknowledge that it was you who did something and don\u2019t place the blame on her for feeling hurt. Don\u2019t say things like \u201cI\u2019m sorry that you feel that I hurt you,\u201d or “I’m sorry that you think I hurt you.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

Accept responsibility by saying, \u201cI\u2019m sorry that I hurt you<\/b>,\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m sorry that I did ~.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u2022 Admit that what you did hurt her<\/h4>\n

When you\u2019re apologizing, acknowledge her feelings and understand her reaction if she\u2019s upset. If she says something she doesn’t, meanwhile she’s angry or hurt, don’t take it personally.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even before you apologize, think about what you\u2019ve done. Try to feel empathy for her, and understand what she\u2019s feeling and why. <\/b>Try to understand why she\u2019s feeling betrayed or neglected because of your actions.<\/p>\n

Admit that you hurt her, and don\u2019t try to escape it. <\/b>Taking responsibility for your actions will show her that your intention isn\u2019t just to sweep things under the rug but that you\u2019re genuinely sorry.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Show remorse<\/h4>\n

Be honest with her about what you\u2019ve done. She\u2019ll only be more upset if you lie or omit something. It\u2019s inevitable that things will come to light sooner or later.<\/b> If you try to make it seem like your actions were less bad than they were, she\u2019ll know you\u2019re not really sorry.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a difference between remorse and just wanting to be let off the hook.<\/b> Hazle saber que te arrepientes sinceramente de tus actos<\/a>, not because she\u2019s mad at you, but because it was wrong and hurt her.<\/p>\n

The message she should get from you isn\u2019t, \u201cI feel bad because you\u2019re mad at me,\u201d but \u201cI feel bad because I hurt you.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Tell her you don\u2019t intend to do it again<\/h4>\n

You need to explicitly tell her that you won\u2019t do it again. Show her your voluntad de cambio<\/a>, especially if this wasn\u2019t the first time you\u2019ve done something that made her upset. If you keep repeating your actions, there will eventually come a time when she won\u2019t be able to forgive you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Make it clear that whatever you did, you won’t do it again, and keep your word. Don\u2019t say, \u201cI\u2019m going to pruebe<\/i> to change.\u201d This shows that you\u2019re not sure that you won\u2019t hurt her again, which is not good enough. Show her you\u2019re dedicated to doing right by her.<\/p>\n

Para un <\/b>relaci\u00f3n sana<\/b>...tienes que recuperar la confianza, y el primer paso para ello es estar decidido a no repetir tus errores.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Ask how you can make it right<\/h4>\n

After you\u2019ve apologized, ask her if there\u2019s anything you can do to make it right. If you\u2019ve done something that you can fix, do it if she says you should. Esc\u00fachala y <\/b>respetarla<\/b> desea demostrarle que la valora.<\/b><\/p>\n

Puede que quiera que arregles tus errores o que, en general, la trates mejor. Once you tell her you’ll do something, keep your word. <\/b>If it\u2019s something that can\u2019t be done, don\u2019t commit to doing it. Don\u2019t try to score brownie points by making promises you don\u2019t plan to keep.<\/p>\n

3. Trabaja en tus problemas<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

A veces, lo que empieza como una peque\u00f1a molestia puede convertirse en una discusi\u00f3n seria. Suele significar que hab\u00eda problemas subyacentes en la relaci\u00f3n que tarde o temprano iban a surgir.<\/p>\n

Just making up won\u2019t help because it will happen again \u2013 you need to work on your problems to <\/b>arregla tu relaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

En una relaci\u00f3n duradera, los problemas pueden acumularse hasta que resulte imposible arreglarlos. Don’t sweep things under the rug if you want your relationship to last and be healthy.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Think about why you fought<\/h4>\n

What was the reason for your fight? What did you do to hurt her? Both sides are often to blame in arguments, but if it was something you\u2019ve done, reflexiona detenidamente sobre estas cosas e intenta averiguar por qu\u00e9 pensaste que estaba bien hacer lo que hiciste.<\/b><\/p>\n

Did you do something that made her feel hurt and betrayed, like cheat on her? Make sure you understand why you thought it was okay, even when you knew that it would hurt her. If you\u2019re committed to making your relationship work, it\u2019s important to deal with this.<\/p>\n

Si sientes la necesidad de arreglar las cosas, sabes que ha sido culpa tuya. <\/b>\u00bfLa pelea se debi\u00f3 a una falta de afecto por tu parte? \u00bfPor no cumplir tus promesas o responsabilidades? Decide to do better, and make a plan on how you\u2019re going to do it.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Communicate<\/h4>\n

Don\u2019t keep things inside because not saying what\u2019s bothering you will only lead to grudges and resentment. Crea una relaci\u00f3n en la que puedas hacerle saber cu\u00e1ndo algo va mal, y ella pueda hacer lo mismo.<\/b><\/p>\n

La manera de conseguirlo es estar abierto y dispuesto a transigir. La comunicaci\u00f3n es vital<\/a>. Relationship experts always say, \u201cListen to each other,\u201d but what does that actually mean?<\/p>\n

It means that you don\u2019t only wait your turn to say something when someone is talking, but you actually hear the other person\u2019s feelings and concerns.<\/b> If she\u2019s telling you that you hurt her when you did something, don\u2019t hurry to tell her that you didn\u2019t mean to do it.<\/p>\n

Acknowledge each other\u2019s feelings. Don\u2019t try to win a fight. There are no winners in an argument in a relationship. The point isn’t to win but to solve problems.<\/b> Don\u2019t let your pride ruin your relationship.<\/p>\n

- Reconstruir la confianza<\/b><\/a><\/h4>\n

Puede que tu novia tarde alg\u00fan tiempo en volver a confiar en ti. T\u00f3matelo con calma y muestra tu compromiso para reconstruir vuestra relaci\u00f3n. You will make her trust you again if you\u2019re constant and dependable.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you tell her you\u2019ll do something, do what you said you would. Don\u2019t be flaky and unreliable. Demu\u00e9strale que puede confiar en ti con tus actos. Estate a su lado y disponible cuando te necesite.<\/b><\/p>\n

Most importantly, don\u2019t make the same mistake. If you\u2019ve done something that hurt her, don\u2019t do it again if she\u2019s forgiven you. S\u00e9 mejor y hazlo mejor para demostrarle que puede confiar en ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Spend time together<\/h4>\n

Spending time together will heal your relationship. Treat your girlfriend the way she deserves. Turn off your phone, don\u2019t check your social media notifications, and give her your full attention when you\u2019re together.<\/p>\n

En <\/b>cosas sencillas<\/b>como escucharla hablar de su d\u00eda y tener <\/b>noches de cita,<\/b> puede marcar la diferencia. <\/b>Every day doesn\u2019t have to feel like Valentine\u2019s Day, but you have to show your girlfriend that you don\u2019t take her for granted.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s often distance that makes couples drift apart. Giving her a small, thoughtful gift from time to time or watching your favorite TV show together while you cuddle will help you stay connected. Simplemente <\/b>pasar el tiempo<\/b> juntos y hablar puede hacer que tu relaci\u00f3n prospere.<\/b><\/p>\n

Compartir vuestras preocupaciones, pensamientos y sentimientos y ser ante todo los mejores amigos es lo que mantendr\u00e1 vuestra relaci\u00f3n sana y duradera. Sea atento y cari\u00f1oso <\/b>lenguaje del amor<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

4. Haz algo por ella<\/h3>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

To make up for what you\u2019ve done, you should prove to her that you\u2019ll do better and show her how much she means to you. The first thing to do is to be consistent in your behavior \u2013 do the things you said you would, and don\u2019t do things you know will hurt her.<\/b><\/p>\n

You can do something nice for her, go out of your way for her, and be attentive, but it will all be useless if you\u2019re not doing the basics. Para hacer un <\/b>sensaci\u00f3n de chica<\/b> respetado y apreciado, empieza por cumplir tus promesas y aceptar tus responsabilidades.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo entonces el peque\u00f1os detalles y gestos<\/a> have meaning and not seem like you\u2019re putting a band-aid on a serious wound. So after you\u2019ve committed to treating her right and actually do it, here are some ideas to brighten her day:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Give her flowers<\/h4>\n

Find out what her favorite flowers are and give them to her often. Don\u2019t wait for a special occasion.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make her something<\/h4>\n

You can make her a commute playlist for her drive to work, print out your pictures together and put them in an album for her, or bake her cupcakes. You can make her anything \u2013 the important part is to make her something you know she\u2019ll enjoy.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Take her out on a picnic<\/h4>\n

Prepara una cesta de picnic que incluya su comida favorita y ll\u00e9vala al parque.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Buy her something<\/h4>\n

If there\u2019s something she wants but won’t get for herself because she thinks it’s too expensive or something she needs, surprise her by getting it for her.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Help her do something that’s on her bucket list<\/h4>\n

Is there something she often mentions she\u2019d want to do but never seems to get to it? Help her do it by making it easy for her.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Take her to the place you had your first date<\/h4>\n

Hazle recordar vuestros primeros d\u00edas y reaviva el romanticismo mostr\u00e1ndole d\u00f3nde empez\u00f3 todo.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Stay in touch<\/h4>\n

Send her ‘good morning’ and ‘good night’ texts. And ‘thinking of you’ texts in the middle of the day. Use unrelated emojis to make her laugh.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Compliment her<\/h4>\n

P\u00e1gale muchos cumplidos<\/a>. When you think she needs one, especially when she’s not feeling good about herself. Compliments make people happier and more beautiful.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Write her a love letter<\/h4>\n

Even if you feel like you don\u2019t know how to do it, just write about your honest feelings in simple words. She\u2019s guaranteed to appreciate it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Celebrate your important dates<\/h4>\n

Recuerde aniversarios, cumplea\u00f1os y acontecimientos especiales, y haga algo para conmemorarlos.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Cook for her<\/h4>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Feed her, and if you do the dishes after, even better. If you can\u2019t cook, pick up a takeaway.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Take her somewhere special<\/h4>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to be far: a spot you like to go to when you\u2019re feeling down or the first place you met. Take her somewhere with a view and watch the sunset.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Give her a massage<\/h4>\n

Un masaje en la espalda, al menos, siempre es bienvenido. A\u00f1ade un masaje de pies para un tratamiento de lujo.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Help her around the house<\/h4>\n

Remember to do your chores, and don’t wait for her to remind you to do them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Care for her when she gets sick<\/h4>\n

Hazle sopa, aseg\u00farate de que toma su medicina y vig\u00edlala.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Get matching jewelry or outfits<\/h4>\n

Llevar las mismas pulseras, por ejemplo, o ropa a juego es bonito y rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Fully include her in your life<\/h4>\n

Ll\u00e9vala a salir contigo y con tus amigos o tu familia. Haz un esfuerzo por conectar con su familia y amigos.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make her a scrapbook<\/h4>\n

Utiliza fotos y recuerdos para crear una historia sobre las cosas que hac\u00e9is juntos. Puedes repetirlo a menudo si a ella le gusta.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Pay attention when she mentions something she likes<\/h4>\n

Recuerda las cosas que dice que le gustan para poder hacerle siempre los mejores regalos.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Surprise her<\/h4>\n

Pres\u00e9ntate en su lugar de trabajo y ll\u00e9vala a comer. Limpia sin que te lo recuerde. C\u00f3mprale un regalito porque s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Take her on a romantic trip<\/h4>\n

Go somewhere she’s always wanted to go. Make sure to plan and book everything in advance. It will make her feel special and appreciated.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Hang out together<\/h4>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Haz las cosas que le gustan a ella o las que te gustan a ti. Jueguen juntos: videojuegos, deportes, juegos de mesa. Hagan el tonto juntos. La risa cura.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Show her you\u2019re paying attention<\/h4>\n

F\u00edjate cuando se corte el pelo o cambie de look. Hazle un cumplido sobre su ropa o sus zapatos. C\u00f3mprale el caf\u00e9 como a ella le gusta. Haz las tareas que sabes que odia. Hazle saber que la ves.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be proud that she\u2019s your girlfriend<\/h4>\n

Usa su foto como fondo de pantalla. Habla de ella con otras personas. Elogia su personalidad y sus logros.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Take up a hobby together<\/h4>\n

Pod\u00e9is apuntaros juntos al gimnasio o practicar alg\u00fan deporte. Los deportes al aire libre, como el senderismo o el ciclismo, son especialmente divertidos para las parejas. Ap\u00fantate a clases de arte, como pintura o cer\u00e1mica. Empieza a aprender un idioma extranjero juntos.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Learn about something that interests her<\/h4>\n

Si tiene una afici\u00f3n, un libro o un grupo de m\u00fasica favorito, aseg\u00farate de que pueda hablarte de ello. Mostrar inter\u00e9s por sus aficiones la har\u00e1 feliz.<\/p>\n

Hacerlo bien<\/h2>\n

What should you do when you don\u2019t know how to make it up to your girlfriend after you\u2019ve made a mistake? Lo m\u00e1s importante es admitir que te has equivocado.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re genuinely sorry and willing to make things right, you\u2019ll do anything necessary to make it up to her. Acknowledge her feelings, accept that it\u2019s your fault, and sincerely apologize.<\/b><\/p>\n

Est\u00e9 decidido a no volver a hacerlo y haga lo necesario para corregir sus errores. En el proceso de reconstrucci\u00f3n de su relaci\u00f3n, haga lo siguiente <\/b>peque\u00f1as cosas<\/b> que demuestren que te importa. <\/b>Establecer una comunicaci\u00f3n buena y honesta<\/a> para mantener sana tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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