{"id":15184,"date":"2020-06-23T11:05:43","date_gmt":"2020-06-23T11:05:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15184"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:48:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:48:01","slug":"9-formas-en-que-el-mentiroso-patologico-rompe-los-juegos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-formas-en-que-el-mentiroso-patologico-rompe-los-juegos\/","title":{"rendered":"9 formas en que un mentiroso patol\u00f3gico te rompe con sus juegos"},"content":{"rendered":"

While some of us lie to save hurting someone else\u2019s feelings, or to avoid conflict, there are people who can\u2019t seem to come to terms with the truth. Pathological liars have no moral compass.<\/p>\n

They use lies as a tool of manipulation, control and power, simply because they can. It has to feel empowering when you know that you can convince someone into something they know isn\u2019t the truth. But they are just so good at lying that they won\u2019t stop doing it.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 empezaron a utilizarlo como un mal necesario, pero con el tiempo se les convirti\u00f3 en un h\u00e1bito.<\/p>\n

Now, they don\u2019t know how to speak the truth even if they want to.<\/p>\n

Salir con un mentiroso puede hacerte da\u00f1o de muchas maneras, desde torcer tu mente y cuestionar tu cordura, hasta sentirte traicionado y simplemente roto por amar a alguien que nunca es honesto contigo.<\/p>\n

Y hay muchos signos reveladores de que est\u00e1s saliendo con un mentiroso compulsivo<\/a> que buscar para salvarte de las formas en que pueden quebrarte.<\/p>\n

1. Te oculta cosas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nHe doesn\u2019t want to get caught, so he will go out of his way to keep the lie going.<\/p>\n

Esconder\u00e1 su tel\u00e9fono, mantendr\u00e1 claves y contrase\u00f1as en todo y te mantendr\u00e1 fuera de su vida privada tanto como sea posible.<\/p>\n

E incluso cuando intuyes que algo no va bien, es tan bueno manipul\u00e1ndote que acabar\u00e1s disculp\u00e1ndote con \u00e9l, aunque sea \u00e9l quien deber\u00eda disculparse contigo.<\/p>\n

2. Miente sobre las cosas m\u00e1s mundanas<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Mienten sobre todo, b\u00e1sicamente. Desde lo que desayunan, lo que hacen por la ma\u00f1ana, hasta la hora a la que se acuestan.<\/p>\n

With them, you never know what the truth is and even when they know you can see through their lies, they still lie. It\u2019s not something they can\u2019t control, it\u2019s something that they don\u2019t want to control.<\/p>\n

En la lealtad es una de las cualidades m\u00e1s importantes<\/a> in a relationship, with them it\u2019s practically impossible to have it.<\/p>\n

3. Siempre tiene una excusa<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Pase lo que pase, es capaz de inventarse una historia entera en cuesti\u00f3n de segundos.<\/p>\n

While the rest of us stumble and stutter, trying to find the words to pull ourselves out of it, he doesn\u2019t even miss a beat.<\/p>\n

Tendr\u00e1 una excusa en el momento en que te enfrentes a \u00e9l por cualquier cosa, dej\u00e1ndote rasc\u00e1ndote la cabeza y pregunt\u00e1ndote d\u00f3nde fueron las cosas mal.<\/p>\n

4. No hay literalmente nada fuera de los l\u00edmites para que \u00e9l est\u00e9 mintiendo sobre<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

While some of us will lie only to save hurting someone\u2019s feelings or to save our own ass (such as avoiding to answer, \u201cDid you eat my ice cream?\u201d), to a compulsive liar, nothing is sacred\u2014not even lying about whether he loves you or not, if he cheated on you or if he took something away from you.<\/p>\n

No tiene remordimientos por haberte manipulado y har\u00e1 lo que haga falta para mantener la farsa.<\/p>\n

5. Empiezas a cuestionar tu cordura<\/h2>\n

\"Imagen<\/p>\n

Tiene una manera de convencerte de que el cielo es amarillo y el sol azul.<\/p>\n

Soon enough, you begin to question your own sanity, because he manages to convince you that things you experienced with him didn\u2019t even happen the way they did. He is that good.<\/p>\n

Y cada vez que te molesta que mienta, te hace creer que \u00e9l es la v\u00edctima, as\u00ed que acabas siendo t\u00fa la que se disculpa.<\/p>\n

La cosa con mentirosos compulsivos<\/a> es que tienen una forma de hacernos cuestionar nuestra propia mente y nuestra propia cordura.<\/p>\n

6. Te sientes como el malo por cuestionarle<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

La manipulaci\u00f3n es su juego y lo domina a la perfecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

No es de extra\u00f1ar que te sientas como el peor villano que jam\u00e1s haya existido, s\u00f3lo porque te atreviste a cuestionar sus historias o su lealtad.<\/p>\n

Pondr\u00e1 tu mundo patas arriba sin siquiera pensarlo, con tal de conseguir lo que quiere.<\/p>\n

7. He never takes responsibility\u2014instead, he blames it on you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cuando le pilles con las manos en la masa y te enfrentes a \u00e9l, dar\u00e1 la vuelta a la historia e intentar\u00e1 convencerte para que veas su versi\u00f3n de la verdad o encontrar\u00e1 la manera de echarte la culpa a ti.<\/p>\n

He only lied to protect you, he was afraid that you wouldn\u2019t be able to handle the truth, he was sure you were not interested in knowing the truth, etc.<\/p>\n

Nunca, y quiero decir nunca, asumir\u00e1 la responsabilidad de sus mentiras y juegos.<\/p>\n

8. No tiene remordimientos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Sin br\u00fajula moral ni remordimientos, es un maldito mentiroso psic\u00f3pata<\/a> que nunca se sentir\u00e1 culpable por hacerte sentir que t\u00fa eres la loca.<\/p>\n

No mostrar\u00e1 ni una sola vez el m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo remordimiento por haberte roto en millones de pedazos, porque es incapaz de tenerlo.<\/p>\n

This will make you feel like you are not worthy of someone\u2019s love, loyalty and honesty, while the only truth is that he was never able to give you any of it. All he was capable of giving you were lies and manipulations.<\/p>\n

9. Te quita la seguridad<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Sus juegos te quitan todo lo que cre\u00edas saber. Sus juegos<\/a> quitarte la seguridad, la fuerza y la capacidad de confiar alguna vez en alguien o en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones consisten en sentirse seguro, respetado y querido, y cuando sales con un mentiroso patol\u00f3gico, no tienes nada de eso.<\/p>\n

Te quita la fe en el amor y parece que no hay forma de volver sobre tus propios pies despu\u00e9s de que te rompieran tanto que destruyeron todo lo que eras.<\/p>\n

Y justo cuando crees que has conseguido cambiarle, te rompe una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Loving a liar is worse than walking through hell, so it\u2019s better to get away while you still can.<\/p>\n

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