{"id":15191,"date":"2020-07-23T11:12:59","date_gmt":"2020-07-23T11:12:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15191"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:16:18","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:16:18","slug":"dio-prioridad-a-los-intentos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dio-prioridad-a-los-intentos\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que renunci\u00f3 a intentar ser su prioridad"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Llega un momento en que tienes que dejar de cruzar oc\u00e9anos por gente que ni siquiera saltar\u00eda charcos por ti\".<\/span><\/em><\/p>\r\n

Many asked her how she could let him go so easily. Many asked her why she didn\u2019t fight harder, why se rindi\u00f3<\/a> cuando estaban destinados a estar juntos. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Little did they know that she didn\u2019t give up but he didn\u2019t even try anymore. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

They acted as if it was all her fault, as if it was her job to keep him or to make him stay. As if they didn\u2019t know that you can\u2019t keep someone who doesn\u2019t want to stay. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Puso distancia entre los dos.<\/b> Maybe he didn\u2019t do that willingly, maybe something stole his attention, but maybe he didn\u2019t really care for her anymore. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Quiz\u00e1 se hart\u00f3. Tal vez la dio por sentada. De cualquier manera, dej\u00f3 de hacer de ella una prioridad. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Se centr\u00f3 en su vida. <\/b>Se centr\u00f3 en ocuparse de todo el mundo menos de ella. Se ocup\u00f3 tanto de su vida que se olvid\u00f3 de la vida que ten\u00eda con ella.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9l se olvid\u00f3 de sus necesidades y ella se convirti\u00f3 en una de esas <\/span>mujeres desatendidas emocionalmente<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ella ya no era una prioridad para \u00e9l. <\/b>He didn\u2019t bother to call just to hear her voice. He was always busy. He never had time for dates or to spend some quality time with her.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

He even spent more time with his friends than he did with her. He started leaving her alone too much and he allowed days to pass when they didn\u2019t hear from each other. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Intent\u00f3 hablar con \u00e9l.<\/b> She tried to tell him that things had started going downhill and how he wasn\u2019t the same person he used to be. She tried so hard to open his eyes. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Al final del d\u00eda, fue <\/span>su alma gemela, su compa\u00f1ero de vida<\/span><\/a>con el que ve\u00eda su futuro. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Despite what everyone else thought, she didn\u2019t just give up on him. She really tried, but he didn\u2019t see the same things she did. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Para \u00e9l, todo estaba bien.<\/b> No hab\u00eda necesidad de trabajar en nada. Dijo que eran <\/span>bien<\/span><\/i> y que s\u00f3lo estaba siendo paranoica. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

And then he went off and didn\u2019t reply to her messages for hours and when he finally did, it was just a one-word message. Something was off, but he didn\u2019t care to fix it.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

Perhaps he thought he\u2019d still have her, even when he stopped putting any effort into their relationship. But he was wrong. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Durante mucho tiempo, trat\u00f3 de hacerse un hueco en su agenda.<\/b> Durante tanto tiempo <\/span>inclinarse hacia atr\u00e1s para que \u00e9l se fijara en ella. Parec\u00eda que se mor\u00eda s\u00f3lo por tener un poco de su tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

S<\/span>he really tried. But she didn\u2019t manage to succeed. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Al final, cuando vio que \u00e9l hab\u00eda dejado de hacer de ella su prioridad, renunci\u00f3 a intentar serlo. <\/b>Renunci\u00f3 a llamarle, renunci\u00f3 a enviarle mensajes de texto constantemente primero, renunci\u00f3 a intentar que se fijara en ella. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

She gave up on making plans because she knew he\u2019d cancel them last minute anyway. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Now it\u2019s time for people to understand that <\/span>objetivos de la relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a> son algo m\u00e1s que poner un hashtag debajo de una foto bonita en Instagram. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s making time for the person who loves you even when your schedule is crazy. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s responding as soon as you see a message because it\u2019s not like those thirty seconds will harm your work. It\u2019s constantly trying to keep the love burning and not just hoping things will work even when you don\u2019t try.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

Se dio cuenta de que ten\u00eda que dejar de esforzarse tanto por alguien que se rindi\u00f3 hace mucho tiempo. <\/b><\/p>\r\n

She realized she should stop tearing her self-worth down for a man who didn\u2019t even notice her anymore.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

She realized that she should stop trying too. That way, in case she meant anything to him, he\u2019d notice her pulling away and reach back to her. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Y si la dejaba ir f\u00e1cilmente, significaba que estaba de acuerdo con perderla. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

If he didn\u2019t reach out to her, if he didn\u2019t hear the wake-up call, it meant she had done right when she chose to stop trying. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Because regardless of how much it hurts, it\u2019s always better to break yourself once by leaving than to allow yourself to be broken every day by letting him take you for granted. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

When you have to fight to be someone\u2019s priority, then that\u2019s a sign that it\u2019s time to invest your efforts into a relationship with someone who you won\u2019t need to beg to make time for you but with someone who\u2019s going to give it to you willingly and on his own. <\/b><\/p>\r\n

Sometimes when others aren\u2019t willing to make you their priority it\u2019s your task to make yourself a priority and take care of yourself. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Olv\u00eddate de lo que digan los dem\u00e1s o de lo que crean que debes hacer. Cuida siempre primero de ti mismo. <\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n

\"Esta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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