{"id":152054,"date":"2022-06-02T10:02:57","date_gmt":"2022-06-02T10:02:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=152054"},"modified":"2022-06-30T20:28:11","modified_gmt":"2022-06-30T20:28:11","slug":"cuando-se-de-cuenta-de-que-le-has-bloqueado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-se-de-cuenta-de-que-le-has-bloqueado\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 pasa cuando se da cuenta de que le has bloqueado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Algunas situaciones de la vida se afrontan mejor alej\u00e1ndose de ellas. Blocking someone works the same way: you’re done and gone, bye<\/b>. But it’s not always that easy.<\/p>\n

Most of the time, you block a guy when you can’t deal with him anymore. You either broke up and want to move on, you’ve been talking and don\u2019t like his behavior, or you’re not interested, but he won’t take the hint.<\/p>\n

Por qu\u00e9 te importa lo que pase cuando se d\u00e9 cuenta de que le has bloqueado depende completamente de tu raz\u00f3n para bloquearle. If you’ve blocked him to make him miss you, though, you’re setting yourself up for heartache.<\/b><\/p>\n

Keep reading because we’ll tackle all the reasons for blocking him and how to handle these situations in a way that will benefit you the most.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe pondr\u00e1 en contacto cuando se d\u00e9 cuenta de que le has bloqueado?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Bloqueas a un tipo por una de estas dos razones<\/a>: you really want nothing to do with him, or you’re trying to play games. There’s a third option somewhere in between where you’re kind of sick of him, but you’d give him a chance.<\/p>\n

The short answer is, he\u2019ll probably get in touch if you give him any hint that you\u2019re still into him. <\/b>But this isn\u2019t what you should be focusing on. Instead, think about a) why he\u2019s doing it in the <\/b>primer puesto<\/b> and b) what it\u2019s going to be like if you take him back.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 vino corriendo cuando cerraste la puerta? S\u00f3lo para ver que a\u00fan le quieres y que a\u00fan puede tenerte.<\/b> It\u2019s not because he\u2019s suddenly changed for the better or because he regrets how he treated you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get excited because he\u2019s back and pretends that he\u2019s changed. <\/b>You know he hasn\u2019t. What was he like before you broke up and you blocked him? He\u2019ll be the same again.<\/p>\n

Ahora mismo, las preguntas m\u00e1s importantes son:<\/p>\n

1. \u00bfHas terminado con \u00e9l y esperas que bloque\u00e1ndole consigas que te deje en paz?<\/h4>\n

Whether a guy you\u2019ve blocked because you don\u2019t want him in your life will leave you alone depends on a lot of things, but mostly on what kind of guy he is. A guy who isn\u2019t toxic but your relationship just didn\u2019t work out will probably <\/b>entender por qu\u00e9 tuviste que cortarle<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Is he selfish and egotistical, and you\u2019ve had enough? He probably won\u2019t be able to stand that you\u2019re moving on<\/b>...y podr\u00eda aparecer en tu puerta para ver si a\u00fan tiene poder sobre ti.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him reel you back in \u2013 control the situation by any means necessary. As long as he keeps finding ways to contact you, you should stand your ground and seguir rechaz\u00e1ndolo hasta que se le meta en la cabeza<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Your main focus should be to continue saying no and remember why you don\u2019t want him in your life.<\/p>\n

2. Did you block him because you’re hoping that this is a way to get him to want you?<\/h4>\n

Let’s get straight to the point: if you’re resorting to blocking him to get his attention, you’re only hurting yourself. If the question \u201cWhat happens when he realizes I blocked him?\u201d really means \u201cWill he miss me and come looking for me?\u201d then the answer is \u201cNo.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

The only thing he\u2019ll miss is knowing that you\u2019re available whenever he wants, and he\u2019ll try to change that.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re only helping him in getting the ego boost that comes from knowing he can come back to mess with you whenever he wants, only to go back to his ways as soon as he proves his point.<\/b><\/p>\n

Bloque\u00e1ndolo s\u00f3lo para jugar a juegos mentales<\/a>, you gain nothing. When you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist or a common variety jerk, he\u2019ll try to get in contact with you when you block him to get validation that he can get you at any time, and when he gets what he wants, you\u2019ll be left hurt and alone<\/b>.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo molestar a tu novio: 160 Ideas<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Por qu\u00e9 el bloqueo es bueno para usted<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

First of all, you shouldn\u2019t be afraid of the block feature. Apuesto a que tanto tu lista privada de contactos como tu <\/b>cuentas en redes sociales<\/b> probablemente te har\u00eda m\u00e1s feliz si bloquearas a algunas personas ahora mismo.<\/b><\/p>\n

For example, if someone is negative or annoying on social media or posts things that upset you, you don\u2019t have to deal with it. Unfriending, unfollowing, and blocking are a form of setting boundaries and a way to practice self-care.<\/p>\n

Blocking isn\u2019t an extreme step to take, and you don\u2019t owe anyone to be in contact with them if you don\u2019t want to.<\/b> It\u2019s not a power trip to choose who you want to talk to and what you want to see.<\/p>\n

9 buenas razones para bloquearlo + 1 raz\u00f3n equivocada para hacerlo<\/h3>\n

Some people talk about the psychological impact of getting blocked like it\u2019s their basic human right for you to be available. If someone is accusing you of being rude or immature for doing it, they\u2019re probably offended that you\u2019re prioritizing your own <\/b>bienestar<\/b> sobre ellos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Como bloquear se considera algo tan mezquino, puede que ni se te ocurra hacerlo cuando realmente deber\u00edas. Estas son algunas situaciones en las que deber\u00edas bloquear a un chico.<\/p>\n

1. Rompisteis, y quieres superarlo<\/a><\/h4>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Cuando aceptes la ruptura y quieras seguir adelante, la forma m\u00e1s eficaz de hacerlo es utilizar la regla del no contacto. Distanciarse de su <\/b>ex-novio<\/b> te ayuda por completo a ganar perspectiva y elimina la tentaci\u00f3n de extender la mano.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to let him know you\u2019re going to block him. If you\u2019re broken up and you\u2019re done, you\u2019re doing what\u2019s best for you by removing all the ways to keep in touch.<\/b> Si consigue ponerse en contacto contigo cuando se d\u00e9 cuenta de que le has bloqueado, mantente firme y sigue diciendo no<\/b> a cualquier tipo de conversaci\u00f3n, salir, o intentos de reconciliaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Seguir siendo amigos cuando necesitas superar a alguien es imposible. Tal vez en el futuro pueda suceder, pero ahora mismo, debes protegerte y no dejar que te atraiga de nuevo. Think of the reasons you broke up, and if those reasons still exist, hold your own and don\u2019t unblock him.<\/b><\/p>\n

2. You’re over him, but you still don’t want to keep in touch<\/h4>\n

If some time has passed and you managed to get over him, it doesn\u2019t have to mean that you have to talk to him or be friends. Algunas personas que no pudieron hacer su rom\u00e1ntica <\/b>trabajo de relaciones<\/b> puede superarlo, pero <\/b>don\u2019t feel pressure to try to stay friends<\/b><\/a> if you don\u2019t want to.<\/b><\/p>\n

This is especially true if your relationship had a lot of problems or if you were unhappy about how he treated you. Even after some time has passed, and you\u2019re sure you\u2019re over him, you don\u2019t have to have any contact with him whatsoever.<\/p>\n

3. You started seeing someone else and don\u2019t want him involved<\/h4>\n

Cuando entras en una nueva relaci\u00f3n despu\u00e9s de romper con un chico al que le gusta saber tus cosas, bloquearle es tu mejor opci\u00f3n. If you\u2019ve moved on, you don\u2019t need reminders, passive-aggressive remarks, and comments from your ex.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t just cut off contact when it comes to calls and text messages. If you block him on social media, you won\u2019t have to deal with comments on pictures about how he also has a new girlfriend or whatever else he feels compelled to say.<\/p>\n

4. You like him, but you don’t think a relationship is possible<\/h4>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Just liking someone isn\u2019t always enough for a relationship. There can be a ton of reasons for it, from different values to circumstances. It\u2019s a good idea not to play yourself but seguir adelante antes de que tus sentimientos sean demasiado fuertes y <\/b>desamor<\/b> se hace inevitable.<\/b><\/p>\n

Blocking a guy you\u2019re just getting to know might seem like too much, but do you really want to keep seeing him on your timeline looking all cute when you know you\u2019ll fall in love and nothing can come from it? Bloqu\u00e9elo para su <\/b>tranquilidad<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

5. You’re not interested in him, and he won’t accept it<\/h4>\n

Some guys think that they can wear you down by being persistent when you don\u2019t like them. The sad thing is, a veces tienen \u00e9xito porque algunas mujeres deciden conformarse o sienten l\u00e1stima por ellos, as\u00ed que les dan una oportunidad<\/b>.<\/p>\n

When you make it clear that you don’t want to talk to him, but he still tries to pursue you, he\u2019s not being a romantic fool in love \u2013 he\u2019s disrespecting you<\/b><\/a>. It\u2019s not cute that he doesn\u2019t take your \u2018no\u2019 seriously, no matter what he says.<\/p>\n

Block a man like this as soon as he shows you what he\u2019s like.<\/p>\n

6. He’s too much<\/h4>\n

Alguien que podr\u00eda haberte gustado puede cambiar tu forma de sentirte por ser demasiado demasiado pronto. There are people who like to move fast in relationships, and so as long as you\u2019re on the same page, it\u2019s not a problem.<\/b><\/p>\n

If he starts saying how you\u2019re his entire world while you\u2019re still not sure you want to know his last name, it might be a good idea to cut him off. He might simply be the type who falls easily, but it also might be a red flag that he\u2019s playing a game.<\/b><\/p>\n

7. He’s a player<\/h4>\n

When he\u2019s clearly a player, it\u2019s a good idea to block him immediately. If he comes on too strong as soon as you meet, makes sexual comments the first time you talk to each other and is generally skeevy, don\u2019t give him the time of day.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, a guy like that is going to hurt you, so it\u2019s best to stop things before they even start. <\/b>Tu autoestima te lo agradecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n

8. He isn\u2019t single<\/h4>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Si sabes o sospechas que puede tener pareja, no deber\u00edas tener nada que ver con \u00e9l. Probablemente tiene m\u00faltiples <\/b>cuentas falsas<\/b> o perfiles en los que habla con varias mujeres hasta que una o varias muerden.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cut him off while you still can because a guy like this won\u2019t change, no matter what he says. If he cheats with you, he\u2019ll cheat on you.<\/b><\/p>\n

9. He’s toxic or a narcissist<\/h4>\n

A man who\u2019s a liar, who always makes you feel insecure or emotionally exhausted, and if you\u2019re always unhappy, will turn your entire relationship into a struggle that will only benefit him.<\/p>\n

Quedarte con \u00e9l puede herirte profundamente y podr\u00eda tener un efecto devastador en tu estado emocional e influir en todas tus relaciones futuras.<\/b><\/p>\n

Si observa signs that he\u2019s toxic<\/a>, you shouldn\u2019t only stop seeing him \u2013 you should block him everywhere, from WhatsApp and Facebook to blocking his phone number. If he\u2019s a <\/b>narcisista,<\/b> deber\u00edas reconocer su<\/b> abuso emocional<\/b><\/a> and get out before it\u2019s too late.<\/b><\/p>\n

+ The wrong reasons you\u2019re blocking him. (Don\u2019t unblock him!)<\/b><\/h4>\n

La raz\u00f3n equivocada para bloquearle es jugar a juegos mentales. You\u2019re forcing your relationship<\/a> if you\u2019ve blocked him:<\/p>\n