{"id":15206,"date":"2020-08-23T14:09:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T14:09:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15206"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:46:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:46:05","slug":"5-razones-para-no-darle-otra-oportunidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-razones-para-no-darle-otra-oportunidad\/","title":{"rendered":"5 razones por las que no deber\u00edas darle otra oportunidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando a tu ex se le ocurre la sugerencia de intentar reavivar la relaci\u00f3n que tuvisteis, si a\u00fan no lo has superado del todo, esa idea puede sonar tentadora.<\/p>\n

Y aunque piensas que todo el mundo merece otra oportunidad y esperas que esta vez todo entre vosotros sea diferente, tambi\u00e9n hay algunas cosas que te hacen plantearte esa decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If you are in a similar situation with your ex-boyfriend, here are 5 reasons why you shouldn\u2019t give him another chance and why you should leave the past where it belongs.<\/p>\n

Ninguno de los dos ha cambiado<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Cuando decidimos dar otra oportunidad a una relaci\u00f3n, esperamos y deseamos que nuestra pareja sea un hombre diferente, reinventado. Pero la cruda realidad es que seguir\u00e1 siendo el mismo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He is the man he used to be, with all of his flaws, no matter what he may be trying to tell you. And the same goes for you\u2014neither of you has changed. You still have the same personality traits, including the negative ones. And both of you still have the same deal-breakers and things that bother you about each other.<\/p>\n

Al principio, puede parecer que la ruptura os ha ense\u00f1ado una lecci\u00f3n a los dos y que os ha hecho mejores personas, pero tarde o temprano, ambos mostrar\u00e9is vuestra verdadera cara.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, uno puede cambiar algunos h\u00e1bitos por el bien de la relaci\u00f3n pero, en esencia, todos seguimos siendo las personas que realmente somos. Esta es una de las primeras cosas que debes tener en cuenta si piensas darle una segunda oportunidad a tu ex pareja.<\/p>\n

Los dos rompieron por una raz\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Cuando rompes con alguien, al cabo de un tiempo, empiezas a olvidar todo lo negativo que hubo entre los dos y prevalecen los recuerdos bonitos.<\/p>\n

Puede que eches de menos a tu ex novio y eso altere tu visi\u00f3n de la relaci\u00f3n, impidi\u00e9ndote ser realista. As\u00ed que, si piensas en darle otra oportunidad, piensa en las cosas que te llevaron a la ruptura.<\/p>\n

You two didn\u2019t break up without a valid reason and that reason still exists. It is one thing if it wasn\u2019t the right timing for a real relationship for one of you, and you want to see how things would work out time-wise now but, if you had trust or jealousy issues or your ex was emotionally unavailable and unready for a committed relationship, those issues won\u2019t magically fade away just because you two miss each other.<\/p>\n

Tienes miedo<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Si tuviste una relaci\u00f3n duradera con alguien, es normal que sientas que te falta una parte de ti desde que rompisteis.<\/p>\n

Aunque probablemente sepas que ese hombre no es el adecuado para ti, es una cara conocida y crees que preferir\u00edas estar con \u00e9l antes que buscar a otra persona.<\/p>\n

You are scared you won\u2019t be able to function properly on your own or you are afraid of putting yourself back on the dating market.<\/p>\n

If any of these are a reason why you want to give your ex another chance, it\u2019s wrong. It is natural for you to feel this way in the beginning because you are used to having him around and you cannot picture yourself alone, let alone with someone new. These emotions are normal and they will go away\u2014you just need some time to adapt.<\/p>\n

Le est\u00e1s dando una segunda oportunidad de hacerte da\u00f1o.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Si tu ex novio te hizo da\u00f1o la \u00faltima vez que estuvisteis juntos, al darle una segunda oportunidad de tener una relaci\u00f3n contigo, tambi\u00e9n le est\u00e1s dando la oportunidad de volver a hacerte da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Al darle un lugar en tu vida, est\u00e1s dando a entender que sus acciones eran aceptables y que puede seguir con el mismo comportamiento porque siempre estar\u00e1s ah\u00ed para ll\u00e9valo de vuelta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Si tu ex novio ha sido manipulador o si te enga\u00f1\u00f3<\/a> o abusado de ti de alguna manera, al volver con \u00e9l, le est\u00e1s enviando el mensaje de que est\u00e1s m\u00e1s que de acuerdo con sus patrones de conducta y te est\u00e1s convirtiendo conscientemente en una v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

It’s time to move on<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Cuando dudes si debes darle otra oportunidad a tu ex novio, preg\u00fantate si realmente quieres volver al pasado o si es el momento de centrarte en el presente y mirar hacia el futuro.<\/p>\n

When a relationship didn\u2019t work out the first time, it is quite unlikely for it to have a different outcome this time. You know you did everything you could to save the relationship, so what is the point of giving it another shot, when it is probable that things will end the same way So, I say it\u2019s about time for you to let go of the past and to finally move on with your life.<\/p>\n

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