Cuando empezamos una nueva relaci\u00f3n, solemos estar cegados por esa nueva persona y no vemos su verdadera cara. Mientras estamos enamorados, tendemos a pasar por alto algunas cosas de nuestra pareja que luego resultan ser un gran problema en la relaci\u00f3n. Es un comportamiento aceptable cuando se es adolescente, pero cuando se entra en la veintena, hay algunas cosas que deber\u00edan ser decisivas en una relaci\u00f3n y que hay que tener en cuenta desde el principio. He aqu\u00ed 6 de ellas.<\/p>\n
Existen diferentes tipos de emocionalmente no disponible<\/a> people. Some of them are simply closed individuals with high walls around them and they don\u2019t want to open up to love. Others are emotionally unavailable because of the amount of emotional baggage they are carrying from something that should have stayed in the past. We all have a romantic past, but having one or more relationships behind you is not the same as taking loads of emotional baggage into a new relationship. Remember, you are no one\u2019s rebound and no one\u2019s shoulder to cry on. If you meet someone who is obviously emotionally unavailable for any possible reason, don\u2019t take it as a challenge and don\u2019t make it your mission to tear down their walls or to help them get over the person before you. This is one of the deal-breakers you should avoid from the start if you don\u2019t want to get yourself hurt in the future.<\/p>\n When you are entering into a new relationship, nobody can know where things will lead you. And while you shouldn\u2019t make long-term plans right at the beginning, it is always a good idea to have at least one serious talk with your partner. One important thing you need to check is if the two of you are on the same page and if you expect the same things from this relationship. If you are looking for a serious, long-term relationship and he doesn\u2019t want anything serious at the moment and is after a casual fling, or vice versa, you will have a problem and maybe it\u2019s best for the two of you to go your separate ways right away.<\/p>\n Si un el chico tiene miedo al compromiso<\/a>, he will probably tell you so from the very start. But, sadly, many women take this as a challenge, thinking they will be the one to change him and make him a monogamous, faithful man\u2014and this is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. If someone tells you they are not ready for commitment and you are looking for a real relationship, please believe them and walk away immediately. In most cases, guys who say they are not ready for anything serious actually want to have all the benefits of being a boyfriend, but don\u2019t want to have any of the responsibilities and the duties a real relationship brings. Usually, these guys are players and you need to avoid them without a shadow of a doubt. Otherwise, you will spend years waiting for him to come to his senses and that will probably never happen.<\/p>\n Cuando conoces a un chico que muestra sus celos, al principio puedes sentirte halagada, pensando que es su forma de demostrar cu\u00e1nto se preocupa por ti y cu\u00e1nto teme perderte. Y aunque todos somos celosos hasta cierto punto y un poco de celos puede ser dulce, tambi\u00e9n puede ser un signo de su naturaleza controladora. Si ves que un chico es demasiado posesivo y celoso desde el principio, es probable que s\u00f3lo est\u00e9 preparando el terreno para su futuro control. Antes de que te des cuenta, podr\u00edas encontrarte en una relaci\u00f3n abusiva, as\u00ed que es mejor evitar estas cosas desde el principio.<\/p>\n Otro tipo de hombre que debe evitar<\/a> is the one who is too good to be true. We all have flaws and you shouldn\u2019t allow yourself to be misled by someone who hides his imperfections, while emphasizing yours. Usually, these guys are the ones who recognize your insecurities and use them to manipulate you. In the beginning, they know what it is exactly that you need to hear, but that is all a part of their manipulation. At first, they appear to be perfect, but as time goes by, they show their true colors. But because they are such a good actor, when you get to know their true face, you are usually already madly in love with them and it can be dif\u00edcil de mover<\/a> lejos de ellos.<\/p>\n The last, but definitely not least deal-breaker you should pay attention to is compatibility. Many women get distracted by the attraction and the passion they feel toward a guy and they don\u2019t pay attention to other important things, such as compatibility. Although the feeling of being in love is important in the beginning and it is something that moves you toward a person, that feeling fades away and is not the basis for a healthy relationship. You should find someone who has the same world views and similar ambitions to you. 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The two of you don’t want the same things from life<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
3. Tiene miedo al compromiso<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
4. Controla<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
5. Es manipulador<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
6. Los dos no sois compatibles<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n