{"id":15213,"date":"2020-05-23T14:06:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T14:06:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15213"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:48:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:48:44","slug":"7-signos-pareja-sanguijuela-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-signos-pareja-sanguijuela-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de que su pareja es una sanguijuela emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s funny how the people we care for the most can also be the ones who drain us the most. Primarily because we love them so much, we refuse to see their downsides.<\/p>\n

Pero con las sanguijuelas emocionales, est\u00e1s obligado a verlas en alg\u00fan momento. Tu cuerpo y tu mente se agotar\u00e1n y sabr\u00e1s que una sanguijuela fue la responsable.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t feel quite like yourself and you have this unpassing feeling of exhaustion after spending time with your partner, the odds are you are dealing with an emotional leech.<\/p>\n

Puede que tu relaci\u00f3n te est\u00e9 agotando mientras hablamos, pero tus sentimientos te impiden ver con claridad.<\/p>\n

Maybe you had a past relationship with someone who emotionally drained you and you didn\u2019t even realize it, or you did but it was too late. Here are some proven signs that your partner is or was an emotional leech:<\/p>\n

1. Todav\u00eda juega a enviar mensajes de texto<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really tiring waiting for your partner to text back. Sure, people can\u2019t constantly be on their phone and able to text back but he never does; he always waits for a substantial amount of time to text back.<\/p>\n

O incluso se toma d\u00edas, lo que es realmente infantil, est\u00fapido y s\u00f3lo \u00e9l. jugar a juegos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to call it quits because of some insignificant text but it\u2019s not so insignificant when you feel emotionally and physically tired from wondering where he is at and why is he ignoring you.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas tener una charla larga y directa con \u00e9l o acabar\u00e1s agotada, por no decir infeliz.<\/p>\n

2. Exigen mucho de ti pero no est\u00e1n dispuestos a dar nada a cambio<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te siguen quitando. Necesitan que est\u00e9s ah\u00ed, que les escuches y comprendas, pero cuando les necesitas, no est\u00e1n por ninguna parte.<\/p>\n

Les excusas aunque su comportamiento no merezca tu perd\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

They keep on taking from you emotionally but they don\u2019t give anything back.<\/p>\n

You are worn out and you have no way of recharging yourself because he doesn\u2019t give anything back. Emotions need reciprocity to stay alive.<\/p>\n

3. Siempre est\u00e1n en tu mente<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Every single thought you have seems to be directed at them. You are thinking about your partner’s whereabouts and loyalty, which can be signs of some insecurities from the past, caused by previous relationships.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas volver a examinarte a ti misma y a tus relaciones o averiguar si tu pareja est\u00e1 haciendo algo que te hace dudar de \u00e9l. Puede que te est\u00e9 poniendo celosa a prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n

Pensarlo todo muy bien. Pensar constantemente si va a hacer trampas<\/a> o no no es la manera de vivir y tu cuerpo y tu mente lo sienten.<\/p>\n

4. Sigues evitando conversaciones largas con \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Evitas las conversaciones largas porque sabes que te cansar\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Evitas especialmente ciertos temas porque te agotaron en el pasado.<\/p>\n

Prefieres dejar algo como est\u00e1 antes que molestarte en discutirlo con \u00e9l, por muy importante que sea o por mucho que te duela.<\/p>\n

5. Todo gira en torno a ellos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Talking to them is like talking to a brick wall. They have their own internal monologues and they don\u2019t really pay attention to what you have to say.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1n preocupados por s\u00ed mismos. Tambi\u00e9n tienen la habilidad de adaptar todas las historias a su medida.<\/p>\n

If you end up apologizing for things you know you didn\u2019t do, you are most likely dealing with an emotional manipulator and he is bound to drain you emotionally too.<\/p>\n

6. Sigues deseando pasar tiempo a solas<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Sure, we all need some time to ourself, someplace where we don\u2019t have to talk and nobody bothers us with anything.<\/p>\n

But this need for alone time is enhanced when we are with an emotional leech. We can\u2019t wait to get away from them and take a much-needed rest.<\/p>\n

The paradox is that we care so much for them but we need to take a break from them so often that it\u2019s time to ask ourself what we are doing there.<\/p>\n

7. Experimenta agotamiento f\u00edsico real<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Nuestras emociones pueden dictar c\u00f3mo nos sentimos. Est\u00e1s cansado todo el tiempo, te duelen los m\u00fasculos y tienes sue\u00f1o. Nuestro cuerpo no es inmune a nuestros sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Cuando est\u00e1s constantemente preocupado por otra persona y sus necesidades, sus cambios de humor o su extra\u00f1o comportamiento, eso tiene que influir en ti.<\/p>\n

Te olvidas de ti mismo y de tus necesidades y sigues dando a la otra persona.<\/p>\n

Si tu pareja es una sanguijuela emocional, piensa si es buena idea seguir en una relaci\u00f3n as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que t\u00fa eres igual de importante y que, si no satisfaces tus necesidades, te agotar\u00e1s f\u00edsica y emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s funny how the people we care for the most can also be the ones who drain us the most. Primarily because we love them so much, we refuse to see their downsides. But with emotional leeches, you are bound to see them at some point. Your body and your mind will be exhausted and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":94787,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15213","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Signs-Your-Partner-Is-An-Emotional-Leech.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15213","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15213"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15213\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94787"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15213"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15213"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15213"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}