{"id":15227,"date":"2020-10-23T14:24:29","date_gmt":"2020-10-23T14:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15227"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:07:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:07:46","slug":"la-verdad-es-que-por-fin-ha-desaparecido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-es-que-por-fin-ha-desaparecido\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdad es que por fin ha terminado de echarte de menos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pens\u00f3 que nunca ganar\u00eda esta batalla. Era agotador y duraba una eternidad.<\/p>\n

You know, some happy moments pass in a heartbeat but when you\u2019re hurting it seems like it\u2019s taking an eternity.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how she felt. Her minutes became hours of unbearable pain. Her heart felt like it had been stabbed with an ice pick and frozen forever.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Pens\u00f3 que nunca volver\u00eda a sentir amor. Pens\u00f3 que la nube oscura sobre su cabeza nunca se ir\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Pensaba que estaba atrapada en un atolladero del que no hab\u00eda salida.<\/p>\n

Su viaje fue largo y doloroso, pero al final lo consigui\u00f3. Y lo logr\u00f3 cuando por fin se rindi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Renunci\u00f3 a intentar volver atr\u00e1s en el tiempo.<\/i><\/b> Se dio cuenta de que el pasado debe permanecer donde pertenece<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Decidi\u00f3 dejar sus demonios y seguir adelante con su vida. Decidi\u00f3 que no significabas nada para ella. Ya no.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00f3 de odiarte<\/i><\/b>.<\/b> She knows it\u2019s your fault for putting her through the hell she lived in. She realized it was your fault she lost her beautiful self in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

She realized you manipulated her because you didn\u2019t know any better. And in the beginning, she hated you for that.<\/p>\n

Odiaba cada fibra de tu ser. Pero cuando finalmente te dej\u00f3 ir, se liber\u00f3 de ti.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00f3 de resentirse.<\/i><\/b> Aunque your story didn\u2019t have a happy ending<\/a>, it doesn\u2019t mean that it was unhappy from the start.<\/p>\n

No, tuvo muchos momentos agradables contigo y lamentablemente se aferr\u00f3 a ellos cuando rompisteis. Entonces, te ech\u00f3 de menos. Te quer\u00eda de vuelta porque pensaba que pod\u00edas cambiar, que pod\u00edas volver a ser la misma persona que eras cuando te conoci\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Pero en el fondo sab\u00eda que eso no iba a ocurrir, as\u00ed que durante mucho tiempo estuvo resentida consigo misma por querer estar contigo a pesar de saber que era malo para ella.<\/p>\n

Finalmente, despert\u00f3 de su sue\u00f1o y dej\u00f3 de odiarse a s\u00ed misma y de echarte de menos. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But it wasn\u2019t easy all the time. Heartbreaks are like that. You think that you\u2019ll be okay in a day or two.<\/p>\n

You think you can conquer it all. More importantly, you decide that you will get over it and you convince yourself that you\u2019re fine, but you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going to be fine for a long time.<\/p>\n

It all starts with anger after he leaves you. Then you move on to the \u2018fuck you\u2019 phase.<\/p>\n

Pero esa fase no es coherente. Un momento you don\u2019t care<\/a> y \u00e9l es lo \u00faltimo en lo que piensas, pero al siguiente te encuentras mirando las fotos de los dos, llorando a l\u00e1grima viva, con l\u00e1grimas pesadas como el acero rodando por tus mejillas.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about surviving. It\u2019s about keeping yourself sane. It\u2019s about healing and forgetting because in the end, you heal, you forgive and you move on with your life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that when your heart gets broken, you feel like it\u2019s going to stay like that forever. You feel like your life isn\u2019t worth living.<\/p>\n

But then when it all passes, things don\u2019t seem as blue as they did back then.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Esta chica se dio cuenta de que ten\u00eda que darle otra oportunidad a su vida. Se dio cuenta de que el tiempo cura todas las heridas.<\/p>\n

Se dio cuenta de que todo desaparecer\u00e1 alg\u00fan d\u00eda. She won\u2019t miss him<\/a> and she won\u2019t hate him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what happened. She was smart enough to give herself a chance to heal. She was smart enough to let time work in her benefit.<\/p>\n

She realized that she can\u2019t run away from pain. The sooner she feels it, the sooner it will pass.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You have to feel pain and you have to learn the lesson, otherwise you\u2019ll be stuck in time, a very painful time. You\u2019ll be stuck inside your four walls, choking on your own tears and it will feel like an eternity.<\/p>\n

Tienes que doler y tu coraz\u00f3n necesita sangrar mientras las heridas a\u00fan est\u00e1n frescas. Piensa en ello.<\/p>\n

Cuando te cortas, sangras y duele. Pero a medida que pasa el tiempo, duele menos y la herida se cura.<\/a> It has to. It\u2019s a law of nature.<\/p>\n

And although all of this may sound a bit cheesy, it\u2019s true. After some time, you don\u2019t look at the photos of the two of you together, and your tears don\u2019t feel heavy as steel.<\/p>\n

The thought of him doesn\u2019t make you sick anymore. It\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

Dejas de echarle de menos.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

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