{"id":15248,"date":"2020-07-26T09:47:56","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T09:47:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15248"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:11:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:11:42","slug":"todas-las-chicas-se-mueven-con-miedo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/todas-las-chicas-se-mueven-con-miedo\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es para todas las chicas que tienen miedo de seguir adelante"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, your reasoning keeps telling you that you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/give-man-everything-still-no-decency-choose\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dado todo lo que pod\u00edas a un tipo<\/a> who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you. You know that this man has treated you poorly and that he will never change, despite all of your hopes and efforts.<\/p>\n<p>Eres muy consciente de que no puedes hacer nada m\u00e1s por \u00e9l y por vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te quiso como deber\u00eda y nunca fue el hombre que deber\u00eda haber sido.<\/p>\n<p>Mientras intentabas arreglarle, acabaste rompi\u00e9ndote a ti misma. Y aunque siempre estuviste a su lado, \u00e9l nunca estuvo a tu lado para ayudarte a recomponerte. As\u00ed que sabes que alejarte es tu \u00fanica opci\u00f3n razonable.<\/p>\n<p>Pero a pesar de todo, hay algo que te impide seguir adelante y no mirar atr\u00e1s. Cada vez que quieres dejarlo todo atr\u00e1s, tu coraz\u00f3n y tu mente se resisten.<\/p>\n<p>Sigues esperando que las cosas cambien, que ese chico vea por fin tu verdadero valor y que todo tu dolor d\u00e9 sus frutos.<\/p>\n<p>Your conscience doesn\u2019t allow you to walk away, despite everything he did to you.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1s segura de que te necesita y te sientes mal dej\u00e1ndole solo para que luche con sus demonios.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94640\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Woman-standing-near-wall.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer de pie cerca de la pared\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Woman-standing-near-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Woman-standing-near-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Woman-standing-near-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you don\u2019t know why, but deep down you are also <a href=\"https:\/\/experiencelife.com\/article\/fear-of-moving-forward\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">miedo de seguir adelante con tu vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You are even ashamed of feeling this way, because your reasoning keeps telling you it\u2019s the only thing you should do.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014moving on is terrifying and it is never simple. Despite the fact that the situation you are in overwhelms you, at least it is something familiar.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que no entiendas por qu\u00e9 te da miedo seguir adelante cuando es evidente que no est\u00e1s satisfecho con tu vida en este momento, pero te da miedo porque est\u00e1s familiarizado con las cosas a las que te aferras y seguir adelante te produce incertidumbre.<\/p>\n<p>Con el tiempo, te acostumbraste al dolor que te causaba ese tipo y se convirti\u00f3 en parte de lo que eras. Con el tiempo, se convirti\u00f3 en lo \u00fanico que te defin\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>You are afraid of moving on because it is a step into the unknown, a step out of your comfort zone. Remember, there is nothing wrong with being scared and you shouldn\u2019t let anyone else tell you differently.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-sitting-outside-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada sentada al aire libre en la naturaleza\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-sitting-outside-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-sitting-outside-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-sitting-outside-in-nature-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The hardest part about moving on is letting go. You are not just letting go of the person you\u2019ve loved for so long, you are also letting go of all of the past the two of you had and all the future you hoped you would have.<\/p>\n<p>Por fin est\u00e1s dejando ir todos tus planes, sue\u00f1os y esperanzas relacionados con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando realmente sigues adelante, te olvidas de todas las cosas que podr\u00edan haber sucedido y te das cuenta de que habr\u00edan sucedido si hubieran estado destinadas a suceder.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando sigues adelante, finalmente est\u00e1s dejando a esta persona en el pasado, donde realmente pertenece.<\/p>\n<p>When you move on, you are finally realizing it\u2019s about time to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/joyce-marter-\/21-ways-to-let-go-free-yourself_b_5649680.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lib\u00e9rate<\/a> from someone you\u2019ve been stuck with for so long.<\/p>\n<p>Y estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que puedes hacerlo, a pesar de todos tus miedos. Estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que la gente ir\u00e1 y vendr\u00e1 de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>The ones who don\u2019t stay by your side are simply not worthy of you. And it\u2019s time for you to accept that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94642\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg\" alt=\"chica joven en la barra de un caf\u00e9 mirando a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que te esperan grandes cosas y gente incre\u00edble, a pesar de todos tus miedos.<\/p>\n<p>I know you are scared that your heart won\u2019t be open to love again once it has been broken. But, trust me\u2014it will heal. You will heal.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda, atraemos aquello para lo que estamos preparados. Una vez que sigas adelante y te permitas estar preparado para grandes cosas y para personas que te merecen, llegar\u00e1n.<\/p>\n<p>And that is when everything will finally make sense. That is when you\u2019ll realize that everything that has been happening to you was for a reason. All of the pain you\u2019ve been through will be worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Todo por lo que est\u00e1s pasando se convertir\u00e1 en una valiosa lecci\u00f3n para ti.<\/p>\n<p>And that is when you\u2019ll understand that moving on from your past was the best decision you have ever made.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que ten miedo. Pero tambi\u00e9n encuentra la fuerza en ti mismo para superar ese miedo y alejar por fin el pasado y seguir adelante.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94637 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Esto es para todas las chicas que tienen miedo de seguir adelante\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, your reasoning keeps telling you that you\u2019ve given everything you could to a guy who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you. You know that this man has treated you poorly and that he will never change, despite all of your hopes and efforts. You are well aware that there is nothing else you can do for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":94638,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15248","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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