{"id":15267,"date":"2020-05-26T11:34:52","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T11:34:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15267"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:33:20","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:33:20","slug":"el-chico-de-las-cartas-se-dio-cuenta-tarde-de-que-estaba-perdido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-chico-de-las-cartas-se-dio-cuenta-tarde-de-que-estaba-perdido\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al hombre que se dio cuenta tarde de lo que hab\u00eda perdido"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Quiz\u00e1 sea cierto que la gente s\u00f3lo se preocupa cuando ya es demasiado tarde...<\/em><\/p>\n<p>While she was walking away, she told you that you will remember her. She didn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll remember her by the way she wore her hair or how she loved to dance to Ed Sheeran songs or how by the way she looked.<\/p>\n<p>She told you you\u2019ll remember how she made you feel. In the moments you feel most alone and in the moments when you feel like you need this one friend and you\u2019ll remember her.<\/p>\n<p>Nadie te hac\u00eda sentir como ella. Te miraba como si fueras el \u00fanico hombre en este mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que hicieras era especial para ella y lo observaba con una dosis de admiraci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>En sus ojos pod\u00edas ver lo que sent\u00eda por ti. Por las cosas que hac\u00eda por ti, pod\u00edas ver lo mucho que significabas para ella.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre estaba ah\u00ed para ti. Quer\u00eda ser tu mejor amiga y s\u00f3lo despu\u00e9s tu novia.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89156\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/couple-walking-on-concrete-road.jpg\" alt=\"pareja caminando por carretera de cemento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>She was one of those girls who did everything in their power to make their loved ones happy and like they\u2019re the most special people in this world.<\/p>\n<p>With her, there was no need to think that you\u2019ll ever be lonely because no matter what, she was there for you.<\/p>\n<p>Estaba ah\u00ed para alegrar los d\u00edas oscuros. Estaba ah\u00ed para iluminarte cuando estabas triste.<\/p>\n<p>Estaba ah\u00ed para aliviar el estr\u00e9s despu\u00e9s de un mal d\u00eda y estaba ah\u00ed cuando necesitabas a alguien que te hiciera re\u00edr o alguien con quien compartir el silencio.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente, ella estaba ah\u00ed para ti. Costara lo que costara, necesitaras lo que necesitaras, ella era suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>She would\u2019ve never walked away from you if it was up to her. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/estancia-planificada-apartada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ella planeaba quedarse, pero t\u00fa la apartaste.<\/a>. La trataste mal.<\/p>\n<p>Todos tus esfuerzos se quedaron a medias. Y cambiaste una buena chica por unas cuantas temporales. Lo peor es que hasta ese momento no eras consciente de ello.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89157\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/couple-standing-on-the-bridge.jpeg\" alt=\"pareja en el puente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>You realized you did wrong. Only now you figured you should\u2019ve been there.<\/p>\n<p>Now you see that you shouldn\u2019t have let her feel alone when she was obviously with you.<\/p>\n<p>You should\u2019ve cared for her like she did for you. You should\u2019ve taken her hand when she tried to reach out to you. You should\u2019ve listened when she tried to tell you how you make her feel.<\/p>\n<p>Pero elegiste ir por otro camino. Y ahora sabes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-razones-por-las-que-las-mujeres-dejan-a-los-hombres-enamorados\/\">por qu\u00e9 las mujeres abandonan a los hombres que aman<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>La dabas por sentada porque se preocupaba demasiado por ti. Su amabilidad hacia ti se convirti\u00f3 en algo que esperabas obtener siempre que quisieras.<\/p>\n<p>You expected her to be there for you whenever you needed her, but you never felt the need to give her anything in return. And that\u2019s not how you do love. That\u2019s now how you make her stay.<\/p>\n<p>Porque a pesar de lo mucho que te quer\u00eda, a pesar de lo mucho que quer\u00eda quedarse, ten\u00eda un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-buenas-razones-para-marcharse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">una buena raz\u00f3n para marcharse<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Now you think how good it would be to have her back. Now you\u2019d like to relive all those moments with her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89158\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"hombre desesperado tumbado en la cama y mirando una foto con su novia\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\"><\/p>\n<p>You wish she\u2019s there with you to hold your hand and tell you how everything is going to be okay.<\/p>\n<p>Deseas sentir el calor de su cuerpo y que se despida de todas tus preocupaciones.<\/p>\n<p>And you think about reaching out to her again. But that\u2019s so selfish of you.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s imagine you manage to get her back. Will you be able to erase all the pain she went through?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSer\u00e1s capaz de borrar todos los malos recuerdos que a\u00fan tiene en la cabeza? \u00bfConseguir\u00e1s borrar la imagen de que la dejaste marchar? S\u00ed, pens\u00e9 que no.<\/p>\n<p>You had a chance to fix things already, don\u2019t you remember? You have no idea how much she wanted you to stop her from walking away.<\/p>\n<p>She just wanted you to take her hand and tell her to stay, tell her how you need her, how much you love her and how you\u2019re going to figure everything out together. She just needed you to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/hacer-reir-a-una-chica-4-situaciones-encanto-de-trabajo-evitar-los-mayores-turn-offs\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">hacerla re\u00edr<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019d forget all the pain and she\u2019d turn back and stay. But you missed that chance.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89159\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/portrait-of-young-lady-in-yellow-jacket-standing-on-street.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de una joven con chaqueta amarilla de pie en la calle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>Mientras t\u00fa corr\u00edas detr\u00e1s de todas esas mujeres temporales, ella tuvo tiempo de pensar en todo.<\/p>\n<p>She had the time to see how you took her for granted, how you didn\u2019t bother to give her anything she gave you back, how she was the one who loved more and who tried more.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-hora-de-que-lo-veas-por-lo-que-realmente-es\/\">Tuvo tiempo suficiente para verte como eres<\/a>&nbsp;y darse cuenta de que era ella la que arrastraba vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>While she was walking away she told you that you will remember her. What she didn\u2019t tell you is that once <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-olvidaste-de-amarla-y-por-eso-se-ha-ido\/\">she\u2019s gone<\/a>, she isn\u2019t coming back. You might\u2019ve realized what you lost, but you realized it too late.<\/p>\n<p>Girls like her don\u2019t wait for anyone. And there is probably now someone who gives her everything she deserves without her needing to ask.<\/p>\n<p>Hay alguien que esper\u00f3 a que cometieras un error para abalanzarse sobre ella y barrerla de sus pies. La perdiste.<\/p>\n<p>May this be a lesson to all men, too. You don\u2019t leave a good girl for those temporary ones.<\/p>\n<p>Because when you wish to come back, there won\u2019t be anyone waiting for you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89154\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Realized-What-He-Lost-But-Too-Late-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Carta al hombre que se dio cuenta tarde de lo que hab\u00eda perdido\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe it\u2019s true that people care only when it\u2019s too late\u2026 While she was walking away, she told you that you will remember her. She didn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll remember her by the way she wore her hair or how she loved to dance to Ed Sheeran songs or how by the way she looked. 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