{"id":15287,"date":"2020-06-26T13:50:52","date_gmt":"2020-06-26T13:50:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15287"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:56:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:56:57","slug":"chica-robo-hombre-no-puedo-agradecer-lo-suficiente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chica-robo-hombre-no-puedo-agradecer-lo-suficiente\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que me rob\u00f3 a mi hombre: No puedo agradec\u00e9rtelo lo suficiente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Te escribo esto a ti, a la chica con la que mi ex novio me enga\u00f1\u00f3. A la chica que me lo rob\u00f3, rob\u00e1ndome la felicidad y las ganas de vivir. A ti, que me rompi\u00f3<\/a> y arruin\u00f3 mi vida.<\/p>\n

Al menos, esto es lo que yo cre\u00eda.<\/p>\n

La primera vez que me enga\u00f1\u00f3 contigo, te culp\u00e9 de todo lo que hab\u00eda pasado.<\/p>\n

I was certain that this man loved me more than anything and that the two of us would have grown old together if you hadn\u2019t interfered.<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 en \u00e9l como un ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o e inseguro que fue seducido por una bruja malvada. Pens\u00e9 que lo hab\u00edas manipulado para que me enga\u00f1ara contigo y, finalmente, para que te eligiera a ti antes que a m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

It sounds pathetic, but if he hadn\u2019t left me to be with you, I would have probably forgiven him for his infidelity.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 en ello como un momento pasajero de pasi\u00f3n y como algo que ambos deb\u00edamos olvidar, para poder seguir adelante con nuestras vidas.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, su traici\u00f3n e infidelidad me dolieron de una forma inimaginable, pero lo que realmente me rompi\u00f3 fue el hecho de que eligiera dejarme para estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Even when that happened, I didn\u2019t want to accept the facts, so I kept thinking you were only one to blame for everything.<\/p>\n

Para m\u00ed, usted era la causa de todas mis desgracias. Por otro lado, yo segu\u00eda justific\u00e1ndolo, tratando de encontrar excusas<\/a> por todo lo que hab\u00eda hecho.<\/p>\n

And I kept waiting for him to come back. I was convincing myself that he wanted to come back to me but that you weren\u2019t letting him.<\/p>\n

I was constantly comparing myself to you. What did you have and I didn\u2019t? How come I couldn\u2019t keep him by my side? I hated you and I started hating myself, as well.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ahora me doy cuenta de lo tonta que fui.<\/p>\n

It took me more time than I would like to admit, but finally, I came to my senses. I won\u2019t be talking about everything I went through in that period.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te dir\u00e9 que estuve a un paso de volverme loco. Y cuando vi que estaba a punto de tocar fondo, de alguna manera, me enfrent\u00e9 a la realidad.<\/p>\n

Enfrentarme a m\u00ed mismo fue una de las cosas que m\u00e1s me cost\u00f3 hacer, pero fue m\u00e1s que eficaz. Y fue liberador.<\/a><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de mucha introspecci\u00f3n, me di cuenta de que en realidad nunca tuviste la culpa. Era un hombre adulto que tomaba sus propias decisiones y su decisi\u00f3n fue estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Nobody can force anyone to cheat on their partner. And after all, I was no one to you, so you didn\u2019t have the responsibility to take care of my emotions. But, he did.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This was the man who spent years of his life with me and he was the one who should\u2019ve thought how his actions would affect me.<\/p>\n

But, he didn\u2019t. He never once looked back, to think about the pain he has caused me.<\/p>\n

Mientras yo intentaba recomponer mis piezas, \u00e9l era m\u00e1s feliz que nunca.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l sigui\u00f3 viviendo su vida, mientras yo me qued\u00e9 atrapada en el pasado y en el futuro imaginario que hab\u00eda planeado con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Y os odi\u00e9 a los dos por ello. Me obsesion\u00e9 con ustedes dos, esperando que su relaci\u00f3n se desmoronara, para poder regodearme.<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 que veros a los dos desgraciados era lo \u00fanico que pod\u00eda darme satisfacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Then I realized that my happiness shouldn\u2019t depend on anyone else. The only person that could affect my happiness was me.<\/p>\n

Yo era quien creaba mi vida y mientras me aferrara al resentimiento, nunca podr\u00eda avanzar.<\/p>\n

Y finalmente encontr\u00e9 la fuerza para perdonarlos a ambos.<\/p>\n

Y eso ha sido lo mejor que he hecho nunca.<\/p>\n

Me di cuenta<\/a> Hab\u00eda sido su prisionero, sin que ninguno de los dos lo supiera.<\/p>\n

Y cuando por fin pas\u00e9 p\u00e1gina y mir\u00e9 mi relaci\u00f3n desde la distancia, fue la primera vez que lo vi claro.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I remembered all of the times this guy had let me down, every time he had hurt me, every time he hadn\u2019t respected me and every time he hadn\u2019t loved me enough.<\/p>\n

How come I didn\u2019t see these things before? I was probably blinded, not by love for him, but by hatred for you.<\/p>\n

I thought that the emotional pain I\u2019ve been through was the worst thing that could have happened to me. But, it turned out to be the best.<\/p>\n

If this hadn\u2019t happened, I would never have known how strong and brave I really am. I would never have been aware of my true strength and worth.<\/p>\n

Nunca habr\u00eda sabido c\u00f3mo deber\u00eda ser realmente el amor y habr\u00eda pasado el resto de mi vida conform\u00e1ndome con menos.<\/p>\n

Porque ahora s\u00e9 que ese tipo nunca me mereci\u00f3 a m\u00ed ni todo lo que yo le estaba dando.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve taught me that there are some things and people which are not worthy of our regret.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve taught me never to allow a man to complete me, until I become a complete person on my own.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve taught me that when we hate, we become prisoners of that hate. You\u2019ve taught me that forgiveness is the only way towards liberation.<\/p>\n

Y lo m\u00e1s importante, me ense\u00f1aste que nadie podr\u00eda quererme hasta que yo aprendiera a quererme a m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

If it hadn\u2019t been for you, I would never have experienced the love I am feeling now.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Nunca habr\u00eda conocido a un hombre que me ha hecho la mujer m\u00e1s feliz del mundo.<\/p>\n

Estoy agradecida porque por fin se me quiere y respeta como debe hacerse con toda mujer.<\/p>\n

When I think about it, you saved me. If it weren\u2019t for you, I would probably have spent the rest of my life with someone who didn\u2019t know how to love me enough and who didn\u2019t know how to respect my love.<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t life strange? I never thought I would end up thanking a woman for stealing my boyfriend, but here I am doing exactly that.<\/p>\n

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I am writing this to you, to the girl my ex-boyfriend cheated on me with. To the girl who stole him from me, stealing my happiness and desire to live. To you, who broke me and ruined my life. At least, this was that I thought you did. When he first cheated on me with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":106097,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/To-The-Girl-Who-Stole-My-Man-I-Cant-Thank-You-Enough.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/106097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}